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3n1wbgirl
Cameron, LA
53, joined May. 2011
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No!!
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deepchocolate31
Detroit, MI
46, joined May. 2012
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No, never... I will be faithful but wont remarry.
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miss_skyheart
Bourbonnais, IL
36, joined Mar. 2014
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I really don't think I will!
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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Nope. I got married once, and that was enough. I got most of the assets in the divorce, and I'm not taking the chance of being lucky the second time around.
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efb1982
Port Orchard, WA
35, joined Nov. 2013
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I absolutely will....just with the right person this time...
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jameel68
Des Plaines, IL
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What's the reason to remarry? Been married twice, first wife cheated and second wife was jealous, insecure and controlling.
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bella19732
Chicago, IL
43, joined Dec. 2012
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I might....hopefully I'd pick a better husband the third time around 
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| 3/22/2014 11:16:27 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
52, joined Mar. 2009
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Only after I had a thorough FBI investigation done on any potential candidate. 
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the_hardworker
Spring, TX
34, joined Mar. 2013
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No desire to remarry
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| 3/22/2014 3:23:52 PM |
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dkelley421
Statesboro, GA
34, joined Nov. 2012
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Hi I'm demario I'm on hee to look for a wood woman to date if theres any woman on heer
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| 3/25/2014 11:10:52 AM |
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kellyb35
Loxahatchee, FL
41, joined Feb. 2011
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No way. I have been there done that. Once was enough. I gave him 10 years and he cheated on me.
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| 3/28/2014 8:37:59 AM |
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talldad53559
Marshall, WI
38, joined May. 2013
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Yes but won't rush into it
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| 4/8/2014 12:48:14 AM |
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countrygirl8909
Portales, NM
28, joined Sep. 2011
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Marriage marriage marriage marriage.... OK now that I've got that out of my system!.. I honestly can't say if I will or I won't. Yea I was burned pretty bad by my ex but not all guys are the same. Right now I'm OK with just being me and hopefully my son soon. I do know that I'm not against marriage whatsoever but I'm not thinking about that right now. I just wanna be happy again.. And I don't need a guy to be happ
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gorf8083
Auburn, KS
40, joined Aug. 2012
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Some wounds run really deep with this one...
I was married for 3 years... Left her because she told me I was nothing but a paycheck to her. Found out she was sleeping with literally 1/2 the city... Found out 3 years later the 6 year old girl I was raising was not my own...
Would I marry again? There would have to be someone pretty special to make me want to go through that again... Marriage is a legal document... You can be committed and happy with someone with out a piece of paper saying you are married.
Just my thoughts...
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larena40
Phoenix, AZ
45, joined Jan. 2014
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Hell no. I should've got married in the first place.
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
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Would you never work again if something bad happened at your job or you got fired?
Would you never eat again if a certain food made you sick or didn't taste good.
Would you never have friends again if one left you for whatever reason?
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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And my 84 year old great aunt got married, and divorced at 87.
I would. but it HAS to be right.
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gorf8083
Auburn, KS
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Would you never work again if something bad happened at your job or you got fired?
This would really depend on the reason I was released from employment. If it was my fault for getting fired then I probably would not be rehire-able. If it was not then I probably would not want to go back to work there because there is no job security.
Would you never eat again if a certain food made you sick or didn't taste good.
If I got sick or did not like the food, then no I probably would not eat there again. Never eating again is fairly broad range for not liking how someone cooked or if their cooking make me sick.
Would you never have friends again if one left you for whatever reason?
There are many acquaintances that I have never spoken to again because of the way they treated me.
These 3 questions are really quite different than the original question as a whole. Its more along the lines of 'Would you remarry your ex?' There is a reason why I left her and it honestly it left a very bad taste in my mouth. Marriage in general I am fairly cynical about right now because of the way I was treated in my marriage. I also work for an event planner at weddings and I have probably been to more weddings than any person would want to go to (I have been to over 350 weddings.) I would say over 50% of those weddings have ended in divorce. I have even seen a wedding get annulled the following Monday because of the way the groom treated the bride at the wedding. It not out of the realms of possibility but its going to take a really special person to make me change my mind of it.
A very good friend of mine put it the best: Insanity is best described by doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome.
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donnie091677
Vicksburg, MS
39, joined Sep. 2012
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He'll to the no
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| 4/16/2014 11:31:27 PM |
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soonergirl84
Yukon, OK
32, joined May. 2012
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I would remarry. But of course this time around I would be more careful as to who I did marry.
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jc1174
Powder Springs, GA
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Without a doubt, yes
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| 5/5/2014 9:14:22 PM |
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owllover3
Newport News, VA
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I would like to think I would marry again but who knows....think I will have to be picky this time around
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lovingonlyyou
Chicago, IL
42, joined Feb. 2009
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Yes I would if the right sweet lady comes into my life! I would love to care for her & treat her like the Queen that she is!
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| 5/7/2014 12:05:54 AM |
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wilhardin
Elkland, MO
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why so late yuckand yetwhy the hell not I went through it 3 times you have to be a hell of a woman's all I got to say yep I thought if I thought it would last I would say yes
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tyler74171
Mauldin, SC
43, joined Jul. 2013
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Nope
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| 5/8/2014 8:36:23 AM |
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whaa_a
Tazewell, TN
45, joined Jan. 2014
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ditto! 
Glad to hear someone else say that! I thought I was the only one. I don't want to say NEVER but.....it's the odds are highly unlikely!
0/100 against!
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tyler74171
Mauldin, SC
43, joined Jul. 2013
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I don't need marriage to feel whole or be committed if I so choose to be.
At 40, I know how to love and maintain love. Marriage is a landmine!
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| 5/8/2014 8:22:19 PM |
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justchkin_12
Springfield, MO
62, joined Jul. 2012
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Yes, If the right person was to come into my life...Miss the companionship.....
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| 5/9/2014 9:43:23 PM |
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zimzane2
High Point, NC
56, joined Jan. 2013
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Hell no. No way.
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| 5/10/2014 11:42:06 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
52, joined Mar. 2009
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Would you get another job if you lost the one you have now or would you say no b/c I got burned on my last one?
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| 5/10/2014 1:50:13 PM |
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larena40
Phoenix, AZ
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I can't say I would.
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| 5/10/2014 6:41:09 PM |
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purplerider1200
South Bend, IN
61, joined Aug. 2011
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Would you never work again if something bad happened at your job or you got fired?
Would you never eat again if a certain food made you sick or didn't taste good.
Would you never have friends again if one left you for whatever reason?
Your comparisons are at at a different level. Marrage isn't survival. As much as some think, you can live without a mate. Many of us have had mates that pushed us to the breaking point. Grief and aggravation from an un-cooperative mate has made us gunshy. In our cases, love didn't hold it together.
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lighthousegal
New Castle, PA
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I would say Yes! I'm kind of old~fashion and I want to be part of a loving, caring, couple who will face the ups and downs on life's path, Together! I'm down-to-earth, loving, fun, like to think I am smart, VERY affectionate and love receiving as much as giving! I want to be with my man every day and thru the nights! I want to welcome him into my arms when he just wants a hug. Corny I know but it's the kind of woman I am. Any corny men out there who feel the same way? Write to me and let's see where things lead...Cindy 
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mudrat63
Farmer, OH
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It would take a woman that is very special for me to marry again. 3 times and out. not sure if i could go thru that again. i lost just about everything on this last one. so I'm not sure
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hakman77
Boynton Beach, FL
39, joined Feb. 2014
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Yes i would. just gonna do my best to not make the same mistakes i made with her. and lay alot of foundation with constructive communication
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| 5/14/2014 10:01:22 PM |
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cosmicgem
Springfield, MO
61, joined Jun. 2011
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It would take a woman that is very special for me to marry again. 3 times and out. not sure if i could go thru that again. i lost just about everything on this last one. so I'm not sure
That's what pre nups are for. 
And I Might if I met my ONE.
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
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My Dear Ms cosmicgem  , 
Don't monkey around with losers & riff-raff..
You have no darn idea bout " your one "....
until you've dated  MEeeee..!!!!!!
  
 >-XoXoXoX-
And ALL my friends....
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ladyt472
Toledo, OH
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Yes I will the right person that is I love the whole thing with marriage but I must say again he must be right he must be sure its what he wants and put in the work that a marriage takes just as I will do he must have and relationship with God its a must because without him it just won't work
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| 5/17/2014 10:07:23 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
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Your comparisons are at at a different level. Marrage isn't survival. As much as some think, you can live without a mate. Many of us have had mates that pushed us to the breaking point. Grief and aggravation from an un-cooperative mate has made us gunshy. In our cases, love didn't hold it together.
You can live w/o friends so you wouldn't ever have friends again? It is the same concept to a degree. Marriage is not about the emotion of love. Love itself won't hold anything together b/c emotions come and go. It is a partnership and a commitment to do the work to maintain the marriage so that the love doesn't fade. It's too easy for people to give up and divorce because we live in a society that wants instant gratification and the first time things don't go the way we think it should or there is an argument people bail.
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tyler74171
Mauldin, SC
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You can live w/o friends so you wouldn't ever have friends again? It is the same concept to a degree. Marriage is not about the emotion of love. Love itself won't hold anything together b/c emotions come and go. It is a partnership and a commitment to do the work to maintain the marriage so that the love doesn't fade. It's too easy for people to give up and divorce because we live in a society that wants instant gratification and the first time things don't go the way we think it should or there is an argument people bail.
People are ever evolving as individuals, this I guarantee. The trick to any relationship is balancing the individuals desire to that of the needs demanded in a relationship. Compromise while maintaining autonomy! The value of individual has never been stronger with equality for both sexes ever becoming common. Relationship seem like appetizers to life's main course. Sustainable relationships often find compatability in both areas while divorce and break ups are unable to at some subjective breaking point level. Remarriage for me is not possible because my needs as an individual are stronger within me at this time.
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| 5/17/2014 8:12:28 PM |
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jrbogie1949
Ventura, CA
68, joined Mar. 2009
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marriage isn't for me but i do thing gay folks should be able to marry. they have a right to go through the same misery the rest of us went through. 
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| 5/17/2014 8:55:31 PM |
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newlady2
Goldsboro, NC
78, joined Apr. 2008
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Gee thanks Pal Jr *L
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| 5/17/2014 9:57:43 PM |
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bier95
Clara City, MN
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I'm to young to get married
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| 5/17/2014 10:14:02 PM |
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whaa_a
Tazewell, TN
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People are ever evolving as individuals, this I guarantee. The trick to any relationship is balancing the individuals desire to that of the needs demanded in a relationship. Compromise while maintaining autonomy! The value of individual has never been stronger with equality for both sexes ever becoming common. Relationship seem like appetizers to life's main course. Sustainable relationships often find compatability in both areas while divorce and break ups are unable to at some subjective breaking point level. Remarriage for me is not possible because my needs as an individual are stronger within me at this time.
 well said.
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ricjam
Indianapolis, IN
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I can't say I would n ican't i would not
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| 5/19/2014 4:08:18 AM |
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come2lee
Sterling Heights, MI
57, joined Mar. 2012
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Yes
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| 5/20/2014 8:43:06 PM |
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brendaw1965
Darlington, SC
52, joined Apr. 2014
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I would, if i could find the rught man.
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| 5/22/2014 12:50:28 AM |
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american_ghost
Chicago, IL
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i think marriage is the stupidest, dumbest )*_)U{UJ*(U)U(*Y)*TIUJIOIOPKDFIOPiofaiptjfiopejjsg
thing on wheels.
not only will i not remarry. i will dedicate the rest of my life to fighting marriage and a couple of my other causes.
marriage IS A CONTRACT with the LAW.
and later when it is too late the LAW will be used against you (that is if you're not MURDERED in the process first.)
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| 7/1/2014 7:05:55 PM |
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roses_tulips
San Antonio, TX
50, joined Jun. 2014
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If I found the right man for me
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| 7/2/2014 3:28:33 PM |
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krys101215
Baltimore, MD
34, joined Jun. 2014
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Im not sure just yet. I still have to file for divorce. Im trying to get out of an abusive marriage. Im more worried about fixing my life and caing for my kids before I think about a new relationship. But that doesn't mean that I dont want to meet new people and make friends. Im definitely going to put more thought into it if some asks me to marry them I wont jump the gun this time around.
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| 7/2/2014 3:33:15 PM |
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gnaz
Mesa, AZ
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I'd remarry, or maybe we'd just live together in a committed common law relationship. I'm not bitter about my marriage. Different man could produce different results.
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purplekarebear
Lebanon, PA
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I definitely would remarry if that one special person came into my life,but wouldnt want to rush into it! I think it would be kinda nice to have a somewhat old fashioned type courtship...like we did in the good old days where you really did go out on dates,wanted to take the time and enjoyed getting to know one another.You know,went for those lonh,romantic hand-held moonlit walks,people actually talked to each other face to face,did fun,simple things like miniature golf,bowling...what happened to all the fun of dating? Are we really getting too old to take our time and have fun? Any thoughts?
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| 7/2/2014 4:50:03 PM |
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purplekarebear
Lebanon, PA
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I totally agree tru...its very sad...think about it....years ago you didnt hear about divorce as much as you do now....they say Married couples are a dying breed...especially now..
people are either just dating each other...keeping their own homes for security,or to pass on to their kids later,or just plain living together w/ committment but not in the matrimonial sense of the word!
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| 7/2/2014 8:52:52 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Yes
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| 7/3/2014 2:55:10 PM |
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blueoblivion
Clearwater, FL
32, joined Jun. 2014
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Sure. If i met someone worth it
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| 7/3/2014 3:03:36 PM |
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rayohope4u
Wilmington, NC
43, joined Jun. 2013
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If it feels right
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| 7/3/2014 9:22:48 PM |
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lashest
Miami, FL
28, joined Dec. 2013
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If the right man comes along yes I would. However, for now I'm just enjoying life.
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| 7/4/2014 1:46:31 PM |
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cupocheer
Assumption, IL
68, joined May. 2010
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Positively
Happy Birthday America
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| 7/5/2014 8:37:58 AM |
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wk1965
Suwanee, GA
51, joined Aug. 2013
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Haven't considered remarrying yet....But if I could find a great lover for a good while...boy oh boy would we enjoy it..
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| 7/5/2014 9:51:49 PM |
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stilalive
Harrisburg, PA
61, joined Jun. 2013
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said i wouldnt after the first , swore i wouldnt after the 2nd , now after the 3rd DIVORCE she better be dam good to me to even think about it . and for once yes a prenup is gonna happen . whats mine now will always be same with yours , anything we get tgeather divide . but first i gotta find somebody to even think about it . at this stage of the game its just paper anyway . stay cause ya want to not have to .
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