What are women looking for in a man?

2/21/2009 11:48:40 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
blue4u1966 Laurinburg, NC 51, joined Feb. 2009	Many of the ladies I have either talked with or gone out with all seem to have something in common. They all have been either hurt, abused, lied to, cheated on, raped of their pride and dignity and/or have lost possessions due to breakups and divorce. They now seem to have this wall built up around their heart when it comes to getting involved in a relationship with anyone else. Some part of me can surly understand why that may be. After all once you’ve been burnt, you learn to avoid the fire. But it seems that when they do look for a new relationship, they have the tendency to look for what they once had and lost or they have set expectations seemingly too high for the average hard working good guy. There have been lots of guys that have been put through the ringer also and have had to make a new start for themselves. But they seem to be overlooked because they don’t meet the expectations of today’s heart broken women. So I guess what I would like to know is what are ladies looking for in a man? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
2/21/2009 11:53:19 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
lnlass Laguna Niguel, CA 59, joined Aug. 2008	Great question. Can't think of everything at once, but some things come to mind... Someone who appreciates a lady for her inner and outer beauty, treats her with respect and chivlary, is affectionate, faitiful and attentive. Someone that is honest and is not afraid to communicate his feelings. He must be sensual not just sexual. He shares the same basic core values and many of the same interests as his woman, but has his time with the guys and to himself just as I would have time with the girls and to myself. He shares the same long term goals as I.
2/21/2009 11:53:33 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
sweetiepielove Jacksonville, FL 40, joined Oct. 2008	Good Communication Stability in all aspects of life Strength (both physically & mentally) Humor Sensitivity These are just a few things, there's plenty more, but I am tired and my mind can't think too hard right now.
2/22/2009 12:00:52 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
yourfriendbob Fayette, OH 63, joined Oct. 2008	Goddess worship... And the occasional steak knife or other sharp object.
2/22/2009 12:15:03 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
blue4u1966 Laurinburg, NC 51, joined Feb. 2009	Thank you all for your input. This is all good advice. I’ve been looking for this book entitled “How to truly understand a woman”. As it turns out, there is no such book ever written…Go figure
2/22/2009 9:21:26 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
lilmissala1957 Hartselle, AL 60, joined Dec. 2008	Personally all I am looking for is someone to respect and love me...a good personality and sense of humor is a big plus!
2/22/2009 9:27:43 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
lauren27 Erie, PA 37, joined Jan. 2008	I am looking for a man who can except me for me, will not lie, cheat and steal, can not only be my lover, but my best friend as well. Someone that I can get along with alone and with a group of people/friends. Family oriented, good comunication, one who can open up and share the feelings/talk about things. An over all - wonderful guy! One that i can miss/think about when I am not with them, one who will make me smile.
2/22/2009 9:29:56 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
plumberman1 Ripley, WV 42, joined Jun. 2008	to bad you dont live closer to me
2/22/2009 9:34:29 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
lauren27 Erie, PA 37, joined Jan. 2008	"to bad you dont live closer to me" from above: That is what I am coming across, possible good men who live too far away
2/22/2009 9:37:11 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
kylady3 Campbellsville, KY 69, joined Dec. 2008	Good Communication Stability in all aspects of life Strength (both physically & mentally) Humor Sensitivity Plus Non judgmental Tolorant HONEST KIND CARING I THINK WE ARE ALL LOOKING FOR THE SAME THINGS IN EACH OTHER ..
2/22/2009 9:40:33 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
lukus40 Spring City, PA 55, joined Oct. 2008	Quote from lauren27: "to bad you dont live closer to me" from above: That is what I am coming across, possible good men who live too far away HEY LAUREN27 THE BEST WAY TO FIND YOUR MATCH IS CARMA... THE MORE YOU LOOK THE LESS YOU WILL FIND ONE!!
2/22/2009 9:42:02 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
countrysweet677 Waverly, NY 57, joined Sep. 2008	a great kisser!!!
2/22/2009 10:02:26 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
wolfi Albuquerque, NM 52, joined Jan. 2008	Redundant topic. 1)Height 2)Looks 3)Money
2/22/2009 10:12:25 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
kimberthee Lake Villa, IL 53, joined Jan. 2009	Once my heart was captured, reason was shown the door, deliberately and with a sort of frantic joy. I accepted everything, I believed everything, without struggle, without suffering, without regret, without false shame. How can one blush for what one adores?
2/22/2009 10:15:30 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
wileyguy Wilkes Barre, PA 46, joined Apr. 2007	Quote from blue4u1966: Many of the ladies I have either talked with or gone out with all seem to have something in common. They all have been either hurt, abused, lied to, cheated on, raped of their pride and dignity and/or have lost possessions due to breakups and divorce. They now seem to have this wall built up around their heart when it comes to getting involved in a relationship with anyone else. Some part of me can surly understand why that may be. After all once you’ve been burnt, you learn to avoid the fire. But it seems that when they do look for a new relationship, they have the tendency to look for what they once had and lost or they have set expectations seemingly too high for the average hard working good guy. There have been lots of guys that have been put through the ringer also and have had to make a new start for themselves. But they seem to be overlooked because they don’t meet the expectations of today’s heart broken women. So I guess what I would like to know is what are ladies looking for in a man? i find the same myself for the first part.of course id have to agree.who wants to go thru the same again??? for the second part......they usually remember the bad moreson than the good.other than that i dont think many know what they want....or when they find it they get cold feet and find a reason to sabotage it.
2/22/2009 10:20:17 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
coolgirl8967 Katy, TX 33, joined Mar. 2008	honest, not lie, not cheat, not mean, have good personality, caring, like help others, not used drugs, cute or handsome, cool guy, friendly, respect, not rude either,
2/22/2009 12:01:27 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
wileyguy Wilkes Barre, PA 46, joined Apr. 2007	Quote from coolgirl8967: honest, not lie, not cheat, not mean, have good personality, caring, like help others, not used drugs, cute or handsome, cool guy, friendly, respect, not rude either, ya right.i had that in my profile and nothin
2/22/2009 12:49:42 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
rome619 Ridgeland, SC 45, joined Feb. 2009	well im looking for the opposite of my ex, i need a man that doesnt live with his mother, has a job and can take care of himself. Im tired of men who want to live off a woman, expect her to do everything-cook, clean and satisfy him in bed. well for me, if you can't satisfy me in the bedroom there is no relationship and that was the problem with my marriage. he would please himself and leave me hanging,so i stop doing anything for him-and i do mean anything-i didnt even cook for his a** no more. a man also needs to be honest, someone that a woman can trust and vise versa. you dont want to be in a relationship and you can't trust a person. i like men that don't have a problem because i can do something better than they can or make more money than they do. someone passionate and loving, believes in me and himself, strong and once again can take control in the bedroom. IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE ME IN THE BEDROOM, THEN YOU CAN'T HANDLE ME OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM
2/22/2009 2:03:48 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
blue4u1966 Laurinburg, NC 51, joined Feb. 2009	Quote from kimberthee: Once my heart was captured, reason was shown the door, deliberately and with a sort of frantic joy. I accepted everything, I believed everything, without struggle, without suffering, without regret, without false shame. How can one blush for what one adores? WOW! to kimberthee: Thats a pretty deep thought.
2/22/2009 2:08:11 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
ilvstlrs2 New Church, VA 46, joined Feb. 2009	I'm looking for someone with the ability to open a pickle jar and squash spiders.
2/22/2009 2:24:38 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
crank10 Toms River, NJ 40, joined Oct. 2007	someone who know not to argue with any female-or says ok then we will agree to disagree.tuck yo tail and scoot out a there
2/22/2009 2:26:58 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
liners74 Brunswick, OH 47, joined Feb. 2009	Quote from ilvstlrs2: I'm looking for someone with the ability to open a pickle jar and squash spiders. Thats me, I am there. Your search is over. I am 9 hours 5 mins and 522 miles away, but that is me. Wait, how big is the pickle jar?
2/22/2009 2:48:07 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
blue4u1966 Laurinburg, NC 51, joined Feb. 2009	So what I’m hearing is women want a man that is… honest, caring, loving, respectful, good looking, has a job, stability, trusting, dependable, drug free, have some sense of pride and integrity for himself, good communication skills, be sensitive, have understanding, be faithful, have a sense of humor, be family oriented, be clever, a good lover and kisser, good in bed, smart, non judgmental, have strength (both physically & mentally), share core values, carry a sharp knife, and have the ability to open a pickle jar and squash spiders. OH MY!!
2/22/2009 2:55:50 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
chefgirl36 Palm Beach, FL 45, joined Feb. 2009	Quote from sweetiepielove: Good Communication Stability in all aspects of life Strength (both physically & mentally) Humor Sensitivity These are just a few things, there's plenty more, but I am tired and my mind can't think too hard right now. I agree
2/22/2009 3:29:21 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
musicdesign Moodus, CT 55, joined Apr. 2007	The previous posters made some very good points. My top three: treat me with honesty, respect and know what the word cherish stands for.
2/22/2009 3:47:27 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
ilvstlrs2 New Church, VA 46, joined Feb. 2009	Quote from liners74: Thats me, I am there. Your search is over. I am 9 hours 5 mins and 522 miles away, but that is me. Wait, how big is the pickle jar? One of those great big economy sized jars, like you get at Sam's Club. I'm far too fragile and delicate to do it myself. Added...Oh, yeah. Gotta be able to kill wasps, too. [Edited 2/22/2009 3:48:16 PM ]
2/22/2009 6:24:02 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
baz0987 Maple Shade, NJ 54, joined Nov. 2008	Quote from lauren27: I am looking for a man who can except me for me, will not lie, cheat and steal, can not only be my lover, but my best friend as well. Someone that I can get along with alone and with a group of people/friends. Family oriented, good comunication, one who can open up and share the feelings/talk about things. An over all - wonderful guy! One that i can miss/think about when I am not with them, one who will make me smile. Lauren27 that is good can I use it on my profile? But not looking for a man. [Edited 2/22/2009 6:25:38 PM ]
2/22/2009 7:29:42 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
sleey Beaumont, CA 53, joined Feb. 2009	I am looking for a mam who can except me for me phsically and mentally good communication stability in Life lisa
2/22/2009 7:43:09 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
blue4u1966 Laurinburg, NC 51, joined Feb. 2009	Quote from ilvstlrs2: One of those great big economy sized jars, like you get at Sam's Club. I'm far too fragile and delicate to do it myself. Added...Oh, yeah. Gotta be able to kill wasps, too. See guys, I thought I had it all summed up earlier, but no. Just like a woman, she has to add something in at the very last moment…. LOL
2/22/2009 9:29:55 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
kimberthee Lake Villa, IL 53, joined Jan. 2009	Quote from blue4u1966: WOW! to kimberthee: Thats a pretty deep thought. Not mine. Written by George Sand, who is really a woman. I love this quote. Thanks !
2/22/2009 9:58:44 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
mariner67 Birmingham, AL 49, joined Feb. 2009	The majority of women are looking for a man that makes over $100,000 dollars a year, can cook, clean the house, and take care of the kids while they go out and party. See, religion and the movement for womens rights has twisted the roles around. "(Snap snap snap)" goes their fingers. Uh-uhhh. I don't have to do nothing in a marriage cause I have rights. Call a man up to fight for his country and he will go. Call a man up to fight for his kids and he will. Call a man up to repair a car or help out someone that cannot, and he will. A MAN, not some of these pus-BOYS that are on the internet now-a-days. These days, most women figure all they have to do is have sex once in a while with their husbands, and that completes the agreement of marriage. Hence the divorce rate. Hell, I am forty years old and I have yet to meet a woman my age that even knows how to cook! Face it guys, if you are in your forties, you might as well forget about a woman. Love is only for the young at heart now. Those young people that for GOD's sake have been brought up right, and know right from wrong. Between the lesbians, the womens libbers, the holier than thou chicks, and the man-haters, I don't see how any of us older guys have any chance at all. You are better of finding a good dog, a good gun, and volunteering to be a Big Brother to a child that has no one, than you are to find a woman. Take the child hunting or fishing, or whatever. You will get more personal satisfaction out of that, then you will dating these prema-donnas. They are all "special" now. They are all like European Cars. Fun to look at, fun to drive ONCE. But when they "break", it'll cost you more to "fix" them than it will to let them go. They wanted it this way, and now they have it. If I knew then what I know now, I would have adopted three kids and never married at all.
2/22/2009 9:59:47 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
lifesajourney66 Frisco, TX 51, joined Jan. 2009	When it comes down to it I think we're all looking for the same thing...someone that loves us unconditionally for who we are. A person accepts us with all our imperfections and flaws. I don't think it's impossible to find, although it takes time to find. The journey may be a long and difficult one, but in the end it will be worth it. The important thing is that you can’t loose faith and you can’t give up…their out there.
2/22/2009 10:23:20 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
tjones23 Jacksonville, FL 39, joined Jan. 2009	Quote from sweetiepielove: Good Communication Stability in all aspects of life Strength (both physically & mentally) Humor Sensitivity These are just a few things, there's plenty more, but I am tired and my mind can't think too hard right now. Again, guess I screw'd cause I don't match the list perfectly. Who wants to build anything together anymore?
2/22/2009 10:31:38 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
chookah19 Fayetteville, NC 33, joined Jan. 2009	you know i read everyting that these women write, and ummm, not to toot my own horn, but i have ALOT of characteristics they crave, especially a sense of humor, and yet because im military in a military town, i get no love. hmmmmmm
2/23/2009 1:03:49 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
justmysay1 Wichita, KS 47, joined Jan. 2009	I personally look for someone who is positive, faithful, supportive, honest, loving, respectful... I understand you can read this in the profiles and get duked but don't let your heart get attached right away and go with your gut... listen to how they say something not always what they say.. I'm sure others as well as myself have gotten fed a load by one or more ppl on these sites so of course were going to be wary... As for me I just learn from the experience and move on for others it's just not so easy... Getting a little wiser... that i am.... Good Luck...
2/23/2009 2:58:24 AM	What are women looking for in a man?
charismafairy Red Deer, AB 51, joined Jun. 2008	Handy around the house - mechanically inclined. Strong Fun and Playful Protective Supportive Motivated A good conversationalist A thinker Chemistry Confidence and Bold Honest Has his own interests Has actual friends Kind to women and children Cares about his hygiene Not too messy Common interests but his own interests Not clingy Likes his job and it covers his necessities Gets a long fairly decently with his family and people at work Active Manners Respects others
2/23/2009 8:47:39 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
blue4u1966 Laurinburg, NC 51, joined Feb. 2009	FOOD FOR THOUGHT: Years ago all it took was love to bond a relationship together. Now during this day and age love alone is not enough. Women expect more from their companions than love. Today we guys have to be able to exceed all expecting and un-expecting needs of today’s woman. But we mustn’t forget, for a relationship to flourish and grow, it takes two. All of us on here at some point in time have been hurt by someone we loved so dearly, either mentally, physically or both. The emotional impact and trauma of the pain and suffering endured by this has left its evidence behind. This in return has caused us to guard our most precious possession, our heart. This is when walls are put in place as safe guards. It’s sad that for those of us who are looking for that special someone, to love and share a life time together with, have to deal with these relentless barriers. We must learn to be patient, caring, understanding and loving beyond all measures, in hope to someday break down all the obstacles in place. Thanks for all your help in the quest of “What are women looking for in a man?
2/23/2009 11:29:52 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
ladyweb35 Lubbock, TX 44, joined Jan. 2009	What I am looking for in a man is a friend, lover, and role model for my son. I will not accept cheating, free loader, or any man that does not treat me with respect. I will be there for him and he must be there for me and my son.
2/23/2009 11:33:19 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
josh_p Los Angeles, CA 31, joined May. 2008	A man that wears a cowboy hat?
2/23/2009 11:37:03 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
sweetlymystic2 Oakwood, GA 45, joined Nov. 2008	i just need someone that can handle me and accpet my independence and i'll do the same ...and god please lose the insecurities and jealousy
2/24/2009 11:15:36 PM	What are women looking for in a man?
jasmi Latrobe, PA 60, joined Jun. 2008	Just a decent guy who is honest, caring, compassionate and passionate, with a good sense of humor. Is that so much to ask for?

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