11/1/2007 2:46:53 PM |
I lied to her she dumped me what should I do |
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chasemcdonald
Salem, OR
28, joined Oct. 2007
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I lied to the love of my life and she dumped me that was in 2003. what should i do to fix this relationship or is it even possible
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11/1/2007 2:55:33 PM |
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carriebig
Jamaica, NY
63, joined Sep. 2007
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hey chase, you have a long way to go to make up. Lying is never good, puts you in the doghouse all the time. If I were you I would have a heart to heart and try to explain why you lied, but in order to do that you have to try and figure out why you did in the first place. If she is the one for you, she may forgive you, but you gotta be honest from now on.
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11/1/2007 3:05:14 PM |
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yankeeluvspeach
Athens, GA
38, joined Aug. 2007
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I'd say if you really love her, perhaps you should let her go. Sounds like she was hurt by the whole thing. Perhaps it's better if you just take the lesson and apply it to your next relationship.
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11/1/2007 3:14:59 PM |
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potentloveslave
Dade City, FL
50, joined Oct. 2007
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Chase my friend. You are 18 years old. It is hard to believe that she was the love of your life. Far too many times we think its love forever and then realize 5-6 years from now that she wasn't the one and wind up divorced. It was 4 years ago. Move on, date other people. Enjoy the best time of your life now, because when you are 40 like me, you will regret it if you don't.
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11/1/2007 3:16:51 PM |
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air1medic
Lakewood, WA
46, joined Oct. 2007
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maybe next time you will learn not to lie..the truth hurts but lies hurt even more
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11/1/2007 3:31:56 PM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
48, joined Oct. 2007
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Learn from it and move on!!!
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11/1/2007 3:54:58 PM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
49, joined Oct. 2007
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No one can or should tell you to give up. If you truly still love her, You have the rest of your life to prove that if you are willing..Anything worth having takes work..You are just going to have to use many Honest Actions with this young lady. jmo
xoxoPeaches.
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11/1/2007 4:00:48 PM |
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yankeeluvspeach
Athens, GA
38, joined Aug. 2007
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well I definately agree with you there peaches, re: anything worth having takes work, I guess where I'm coming from is that some times people get so hell bent on "winning them back" that they fail to stop and analyze where they made the mistake and don't learn from it. If he really does love her and genuinely has learned from it, then I say go to town. However, as someone else pointed out, he would have only been 14 at the time and he still has his whole life a head of him. Plus, some things once done, can't be forgotten, so it might be better for her sake if he moved on.
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11/1/2007 4:14:16 PM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
37, joined Oct. 2007
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stalk her from a distance......at first get her schedule down pat and when u r sure u have an alibi and no one else is around.....................well u get the idea
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11/1/2007 4:22:45 PM |
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sweetromie
Sunderland, MA
55, joined Oct. 2007
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someone I was getting close to recently lied to me and I dumped him to, like mag said, learn from your mistake and move on.
oh and DON"T DO IT AGAIN
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11/1/2007 4:23:46 PM |
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castertroy
Belmar, NJ
47, joined May. 2007
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Learn to be a better liar?
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11/1/2007 4:23:49 PM |
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53lady
Jacksonville, FL
63, joined Jul. 2007
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Hehehehe Very funny, walt!
You DO know that they have laws against stalking, right, silly man???
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11/1/2007 4:25:00 PM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
37, joined Oct. 2007
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only if they catch ya! and yeah b a better liar! ahhahahahahah good one troy! keep it simple nothing to elaborate thats how people get caught
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11/1/2007 4:34:47 PM |
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castertroy
Belmar, NJ
47, joined May. 2007
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You got it man...The more you create the harder it is to keep up , lmao!
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11/1/2007 5:07:12 PM |
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striker29527
London, KY
54, joined May. 2007
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how bout this???? DON'T F&*KING LIE TO ANYONE!!!!!!!!!!!
a thief only steals things that can be replaced. a liar steals the truth, and your trust!
trust will never be regained to the level you once had!
a true man is always honest with everybody, especially with the ones he loves!!!
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11/1/2007 7:12:35 PM |
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chasemcdonald
Salem, OR
28, joined Oct. 2007
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Thanks for all the advice i aldready decided to move on but there are just days that i regret doing it
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11/1/2007 7:14:17 PM |
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castertroy
Belmar, NJ
47, joined May. 2007
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Some things we were meant to carry with us.
They are not always pleasant but they are part of who you are , good luck to you.
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11/1/2007 7:17:27 PM |
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professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
62, joined Jun. 2007
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Well, if the facts are right,
you were about 14
makes you a minor
mistakes are forgiven
go for it,
if you still love her.
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11/2/2007 2:25:56 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
58, joined May. 2007
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I'm glad some of you took the time to read how old he was when he met the "love of his life" I'd get a kick out of it if some girl I dated in high school met up with me after all these years and told me that I was the "love of her life".
Now there was this one girl that I was crazy about back in high school, we dated, but broke up as young lovers often do. I thought about her often for ten years now and then. When I met up with her at the ten year high school reunion, and talked to her, I could see that I wasn't even a foot note in her book of life. That put things in a different perspective, and I never thought of her in the same way again.
That being said, move on with your life, and new love interests. I'm sure you will be the one with the biggest laugh when you look back ten years from now, and reminisce as to how you thought this young girl was "the love of your life"
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11/2/2007 2:39:13 AM |
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bibibaby
Killeen, TX
27, joined Oct. 2007
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well is she daten other people most of the time if she starts dating around shes trying to move on not make it work so what did u lie to her about?
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11/2/2007 3:14:16 AM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
37, joined Oct. 2007
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klill the b*tch ! she will never love anybody again and no one else will have her
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11/2/2007 4:30:30 AM |
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lazehorses
Fordyce, NE
44, joined Oct. 2007
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What striker said!
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11/2/2007 4:35:11 AM |
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fiddlebritches
Duncan, OK
37, joined Oct. 2007
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no! what i said!
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11/2/2007 4:45:06 AM |
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sunshinewm
Cleveland, TN
53, joined Oct. 2007
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Don't beat yourself over it........its just life! We live and learn everyday. Keep smiling
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11/2/2007 6:13:25 AM |
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nicrkitty36
Lake Worth, FL
46, joined May. 2007
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4 years is a long time to make amends.....move on....and learn what not to do next time.....some times a women can get so hurt that there is no coming back from it.....once that line is crossed....move on.....good luck in the future...
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11/2/2007 9:50:31 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
58, joined May. 2007
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you people are the funniest people in the world
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11/2/2007 10:11:17 AM |
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copterdriver
Saint Matthews, SC
64, joined Jan. 2007
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lol@walt....
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11/3/2007 8:45:36 AM |
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lovemekay
Flint, MI
29, joined Oct. 2007
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Find a girl on here her name is superjelly.she's a liar too.
And if the love of your life was in 03 that would make you 14....move on damn I'm sorry but I don't think love happens that young.maybe a liking or even small infatuation...move on.
*kay*
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11/3/2007 9:14:13 AM |
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wonderturtle
Overland Park, KS
50, joined Sep. 2007
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Young love , especially at 14 or lower, is confusing..I hadda crush on a gal from age 12 -18..finally decided I was never gonna be any part of her life more than a friend and let it go . She did attend my Mom's funeral that last year of high school..
but a 6 year crush...damn..I was a dumb kid.
Move on..there are more fish in the sea ..hell there's more sea to see too...lots of opportunities await..don't get stuck up on the one that got away..learn from past mistakes and try not to repeat them.
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11/3/2007 10:46:09 AM |
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johncjohn
Las Vegas, NV
56, joined Oct. 2007
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Close your eyes my grasshopper while I give you the wisdom passed down through the centuries. You, little grasshopper must; KISS SOME SERIOUS BOOTY!!! That is all.
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11/3/2007 10:55:27 AM |
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tyhronn
Morton, PA
35, joined Oct. 2007
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Chase buddy you just gotta tell her the truth in why you did it
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