12/10/2008 8:09:04 AM |
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breezy13
Crestwood, KY
age: 27
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I don't know if its necessarily hang ups. I mean yes woman have proven to more emotionally connected quicker in relationships but I also believe that this is based on the stage someone is at in their life. I for example, am looking to be married for the first time so meaningless sex is not something I want right now. If I do have sex there will be some kind of emotion or feeling involved. Now I am not saying that I have never had meaningless sex before but it was at a different stage in my life and you never know, someday I may get back to that point. So I guess I don't really think it is a hang up for anyone, just depends on what they are looking for at that moment.
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12/10/2008 9:28:00 AM |
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brujacakes2

Jim Thorpe, PA
age: 36 online now!
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I SO agree breezy...
You can meet the perfect person and be the perfect person for that person BUT if the timing is off for either one...it will go nowhere.
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12/10/2008 9:31:38 AM |
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binderdundat
Metairie, LA
age: 47 online now!
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I like women just the way they are, now that I finally know how they work
you want to mess it all up and try to change them!
And men are always saying to Women Dont try to change me!
I think you have Lost the Debate
***yahoo's clapping hands here seeing we don't have our own!!!***
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12/10/2008 9:52:39 AM |
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katiescarlett72

Dallas, TX
age: 36
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The Puritans were done 300 years ago. Why do their opinions about sex still pervade the womens world.
Why is it damn near every woman has to have an "emotional" connection ?
If you're true to your guns, and don't want intimate physical pleasure w/o emotion, then if someone bought you an hour long massage for a Christmas gift, you'd turn it down since you don't have an emotional connection w/ the masseuse ?
Bull.
Got shot down, did we?
Sorry to hear that.
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12/10/2008 9:58:49 AM |
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noredneckhere

Sevierville, TN
age: 48
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Got shot down, did we?
Sorry to hear that.
Certainly not by you, or binder, or the old f**k with the flabby arms in the muscleman shirt, both of you are just cheerleaders.
When it's said that some people can't put a coherent thought process together, they musta been referring to the both of you.
But go ahead and keep up with your brainless prattle. If either of you were better looking, yer both qualified in the brainless dept. to be trophy wives.
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12/10/2008 11:22:23 AM |
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ccherie
Salem, OR
age: 54
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Lilly!! I agree with you.... and then after a Man has made his intentions known, a Woman can CHOOSE to say yay or nay without being accused of having a Sexual Hangup!!!
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12/10/2008 12:19:27 PM |
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joeyk50
Winston Salem, NC
age: 54 online now!
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As a recently single man. I want the emotional and sexual. I liked where I was and I want it back. Joe
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12/10/2008 12:32:00 PM |
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kitise

Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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Certainly not by you, or binder, or the old f**k with the flabby arms in the muscleman shirt, both of you are just cheerleaders.
When it's said that some people can't put a coherent thought process together, they musta been referring to the both of you.
But go ahead and keep up with your brainless prattle. If either of you were better looking, yer both qualified in the brainless dept. to be trophy wives.
Now thats what we call 'internet a** whooping'
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12/10/2008 1:07:54 PM |
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rocket000
Murrayville, GA
age: 50
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Another post that paints broad brush strokes about an entire group of people.
There are plenty of women who think like men when it comes to sex. Thats their perogative.
Personally, I was raised to do what makes me happy. As long as I have a good working moral compass I could care less about who is sleeping with who. I'm mentally, physically and emotionally healthy. I work in a the financial world which is a male dominated field. I also have my own farm and do more labor than most men. However, I'm not interested in casual sex, friends with benefits or sex with anyone other than a person that I have an emotional connection too.
Guess what? I know plenty of men who want an emotional connection before they are interested in sex.
Perhaps like many of a certain age, they have enough life under their belt not to want to waste their time and energy.
I'm tired of the constant belittling of people with a different viewpoint. It seems that there are several male dh'ers who delight in bashing women who:
like sex, use or withhold sex, barter sex, don't like sex, have a headache or some malady that prevents them from wanting sex. Yet in the next breath they are calling them sluts, wh*res, etc. Frankly, modern medicine has both medication and therapy available to treat these split personalities.
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12/10/2008 3:35:15 PM |
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flying550
Bland, MO
age: 50
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Do you care about what others think ?
For example, would you vote republican, even though no one would know, just because they 'said' it's the right thing to do ?
Nope, I don't care about other people's opinions - which is why I'll wait for an emotional connection instead of romping with anyone that catches my eye - because that's me. Nor will I apologize for it or let your opinion bother me in the least.
Have a Nice Day!
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12/10/2008 4:15:17 PM |
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quanciale
Newmarket, NH
age: 44
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Believe it or not the puritans were quite randy behind close doors when it came to sex , that is the missconception of them , it is more that the men wanted control and dominated the women and many times quite kinky. A great deal of women have been taught or brqainwashed into believing sex is dirty and sinful.
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12/10/2008 4:22:52 PM |
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quanciale
Newmarket, NH
age: 44
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true to that many people forget history the quote white man or settlers werent here first
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12/10/2008 4:25:46 PM |
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nickiename

Las Cruces, NM
age: 38
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Believe it or not the puritans were quite randy behind close doors when it came to sex...
They were English right, so I thought that was a given? 

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12/10/2008 4:37:10 PM |
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quanciale
Newmarket, NH
age: 44
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This was truly a topic like opening pandoras box. It sounds like nord wants a little kininess an wanto sex in his relationship that most women are willing to give with out some time and developing over time
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12/10/2008 4:39:39 PM |
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quanciale
Newmarket, NH
age: 44
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Very true nicki , it is just that most people think of the puritans as prudes, they were not by any stretch of the imagination, why do you think there were a lot of qoute witch hangins , it was to squelch the free thinking women of that day.
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