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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
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| 1. Yes |
| 2. No |
| 3. Sometimes |
| 4. Depends on the date |
I was talking with my friend today and we were having one of those
get real conversations.
I confessed a habit of mine. I always masturbate BEFORE a date.
I do so as a way to make sure I have enough will power to avoid
being weak in the moment when you first meet a man or are just
beginning to know him and you don't want your hungry kitty taking over.
Guys no voting in this poll please. I'd just like to hear from the
women on this.
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| 3/3/2009 2:11:57 AM |
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1goodguy1
Denville, NJ
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i masterbate when i read this stuff about girls!!!
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| 3/3/2009 2:15:10 AM |
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starcable
Orlando, FL
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just as a funny comment. hopefully you don't go on a date with someone who has a account on here or they will know what your doing before they pick you up  
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| 3/3/2009 2:20:26 AM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
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just thinking about it, keeps me up
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waitn4mrright
Fort Wayne, IN
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Never thought about masturbating before a date. I WILL NOW  
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| 3/3/2009 8:44:33 AM |
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chefgirl36
Palm Beach, FL
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But thats a great idea...
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| 3/3/2009 10:23:07 AM |
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simplyhim4u
Brandon, FL
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see now if you date a guy from this web site he's gunna show up an hour early just to see what your up to or should i say how far along you've gotten? .....LOL It seems like a great idea but these are the kinda things you should keep under wraps should have titled this one " I went shopping for a handbag" no guy would have even looked at it ... well no straight guy at least ......
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| 3/3/2009 10:32:51 AM |
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macjim
Colorado Springs, CO
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I used to masturbate before a date so I wouldn't cum too quickly later.
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| 3/3/2009 11:25:19 AM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
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Funny ideas guys. I'm not afraid for a man to know my truth.
At least he knows that I'm not turning his advances down
for the wrong reasons...it's just my way of maintaining self
control until we both know for sure that we really like each other.
Honestly if I can have a man on the first date, I confess I apply
those old not nice standards....he's easy and easy men in bed bore
the hell out of me. Means any woman can have him.
I do want a man like me. If he is able to remain a gent during our
date without pawing all over me (first or second date), I know then for sure he's got self
control and to me that is a HUGE turn on.
I also learned that it helped me feel more relaxed during the date.
My mind is not so busy on worrying about sex stuff and I feel more
confidant looking him in the eyes.
You know women in their prime don't have it easy, think back to when you men
had your battles with raging desire and still wanting to be responsible.
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| 3/3/2009 11:32:06 AM |
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bry11ca
Irving, TX
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No wonder I never get laid. 
<<< Never showers before a date . . . don;t want to wash off them pheromones.  
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jdgshines
Middleboro, MA
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Now that might hold me off for a few minutes. Really!!!!!!!!! And I wonder why I don't come to this catg. much. Wouldn't want to reveal too much too soon. Keep it a mystery.
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| 3/3/2009 12:14:38 PM |
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beverduster
La Feria, TX
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to make sure its in good working order
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| 3/3/2009 12:15:58 PM |
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msbevzie
Oregon, OH
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NO and NO again I can control myself no matter what HE might be trying to get...BUT afterwards
OH dang what was I doing though as I layed there looking at HIS picture before that date
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stlstella
Saint Louis, MO
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Never have...
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| 3/3/2009 12:55:51 PM |
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lukus41
Spring City, PA
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its funny on here and other posts you women just bury your self of all the dumb and stupid crap that you do!!! it a wonder why men have a hard time getting laid any more.. i don"t get it?????
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| 3/3/2009 1:25:02 PM |
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leftyl8
Waverly, NY
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im gonna make sure im really early picking up my date from now on.
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| 3/3/2009 2:10:11 PM |
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wantsaman
Bakersfield, CA
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I have never done that before a date, and maybe that is my problem lol maybe i should
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| 3/3/2009 2:10:29 PM |
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gr8ful2b
Henderson, NV
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<---SEES THE WRITING ON THE WALL
All this truly tells me is that after one orgasm you're done... most of the women I know and/or have been with view that first orgasm as the popping of the cork, the bottle is still full and bubbling over dying to come out.
I'd think that rubbing one out would only make you more inclined to want another and in essence would increase the likelyhood of seeing you naked before the night is done.
Besides, why attempt to curb or control your sexuality or desires? What, now that you want me you're going to make me undergo a series of tests and challenges to have you?
That's not romance, that's a game.
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| 3/3/2009 2:37:05 PM |
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grammyd
Saddle Brook, NJ
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That doesn't kill my sex drive, if anything, to be honest, it just gets me hornier.
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| 3/3/2009 2:51:43 PM |
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edgeofsandias
Placitas, NM
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<---SEES THE WRITING ON THE WALL
I'd think that rubbing one out would only make you more inclined to want another and in essence would increase the likelyhood of seeing you naked before the night is done.
I agree with the above. One just gets me started.
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| 3/3/2009 3:15:00 PM |
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fectual
Brockport, NY
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I clean the 'pipes' so I can concentrate specifically on the date, not how bad i want to f**k her...
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irishman01
Cockeysville, MD
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lakc
Batam
Indonesia
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That doesn't kill my sex drive, if anything, to be honest, it just gets me hornier.
I agree! If I did that I would be asking for MORE! Never before.....but sometimes after!
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| 3/3/2009 4:09:45 PM |
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marqeye
Kent, OH
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Yea I do to just so I last real long! 
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| 3/3/2009 4:45:28 PM |
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cedes1290
Chicago, IL
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It helps a lot!!!
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| 3/3/2009 5:34:45 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
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You guys crack me up!
Who say's a woman just has one orgasm when she
pleases herself?
Taking care of yourself before a first date is not a game.
It's a game when you're in a RELATIONSHIP and then instead of
having sex with him you'd rather masturbate than be with him.
Or it's a game if I were to sit and paw at him all night and
tease him like crazy during the date and then say...
Oh I don't have sex on a first date.
That's not what I do. I spend the date trying to really get know
him as a person. I don't even bring sex up on that first date.
Still some of you men are charming and yes there is chemistry there.
So you like to take your time without jumping his bones and treating him
like a piece of meet.
As much as you guys admit to wanting sex, I know some of you really
would like a woman who wants all of you and just use you for sex and
toss you away. I like to think of you as a whole package that has
feelings. 
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| 3/3/2009 5:37:29 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
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I suddenly have an urge to sculpt. Would you mind moving toward the light
while I grab a block of clay.
Now just hold that pose....
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| 3/3/2009 5:44:51 PM |
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ryn1
Cobourg, ON
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Given that women have an equivalent of SBU's, it's a great idea ..allows you to focus on the WHOLE fella during the date and not just one part.
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| 3/3/2009 5:44:52 PM |
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fballcoach
Springfield, TN
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Damn..you have messed it up for all of us now..THANKS...
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| 3/3/2009 7:41:35 PM |
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grammyd
Saddle Brook, NJ
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I agree! If I did that I would be asking for MORE! Never before.....but sometimes after!
Ain't that the truth.
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| 3/4/2009 8:02:21 PM |
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lukus41
Spring City, PA
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All this truly tells me is that after one orgasm you're done... most of the women I know and/or have been with view that first orgasm as the popping of the cork, the bottle is still full and bubbling over dying to come out.
I'd think that rubbing one out would only make you more inclined to want another and in essence would increase the likelyhood of seeing you naked before the night is done.
Besides, why attempt to curb or control your sexuality or desires? What, now that you want me you're going to make me undergo a series of tests and challenges to have you?
That's not romance, that's a game.
3/3/2009 12:37:05 PM Women, do you masturbate before a date? well said. women are just stupid!! it would be nice to get these over seas women over and put these women in there place!!!!!
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| 3/4/2009 9:39:37 PM |
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randomgirl1988
Wichita, KS
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If i think im going to be tempted then i do... The only prob is it doesnt always work so easy for me to get off... so then i may just make myself hornier... 
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| 3/4/2009 9:44:19 PM |
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randomgirl1988
Wichita, KS
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<---SEES THE WRITING ON THE WALL
All this truly tells me is that after one orgasm you're done... most of the women I know and/or have been with view that first orgasm as the popping of the cork, the bottle is still full and bubbling over dying to come out.
I'd think that rubbing one out would only make you more inclined to want another and in essence would increase the likelyhood of seeing you naked before the night is done.
Besides, why attempt to curb or control your sexuality or desires? What, now that you want me you're going to make me undergo a series of tests and challenges to have you?
That's not romance, that's a game.
Because... sex on the first date can mean that the guy is only looking for one thing... By making sure your not tempted and dont have sex on the first date.. .they guy may just move on... no harm no foul. But if you have sex then you feel used.
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| 3/7/2009 1:48:00 PM |
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_messiah_
Las Vegas, NV
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i masterbate before everything
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| 3/7/2009 8:50:54 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
Monroe, WA
55, joined Nov. 2007
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Are you so weak as to not be able to rebuff a man's advances even if you're aroused?
I've had dates with women that I'd be inclined to have sex with, eventually, but not at the time, who were, er, "eager".
If they can't wait, and won't accept my "not yet", for an answer in good stride, they are not a partner for me.
That said, there have been times when I have helped "relieve" women that find themselves in such dire straits after simple kissing, but not using any "loaded" equipment of mine. Even then, it does not leave a positive impression on me.
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| 3/7/2009 9:03:34 PM |
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txbelle11
Houston, TX
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I completely agree!!!
<---SEES THE WRITING ON THE WALL
All this truly tells me is that after one orgasm you're done... most of the women I know and/or have been with view that first orgasm as the popping of the cork, the bottle is still full and bubbling over dying to come out.
I'd think that rubbing one out would only make you more inclined to want another and in essence would increase the likelyhood of seeing you naked before the night is done.
Besides, why attempt to curb or control your sexuality or desires? What, now that you want me you're going to make me undergo a series of tests and challenges to have you?
That's not romance, that's a game.
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| 3/7/2009 9:37:20 PM |
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pattyskyy
Kennewick, WA
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No. But whatever happens on the date good or bad us women are always prepared.
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| 3/7/2009 9:46:58 PM |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
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This is actually the smartest idea I have ever heard. wow because I worry about crap like that. I am very serious about keeping chaste at this time in my life. I don't want to be the mom that sleeps around etc. I have one grown son and one teen son that I expect to be chaste tell marriage. I believe that if I expect something from them I better damn well be able to do it myself. I have avoided dating during certain times of the month because I am worried I would give in but I think this just may be the solution. I could hug you. lol
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tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
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I masturbate whenever I feel the need, before or after a date! Oh what's a date? So I guess I don't
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| 3/8/2009 6:06:59 AM |
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mtnduchess
Laurel, MS
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All this truly tells me is that after one orgasm you're done... most of the women I know and/or have been with view that first orgasm as the popping of the cork, the bottle is still full and bubbling over dying to come out.
I'd think that rubbing one out would only make you more inclined to want another and in essence would increase the likelyhood of seeing you naked before the night is done.
Besides, why attempt to curb or control your sexuality or desires? What, now that you want me you're going to make me undergo a series of tests and challenges to have you?
That's not romance, that's a game.
3/3/2009 12:37:05 PM Women, do you masturbate before a date? well said. women are just stupid!! it would be nice to get these over seas women over and put these women in there place!!!!!
For a women response only thread, it is quite rewarding to see how many men have found their feminine side. And to actually want us in their place! Makes us feel so completely confident in our prior choices in life, and helps us to understand the choices that we will make in the future. Lukus, thank you so much for responding, it is like a breath of fresh air to hear what men really think.
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| 3/8/2009 7:19:42 AM |
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tjer1l
Jacksonville Beach, FL
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Because... sex on the first date can mean that the guy is only looking for one thing... By making sure your not tempted and dont have sex on the first date.. .they guy may just move on... no harm no foul. But if you have sex then you feel used.
have you ever felt like just using the guy for sex? it is a 2 way street.
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| 3/8/2009 7:44:03 AM |
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luella2u
Woodinville, WA
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NO! Would probably just prime the pump, so to speak. Truthfully, if I thought that I was going to have a hard time (no pun intended) resisting on a first date, I'd see where the chemistry took us and go from there. Nothing wrong with making a strong physical/sexual connection, just use protection. I tend to enjoy the build up of sexual tention before acting upon it. To masturbate before would defeat the whole process.
OMG, I don't believe that I'm actually posting this.
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| 3/8/2009 9:32:09 AM |
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rmep
Palmer, MA
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i masterbate before everything
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| 3/8/2009 9:41:36 AM |
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plumbarius
New York, NY
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I prefer to masturbate during the date
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| 3/8/2009 3:59:01 PM |
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howardc42
Greeley, CO
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<---Must SMELL LIKE SEX BEFORE THE DATE STARTS--->
If I was to jack off before going on a date,I have to shower before meeting her.Plus it would mean that it would want me to crave having sex more often.Plus the main reason why I don't jack off before a date is,because I want to treat my date like a lady,not a slut.
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| 3/8/2009 4:32:07 PM |
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irishlasey31
Berwyn, IL
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iu do it all the time being on a date before a date or after a date if im feeling like it i do it
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| 3/8/2009 5:17:58 PM |
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lsl2
Anderson, SC
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i guess i need to comment on this one too. no, why would i want to set myself up to want the real thing and then have to be a good girl and deny myself. no, i don't. if it floats your boat have it. everyone jingles to a different tune.
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sandra49ok
Shelton, WA
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i have never thought about it gee thanks maybe i will now
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| 3/8/2009 8:57:36 PM |
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doublesaint
Altoona, PA
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have you ever felt like just using the guy for sex? it is a 2 way street.
I am always proud to have sex on a two way street...hell a three or four or more street would be great, too...
 
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| 3/9/2009 2:04:59 PM |
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princeromance
Florissant, MO
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I don't think it should be done. Because when you do come to the point of being with the man, it takes the flame away. What could have been a "forest fire" was extinguished and was made into a "burning of a leaf" . The longer you hold it the greater it will become. Just wait and hold the urge behind. Because when it does come to that time you will be filled with the pleasure that makes you feel as if you were placed in heaven. That is one of the reasons I'm waiting till marriage.
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| 3/9/2009 2:46:53 PM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
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NO, I like to look fresh on a date not like I just had sex
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| 3/9/2009 2:48:39 PM |
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ladyog
Erlanger, KY
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I might after the date tho...
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| 3/28/2009 4:53:28 AM |
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gun82
Paris, TX
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wow that woman said before everything does that even count dinner? aint that dessert before dinner?
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| 3/28/2009 5:57:23 AM |
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vampyric_love
Mount Gilead, OH
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never
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| 3/28/2009 6:34:18 AM |
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leftyl8
Waverly, NY
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NO, I like to look fresh on a date not like I just had sex
thats the hottest look in the world....reeeooowwww
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| 3/28/2009 7:25:44 AM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
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If he's seriously sexy...yes, just so I can control myself a little better.
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| 3/29/2009 1:00:50 PM |
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uglybeast
Spokane, WA
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Them poor nyphos would never go on a date.
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| 3/29/2009 1:13:54 PM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
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uglybeast, them poor nymphos just might date a mite more than ya think!
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| 3/29/2009 1:37:34 PM |
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garyguitar
Franklin, NJ
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NO, I like to look fresh on a date not like I just had sex
Barbaraajo,
This is why I'm in love with you from afar. You've got such class (and a killer bod).
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| 3/29/2009 3:24:00 PM |
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ladyog
Erlanger, KY
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I don't think we are like men and need to take one out of the chamber....
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