| 11/10/2007 5:30:44 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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or has the past ripped apart any healthy ideas you might have had about the M word?
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| 11/10/2007 5:56:22 PM |
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dg1260
Galion, OH
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To be honest, I'm not sure Tru. After the ugliness of the divorce it would take a great deal of trust and a high degree of comfort.
So, would maybe be an answer?
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| 11/10/2007 5:59:43 PM |
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shezakeepher
Columbia, SC
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Yes I would but that doesn't mean I'll rush into it because I do value marriage and I'll make sure it's real.
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| 11/10/2007 6:18:53 PM |
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bookshort
Herrin, IL
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I have thought about this and my main concern, of course, is economical. The government does not encourage older people to remarry. There was an earlier thread about this. I have worked for some older Americans and a few who were living together instead of getting married and that was the main reason, the loss of 1/2 of their income. Times are getting harder, prices are going higher, and as an older American, we have to watch our budgets.
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| 11/11/2007 1:48:13 AM |
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chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
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Yes I would remarry to the right man 
I'm a believer in marriage and love 
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| 11/11/2007 6:56:39 AM |
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waytogo51
Farmington, AR
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Oh yes I would. I do believe very much in marriage.
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| 11/11/2007 2:46:06 PM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
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I tell my self never to say never on this!! But I dought that I would. I to belive in marriage but no longer do I belive the state should be involved at all. It is real doughtfull I would buy a marriage lic. ever again. with the right women I do think their maybe something just as good take place between us?
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| 11/11/2007 2:49:15 PM |
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lostinwyoming
Evanston, WY
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why not,they say the third times a charm.
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| 11/11/2007 2:56:02 PM |
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shezakeepher
Columbia, SC
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 it was for my daughter, a charm on the third time.
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| 11/11/2007 5:56:40 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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Funny.. when I tell people that I have been divorced 16 yrs, they look at me like " Man, what is wrong with you?!" Than I tell them I want to remarry and they look at me like " Man, what is wrong with you?!" I loved being married.. just not to who I was married to. The "M" word seems to be a taboo and I find that sad.
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| 11/11/2007 6:03:18 PM |
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dg1260
Galion, OH
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Ah Tru, there aint nothing wrong with you.
To tell the truth, marriage is wonderful. It worked well for my parents.
Nothing wrong with taking your time, and saying NO if it ain't right. If I can't find someone I can be really comfortable with saying YES to, then I will keep on being me.
Nothing wrong with not settling for less than your ideal.
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| 11/11/2007 6:09:34 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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Well.. I just wasn't ready for it til now is all. Had my sons to raise, a farm to take care of, a business to deal with. Had enough on my plate. Now, I'm ready when the right one comes along. Actually, doesn't feel like I have been divorced that long.
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| 11/11/2007 6:21:47 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
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tru? you asking?
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| 11/11/2007 6:40:24 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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lol knight.. you been drinking I see.. could I take advantage of that?
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| 11/11/2007 7:34:10 PM |
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dg1260
Galion, OH
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Is it taking advantage when there is no objection (and I'm not drunk?)?
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| 11/11/2007 8:18:45 PM |
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nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
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I understand the ecconomic impact and penalties with social security. But
for some who are in their fifties, there is the health insurance issue, and
benefits that employers only offer to married spouses.
As for me I understand that living together common law...can be the same as
marriage...but for some reason, it would feel like it was a temporary arrangement.
Yes I know..a marriage does not guarantee forever...but it would make me
feel like I belong to and with the other person.
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| 11/12/2007 3:38:49 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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I don't think they have common law marriages anymore do they? I am sure it isn't legal in Indiana and hasn't been for many years and not sure about Tennessee
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| 11/12/2007 11:59:39 PM |
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fab4bird
North Augusta, SC
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If I did consider marriage again, we would have to live together for a period of time first. My ex and I dated exclusively for a year before we said "I Do" and I was fooled into believing I knew who he was. But I didn't. Afer all...it's a lot easier to 'get into' than it is 'to get out of'. 
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| 11/13/2007 11:20:09 AM |
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dg1260
Galion, OH
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Amen Fab.
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| 11/13/2007 4:56:20 PM |
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bookshort
Herrin, IL
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Nonickname, a lot of employers are now offering medical insurance to "significant" others, which is also a good thing for those who cannot afford to get "married". Personally, I'd rather find a good, honorable man and get married. I don't know if I could do like the older lady I cleaned for, "live in sin". 
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| 11/16/2007 4:44:59 PM |
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ks51
Santa Rosa, CA
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Hi Tru: Not really sure, but would like to think it's still a possibility. There was so much in my marriage that I enjoyed and learned from. This aloneness just keeps getting more so as I age. A little scarey.
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| 11/17/2007 4:06:39 AM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
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Don't think so but then again nobody has asked me to.
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| 11/17/2007 5:41:02 PM |
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sensual_latin
Pleasanton, CA
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Would I marry again?
HECK yes!
Why?
1) Because my past marriage experience left a good taste in my life and I treasure that.
2) Because this time around I will marry the "right" man for the "right" reasons.
3) Because is God's promise to me.
But I am in no rush 
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| 11/19/2007 7:59:35 AM |
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thepkk
Ash Grove, MO
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I would if he has good insurance. Otherwise we will have to live together I can't afford to lose my insurance.
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| 11/19/2007 10:23:18 AM |
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tag1960
Lakeland, FL
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All the right reasons,DAMN,I just don't know...
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| 11/20/2007 10:29:06 AM |
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rosannachanna
Des Moines, IA
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Never ever never ever ever ever.... I will cohabitate, that wouldn't be very risky for either party when the time comes for leaving, if it did come to that. For sure, hell no.
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| 11/20/2007 3:01:11 PM |
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burnedonce
Duncan, OK
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As soon as he asks me.
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| 11/20/2007 4:31:37 PM |
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rosannachanna
Des Moines, IA
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Hey Burn, you got your lil self in here! I just stopped in for the first time today myself. I like it.
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| 11/20/2007 8:53:45 PM |
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shycowgirl
Oak Run, CA
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ummm....nope... don't want to go there, again. been there, done that. (i won't say never, since whenever i say NEVER it comes back to bite me in the butt)!!
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| 11/21/2007 12:03:47 AM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
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Good to see you Shy, hope things are getting better for you.
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| 11/21/2007 8:47:24 PM |
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elfmm
Post Falls, ID
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I wouldn't.... 1st time I was young and it lasted a long time.. 2nd time I thought it would last my lifetime... we lived together for 2 1/2 years,,, and were married for 4 1/2... and I found I didn't know him at all.
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| 11/21/2007 10:28:08 PM |
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that_wd_b_me
Essex Junction, VT
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I would if I found the right sort of dame I suppose.I didn't get married until I was 32 divorced after 14 yrs.Guess I am better suited for the bachelor life,dont think I would ever shack up again either.Then again who the heck knows what will happen?I am open to a relationship of course,but being able to trust again.Having to depend on someone else Don't know if I could do it.
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| 11/22/2007 1:59:16 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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Marriage seems to be a taboo. I have been single a long time. Taboo or not, I would love to remarry
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| 11/24/2007 10:32:01 AM |
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karilynn
Oxford, MI
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I would remarry but this time it would for true love. Someone that is my equal and not just because it feels good. I did the seperate lives marriage and want someone that cares for me as much as I care for them. True love is out there. We may already know them or maybe not. It may not be love-at-first-sight but something that needs to be acheived. Either way, I have confidence that someone is out there for me.
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| 11/24/2007 9:35:56 PM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
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I would remarry yes. Just because the 1st one didn't work out, doesn't mean it won't the second time. I don't think you can ever really know a person...just hope I make a better decision next time.
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| 11/24/2007 10:25:05 PM |
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colorad05
Saint Joseph, MO
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Girls, Girls, Girls, Take the mans approach -- Test drive that car longer then just a year -- make sure it's something you will still like parked next to you when your both antiques!!!
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| 11/24/2007 10:57:17 PM |
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busymanfour
Harrisonburg, VA
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find the right one----in a heartbeat!
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| 11/25/2007 8:30:43 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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Lets see here.... I have been divorced 16 years... I don't think I'm rushing into anything lol
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| 11/25/2007 8:34:09 PM |
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iron_ranger
Owatonna, MN
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someone told me it takes 2 yrs to get to know someone.
id love to me married to the right one....
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| 11/25/2007 9:01:11 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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It takes a lifetime to get to know someone. My grandfather once told me that every day he learned something new about grandma.. and he was 71, she was 68 at the time.
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| 11/25/2007 10:25:17 PM |
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backhurtz924
Philadelphia, PA
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no sorry would not,,,
not that its been a party ,,
but i learned how to live
on my own, with out my mother
and i have all my time for my children....
whenever they need me...
which is my main concern...
and i like it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 11/26/2007 12:28:41 AM |
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aboveandbeyound
Doniphan, MO
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Ive been divorced for 17 years now, only married once. Yes I would remarry for the right woman, it just seems like an incredibly hard task to find this woman. I would rather be single then to marry the wrong one again.
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| 11/26/2007 1:56:05 PM |
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1gr8kisser
Saint Petersburg, FL
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I was about to say no tothat, then I caught a peek at sexylatino here, and now I'd have to say maybe 
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| 11/26/2007 1:57:13 PM |
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1gr8kisser
Saint Petersburg, FL
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oops correction sensual latin
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| 11/27/2007 6:23:49 PM |
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1pinkstar
Omaha, NE
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very few states have common law marriages anymore.
I'm not so sure about the marriage thing.
I probably need to figure out what went wrong before I think of ever remarrying. Besides that, I tOld my friends and family if I considered marriage ever again, to shoot me.
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| 11/28/2007 11:33:33 AM |
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stargazzer
Creighton, NE
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I like pinks answer and need just one that thinks that way!! Thats not everything but it's a good start. Though I do try to tell myself too never say never?
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| 11/28/2007 8:56:31 PM |
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clarksvillebabe
Clarksville, TN
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hmmmmmm big question ..... the man I dated after my divorce he and I dated 3 of the 4 years i've been divorced he asked me one night to marry him I said NO and this is why I'm not ready to remarry just yet ... I was very young when I got married spent over half my life with the same man ... I'm not closing the door on it but i am saying just not right now........
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| 11/30/2007 11:22:45 AM |
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carllooney
Stockton, CA
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I would have to say YES if the right lady came into the picture.
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| 12/1/2007 3:40:13 PM |
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inkspot
South Windsor, CT
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Marriage is something that I have thought about. I'm not sure at this point. I think that if I meet a woman who has the interests in life and on relationship issues that I have, or at least close, I would probably consider it. Divorcing was tough. I have learned from that experience. I hope to meet this lady that I'm looking for and see where it leads. Slow and easy. Ya know what I mean?
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| 12/1/2007 6:36:20 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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I guess most divorces are bitter-sweet. Luckily, the marriage was over long before I made the decision to walk away and never experienced alot of the emotions brought forth from it.
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| 12/1/2007 6:43:43 PM |
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flyankee07
Atlantic Beach, FL
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I have to say "HELL NO"! No more ownership papers here.
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| 12/1/2007 7:13:55 PM |
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snowbuddy7860
Mankato, MN
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You bet I would!
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| 12/1/2007 7:25:16 PM |
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inkspot
South Windsor, CT
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You know. Whether you get married again or just live with someone you really have the same situation. The pain of a split up is the some no matter what. I'd like to believe that if the right lady comes along and we both agree then the M word could turn into Marriage.
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| 12/1/2007 8:06:13 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Saint Joseph, TN
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I loved being married.. just not to who I was married to.
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| 12/1/2007 9:05:01 PM |
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inkspot
South Windsor, CT
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Same here blu - I've learned from that marriage. I'm now know what to look for in my woman. The one that's to be my long term love. The M word may come into play. Who knows. I'll just have to wait.
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| 12/2/2007 12:59:03 AM |
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kathy5311
Jackson, GA
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I do want to get married again someday. But I have such a hard time picturing a man fitting into our lives right now.
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| 12/2/2007 1:16:20 AM |
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dcmick
Midlothian, VA
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Who knows...I know I'm not sure at this point. Never say never. Gee, I'm such a catch.
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| 12/2/2007 9:13:12 AM |
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davewave1
Ann Arbor, MI
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Seems very unlikely to happen again........ I am a gentleman of honor and my word. I do NOT need nor want the State & its' Police Powers involved as a third party to enforce a "meeting of the minds" contract of true friendship and love.
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| 12/2/2007 9:36:21 AM |
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helloeyes
Enfield, NH
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well.......three times a looser..... I would marry again if I felt it was the right thing to do, it sounds like I marry at the drop of a hat, but since I only agreed once that divorce was the thing to do, I guess maybe its not really me that has the issue with marriage. I am not looking for marriage, but if it feels right.......sure.
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| 12/2/2007 9:59:48 AM |
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waytogo51
Farmington, AR
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Oh yes I would. Being single sucks big time. But it has to be with some one I love dearly. I don't want to be married just to be married.
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