11/2/2007 4:11:35 PM |
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superscreename
Suffolk, VA
age: 30
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So do you think you will know the one is the one? I mean how long do you think it takes to know a person to realize that they are it? Love at first sight is BS in my opinion. And love at first sight of their picture is even more ridiculous of a thought. Do you have a checklist of things that have got to meet up and a list of things that are definate deal breakers? What if they are great on most points but pretty far off base in other areas? How do others decide to continue after meeting people? Just curious......
And please be serious and honest, thank you.
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11/2/2007 4:16:03 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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It's one of those questions that there is no conrete answer to. I think for most of us.. we will just know. It's a heart and soul kind of knowing that may not be logical.. but just is.
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11/2/2007 4:17:24 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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A picture is probably not enough.
It's the talking and reading the time we spent , the outings the love making the sights we have seen the words we have said.
"The One" can be found in many ways , i believe technology helps to bring us closer together and the possibilities to find "The One" would increase considerably.
Sometimes the one can be found with just a wink on a website.

The day hope dies.
Life will not worth living.
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11/2/2007 4:20:44 PM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
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Youse probably wants a broad's opinion but w/divorce rate chances aren't good of ever findin' da 1. Run w/what ya brung, give it hell, catch hell n maybe ya hang in there becomin' 1 of the lucky 1's. 'Bout the same odds as rollin' ya point 12 x's in a row on da crap table. Most folks knees will get weak n throw in the towel B4 they get that far. Good Luck...
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11/2/2007 4:21:23 PM |
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ldt
Houma, LA
age: 41 online now!
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well said sweety!!
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11/2/2007 4:22:12 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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11/2/2007 4:24:05 PM |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39
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Two years ago....just before Christmas.....My Boy passed away (my dog....duh)...I was sad and very lonely....I went to the pound and looked at all the animals and with just a look in hopeless eyes....I found "the One".....Chatka and I are very happy to have each other.....But, she was driving me nuts wanting to play...So I got another "One"....Black Betty...... together we are happy....
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11/2/2007 4:24:18 PM |
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superscreename
Suffolk, VA
age: 30
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I agree with that Tru, I just wonder sometimes if that feeling or knowing really exists.
Nick, you have a horrible outlook. Not to offend you, but if I was that hopeless I would just give up.
[Edited 11/2/2007 4:26:58 PM]
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11/2/2007 4:36:52 PM |
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patama5
Bois des Filion, QC
age: 42
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I don't think finding the one!!! just cuts it and garanties ever after, as I think people grow and advance and some degress in a relationship.I don't think that it's never a set deal as i think that both parties must work at making it work if they both think that there are compatibility in many sphere .
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11/2/2007 4:47:24 PM |
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ranchgirl892
Fresno, CA
age: 47
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Superscreen wrote:
So do you think you will know the one is the one? I mean how long do you think it takes to know a person to realize that they are it? Love at first sight is BS in my opinion. And love at first sight of their picture is even more ridiculous of a thought. Do you have a checklist of things that have got to meet up and a list of things that are definate deal breakers? What if they are great on most points but pretty far off base in other areas? How do others decide to continue after meeting people? Just curious......
I think it is possible to meet the "one". How long does it take to know that person is the one? I think that depends on how much time you spend together and doing different activities together, hanging out with friends together ect.
I don't believe in "love" at first sight..maybe "Lust" at first sight.
I do have a little checklist: No minor children, drugs, drunks, heavy smokers, liars,
lazy dudes ect. I don't like guys that cuss all the time either. They must be a "one woman" man. No players.
He must love animals and nature. He should like motorcycles, guns, gardening and photography.
If I meet someone and they are funny and we talk and talk, I will go for another date.
ok.. that's all for now
Ranchy
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11/2/2007 5:17:23 PM |
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superscreename
Suffolk, VA
age: 30
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Thanks for the responses. I guess mainly what i am getting at is wondering if it really is a feeling or if it is more of a decision that you make. DO you think you are overtaken by feelings and emotion or do you decide that this is the person I am gonna work at being with?
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11/2/2007 5:23:29 PM |
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stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41
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good point super
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11/2/2007 5:36:27 PM |
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nicksterdemus
Little Rock, AR
age: 50
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Not a problem. No offense in the least. I place the odds high of finding the one. A lot of folks thought they found the one only to realize later they had only come close. Then you have to factor in the people that stayed together for the kids, convenience, whatever but aren't happy so they didn't end up with the one. It's not impossible but, I feel you do yourself a disservice by expecting too much in the way of luck, divine intervention or whatever factor in achieving your goal. Even with the deck stacked against you and knowing this full well, you have to apply yourself under the assumption that you have found that special lady. Every time a relationship goes sour you have to start all over with the same zeal and belief. To add insult to injury you really have no control on how another person is going to evolve, change or mature with or without you. I'm an optimist that understands the casualties will be great yet some will survive. Just my opinion, nothing more and nothing less.
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11/2/2007 5:41:17 PM |
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superscreename
Suffolk, VA
age: 30
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Good points Nick, I am a realist as well. I know the variables and factors seem to be stacked against it these days, but I am hopeful. But being still single and never married at thirty I am fully aware of the diffuculties involved in trying to find the girl for me.
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11/2/2007 5:46:18 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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Don't put so much logic into all this. I firmly believe that not everything is logical.. sometimes, it just is! Don't over-analyze.. it is a killer!
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