| 11/26/2007 1:40:52 PM |
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sweetromie
Sunderland, MA
age: 46
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Ive gone to North dakota, California and Canada to meet someone, I always brought plenty of money and didn't make meeting him the whole focuse of my trip, planned on seeing the sights and made sure I had a room some where, made it a nice vacation, meeting him was just a bonus, except for the Canada guy, would have rathered met and Elk..I say go have fun, make the best of it, just be careful.
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| 11/26/2007 1:42:26 PM |
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geo13
Hanover, PA
age: 46
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well said rommie
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| 11/26/2007 1:44:17 PM |
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sweetromie
Sunderland, MA
age: 46
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Thank you geo, like I said go for it and have fun, don't build up your expectations of the person you are going to meet, just consider it a vacation and the meeting a new friend a bonus.
Hi my angel? 
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| 11/26/2007 1:45:01 PM |
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angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 34 online now!
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alot of good advice here hun. good luck
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| 11/26/2007 1:52:18 PM |
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osipsc
Chicago, IL
age: 54
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First meetings are always a bit nerve-wracking - good and bad... One room can be tempting especially if there's a strong connection, but I'd definitely go with the two rooms. Also, what happens if the first meeting turns out to be the only one, how are you going to feel then?
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| 11/26/2007 2:33:48 PM |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 37
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I want to thank everyone for the advice, I greatly appreciate it. I want to go meet him there, because I come from a small town. My ex moved in with his girlfriend. I don't want my kids or their friends to see me with anyone. They have enough going on with their dads new relationship and change in everything. I want to keep mine hush, hush. I feel mine should be quiet until it is something more serious. Leahmarie: For being pathetic & desperate, I don't see myself that way. Maybe that is how you feel about yourself thats how come you got so defensive. I feel a connection and I going to check it out. I am going with my gutt. Who knows could be something special and restore my faith in men.
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| 11/26/2007 2:35:54 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33 online now!
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Good Luck to ya hon but please don't blame the rest of the men on here if it does not work out. There are many great men on here. It is just a matter of finding the right one for you.
There is some excellent advice on here... I am sure you will be fine.
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| 11/26/2007 2:37:19 PM |
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johnnybravo2007
Mechanicsville, VA
age: 31
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| 11/26/2007 2:40:54 PM |
Taking a risk, traveling to meet someone...Advice please.. |
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megie
Katy, TX
age: 57
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You said it yourself, he seems too good to be true. I think it would be absolutely crazy to go alone. Have the meeting in your area instead. You have no idea who is typing on that keyboard. Read the papers; it happens all the time. Best of luck whatever you decide. Megie
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| 11/26/2007 3:19:47 PM |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 37
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crazycajun: thanks, I'm not going to blame anyone here. It just feels right. Can't explain. Going with the gutt. Call me nieve but I want to take that risk, and been through a lot this year, need some me time.
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| 11/26/2007 3:24:05 PM |
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1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 54
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uga is right have him come to you and if you are worried about your kids he could meet you in a close neighboring town and you still have the option of coming home. it would be best and i think you would be more relaxed on your own ground.
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| 11/26/2007 3:38:46 PM |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 37
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Romie: I like what you had to say, thanks. I am originally from Billerica. Maybe thats why you understand.
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| 11/26/2007 4:35:27 PM |
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davewave1
Ann Arbor, MI
age: 60 online now!
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Do NOT tell him where you are staying........ show him your car, or anything that would reveal who you are and where you are from. Only decide on a mutual time and place to meet, where the public abounds, just in case it does not go well. And leave.... when your "Inner Voice" tells you to. That's about it........
He is a total stranger........and words at a distance mean almost nothing. As my Late Father said, "If talk were not so cheap, everyone would be in debt."
You really do not KNOW.....another human until together, you have consumed a bag of salt.
Be Very Careful...... but enjoy your time.
Dave
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| 11/26/2007 9:28:24 PM |
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leahmarie
Aston, PA
age: 59
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No, no, you are pathetic and desperate. If you really believed that what you are doing is right, you wouldn't be begging for approval. Well, stupid is as stupid does. And oh, yes, keep it a secret from your family. That really tells us how dumb and desperate you are!!!
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| 11/26/2007 10:20:33 PM |
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lattml
Hazleton, PA
age: 41
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Two hotels. Two beds. Don't tell him where you're staying and don't take any unnecessary chances. Too many crazy people in the world. And I like Sweetromie's advice -- take a look around, see the sights, bring a camera. Be careful!
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