| 5/29/2009 5:51:42 PM |
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luckjames
Orange Park, FL
30, joined Dec. 2008
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I've never had a FWB relationship, but wouldn't mind if I did. I am curious and clueless on how they begin though. Does a man just go up to a woman and say, "hey, we should hook-up." or what?
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| 5/29/2009 5:56:20 PM |
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binderdundat
New Orleans, LA
54, joined Sep. 2008
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You came to the right place to ask.
Lots of experts on here... well... a few anyway.
I'm not one of them.
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| 5/29/2009 5:59:59 PM |
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quitesassy
Massillon, OH
46, joined Feb. 2009
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You came to the right place to ask.
Lots of experts on here... well... a few anyway.
I'm not one of them.
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| 5/29/2009 6:05:36 PM |
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howudoinnn
Grantsburg, WI
45, joined Apr. 2009
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You came to the right place to ask.
Lots of experts on here... well... a few anyway.
I'm not one of them.
 skeerdy cat j/k. they start at the "O" and end at the "Y"
from what ive heard that is
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| 5/29/2009 6:11:37 PM |
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binderdundat
New Orleans, LA
54, joined Sep. 2008
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skeerdy cat j/k. they start at the "O" and end at the "Y"
from what ive heard that is
more like... binderdundat... no desire to do it again
And that was EON's ago... when I probably had about as much depth as the "relationship" did (and I use that word loosely). I'm well beyond the wham bam thank you ma'am sex. (I was going to use the word "f**k" there but I'm trying to be a kinder, gentler poster) 
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| 5/29/2009 6:13:52 PM |
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luv2bum
Milwaukee, WI
50, joined Feb. 2009
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I could only guess....like a one nighter, but they keep coming back for more and have no interest in each other, otherwise?
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| 5/29/2009 7:42:45 PM |
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thunderstorms62
Endicott, NY
53, joined Feb. 2009
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1. Become friends with a woman.
2. You screw each other.
3. Maintain numbers 1 and 2 without a commmitment.
Any questions?
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| 5/29/2009 8:13:32 PM |
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luckjames
Orange Park, FL
30, joined Dec. 2008
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1. Become friends with a woman.
2. You screw each other.
3. Maintain numbers 1 and 2 without a commmitment.
Any questions?
After you become friends with a woman, how do you bring her around to the screwing each other part? How exactly do you phrase that" "Hey, we've been friends for a while now, so you wanna fool around a bit while were at it?" I just don't see how a guy can lead into this question. Does the girl start it? If the guy asks and the girl says 'no' then that could ruin the relationship. If the girl asks and the guy says no... then he's a homo! (JUST KIDDING!!!)
My ultimate question is, how does a guy initiate friends with benefits?
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| 5/29/2009 8:54:59 PM |
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thunderstorms62
Endicott, NY
53, joined Feb. 2009
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My ultimate question is, how does a guy initiate
friends with benefits?
That guy is going to have to find a gal that is
sexually attracted to him.
Without that little element...
there are no "benefits." I can't
further elaborate on that dude. [i/]
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| 5/29/2009 9:15:56 PM |
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cocopuffs375
Suffern, NY
28, joined Mar. 2009
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Keep your emotions out of it.
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| 5/29/2009 10:14:35 PM |
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rcpilgrim
Gulf Shores, AL
42, joined Feb. 2009
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OP you have to actually attract a woman first before the hooking up part can begin. Questions like this are not going to help you unless some girl feels sorry for you and gives you some sympathy sex. I can't believe you actually posted this on a dating website. Good luck anyway! Sorry for the sarcasm but
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| 5/30/2009 2:49:08 AM |
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luckjames
Orange Park, FL
30, joined Dec. 2008
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OP you have to actually attract a woman first before the hooking up part can begin. Questions like this are not going to help you unless some girl feels sorry for you and gives you some sympathy sex. I can't believe you actually posted this on a dating website. Good luck anyway! Sorry for the sarcasm but
I am sorry if an honest question is too much for you, but you definitely could have kept this little opinion of yours to yourself. Personally, I don't give a damn what you or anyone else thinks of this question, I just wanted an answer. Thank you for providing none.
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| 5/30/2009 3:30:01 AM |
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ironmuscle
Santa Cruz, CA
40, joined Jun. 2008
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I've never had a FWB relationship, but wouldn't mind if I did. I am curious and clueless on how they begin though. Does a man just go up to a woman and say, "hey, we should hook-up." or what?
FWBs don't necessarily start in a particular way, nor do they play out in the same way. You can meet a lady of whom you really like, spend time with her, enjoy her company, and do all the other things that you would do if you were dating her. Because of the attraction, sex will probably be a part of the relationship. However, for whatever reason you (or maybe her) are not in a position to committ to a relationship.......but you continue to see each other without calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. Therefore, you are FRIENDS with benefits.
I think what you described is a "F**k Buddy". I've seen that also. There's actually no real relationship outside of sex with a "F**k Buddy". The person shows up to your room, or you meet her at some venue, and you have sex and she goes home until the next time.
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| 5/30/2009 5:16:56 AM |
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lefty247
Swartz Creek, MI
68, joined Apr. 2009
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As appealing as an FWB may be to you, I haven't found many fems who relished the idea. The notable exceptions being the married ones who where bored at home, & nymphomaniacs >& just try to find one of those! It seems women are wired differently than men. Many of them don't care for polygamous sex, due to possibilities of disease & emotional attachment.
But if one must pursue the (almost) impossible dream, one needs to first understand the meaning of the first word> Friends. So don't come on like a hopeless horndog at the outset. Do be prepared to spend endless hours doing things you may or may not enjoy with your new found friend, that don't include getting naked. You also don't want to get into anything more than a peck or two on the cheek, & no groping. And you might want to mention all you're looking for is friendship at the beginning & on an occasion or two.
In time, you'll get around to asking how your partner would feel about the benefits part. Bring it up only after you have been become great friends. That may take months. Possibly years.
So if you're just seeking to satisfy your lust in less time, a hooker would be the way to go here.
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| 5/30/2009 11:14:45 AM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
51, joined Feb. 2009
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FWBs don't necessarily start in a particular way, nor do they play out in the same way. You can meet a lady of whom you really like, spend time with her, enjoy her company, and do all the other things that you would do if you were dating her. Because of the attraction, sex will probably be a part of the relationship. However, for whatever reason you (or maybe her) are not in a position to committ to a relationship.......but you continue to see each other without calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. Therefore, you are FRIENDS with benefits.
I think what you described is a "F**k Buddy". I've seen that also. There's actually no real relationship outside of sex with a "F**k Buddy". The person shows up to your room, or you meet her at some venue, and you have sex and she goes home until the next time.
Iron knows of what he speaks. 
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| 5/30/2009 11:40:04 AM |
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thebestman
Atlanta, GA
42, joined Dec. 2006
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FWBs don't necessarily start in a particular way, nor do they play out in the same way. You can meet a lady of whom you really like, spend time with her, enjoy her company, and do all the other things that you would do if you were dating her. Because of the attraction, sex will probably be a part of the relationship. However, for whatever reason you (or maybe her) are not in a position to committ to a relationship.......but you continue to see each other without calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. Therefore, you are FRIENDS with benefits.
I think what you described is a "F**k Buddy". I've seen that also. There's actually no real relationship outside of sex with a "F**k Buddy". The person shows up to your room, or you meet her at some venue, and you have sex and she goes home until the next time.
I could not have said it any better.
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| 5/30/2009 6:37:20 PM |
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luckjames
Orange Park, FL
30, joined Dec. 2008
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Iron and Lefty:
Thank you. I believe I understand now.
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| 5/30/2009 6:38:31 PM |
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clyde_c_barrow
Winchester, CA
46, joined May. 2009
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First you need a friend......Second you both have to want to f**k each other with NSA.....
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| 6/11/2009 12:54:52 AM |
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longlocks40
Cedar Rapids, IA
50, joined Mar. 2007
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some rude and crude guy ask a girl .... do you wnat to f*ck? How barbaric. I email them back and say have some class u stupid jerk !!! I am too good for that !
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| 6/11/2009 1:37:23 AM |
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goodgato
Fort Lauderdale, FL
51, joined Feb. 2009
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It may be slightly different for everyone, but for me...when you meet someone you feel attracted to both mentally and physically, you let the person know where you're coming from (i.e., don't want LTR or exclusive relationship) and if they're on board with that idea...well, there you have it. It's not a variation of BF/GF, so just be prepared to change your way of thinking about this relationship format. It's refreshingly different and entirely open and honest. It's cool if you both let it be.
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| 6/11/2009 1:41:03 AM |
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kwietkptkatie
Las Vegas, NV
47, joined Apr. 2008
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What's FWB?
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| 6/11/2009 7:04:34 AM |
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serenityfrank
Toms River, NJ
57, joined Sep. 2008
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all of my friendships have benifits for both,,and i guess thats the point
If its good for both,,
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| 6/11/2009 9:48:35 AM |
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goddess56
Tulsa, OK
66, joined Jun. 2006
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I don't know.
If I am going out to dinner, I want the whole thing, not just the piece of meat. I like all the accoutrements. Otherwise I will stay at home and cook my own.
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| 6/11/2009 9:52:34 AM |
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firstlight
Strasburg, VA
55, joined Feb. 2008
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I've never had a FWB relationship, but wouldn't mind if I did. I am curious and clueless on how they begin though.
Try Craigslist
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| 6/11/2009 9:53:22 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
42, joined Jan. 2008
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Basically the same way all sex happens:
The man makes a move.
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| 6/11/2009 12:27:50 PM |
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sw_
Gloucester, ON
35, joined Dec. 2008
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Alcohol
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| 6/11/2009 12:30:11 PM |
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angelfire65
Mountain Home, AR
50, joined Apr. 2009
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Well, you flirt with her.  Be suggestive.   Lean into her and start kissing her and the rest MIGHT be history...Easy...if she is into it that is.
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| 6/16/2009 11:21:08 PM |
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dawolfette
Montgomery, AL
55, joined Jun. 2009
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Holy cow this is like a train wreck and ya just have to watch...just so many things to wonder about,,do you get to keep the freind if the sex thing does not woirk out?? can both parties seperate the sex from the freindship?
when is it okay to screw a freind?and which one of you is it thats scared of commentment cause this just sounds okay dumb! how many folks in here had an actual "freind" they had sex with,,and after you raise your hand answer this one,,how many of you are still close to said "freiknd,not many I bet.Remove the words freinds with benifits,and insert the words Open realationship,cause thats what it is...
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| 6/16/2009 11:23:15 PM |
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victorres
Chicago, IL
30, joined Feb. 2009
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you hook up and then keep it casual. couple booty calls here and there, eating out or going to places on occasion, and badabing badaboom, you are now friends with benefits
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