| 12/9/2008 5:49:23 PM |
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spitfire64
Garrison, TX
age: 44
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Both are intimate physical pleasure.
A massage is often foreplay to sex.
Try again. This time use your brain for something other than shoe sales.
WOW...what was it about that statement that pissed YOU off?? Ever consider the reason women don't just fall in bed with you is your winning personalities or the "great" come on lines?? LMAO
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| 12/9/2008 5:50:25 PM |
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bigcats374
Cedar City, UT
age: 55
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A full body massage from your lover can be very sexual.
As far as a woman being comfortable with her own sexuality, I am very much in favor of this and find it to be a very big turn on.  
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| 12/9/2008 5:51:29 PM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 40
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Do you care about what others think ?
For example, would you vote republican, even though no one would know, just because they 'said' it's the right thing to do ?
Noredneck, you are talking to me. When I was born someone forgot the boundaries. But, you asked why women had hangups, and I told you why. Notice I didn't say all women. Just admit it was a good answer and give me my kudos.
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| 12/9/2008 5:57:24 PM |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
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Klassy, it was an answer. Kinda one of those 'canned' responses.
If you know that you're programmed a certain way, might you not examine who and why programmed you like that, and if that programming was based in logic, or someone elses opinion of how others should act ?
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| 12/9/2008 6:00:06 PM |
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fallnstar
Miami, FL
age: 48
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I am going to be true to MYself.. I don't crave intercourse, If I am going to have sex
with someOne, I *NEED to feel that we loves each other, and I have to trust him ...
Since, I will give him my heart...Completely.( And, Amazing sex.)  
Go on Nored, I know your going to tell me, you don't want someOnes heart..
REMEMBER, WE ARE EMOTIONAL CREATURES.
To each there own.. I will not settle for anything less. 
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| 12/9/2008 6:01:26 PM |
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nickiename
Las Cruces, NM
age: 38
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It's not all that easy to just change a lifetime (or generations) of conditioning. If it were you wouldn't have to ask the question.
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| 12/9/2008 6:01:48 PM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 52
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I have to have an emotional connection to have sex because sex is more than JUST sex to me!!!!
And by the way, I do not consider a massage to be sex. JMO
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| 12/9/2008 6:02:37 PM |
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single1986
Tacoma, WA
age: 22
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The Puritans were done 300 years ago. Why do their opinions about sex still pervade the womens world.
Why is it damn near every woman has to have an "emotional" connection ?
If you're true to your guns, and don't want intimate physical pleasure w/o emotion, then if someone bought you an hour long massage for a Christmas gift, you'd turn it down since you don't have an emotional connection w/ the masseuse ?
Bull.
women are just emotional creatures. you cant get mad at us because thats the way were wired. and if we're so emotional, why'd you buy someone a gift? wouldn't that classify you as being emotional??? just a thought.......
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| 12/9/2008 6:03:48 PM |
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seakats
Palm City, FL
age: 46
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would quote Fallin; but I have used my big mouth quota
I agree Fallin; those who have had patience with me; have been very rewarded.
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| 12/9/2008 6:07:04 PM |
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nyguitar77
Watertown, NY
age: 31
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OH by the way..last time I checked..a massage wasn't considered sex..LOL
You obviously have never been to Korea, Japan, or the PI!
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| 12/9/2008 6:09:25 PM |
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okaydude
Mesquite, TX
age: 52
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Not all of them do
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| 12/9/2008 6:09:33 PM |
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noredneckhere
Sevierville, TN
age: 48
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It's not all that easy to just change a lifetime (or generations) of conditioning. If it were you wouldn't have to ask the question.
Are you blaming someone else for the your inability to think things through for yourself, and come to your own conclusions ?
Or perhaps it just hasn't occurred to try and think about it independently.
Women are continually posting on this site about their independance, and self sufficiency, yet 90% or better think exactly the same way on this subject. And the only logical reason you offer is that you were 'programmed' this way.
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| 12/9/2008 6:09:53 PM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 61
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Now its making no sense--if you know a girl with a hang up--find one without one. Hang ups are nothing more than another word to describe personal choice--and there is always a reason for the choices anybody makes. Any Men who bother a woman that obviously is not interested--should move on and look else where--its that simple. I have a hang up about ugly feet--I don't care about anything else if a woman has twisted up discolored scaly feet. Its a gag reflex to me. But that might not bother some other men. I don't care if she buys me a new car--or can cook great meals 3 times a day--I cannot stand ugly feet. Everyone has things that they dislike--programmed or engrained or whatever--if someone has a dislike for something--it is no one elses business. If any woman or man desires to have emotional satisfaction--that is their business--if someone wants numb sex with no feelings--that is their choice. Finding a compatible person is what mature women and men desire.
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| 12/9/2008 6:14:56 PM |
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clarity101
Aurora, CO
age: 57
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Now its making no sense--if you know a girl with a hang up--find one without one. Hang ups are nothing more than another word to describe personal choice--and there is always a reason for the choices anybody makes. Any Men who bother a woman that obviously is not interested--should move on and look else where--its that simple. I have a hang up about ugly feet--I don't care about anything else if a woman has twisted up discolored scaly feet. Its a gag reflex to me. But that might not bother some other men. I don't care if she buys me a new car--or can cook great meals 3 times a day--I cannot stand ugly feet. Everyone has things that they dislike--programmed or engrained or whatever--if someone has a dislike for something--it is no one elses business. If any woman or man desires to have emotional satisfaction--that is their business--if someone wants numb sex with no feelings--that is their choice. Finding a compatible person is what mature women and men desire.
well said th
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| 12/9/2008 6:18:58 PM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 40
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Damn noredneck who peepeed in your Cheerios today. Okay some women might be conforming to societies expectations, some women may just uphold sexuality on a more biblical basis, some women may have had negative sexual experiences as adults or children, and some women may not have ever experienced a man who has allowed her to experience the euphoria of a truly satisfying sexual experience. Is that better? Not so canned?
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