| 3/5/2009 3:22:32 AM |
Is spanking normal during sex ? |
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marqeye
Kent, OH
age: 35
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Only if it's my hand doing it!
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| 3/5/2009 2:16:22 PM |
Is spanking normal during sex ? |
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mike123asd
Wallington, NJ
age: 26
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yeah it is spank that a** 
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| 3/5/2009 2:22:55 PM |
Is spanking normal during sex ? |
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ladyog
The Dalles, OR
age: 55
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I LOVE to slap that a** especially if it makes a good popping sound..
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| 3/5/2009 3:57:34 PM |
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beverduster
Chandler, OK
age: 65
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it makes me shift into high gear, i no that
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| 3/5/2009 4:56:33 PM |
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romanticman9
Greenwood, IN
age: 40
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Heck yes smack that cute ass, just not to hard, we want it to stay cute. 
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| 3/13/2009 12:52:39 PM |
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rodneyg668
Rainier, WA
age: 37
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It's not abnormal, but he should be talking anything like that over you beforehand. In bdsm it's considered unpardonably rude to simply wail on someone without their consent and foreknowledge. If he stopped then I wouldn't make a large issue out of it, but you might keep in mind that if he is strongly wired to enjoy that type of pleasure he might not be happy in the long run without it.
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| 3/13/2009 3:18:13 PM |
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hughesdepayns
Naperville, IL
age: 68
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 Can be considered foreplay!
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| 3/13/2009 7:46:49 PM |
Is spanking normal during sex ? |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 38
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It is not normal to disrespect the other person by guilting them into doing things that make them uncomfortable. So NO he is not acting normal if he belts you and then tells you that it is going backwards when you explain that isn't your thing. RUN no fricken joke he is sick.
I love to be spanked, thrown on the bed, little hair pulling, tie me up etc but if I say NO then that is it period. I get really turned on with the spank me I'm a bad girl but there are limits. Which are clear at the onset.
If he pulls out a belt or bites breaking skin then he better be ready to have me kick him in the teeth.
My ex was into belts and crap. I was married thought you did what he said but it got scary and later I learned he was F*d in the head. I won't go into details but RUN is all I have to say. In m/h/o it will get worse before it gets better.
I do think two weeks is umm a bit soon to know a person well enough to sleep with them.
Be careful.
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| 3/15/2009 5:40:52 AM |
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iamhere1970
Trenton, NJ
age: 40
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Yes,,,,,,spank me ,,,whip me,,,,,turn me on
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| 3/15/2009 6:30:57 AM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 46
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If you're on your knees and going at it, I don't see what's wrong with a good old sound smack on a well-rounded bottom here and there. If someone HAS to hit you to get off, that sounds like it could be a problem, especially if you're not into that sort of thing. Listen to your instinct; if what he requests of you feels wierd or gives you the creeps in any way...I'd find a lover who knew how to touch me in a way that gave me lots of pleasure...lots of smiles, not angst!
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| 3/15/2009 6:46:26 AM |
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chefgirl36
Palm Beach, FL
age: 38
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Spanking during sex is fun and different sometimes..but that guy sounds like a real nutcase. Variety is nice but NO means NO!
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| 3/15/2009 7:33:16 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 44
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Spanking is always good. 
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| 3/15/2009 7:49:21 AM |
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chuckeye
Weirton, WV
age: 38
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a spanking no not really my thing i prefer you confess your sins to me lol 
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| 3/16/2009 1:22:20 PM |
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moneyman404
Stone Mountain, GA
age: 21
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i love spankin a girl when im havin sex. it makes 4better experience and it last longer
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| 3/19/2009 5:43:48 PM |
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blondeoverdose2
Lexington, MO
age: 30
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 There is a big difference between spanking and beating. No whips, no chains, and no hand cuffs, but when hes got you from behind and to give you a small swat or to.........damn it is great. Its not for everyone but it is for me. LOVE IT ! ! 
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| 3/19/2009 5:46:13 PM |
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newguy71
Summit, MS
age: 39
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yeah, define normal!
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| 3/27/2009 8:35:48 AM |
Is spanking normal during sex ? |
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izzystradlian12
Tupelo, MS
age: 34
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i love to spank a woman a** when having sex with her
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| 3/27/2009 8:49:53 AM |
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hotbritt
South Lyon, MI
age: 21
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Given in the right way at the right time can be very much a turn on
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| 3/27/2009 11:18:21 AM |
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hughesdepayns
Naperville, IL
age: 68
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SUNKIS WHY ARE U YELLING AT US? AT LEAST HE DIDN'T TIE U UP OR TIE U DOWN.....NOW WHY DIDN'T U TIE HIM UP AND GOT OUT OF DODGE PRONTO GURL! 
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| 3/27/2009 11:43:29 AM |
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writerlefty
Simi Valley, CA
age: 62
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Sunkiss, the bottom line is, all he needs to know is that you don't want it. Period.
If he can't or won't come to grips with that, then kick him to the curb.
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| 3/27/2009 1:19:34 PM |
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swfseekingswm
Durant, OK
age: 37
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It varies from one to the next...personally, a gentle smack is all good....but fact is, if he cares about you and you have told him that you don't like it-he'd stop....and without the whole guilt trip crap.....get rid of him girl...
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| 3/27/2009 4:00:59 PM |
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blosum
Los Angeles, CA
age: 45
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i love the whipped cream.  
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| 3/27/2009 11:00:13 PM |
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cj440magnum
Adrian, MI
age: 20
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 uhmm that sounds like a terrible fettish to me lmao, i am so sorry for your hiney haha, idk its just like girls who have certain spots and things to turn them on, its just some peoples are a little worse i guess lol, and if he cant keep it hard without spanking then tell him to swallow lmao they have pills for that shit haha
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| 3/28/2009 8:50:05 AM |
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rafapr
Jacksonville, FL
age: 28
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lmao... yea spanking chicks is hot  but he's taking it to extremes... may be he should go to guantanamo so he can get his hard on beating up prisoners lol...
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| 3/28/2009 1:52:51 PM |
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gun82
Paris, TX
age: 28
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what woman in hrr wants a spankn?
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| 3/28/2009 5:48:38 PM |
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blkbagger
McHenry, IL
age: 49
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harder... NO!!! HARDER!!!
I'm back...
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| 3/28/2009 6:07:44 PM |
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lifetimeskier
Olympia, WA
age: 49
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When he is riding me doggy style and slappin my a** that is hott...
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| 3/29/2009 4:56:27 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 44
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No, spanking is disrespectful. 
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| 3/29/2009 5:17:46 AM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 46
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No, spanking is disrespectful.
Not if you're smiling when he's doing it!
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| 3/29/2009 6:41:24 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 44
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Good, i will make an exception for you.
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| 3/29/2009 6:45:18 AM |
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rmep
Palmer, MA
age: 49
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| 3/29/2009 6:55:38 AM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 46
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Thanks, maniac. mrep, great picture!! I'm going to make it my screensaver right now.
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| 3/29/2009 9:48:37 AM |
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turbo4363
Akron, OH
age: 47
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Define normal
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| 3/29/2009 10:09:29 AM |
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garyguitar
Franklin, NJ
age: 55
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Run!!!!  
Dude has a fetish and it drives his sexual interest...it will not work (pun intended) if your not into it! Good luck!
Absolutely. Run. If you're not into it, it's not going to work, anyway.
Nobody likes getting freaky more than me, but if the female isn't into it, it's not fun anyway.
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| 3/29/2009 10:30:51 AM |
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garyguitar
Franklin, NJ
age: 55
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Gotta say, though, that the girl who turned me into a freak was into some HEAVY shit. Bondage, nipple torture, spanking with the belt, paddle, whip,etc. She loved pain and other freaky stuff I won't mention here.
Anyway, while I could get into all that stuff with her, I find most women aren't THAT kinky. Tell this guy there are sites for people like him that HAVE to have that kind of sex.
If you're afraid of this dude, though, kick him to the curb, fast!
Any ladies need a good a** smacking, let me know!!
I love being gentle and cuddling, and all that good stuff, but if you want to get your freak on, ladies....GAME ON!! 
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| 3/30/2009 10:49:15 PM |
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junior1977
High Ridge, MO
age: 33
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awesome...work it
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| 3/31/2009 1:39:44 AM |
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misslolo
Long Beach, CA
age: 22
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Spanking is hot. It gets me even more revved up...hot, hot, hot! I don't know about belts and all that. That guy would get punched in the forehead if he tried to hit me with a belt. There is nothing like a bare hand against my bare ass.
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| 3/31/2009 6:34:39 AM |
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rrrsmile
York, PA
age: 46
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If you dn't like it don't do it....but if you do ....ENJOY!
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| 3/31/2009 8:20:39 AM |
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sunurbun7
Panama City Beach, FL
age: 91
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run like your hair is on fire, girl.....I like a few smacks on my bare a** when I'm getting it on, but with a belt????..........no way.....that's too freaky for even me....that dude sounds like he's got some issues you definately might not want to be a part of.....what's next??........having sex with you and tossing your body in an orange grove to draw flies???...there are other nice guys out there that are waiting to meet you, normal guys that is.
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| 3/31/2009 8:55:42 AM |
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goodtimes40
Paragon, IN
age: 42
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If he can't maintain an erection with spanking you, I'd have to agree that it is a deep seated fetish and you should turn and run the other way! Now, playfully spanking a woman especially at the height of her orgasm can (for some women anyway) make for a better experience. However, if they don't enjoy the playful aspect of spanking it won't do anything for them and should be ceased! It's all about the pleasure during sex and if it isn't being received well then it isn't pleasurable now is it? JMO
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| 3/31/2009 9:33:31 AM |
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justin_jay
Tampa, FL
age: 26
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Slap his a** back hard with the belt and see how he likes it.. lmao
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| 3/31/2009 9:35:48 AM |
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bobbieforforums
Poultney, VT
age: 39
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oh my bad spanking isn't a normal part of sex? oops
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| 3/31/2009 9:20:59 PM |
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indigochild
Dallas, TX
age: 50
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was his name Eddie?
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| 4/2/2009 2:43:54 AM |
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kevinsky01
Mason City, IA
age: 40
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If you have been naughty, you might need a spanking
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| 4/2/2009 3:29:32 AM |
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metalwench
Mount Carmel, PA
age: 43
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MMMMMMMM spanking can never have enough......
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| 4/2/2009 3:31:32 PM |
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tony_beast
Kirbyville, TX
age: 42
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Hey, Doll, it depends on the girl. Why not spank hiim some time & see what he thinks. I had a thing for spanking a long time booty call. She enjoyed it as long as it stayed tame. Different strokes for different folks. (pardon the pun. Now, we, on occasion, trade off spanking each other & it keeps either of us from abusing the other. She & I are closer with each other than we are with our spouses. Just how it worked out for us. Abuse is out of the question. Wouldn't want to be with a chick that was into that. Playfulness is OK though.
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| 4/2/2009 3:32:20 PM |
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tony_beast
Kirbyville, TX
age: 42
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I agree...
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| 4/2/2009 3:38:12 PM |
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good4ugirl
Chapel Hill, NC
age: 28
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Of course it is. It's a part of foreplay.
As long as it doesn't get out of hand...
I don't think there are many females out there who don't enjoy hair pulling, a** spanking, neck biting, going at it doggy style sex (as an example)--and the same said in that I don't think there are many males who don't enjoy doing that to a woman during sex.
(I know I do)
TS
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| 4/2/2009 3:39:31 PM |
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marqeye
Kent, OH
age: 35
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Dayum
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| 4/2/2009 3:42:16 PM |
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good4ugirl
Chapel Hill, NC
age: 28
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LOL marqeye...
That's a "true fave example"..
JS...
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| 4/2/2009 6:56:08 PM |
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acitygirl1965
Valparaiso, IN
age: 45
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it's not? ... just thought it was good n hot sex (ok kinky hot sex )
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| 4/2/2009 7:00:53 PM |
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hotnstinky
Diablo, CA
age: 40
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yep sounds like he is
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| 4/2/2009 7:08:55 PM |
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starz_82
Fontana, CA
age: 28
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if u dont like it then run... but if ur getting into it, it can be a very sexy thing... not so sure on the belts and stuff.. maybe u need to spank him... lol
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| 4/2/2009 7:24:21 PM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 46
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I don't know if it's normal, but I sure do like it! 
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| 4/2/2009 7:29:13 PM |
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stingflower
North Arlington, NJ
age: 32
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Soft, Hard or it depends..???
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| 4/3/2009 9:39:14 AM |
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izzystradlian12
Tupelo, MS
age: 34
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i love to spank a woman a** when having sex with her
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| 4/3/2009 4:53:04 PM |
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mommy_to_3
Enid, OK
age: 32
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WHY ARE YOU YELLING AT US????? DON'T MAKE ME TAKE OFF MY BELT AND WHIP YOUR ASS!!
that right there was just to funny
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| 4/3/2009 5:23:04 PM |
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klutterbuck
Jonesboro, AR
age: 64
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I didn't read all the posts, so maybe my answer has already been covered, but here it is.
Any thing is "Normal" "if you BOTH enjoy it!" If one of you does not enjoy the activity then it is not normal for you and if it is a "deal breaker" for him as it sounds like in this case, cut your losses and move on immediately as the relationship will probably never improve to your liking.
Now he may back off for a little bit, but trust me, he will keep bringing it up again and again until you either give in or move on. So trust one who's "been there, experienced that", Move on now and cast your hook back in the the "used and abused spouse pool" and reel in another one.Your not getting any younger.
Note, "unique" behaviors and desires are fetishes of both sexes.
[Edited 4/3/2009 5:24:59 PM ]
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| 4/4/2009 11:29:34 PM |
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abdur
Lithonia, GA
age: 44
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Spank, spank, spank, "say big daddy!" I love it when they call me big poppa!
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| 4/5/2009 4:07:10 PM |
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kimz34
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 35
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it depends on what that person likes. if u dont like it then u guys wont be compatible in the bed. me personally. i like to be spanked...even with a belt. but it wouldnt turn me off if it didnt happen either.
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