
wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36 online now!
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its a matter of risk vs. gain. i was on the shy side for a long time.part of me is still coming out and i just let it go.things dont get to me the way they used to.i found all the bad things we visualize happening.......... really NEVER happen.you have to put yourself out there.
this may sound corny and a bit out there,but it helped me. close your eyes and visualize the situation,the person,,,etc.now.....think about what you want to happen.put all your wants into your hand and they turn into magic dust.now throw it in the air and visualize all the good things happening to you. you may have to do it a few times but it really works.just believe it and it will happen. and no.... i am not drinking! i did this myself to get through some VERY dificult things i never thought i could do.
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pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 47
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I had a hard time with this and never talked, just made jokes. Then I got sick and I realized that if I didn't say it now I might not ever get that chance again. So now I try to be as open as I can be. It's okay to have feelings and tell people you care about that you do. Love is something you're supposed to share and not something you should keep to yourself.
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