5/6/2009 8:11:06 PM |
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oceangirl99
Rapid City, SD
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My big question of the day is...
What does it mean when you look at the part on your profile that tells who has veiwed your profile... and you see that MANY people have view it but NO ONE ever sends a message. I try to always be optimistic but I'm starting to think I must really stink!!!
Any suggestions????????
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5/6/2009 8:50:11 PM |
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riverratsf
Sioux Falls, SD
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I get a lot of views right after I post something. Its usually just people checking out the profile to see what your like. I do occasionally get some looks but no messages when I havn't posted anything. I even sent messages to a few that viewed me more than once. Never got an answer back. I must stink too! I think a lot of people just look and don't want to interact.
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5/6/2009 9:09:14 PM |
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oceangirl99
Rapid City, SD
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Thanks for replying. What you say makes sense... but I thought the point of this site was to interact. But then again I dont always send a message after I have viewed someones profile either. Maybe this is a lesson for me....
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5/6/2009 9:29:47 PM |
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riverratsf
Sioux Falls, SD
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well that is the purpose of this site and people meet thru the forums more than thru the searches. Thats why I hang there instead of searching all the time. LOL
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5/6/2009 9:46:48 PM |
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kathy5311
Jackson, GA
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Ocean, I get a lot of profile views also, but zero emails. I agree w/ River because whenever I post, I get more views. I guess the best thing to do is stay in the forums so people will get to know you.
As for why I think the men aren't writing to me: I'm pretty sure that I don't stink... but I'm guessing that there are five things in my profile that keep men from writing to me!
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5/7/2009 3:33:23 PM |
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bytar
Rapid City, SD
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It may be that the lookers, see that they don't meet the profile requirements, smoker, hieght, etc.
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5/8/2009 6:41:10 AM |
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imrich29
Wessington Springs, SD
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bytar u hit the nail on the head thats why i dont respond and when i do it seems i either have no one or 3 or5 all at the same time
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5/8/2009 7:54:09 PM |
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oceangirl99
Rapid City, SD
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what you all have to say makes perfect sense
thanks for all your wisdom
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5/14/2009 9:38:05 AM |
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alan272
East Helena, MT
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A lot of times, it is just curiosity
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5/14/2009 10:17:25 PM |
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kathy5311
Jackson, GA
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LOL, funny, alan!
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5/15/2009 5:10:02 PM |
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cherokeedave
Cherokee, IA
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I often view people's profiles again and again. If I don't contact them, then I don't invest a lot of brain waves into saving a memory of that person, so I may forget that I had previously viewed them, or even remembered any details about them.
We're all curious people, checking out each other's profiles even if you don't contact them, is more of a compliment, than an insult. At least they checked you out. Imagine if no one ever checked out your profile, now that would be frustrating! Then you'd think this whole experience is a waste of time.
Also maybe those people are like me, and find that your profile picture is too small to really see your face, without checking your profile we can't see a bigger picture of you.
Now I have refrained from clicking on your profile.
What's that say to you? That I just blew you off without even checking to see if we had anything in common?
For me you live to far away, no need to check you out.
Don't fret, I'm sure you're a fine person, after all you posted here didn't ?
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5/16/2009 8:08:10 PM |
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oceangirl99
Rapid City, SD
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Alan,
I loved your reply!!! That is so funny
Thanks for making me smile
[Edited 5/16/2009 8:09:04 PM ]
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5/16/2009 8:12:41 PM |
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oceangirl99
Rapid City, SD
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Cherokeedave,
Thanks for taking time to explain. I knew if I put the question out there, you would all help me understand. Thanks again!!
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5/17/2009 7:48:12 AM |
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sdcentaur
Sioux Falls, SD
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Dave pretty much covered it but I also look at people's profiles to see what they're about before I respond to them.
You seem to love the ocean but your living about as far from one as you can get, curious
[Edited 5/17/2009 7:48:26 AM ]
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5/17/2009 11:19:03 AM |
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oceangirl99
Rapid City, SD
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sdcentaur,
You are certainly right about that. Crazy how life finds you living in one place and needing to be someplace else. I have found (for me at least) it works to live in sd and play in the summers at the ocean.
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10/8/2009 4:32:54 PM |
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thedrivein
Chamberlain, SD
52, joined Feb. 2008
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people have no guts,just jump in the waters fine,gotta get wet sometime
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10/13/2009 8:23:40 PM |
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candyme41
Gray, GA
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Well I am just coming back to the site after about a year of being off the site. From what I saw before when I was on here even though it is a date site there was not much dating going on. At least not for me. More drama than anything.
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10/13/2009 9:21:21 PM |
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serendipity5311
Great Falls, MT
49, joined Jul. 2009
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Hey Candy! Back over here on the SD board? Trying to steal my Midwestern men from me are you???? LOL
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10/13/2009 9:33:27 PM |
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imrich29
Wessington Springs, SD
68, joined Aug. 2007
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what r we to do take one one night the other thenext night??????????
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10/14/2009 6:45:53 PM |
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stringopearls
Huron, SD
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Maybe your profile is too good and others do not feel they can measure up????
I entered a profile on this site with the idea to try to help someone else -- a guy no less. Guess what? Even without a picture, I helped myself more than I ever imagined. I met guys I never would have and was able to feel Ok stopping my unhealthy cycle of trying to be with someone who really did not want me. I was not even trying to meet someone for myself and it just seemed to work. My profile would "stink" in some people's mind -- goes to show that sometimes we never know what is going to happen or why.
Hang in there.
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10/14/2009 8:25:18 PM |
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serendipity5311
Great Falls, MT
49, joined Jul. 2009
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Cool testimony to online dating, pearls!
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1/11/2010 11:29:54 AM |
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painterman2
Sioux Falls, SD
59, joined Jun. 2009
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I get some views, send out some emails, get no responses. Conclusion: Damn, I must really be ugly.
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1/11/2010 5:59:06 PM |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
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Don't feel bad, I've changed my profile so many times I just about have given up Try being in Sioux Falls and 59 to boot If I were looking for a Bar Fly, I do believe I'd know where to go All these Lookie Loos, and No Takers
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2/3/2010 5:51:44 PM |
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sdringneck
Sioux Falls, SD
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I liken it to gold mining. You have to shovel a lot of gravel before you find a nugget.
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2/4/2010 7:10:10 PM |
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stringopearls
Huron, SD
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Great idea. So how do you tell the real thing from "fool's gold?"
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3/16/2010 3:18:07 PM |
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victory6
Rapid City, SD
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My big question of the day is...
What does it mean when you look at the part on your profile that tells who has veiwed your profile... and you see that MANY people have view it but NO ONE ever sends a message. I try to always be optimistic but I'm starting to think I must really stink!!!
Any suggestions???????? how are you doing
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