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12/7/2008 9:48:15 PM |
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jalamb
Tuscaloosa, AL
age: 22 online now!
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Cut the green wire.
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12/8/2008 4:48:25 AM |
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johnnybadboy
Baltimore, MD
age: 56
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Cut the green wire.
Semper Fi! DevilDog Can do easy
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12/8/2008 5:39:11 AM |
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klassyklown

Bakersfield, CA
age: 40
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I think an argument is only an argument if you allow it to be an argument. Couples have to talk about things. If an issue needs to be resolved immediately, then discuss it in a reasonable manner. Personal attacks and name calling will turn any discussion into an argument.
If it is a big issue that does not need to be resolved immediately, then it is probably better to process your thoughts and opinions and then talk about them when you are not emotionally charged.
The thing to always remember is that words carry power, and once you put words out there, you can never take them back. You can apologize, you can be forgiven, you can even try to forget, but when another argument occurs those words will come right back into your mind. Why do you think people get in arguments and bring up stuff from the past, because words don't go away.
And why does there have to be a winner? In most relationships we want an outcome, not a knock out punch.
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12/8/2008 9:43:14 AM |
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singleagain50
Greenville, SC
age: 50
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Cut the green wire.
 It was the red one !!!
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12/8/2008 9:46:04 AM |
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beanz991

Houston, TX
age: 41
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Why is it when men argue with women, even if they technically win the argument they lose. But if they don't stand there ground some women think they are wimps. When a disagreement begins between a man and a women how do you defuse it before a bomb goes off. Do you just say?
1. Yes dear you are totally right how could anyone think otherwise (wimp out)
2. Can we agree to disagree on this subject and not get upset with each other (be assertive)
3. Perhaps we should talk about this later I need time to think about it more (stall for time and hope it doesn't come up later)
4. Say what you think and suffer the outcome (be a Man)
I can't say that I have ever won an argument with a woman that I didn't lose in the end. In very relationship there comes a time when you disagree about something. I want to be in a win win situation just one time what’s the secret?
American men....I tell ya.
I win every argument, even when I'm wrong and can twist and manipulate it to where I am right. Stop being a p*ssy and lay down the law.
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12/8/2008 9:48:06 AM |
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evileddy

Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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When a woman says any of the following during an argument .. just raise your hands and proclaim your win:
"Whatever"
"Ya.. well.. you have a small d*ck!"
"You probably can't get laid"
"You are just jealous you can't get with a hot chick like me"
"You are a f**king a**hole!"
Most women are highly emotional creatures and their logic is tainted with these emotions.
They aren't out to win an argument using tactics such as making sense or using facts.
They want to make you emotional like them.. that's a win for them.
So remain emotionally cold and stand firm with your side without raising your voice nor responding to ad hominem attacks.
That's what a real man does.
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12/8/2008 9:51:27 AM |
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brujacakes2
Jim Thorpe, PA
age: 36 online now!
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5. Find the humor in the argument, crack a joke, lighten the f#ck up and discuss it rationally.
In my book there is NO win/lose with my man...ONLY win/win.
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12/8/2008 9:53:54 AM |
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th6231

Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 61
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FIGHT??....about what?? Disagree is one thing but fighting about something just points at lousy communications skills and probably a relationship in the toilet and just waiting to be flushed. If you are a couple for any amount of time, you both should know how to communicate and you both should know each other well enough to avoid confrontations. The selection of answers is not the way to win or even prevail in a disagreement. How about learning to forsee a problem and try to quell it before it becomes a fight or a serious disagreement. Or does that take too much maturity and caring??
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12/8/2008 10:03:46 AM |
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just_photo

Absecon, NJ
age: 26
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i prefer the passive agressive avenue:
allow them to believe they have won "yes dear, you're right, im wrong, ill take out the garbage and mow the grass now (while i plot revenge)"

[Edited 12/8/2008 10:04:25 AM]
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12/8/2008 11:59:56 AM |
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johnnybadboy
Baltimore, MD
age: 56
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i prefer the passive agressive avenue:
allow them to believe they have won "yes dear, you're right, im wrong, ill take out the garbage and mow the grass now (while i plot revenge)"

Sounds good to me, Then spray her panties with some kind of sport spray with ben gay in it. Is that the kind of stuff you are talking about? They would be burning for a week. why didn't I think of that?
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