Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?

12/21/2009 6:55:03 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
green17 Lewisburg, TN age: 32	Quote from 1638mystic: Yes. I had sucessful FWB relationships. FWB relationships aren't for everybody. But they can work for some people in the right situation. I also agree with this. I have been a few successful FWB relationships as well. For me, they can work when both people are upfront about their intentions. And when both people understand / follow the rules of their FWB relationship. BTW being a FWB relationship doesn't always mean that you are having sex with other people. That is a misconception that some people have. [Edited 12/21/2009 6:56:47 AM ] Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
12/21/2009 8:46:29 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
techgirl27 Bedford, TX age: 39	NO way Jose'. That just entrenches what men think, 'why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free'. This cow comes with the value added benefits ONLY on purchase!
12/21/2009 1:30:36 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
tootsweet13 Woodbridge, VA age: 38	Yep, I would...and have. When I have done it, it was with a person I dated and really liked but for various reasons did not want to have a relationship with them. I ONLY had sex with ONE person during that time period though. If either of us found a person we could see ourself having a relationship with, we would respect that boundary and take a break from one another (while still keeping in touch online). As a previous poster stated it's not for everyone.
12/21/2009 10:03:32 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
dreamsahara Dayville, CT age: 43	Quote from melissa3434: The bold part is not necessary true. A couple could be in a FWB relationship without having sex with anyone else. The thing is....I believe a man would take this sort of arrangement to mean he can have sex with you and if some other opportunity for sex comes along, he's going for that as well...and he knows that he can still call you up when he wants...after all, he has no "commitment" to you! ...it's just meaningless sex...YOU are meaningless sex for him...because you are just a 'friend' and nothing more to him. that sort of "arrangement" doesn't bring me any sort of pleasure at all...
12/22/2009 8:46:24 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
melissa3434 Braintree, MA age: 38	Quote from dreamsahara: The thing is....I believe a man would take this sort of arrangement to mean he can have sex with you and if some other opportunity for sex comes along, he's going for that as well...and he knows that he can still call you up when he wants...after all, he has no "commitment" to you! ...it's just meaningless sex...YOU are meaningless sex for him...because you are just a 'friend' and nothing more to him. that sort of "arrangement" doesn't bring me any sort of pleasure at all... As mentioned earlier, FWB isn't for everybody. However if a man was having sex with other women and only called me when he wanted sex. Then that would be a booty call / f**k buddy situation. Not a true FWB relationship. A true FWB relationship would have some rules. One of the rules could be not having sex with anyone else. If one person does become interested in someone else, then (s)he would end the FWB relationship. [Edited 12/22/2009 8:54:26 PM ]
12/22/2009 11:31:25 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
tucsonbaby Tucson, AZ age: 54	GO GIRL WELLSPOKEN AND RIGHT TO THE CORE OF TRUTH. someone CAN HAVE CANDY-BUT NOTHING IS FOR FREE, WHEN SOMEONE IS TALKING FRIEND WITH BENFITS OR SO CALLED PAID ESCORT.oNE NITE STAND AND FLINGS ARE AND CAN BE FUN ; WHEN YOUNG BUT LIKE SHE SAID, THERE COMES A TIME WHEN WE HAVE TO COMPLETE OURSELVES AND GO FULL CIRCLE AND BEING A SEX TOY MIGHT BOOST THE EGO BUT DOES NOTHING FOR THE HEART OR INNER SELF-ESTEEEM. HAPPY HOLIDAYS AND BEST WISHES IN WHATEVER YOU DECEIDE.( THE GIRL WHO HAD THE OTHER POST)
12/22/2009 11:34:48 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
tucsonbaby Tucson, AZ age: 54	I LOVED THAT QUOTE
12/22/2009 11:53:38 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
tucsonbaby Tucson, AZ age: 54	great advice and opinion that was given to you because woman care about other women and that they don't want you to get taken advantage of. There are so many men willing to offer you such a life , but for how long, before you are replaced with others? Don't fall into the trap of expecting a fairy tale to come true. once knew a female escort of many years and she has nothing really to show for it.She spent the money as fast as she made it.Her esteem caused bouts of depression.She had made herself venerable,& felt trapped.Its like a spiders web-once you fall , you become a victim. She had no time to have a real life of "respect"; others don't always understand . There are many times you can be replaced with newer, younger, just a obbession of variety-so don't make a nest and put all your eggs into it without thinking long and hard as to the consquences. He will try to convince you with benfifts, gifts, words that come and go ; like the wind. If you want stability--- go for the "real deal"---and have a life that you can look back on years later,------------- and be okay with yourself and your secrets.You don't want to be haunted by a mistake that can emotionally scar you for life. I am not being judgemental , just honest because i watched for years of someone close to me; and she always had sacrifes to make, consquences that were unexpected, and was made known to others where she tried to be disceet. Life turns on a dime and you can lose everything. Love yourself and someone will love you back and there will be much more benfits in true love than what you are considering to do. My friend, lost her best friend, because she got dumped and she shot herself in the head at age 22. It was tradegy and only the first of many that followed, with my friends choice. Happy holidays and hope your heart leads you to the right decesions. [Edited 12/23/2009 12:20:06 AM ]
12/23/2009 6:04:08 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
linda08 Ravenna, NE age: 20	i think its fine as long as your dont have romantic feelings for that person.. cause then you ccould get hurt.. and if you start to get them.. RUN!!!
12/27/2009 8:38:22 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
hugz224 Saint Charles, IL age: 21	it depends. i would have to meet the guy first, see if i'm attracted to him. if i am, it's possibly a bad idea. friends with benefits first and foremost means that you are friends, but you hook up on the side. however, you're not together, and probably won't be until someone makes the first move. however, if he's a nice person, someone i could get along with, but am not necessarily attracted to, i would see where it goes. if i get to know him more, and like his personality, i'm down for fwb. but if he's an ass, i'm not hooking up with him.
12/27/2009 9:08:59 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
golddigginghag Salem, OR age: 52	At my age dating is all about the "friends with benefits" relationship. There has to be a physical chemistry or you're wasting your time looking for a long term relationship. That's not to say you jump in bed with every schmuck you meet. I have to actually like the guy and see the potential for a real connection. Sex for the sake of sex is usually very disappointing.
12/27/2009 9:11:08 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
golddigginghag Salem, OR age: 52	How do you delete something here? [Edited 12/27/2009 9:13:48 PM ]
12/27/2009 9:12:42 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
golddigginghag Salem, OR age: 52	Delete damn it. [Edited 12/27/2009 9:15:19 PM ]
12/29/2009 8:53:16 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
erin617 Groveport, OH age: 35	I have been a few successful FWB relationships as well. For me, they can work when both people are upfront about their intentions. And when both people understand / follow the rules of their FWB relationship. BTW being a FWB relationship doesn't always mean that you are having sex with other people. That is a misconception that some people have. I agree. I also had some good FWB relationships. IMO the reason why some FWB relationships don't work out is that some people will agree to a FWB relationship. Secretly hoping that it will lead to something more. If one person has feelings for the other person, Then there shouldn't be a FWB relationship between these 2 people. [Edited 12/29/2009 9:08:51 PM ]
12/30/2009 4:59:56 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
amazingpatience Port Richey, FL age: 48	Quote from techgirl27: NO way Jose'. That just entrenches what men think, 'why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free'. This cow comes with the value added benefits ONLY on purchase! reminds me of the old saying "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? ' id say "why buy the whole pig when you just need a little saugage "
12/31/2009 6:17:09 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
doreen1111 Brenham, TX age: 46	Quote from tootsweet13: Yep, I would...and have. When I have done it, it was with a person I dated and really liked but for various reasons did not want to have a relationship with them. I ONLY had sex with ONE person during that time period though. If either of us found a person we could see ourself having a relationship with, we would respect that boundary and take a break from one another (while still keeping in touch online). As a previous poster stated it's not for everyone. Exactly except we don't keep in touch online, it's via phone. I love him, I always will.. but I could never be with him permanently. Every year at Christmas, New Years and my birthday I look forward to hearing the sweetest messages you every heard and I'm not kidding. They are so heart felt and sweet .... We've done this for 12 years, until this year. This year when I broke up with my last boyfriend, I told him I didn't want to go there anymore. Still at Christmas, the message he left me made me cry! He will always be my friend and in my heart!
1/2/2010 7:50:01 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
kathy781 Lake Mary, FL age: 47	I agree with what some people have mentioned. FWB relationships can work ( for some people ) when there are clear rules about the terms of the relationship, neither person has strong feelings toward the other person, and / or there is a specific reason you wouldn't want a LTR with the other person. I'm currently in a FWB relationship that is working out well. However both of us feel a LTR wouldn't work out due to the large age difference. I'm about 20 yrs older than him.
1/2/2010 9:15:27 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
amichelleh Chattanooga, TN age: 30	I have my own way to look at this. FWB doens't exist for me. Casual sex, yes I have done. I maintained a detachment from it so it would not become an emotional roller coaster for me. I would never be able to casually have sex with a friend who I respected and cared for.
1/20/2010 6:58:31 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
ladygonewild Campbellsville, KY age: 61	Tried it and fell in love with the man . I got burned and it still hurts... NEVER AGAIN ! Lessons learned the hard way last forever never to be repeated ...
2/1/2010 11:07:14 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
snowgoddess Winchester, KY age: 34	I think I am currently in one of these fwb relationships if u can call it that.This has been going on for almost a year and a half.I almost think I love him sometimes and am considering ending it.I haven't been seeing anyone else but,I am ready for a relationship again.I almost think he wants more to and is afraid of rejection.Any advice?
2/2/2010 9:03:41 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
rp1200 Kenyon, MN age: 42	Been there done that... wasn't for me! I think most females want more...
2/3/2010 7:04:09 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
017green Temple, PA age: 25	FWB relationships can work ( for some people ) when there are clear rules about the terms of the relationship, neither person has strong feelings toward the other person, and / or there is a specific reason you wouldn't want a LTR with the other person. Agreed. I had some FWB relationships that worked out well for me. There were instances when I wanted something that was more than just sex. But not a serious LTR either. FWB was a good solution for me. IMO the reason why some FWB relationships don't work out is that some people will agree to a FWB relationship. Secretly hoping that it will lead to something more. [Edited 2/3/2010 7:06:39 AM ]
2/5/2010 10:00:28 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
28suburban Ledgewood, NJ age: 40	Yes. I was in a FWB relationship last year. Neither one of us was interested in a serious or long term relationship at the time. It worked out well for us.
2/5/2010 10:21:07 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
myss_terious Madison, WI age: 24	I would and have tried FWB. It isn't for everyone, granted. But as long as you're both on the same page, it's a great way to satisfy the sexual cravings while not in a serious relationship.
2/19/2010 7:02:35 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
56valleygal Woburn, MA age: 26	I have been in FWB relationships. I agree with what some women have mentioned. Not every one can handle a FWB. But they can work if both people are upfront about intentions, agree to follow certain rules, and are able to have sex without developing serious feelings towards other person.
2/21/2010 10:09:55 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
whisperzm03 Grand Prairie, TX age: 25	I have tried it before and it worked great for me. I don't recommend it to any females who cannot seperate their emotions, feelings, and all that from sex. They are going to get attatched and it will end in heartache. But if you can seperate them, go for it. It can be really fun.
3/4/2010 12:15:27 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
pretensea Grand Rapids, MI age: 44	Definately. With a little luck I'll find a friend here that I can spend some time with. I'm new to the site so here's hoping. crosses her fingers
3/13/2010 1:05:15 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
manager7 Greenwich, CT age: 42	Yes I have. FWB relationships can work for some people in the right situation. Sometimes I may be interested in a relationship than is more than just casual sex / booty call. But I'm not interested in seriously dating a man either. A FWB is a perfect compromise for me.
3/27/2010 6:09:11 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
suburbs93 Seattle, WA age: 45	^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I agree with the woman who posted above me.
4/1/2010 8:15:07 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
outdoors99 Philadelphia, PA age: 36	I also agree with manager.
4/1/2010 9:37:15 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
cullmanlola Cullman, AL age: 45 online now!	I've had a FWB a couple of times and it always turns out the same for me. I end up with feelings for them and they are totally one-sided. So, I dont think I'm gonna go that route again.
4/5/2010 10:28:20 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
missmaggot Santa Maria, CA age: 21	I'm currently am involved with a FWB. There has been no sex as of yet, but we are fooling around. The only thing that's bothering me with him is before we started fooling around he would talk to me about things and problems in his life. Now it's like he keeps his mouth shut, but will become my best friend when he 'wants' something. I know he's going through a lot of things and he deals with it a certain way so I'm hoping it all goes back to normal soon. I just hate the feeling of being used. I'm giving him his space right now so we'll see. Other than that this is working out fine. I've been in several of these situations before and they all went very well. Before we discussed having a sexual relationship we both said that's all we wanted. Neither one of us crossed that line and everything was great. I'm still friends with them all. I think once the feelings become involved it ruins the whole thing. Although I know sometimes it's hard not to cross that line.
4/17/2010 10:30:30 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
rhodygal New York, NY age: 36	Yes. I have been in a couple of FWB relationships. Like others have mentioned, it can work if both people are upfront about their intentions and both people are able to have sex without develop strong emotional feelings towards the other person.
4/26/2010 4:59:27 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
jessamine01 Sacramento, CA age: 26	no
4/26/2010 8:37:05 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
strongheart53 Lewiston, ID age: 54	Hah, just escaped a marriage that was like this, no thanks.. If he is not emotionally available, I am not physically available. [Edited 4/26/2010 8:47:37 PM ]
4/27/2010 12:38:35 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
idaloveanggel Springfield, OR age: 39	I am so committed to my kids and family. I never get me time. I mean never. So, a part of me thinks it might be fun and convenient. The other part of me wants something great. To be in love would be nice. What ever you decide, just be safe. Good luck.
4/27/2010 4:37:16 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
ineedloven2 Geneva, NY age: 44	isn't this why we have toys.
4/27/2010 5:00:04 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
jjbriteyes North Brookfield, MA age: 46	I have tried the FWB thing.. it did not work out well.. It started off ok, then it just turned out to be hell.. we are no longer friends. FBW usually isnt worth it.
5/8/2010 1:07:35 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
sundress1 Los Angeles, CA age: 41	Yes. My reasons for having a FWB have been mentioned by other posters. There are instances when I might like a man, but there is a specific reason why I wouldn't have a serious LTR with him. Also there are instances when I'm not available or ready for a LTR. Such as after breaking up with a man. Or when I'm preoccupied with work, family, and other committments. [Edited 5/8/2010 1:15:34 PM ]
5/9/2010 1:25:30 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
suburbs128 Los Angeles, CA age: 41	FWB relationships can work ( for some people ) when there are clear rules about the terms of the relationship, neither person has strong feelings toward the other person, and / or there is a specific reason you wouldn't want a LTR with the other person. Good points. Yes, I did have a few successful FWB relationships. [Edited 5/9/2010 1:27:19 PM ]
5/9/2010 11:33:42 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
libralady92366 Meadville, PA age: 43	Been there done that and really felt cheap and because of it I lost a good friend we just couldn't look at each other. Feel that I need more than just sex.
5/10/2010 9:58:42 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
rondag Mount Orab, OH age: 46	Quote from cullmanlola: I've had a FWB a couple of times and it always turns out the same for me. I end up with feelings for them and they are totally one-sided. So, I dont think I'm gonna go that route again. I totally agree.... its always one-sided,someone more often than not ends up coming out on the shitty end of it.
5/11/2010 12:33:40 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
debhur Lancaster, CA age: 46	I've tried it and it sucks all the way around even when I just wanted to stay friends--Deep down I'm a romantic so FWB is an empty romance---
5/11/2010 1:53:04 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
cutiepie4u2 Dalton, GA age: 22	I don't know I been asking myself that same question...I just don't want to get hurt or in the process hurt him or just have something terribly wrong go down...
5/13/2010 7:09:49 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
chellez3 Watsonville, CA age: 20	i kinda feel like a youngster in here but..... i have been in accouple of fwb realtions but it never works out and in the end u lost the friend. its fun for the firt coupple weeks but then it made me feel like i wasnt good enough for him and thats why i was just a fwb but i get attached kind of easly.
5/15/2010 7:18:14 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
usbella69 Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 49	I did it for a year and a half. It's great for a while but women do fall in love and the guy moves on. I not only lost a best friend but also a very good lover. I wish him all the best with his new interest. No. I won't do it again.
5/17/2010 7:23:07 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
suburbs128 Los Angeles, CA age: 41	I did it for a year and a half. It's great for a while but women do fall in love and the guy moves on That wasn't true in my case. Some women are able to have sex without developing strong feelings for a man and other women can't.
5/18/2010 4:21:11 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
laceylotwo El Paso, TX age: 52	I tried it, and it wasn't a great experience for me. We became friends, went to football games, dinner, movies, dancing, parties with mutual new friends, but when the benefits began, I soon found out he was married. Once I confronted him with my new found knowledge he had the balls to ask me if we could drop the friendship and keep the benefits. I dropped the whole thing. I honestly feel when you put sex into a friendship the dynamics of the friendship change no matter how hard you want to believe it doesnt. Now I have had friend with benifits..... and it was wonderful while it lasted. But I would suggest to walk carefully into it, make sure you both clearly are wanting the same things from the experience.
5/18/2010 8:40:14 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
ms1958 Lobelville, TN age: 52	Been there done that. It really depends on the person and where they are in their life and what they want at the time. It worked for me because I was told by my lovers ex-wife don't bring anything with you that you can't carry out in your purse. she was right. I like the get up and leave and go back to my house. men have done it for every. I will always have my house.
5/22/2010 8:18:32 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
sundress20 San Francisco, CA age: 41	Yes. FWB relationships aren't for everybody. But they can work for some people in certain situations. I had a successful FWB relationship right after I got divorced. It satisfied what I was looking for at the time.
5/31/2010 8:01:45 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
18green Dallas, TX age: 36	Yes. FWB relationships aren't for everybody. But they can work for some people in certain situations. I agree. I had some FWB relationships that worked out well for me.
6/1/2010 11:47:12 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
ttsbb5 Youngstown, OH age: 52	Hell NO! why mess up a good friendship? I have more repect for myself.. and I know that i deserve better..someone to love me... and not just some friend to F_ _ K... get real.....
6/1/2010 12:31:19 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
rondag Mount Orab, OH age: 46	Quote from ttsbb5: Hell NO! why mess up a good friendship? I have more repect for myself.. and I know that i deserve better..someone to love me... and not just some friend to F_ _ K... get real..... I couldn't agree more with this statement.....You go girl!!
6/8/2010 12:42:22 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
122750again Dipolog Philippines age: 70	Nope...somebody ends up getting hearthurt, and its not gonna be me
6/8/2010 7:45:32 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
jen_cece Poland, NY age: 25	I could never have a FWB.
6/13/2010 8:57:41 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
ms1958 Lobelville, TN age: 52	Been there tried it liked it at that time in my life but for now want the complete package
6/14/2010 6:10:02 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
curvy_cutie Westerly, RI age: 37	I have thought of having a FWB but there are rules that each have to abide by (communication here) but I strongly have to TRUST him. They may SAY this/that but would they abide by the rules???? I would, sure & if we both agree to whatever, then fine. Sure as heck don't want a married lover or one who has something that could be passed to me. One BIG issue that scares me is when the FWB may get jealous. A jealous man will SCARE me to where I'll run!!!
6/16/2010 6:28:16 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
officegal37 Arvada, CO age: 47	Yes. FWB relationships aren't for everybody. But they can work for some people in certain situations. I had a successful FWB relationship right after I got divorced. It satisfied what I was looking for at the time. I agree. I also had a successful FWB relationship after my divorce. I wasn't ready for a LTR and a FWB provided me with what I was looking for at the time. Some people may prefer a FWB when they are extremely busy with school, work, and / or other committments. They are looking for someone that they can occassionally hang out and have sex with without any committments. Some people may want a FWB when they generally like someone. But there is a specific reason why they wouldn't seriously date him/her. Such as a large difference. I know a 44 yr old woman who is currently in a FWB relationship with a 26 yr old man.
6/16/2010 1:16:18 PM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
zeeiva Bowdon, GA age: 56	You know a 44 yr.old woman, with a 26 yr. old man, at first I want to say, WOW you go girl! Then I think about it, and I have a 31 yr. old son. I don't know,..I guess if it is just a FWB type relationship and they are both happy with it, then hey who the hell am I to judge! I am one to say maybe I should not "knock it till I tried it" and I have to say I have not (tried it). So Could be a useful way to evolve from a lonely exisitance,.. if that is the case. Which it is mine! I believe I would give the FWB a chance with the right man, if he does exist.
6/17/2010 6:55:26 AM	Friends with benifits ...would you try it ?
officegal37 Arvada, CO age: 47	You know a 44 yr.old woman, with a 26 yr. old man, at first I want to say, WOW you go girl! Then I think about it, and I have a 31 yr. old son. I don't know,..I guess if it is just a FWB type relationship and they are both happy with it, then hey who the hell am I to judge! I am one to say maybe I should not "knock it till I tried it" and I have to say I have not (tried it). So Could be a useful way to evolve from a lonely exisitance,.. if that is the case. Which it is mine! I believe I would give the FWB a chance with the right man, if he does exist. I can understand why some women in their 40s might have a FWB relationship with a man who is about 20 yrs younger than her. She may not want or can't have any more kids and he isn't ready to settle down and start a family yet. The energy of a younger man and the experience of an older woman may produce great sex. Long term compatibility ( which could be a problem in a serious relationship between a much older woman / younger man ) is not a major factor in a FWB. Of course, a man being physically attractive won't hurt either. I never had a FWB relationship with a man that is about 20 years younger than me. But I wouldn't rule it either. [Edited 6/17/2010 6:55:47 AM ]

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