| 9/30/2010 6:25:41 PM |
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cdnbcn
Roseville, MI
48, joined Mar. 2009
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| 10/2/2010 11:19:25 AM |
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jamesbon92007
Hemet, CA
64, joined Sep. 2010
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No players. No one night stands. Marriage minded. I thoughtht all relationships had to start as friendships. What is a player? A lot of women seem to use this term, what does it mean? .
Same question here. It is sometimes refered to as "gamers or game players" too. I don't know what it means. I tried to email a woman with "no gamer" in her profile and got no response. She either thought I was a gamer or just plain didn't like my profile but I'll never know. So far I have not gotten a single response when I email them first. Are we supposed to let them make the first move?
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| 10/2/2010 11:47:20 AM |
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jamesbon92007
Hemet, CA
64, joined Sep. 2010
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Someone said "spontaneous" means means they are broke but my interpretation is that it means they they want to get laid. Especially if they have a user name with sexual connotations.
And what's the deal with all the biker chicks? There are SO many. Sorry, but I just don't find a woman with a bunch of tattoos who rides a Harley as being very feminine.
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| 10/10/2010 1:29:15 PM |
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1namillion1
Chandler, AZ
41, joined Sep. 2010
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A woman admitting just getting out of a relationship 1 week 3 day 13 hrs 43 secs ago. 
Definitely a red flag.
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| 10/11/2010 11:50:26 PM |
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redsharkguy
Greenwood, IN
32, joined Jun. 2008
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Red flags..
-What they put in the column doesn't matter when the pictures are out, but it irritates me when they put "average" or something when they're likely 40-50 pounds overweight, and then "a few extra pounds" when they're obese.
-I tend to steer clear of those who are much into religion. They tend to also be the types who want to force you into their own ways of life and tend to be much less compromising.
-It's not an instant 'no' but I try to stay away from women with kids. I'd like a couple of 'em some day, but I'd honestly like a more "traditional" setting where all kids are from the same set of parents (i.e. no babydaddy/babymomma drama).
-Unrealistic requirements.
-It also sort of irks me when they talk of traveling the world and seeing everything.. I'm all for having fun and going sightseeing, but I like life at a steady pace, and the thought of seeing the entire world, at least presented as straightforward as it often is, comes off a bit ambitious to me.
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| 10/15/2010 4:15:45 PM |
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greshick
Elk Grove Village, IL
29, joined Sep. 2010
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Using half their profile to smack about there dead beat father of their kid
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| 10/17/2010 11:22:50 PM |
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micmac01979
Boulder, CO
38, joined Feb. 2010
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I haven't read all 9 pages of the thread, so maybe it's been mentioned, but the phrase:
"Must be DRAMA FREE!"
Most folks who create the most drama in their own lives, seem to demand this often. I saw one profile of a woman looking for a "discreet relationship" (she has a long-standing boyfriend and just wanted a little fun behind his back), demanding that whomever respond must be discreet, and DRAMA FREE. Yeah, okay lady, 'cause you're not a walking bag of drama yourself, right?
Seriously, women with pissed off faces in their profiles, demanding a DRAMA FREE man... I don't care how hot they are, I ain't gonna touch that with a 10-foot-pole.
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| 11/15/2010 1:48:54 PM |
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123jon321
Jacksonville, FL
52, joined Oct. 2010
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the ones who go on and on and on and on and on about hating smokers. Once should be enough.
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| 11/16/2010 2:10:41 AM |
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dhpc
Polk City, FL
52, joined Nov. 2010
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curves
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| 11/18/2010 9:04:55 PM |
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phoenicks53
Surprise, AZ
64, joined Sep. 2009
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Red Flag = "I am an independent woman"
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| 11/19/2010 9:16:38 PM |
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the_butler
Tulsa, OK
42, joined Sep. 2010
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Poor grammar or using texting shorthand and/or numbers instead of letters.
"must be able to make me laugh"
"I love to laugh"
"God is first in my life"
Kids in their profile pictures, for some reason that just makes me uncomfortable. Not so much that I dislike kids, but their total lack of understanding at how unsafe that is. I do have my preferences against dating women with young kids though.
Been married more than once, twice, gack, seriously? 3 or more times,,,,,,,,seen far to many of those.
They state they've just gotten out of a bad relationship... Sounds to me that a rebound relationship is brewin'.
Dozens of men in their friends list.
Only headshots for pictures. (they're fat)
Only headshots or pics from above that shows off their cleavage. They're the ones most likely to complain that men only see them for one thing, and they're fat.
Want to be friends first. A person is either a friend, or relationship material. I don't screw my friends.
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| 11/20/2010 4:37:18 PM |
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monty_python
Bridgeport, CT
62, joined Jun. 2008
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When they have pictures of "Cats" in their profile. Most "Cat Ladies" are truly "Nuts".
I never understand the need to display yourself with your pets here, regardless of kind.
Just like I don't understand the pics guys put up with them and their "cars". If I was a woman and saw a fellow next to his toy, I'd worry about his priorities.
Just sayin......
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| 11/20/2010 4:38:57 PM |
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monty_python
Bridgeport, CT
62, joined Jun. 2008
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Almost all women have "someone that doesn't play games"
Has anyone ever met a woman that didn't play games? Granted, some don't mean to, but it's in their nature.
This whole dating thing is a "game" in and of itself.
Just sayin.....
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| 12/18/2010 5:51:44 PM |
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nothingavereage
Fort Wayne, IN
36, joined Dec. 2010
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Has Kids Already
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| 12/20/2010 6:34:54 PM |
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struckbylightn
Oelwein, IA
60, joined Oct. 2009
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No control freaks no abusers, which I take to meaning she's attracted that sort of man in her past. No thank you. If you can't at the very least put a positive focus on your profile why on earth would I want to have anything to do with you?
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| 12/21/2010 4:10:19 AM |
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seamuspgh
Pittsburgh, PA
33, joined Jul. 2010
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A few based off of a previous relationshion: I am a writer and Classicist (I have spent many years doing textural analysis, i.e. reading between the lines) so heed my warnings:
I look at what they are looking for:
-I don't want to see "a man who is ambitious and knows where he is going in life." Sorry sweetheart, we are in a deep recession with as-of-yet-to-be-seen consequencies, this economic downturn have hit men very hard, and I am college educated (a real education not some pansy-ass business degree) with an IQ that places me in the top 20% of humanity. That being told, sorry I can't get a job and I am not willing to lower myself to taking a beat service industry job to pay back the student loans and impress you. Which is exactly what she expects.
-"I don't like negative people." I am ambitious and seeking a way in life, and have goals, but current world events have screwed those plans, so yeah I am going to be cynical and pissed off, princess. She wants you to be a perosn of little conviction.
-"my friend and family are SOOOOO important to me" no crap, are you stating the obvious (I don't think so, I would be shocked if you said you hated your friends and family,) or hinting at more. The more I speak of is the disproportionate influence/hold that the friends and family will have over the relationship. Ergo you every word/action/idea will be brought before their scrutiny, "but Derek and Diana do/have/think this," "my mom/dad/second-grade teacher says you should do this," Basically she wants to know how much she can enfold you in her world.
-"I am opinionated and speak my mind," simple, shut up and listen to me and don't dare saying anything without considering my thoughts.
-"I am an independent woman..." i.e. I will scrutinize your worth.
-if it looks like a job application and follows the same logic as a job interview. You should be asking then "will I be taken on full or part time? Is this a temporary position until you find someone better or I make it through the probationary period? What is the benefit package? etc."
In short simply put yourself in their shoes and postulate why you would say what they say in their profiles.
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| 12/21/2010 4:23:44 AM |
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seamuspgh
Pittsburgh, PA
33, joined Jul. 2010
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Red flag #1: Owns a cat (okay, well maybe, but she would have to be REALLY hot)
No man, I would trust a woman with a cat over one who is about her dog. Consider the pet as a stand in for a relationship, now think of the different animals' characteristics.
A woman who is about dogs expects her man to be like a dog.
-Dogs will come when you call, no matter the circumstance, tail a'wagging and with that stupid happy eye look. (She will expect this from you.)
-Beat a dog down and it will submit and seek forgiveness (no matter if it is in the wrong.) (She will expect you to take berating and abuse meekly.)
-Dogs will eat their own vomit. (She will expect you to take her back or go over what has already been digested and found disgusting.)
-Dogs don't require you to earn their respect.
-Dogs are submissive pack animals that seek approval from the Alpha. (You are her Beta male who should seek approval from her and her friend/family.)
Those are the characteritics she is looking for in a man.
Now a cat (and as a cat owner I back this up) will reaction in the ways a proper man should:
-Call a cat (if it not time for feeding or to be let in, or in teh case of the human male, sex) and they will look at you, calmly and disinterested, and basically say: "F#%k do you want a$$h0le?"
Which is exactly how you have to treat women since "give an inch, they will take a mile."
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| 12/24/2010 4:14:38 AM |
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may31st
Oakland, CA
27, joined Sep. 2010
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-Uses texting language such as "lol" and "ur" in her profile, and has sub-par grammar.
-She says she only wants men with a job, car, or both.
-Has kids.
-Lacks full-body photos.
-I see gifts on her profile.
-Political viewpoints are incompatible.
-Says she's looking for friends.
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| 12/24/2010 10:16:15 AM |
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drumrman72
Las Cruces, NM
52, joined Dec. 2010
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here's a woman's profile i know. you tell me if you see any red flags.
Now, I'll readily admit, I do have my share of baggage (who doesn't at 40 and single?). I've tried to whittle it down to the size of a carryon though and I'll do my best to keep it stowed securely in an overhead compartment. 
I've been stuck in a holding patter for a few years. Now that my time is my own again, I'd like to get out and socialize a bit. I'm not looking for my soul-mate or a life partner, just someone to have a beer and game of pool with or see a movie with...... the average kinda stuff. Anything beyond that would be a pleasant surprise.
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| 12/25/2010 6:48:06 PM |
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nchillbilly
Grimesland, NC
49, joined Dec. 2010
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1. WhEn ThEy TyPe LiKe ThIs
2. Wen Dey T@lks lyk dis.
3. when they say they just got out of a horrible relationship in profile.
4. When the picture is of a girl that is way to hot to actualy exist on this or any other site.
5. When nothing is provided at all.
6. when they say they are a b*tch/bossy/things of that sort.
7. christians.
lol, you just made me think of one lady's profile I stumbled across on another site. Her screen name was "HeCheated" lmao...no hang up issues there to be sure!
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| 12/28/2010 2:26:21 PM |
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seamuspgh
Pittsburgh, PA
33, joined Jul. 2010
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Another red flag: "no regrets" a clear single that she is immature, all humans are falliable, recognition of this fact in our own lives is a sign of maturity and there are regrets to people who are intorspective. Having no regrets signals either a sociopath or someone who can't bear criticism (even their own.)
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| 1/1/2011 6:24:41 PM |
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drumrman72
Las Cruces, NM
52, joined Dec. 2010
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Another red flag: "no regrets" a clear single that she is immature, all humans are falliable, recognition of this fact in our own lives is a sign of maturity and there are regrets to people who are intorspective. Having no regrets signals either a sociopath or someone who can't bear criticism (even their own.)
one of the many mental/emotional issues my ex posesses. No regrets!
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| 1/3/2011 11:17:02 AM |
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drumrman72
Las Cruces, NM
52, joined Dec. 2010
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oh yeah, almost forgot. the ex, is also a sociopath. so guys, if you live in the lc area, be careful. she is similat to that of a ted bundy type. no joke, i'm serious about this.
i am so lucky to have gotten out of her house alive. 
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| 1/3/2011 6:24:18 PM |
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overmine
Tulsa, OK
57, joined Jan. 2011
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yeppers, no regrets is just another way of saying no conscience !
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| 1/5/2011 5:10:30 PM |
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garravesh
Etna, CA
45, joined Mar. 2008
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Any comments which close their minds to being in a relationship with me.
We all are cautious and concerned but if you are jaded please do not waste my time because noone will make ya unbitter towardss men but yourself. I have had to endure this 3-4 times and they never gave me a chance and it makes me feel like I am subpar in reflection...although I get over that real fast.
It is truely unimaginable why they would even ask me (out)to date them when they tell me they are really too guarded for relationships any more.....
One thing about luggage from the past....I have minimal, if any. I ask you to come to the table without it either.
If they are too conservative..I tend to shy away....or the polar opposite(liberals). I like the middle of the road.
True love for me is based on the situation and the timing.....anyone can be your true love if the timing is right. Look at all the homely folks who have a beautiful man/women at their sides...looks mean minimal IMO...they are importand but only to an extent.
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| 1/6/2011 9:34:17 AM |
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mixedpapi73
Pontiac, MI
43, joined Nov. 2010
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/My is girls & ladys who hate kids & pets, say one one than lies about what they
want in a man !! does know how to cook a little,will not try new stuff in sex,are golddiggers,lie about having any kids,have fake nail,hair,eyebows,boobs,fake oral sex with a boy or guy,use after having a baby 5 months later that she can't work cause she taking care of the baby and house is to much work !,a daddy little princess never work for anytrhing , does like asian,black,latino,white and other races guys !!! do not have a job, care about herself not about others lol !!
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| 1/6/2011 2:17:12 PM |
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logic49
Union Grove, AL
68, joined Jun. 2010
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when they don't know what the meaning of a 'athletic' body is.
if they're built like a sumo wrestler doesn't mean they have a athletic body.
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| 1/24/2011 12:17:44 AM |
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juicyjay91
Mishawaka, IN
26, joined Jan. 2011
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When their personality description says literally this.
"i'm chelsi. i'm looking for a good guy that will spoil me and basically buy me whatever i want. like a new phone but i also want a good relationship. i'm really sweet and caring and kinda ditzy. if you're willing to be my man. hit me up =] so if your willing to buy me an iphone and send it to me that would be great! <33"
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| 1/28/2011 3:17:15 AM |
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dognabba
Buffalo, NY
40, joined Jan. 2011
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hahahah...if a girl has a bunch of friends i wont send her a message..she already has enough going on...
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| 1/28/2011 3:01:17 PM |
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nohurry61
Titusville, FL
56, joined Dec. 2010
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I don't care much for women's cliches like red flags/dealbreakers.
A profile picture with another person's gourd/animal stuck to their head, or a laundry list of must-have's or must-be's written in college thesis form should be enough to repel even the most testosterone-enriched individual, let alone a discerning one. JMHO
I have met a few gals from this site and they weren't even close to what they represented themselves to be. Let's just say that poetic license runs rampant in there here parts.
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| 1/30/2011 10:40:33 AM |
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huggybear012000
Middleburg, PA
63, joined Oct. 2007
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"I don't have any trouble meeting men..the trouble is I haven't met the right man".
Her pic might be drop dead gorgeous (you might even wish she would)but she's never going to meet the "right guy" because you'll never be able to do ANYTHING right to please her!
Most all of your posts are strikingly true. Makes one wonder if we'll ever get it right. Decent,compatible mates seem to have gone the way of the dinosaur. The hunting is good but the bounty ...well you already know. 
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| 1/30/2011 11:53:01 AM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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I like the women around my age that say they want fit,certain height only,good teeth.full head of hair,certain income blab,blab,blab....I'm thinking if a guy had all that why the F... would he be with some old picky B*tch. 
Yep..!!
You gone one hell of
a good point there..!!..!!
D-D
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| 2/12/2011 3:42:44 PM |
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idntundrstndyou
Wilmington, NC
33, joined Jan. 2011
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So, what things in a women's profile will make you run, not walk, the other way?
Poor grammar, spelling and punctuation,
Any profile done all in capital letters,
Anyone who is looking for "that one true love",
Religious viewpoints that aren't compatible,
Phantoms without pictures,
Statements about how most men are evil bastards,
I suppose that there's likely more, but I can't think of any right now.....
Note:I jacked the idea for this thread from the Womens World forum, but I filed off the serial numbers first.
ALl of the above,, and then some
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| 2/13/2011 7:46:52 AM |
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nevin81
Toledo, OR
27, joined Sep. 2010
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When she says she's looking for the perfect guy. Well, no man is perfect ladies, except in the movies.
When they have to much showing in their pictures. I'm a normal guy, but having to reveal that much to meet a guy? Nahhhh, don't think so.
A woman who doesn't take the time to describe herself a little. Come on ladies? Why are you here?
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| 2/14/2011 11:56:00 PM |
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toobigtube
Oklahoma City, OK
32, joined Nov. 2010
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When she wants shit that only happens in the movies...those god-awful arsty chick power queef fests..
Declare your love for me as if its your dyin breath in public..turn your back on those who betray ourlove..shit like that..
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| 2/16/2011 4:07:38 PM |
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feenixx
Venice, FL
50, joined Jan. 2011
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yeah ill agree wit christians, and someone who takes up the whole couch, but mostly christians.
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| 2/17/2011 8:16:21 PM |
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mainelyhere
Lisbon Falls, ME
30, joined Feb. 2011
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women that seem to want to convey just how independent they are. I get it! you dont need a man, stop cramming it down my throat.
Also, i dont understand it when 300 lb chain smoking mothers of 3 complain about how men are too picky.
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| 2/28/2011 11:25:21 AM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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Here is a real "red flag" to pay attention to:
And it does NOT matter whether her "kids" are
still at home or not...
Those "women" who say:
"MY CHILDREN come first"
"My kids are everything",
etc., etc..
---> THEY ARE DANGER.....!!!!
Speaking for myself...
Committing myself to a (my) woman..
Supporting her financially, emotionally, and
providing a good life for her,
Putting her foremost in my life,
and being the one she can count on, go to,
and look to for her health, safety and well being..
SHE DAMN well better put ME first in HER life..!!
I'd be DAMN leery of any wench talking bout
"puttin her kids first"
If her "kids" are all that..
then marry your darn kids, let THEM love, support,
take care of, and be there for you..
And I reinterate..
this is MY opinion..
yours may vary..
and should it..
I really don't give a crap..!!
 Digital Dog
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| 3/5/2011 7:57:37 AM |
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1dayillfindluv
Fresno, CA
47, joined Feb. 2011
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yup poor grammar and spelling. and the ever dreadful i have 5 or 6 kids or my kids are grown up. no mention of having a job or being independent thats a sign their on welfare. then after you start seeing them their like saying "your meant for me" and then they go scratching your car up
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| 3/5/2011 8:26:30 AM |
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mainelyhere
Lisbon Falls, ME
30, joined Feb. 2011
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any profile thats 90 percent telling what she hates about guys, or how she wont put up with crap or how shes a survivor or whatever and then a teeny tiny blurb describing her actual traits
im not meeting her to get a lecture.
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| 3/5/2011 8:04:51 PM |
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nightstyle
Crab Orchard, KY
64, joined Feb. 2011
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When they talk about how religious they are and in church every time the door is open.....I'm out
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| 4/12/2011 11:29:31 PM |
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rodneyg668
Seattle, WA
44, joined Jan. 2008
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Keep them coming guys...........
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| 4/14/2011 5:06:59 AM |
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linuxd
Jonesboro, AR
49, joined Dec. 2010
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Anyone into metaphysics or more than passing interest in astrology,
. Had a gal tell me we wouldn't work out well together because she was one sign and I was another.. She was right.. We didn't.
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| 4/14/2011 5:29:19 AM |
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cavie59
Enid, OK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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I think that you men have hit the nail on the head. I did not go back and read all of the posts, so if this has been said, sorry
One of the biggest "Red Flags" is if she says: I am not looking for a hookup, FWB, or sex. If that is what you want PASS ME BY.
Sorry but I think that a good sex life is a big part of a relationship. I am not looking to go without again.
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| 4/14/2011 9:08:24 AM |
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cdnbcn
Roseville, MI
48, joined Mar. 2009
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Just read another one this morning. She lost me at " I am opinionated" or the other one "I say what's on my mind"
Yeah that's what guys are looking for another a**hole who can't keep her mouth shut. Isn't that why most of us left the last idiot.
But don't get me wrong, the warning IS greatly appreciated.
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| 4/14/2011 7:18:07 PM |
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wilsonboy123456
Chatham, NJ
25, joined Apr. 2011
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well dude i think u covered almost all the basics! but more is no pics at all! usually means she is very ugly but is afraid to show it till u meet her in real life! and if she uses too many big words! that means she is probably a nerd! and girls that ask for WAY too much! oh, and those who have too many romance gifts!
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| 4/16/2011 12:07:14 PM |
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zscout370
Bella Vista, AR
31, joined Mar. 2010
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The thing that makes me run is about children. Even if she says she has no children, but always taking pictures with them, I tend to get worried.
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| 4/16/2011 12:52:29 PM |
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datavious23
Atlanta, GA
30, joined Jan. 2011
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When she puts 'Not Sure' or 'Didn't Say' for the answer of having children, then when you ask about it she puts it off until it's way too late to finally say, "Oh BTW! I have kids, didn't you know?"
I don't know how this is working out for others, but those who have put WAY too much stuff in their profile end up being WAY too picky. I'm not even gonna go there when it comes to saying all women are like this. I'm still treading waters, but they sure are getting murky.
totally agreed bro
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| 4/16/2011 1:04:30 PM |
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datavious23
Atlanta, GA
30, joined Jan. 2011
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i hate it when a female running her mouth about what she want out of a man (money, clothes, cars, own crib) and DO NOT have the same thing(a job and money should b enough)! And dont get me started on the females thats not looking for a "guy", their looking for a "god"! They want a man thats 6'0 and up (and shes 5'0..), he have to b muscular with all these good looks, and funny...what the F&*K is up with that? A "good" have to b funny too! And then always crying "why cant we find a good man!" the ugly-bold-headed-gold-diggers know im talking to you!
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| 4/16/2011 1:08:19 PM |
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datavious23
Atlanta, GA
30, joined Jan. 2011
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Here is a real "red flag" to pay attention to:
And it does NOT matter whether her " kids" are
still at home or not...
Those "women" who say:
" MY CHILDREN come first"
" My kids are everything",
etc., etc..
---> THEY ARE DANGER.....!!!!
Speaking for myself...
Committing myself to a (my) woman..
Supporting her financially, emotionally, and
providing a good life for her,
Putting her foremost in my life,
and being the one she can count on, go to,
and look to for her health, safety and well being..
SHE DAMN well better put ME first in HER life..!!
I'd be DAMN leery of any wench talking bout
"puttin her kids first"
If her " kids" are all that..
then marry your darn kids, let THEM love, support,
take care of, and be there for you..
And I reinterate..
this is MY opinion..
yours may vary..
and should it..
I really don't give a crap..!!
Digital Dog
lol ikr
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| 4/16/2011 1:23:04 PM |
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datavious23
Atlanta, GA
30, joined Jan. 2011
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Two of the catch phrases that I look for in a woman's profile are...
1. Looking for an "Honest" man... this means that she's jaded against the honesty of ANY man and won't believe your open and truthful even if you could prove it and Jesus Christ himself gave testimony that you are.
2. Looking for a "Real" man... what the f@#% kind of ambiguous statement is this? This term is just some rationalization for men to live up to their own individual code of expectations. It's based on preconceived notions of what their fantasy man would be, if he existed, and is pathologically ingrained into the psyche. When men don't meet up to this fairytale we are no longer "Real Men". This is an emasculating statement and tells me that I don't want to be around this woman. I AM real and don't want to be someone's fairytale.
I also despise unoriginality in a profile. Especially the self-centered opera singers... Me-Me-Me-Me-Me. Don't just give me a grocery list of what she likes to do and the traits she's looking for in a date. Everyone does that and it's BORING! Tell me a story, write a poem, draw me a picture of her favorite place, embed a playlist of favorite music. I can tell much better if I would like a woman from these things that break the surface of her guarded self image than anything she can say about herself. If she can't do this to get my attention, how will she ever hold it?
lol yea there "real" women dosnt even know what a "real" man is! 
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| 4/16/2011 7:33:05 PM |
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c_hart85
Port Arthur, TX
32, joined Feb. 2011
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I'm mature for my age, makes me feel you can't take a joke and why do you have to say it if you are? Lots of incorrect grammar, don't talk like that in public please. Says I ain't a ho or something similar but has tons of pics with her breast hangin out and bending over. You are an attention wh*re.
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| 4/17/2011 8:57:37 PM |
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barrydalmi
Baltimore, MD
54, joined Dec. 2007
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So many... I'm sure many have been mentioned but I will go ahead and add a few of my own.
1. All CAPS, especially God.
2. "Open minded and outgoing"
3. The words say "Not interested in one night stands or hookups" and all of her pictures are cleavage, butt shots and wet lipped kissy faces.
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| 4/20/2011 3:58:43 PM |
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loki2k10
Kaysville, UT
36, joined Dec. 2010
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What about those pics of women that look as manly or more so than you? Terrifying as hell!!
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| 4/20/2011 5:06:36 PM |
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mainelyhere
Lisbon Falls, ME
30, joined Feb. 2011
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a TOO involved profile.
When a woman's page looks like she set up a website, has 500 friends and has an automatic music player on it, special background and animated gifs- i can tell right off the bat, shes using this site as her social life ( because people in real life cant stand her).
It's sad because she will never find a normal guy, just some spineless mook that she can push around while she chats on here 8 hours a day.
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| 4/20/2011 5:07:18 PM |
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mainelyhere
Lisbon Falls, ME
30, joined Feb. 2011
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3. The words say "Not interested in one night stands or hookups" and all of her pictures are cleavage, butt shots and wet lipped kissy faces.
and she has 3 kids and shes in her 20's, smokes and drinks like a fish. 
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| 4/21/2011 4:56:53 PM |
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drumrman72
Las Cruces, NM
52, joined Dec. 2010
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now that's funny!
sad! but funny!
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| 4/21/2011 10:54:51 PM |
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mainelyhere
Lisbon Falls, ME
30, joined Feb. 2011
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all i know is, living in maine, every single female of legal age is either 1) obese or 2) has kids and smokes heavily.
heres a secret ladies- "smokes regularly" is a huge turnoff for many guys
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| 4/22/2011 1:58:19 AM |
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chalkos
San Francisco, CA
27, joined Mar. 2011
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I took 30 minutes before posting this because you guys are so SPOT ON and my inside still hurts after laughing so hard at most of you guy have said.
Now let's begin with this long journey:
Body type: A few extra pounds
When I look at her pictures I see Airbus A380-800s, Boeing 747-8is, heavy freighters etc. If she doesn't love herself and don't even bother to take her of her body, HOW THE HELL does she thinks she'll be attractive to one of us? Go to the gym and then come back please.
Smoke: Absolutely not.
Has kids: she could be the hottest girl on this site, but why do any of us have to take care of someone's else kid. The douchebag who got you pregnant didn't have the balls to look after his child(s) and you expect other men will?
Profile description (Now hold on, because I will be very harsh here)
No description: You don't know who you are and don't have anything good to say about yourself. I can tolerate it if you just made your account, but if it's been a while I'll just skip over you.
"I'm a down to earth girl...":
I don't know what the hell are they trying to mean with this but these chicks are way out of the stratosphere.
i LiKe tO hANg oUt wItH mA frIeNdS:
Is this how you speak? I would have typed better using my feet.
"So, just send me an email if you're interested and want to chat"
These girls NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER N-E-V-E-R reply a damn message. Sooner than later you see she read it/didn't reply or deleted it.
"Just looking for chat"
Why are you here then? There are TRILLIONS of CHAT rooms around the world. This is a DATING site. DATE (D-A-T-E: both verb and noun) it's in the very name of this website, for sake.
Too many DON'Ts: "don't send me nude pics", "don't message me if you blah blah etc etc", "don't even bother", "don't ask for my number/e-mail", and the don't list keeps going and going.
Extreme negativism and b*tchy behaviour. Then DON'T even bother joining this site and DON'T breathe because this world DON'T deserve negative people like you. At some point (if you're fortunate and any guy finds you interesting) he will ask for your number/e-mail. You're gonna give it away or deny it? Absolute incongruence here. Again, this is a dating site and we are supposed to DATE if everything goes well.
"I want a guy who is cute"
If you join a dating site with this mentality you'll probably get messages just from all the guys who will never match your physical preferences (yeah because you are a supermodel who looks like Mila Kunis and you're waiting for a Justin Bieber-looking guy to e-mail you), delete them, and stay the night lonely at your home LIKE EVERY DAY.
... and they say they're not shallow.
Talking TOO MUCH about their career:
We are glad you're getting your diploma but what's the point? You look for a guy who sacrifices everything for you, treat you like the princess of the world, and give you support, don't you? At the end of the day you'll stay at home with the kids and we'll be doing all the hard work.
There are many things I'd like to cover but I'm sleepy now. I'll post the rest later. You guys, keep it coming.
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| 4/22/2011 1:31:21 PM |
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vermont34
Rutland, VT
41, joined Jan. 2010
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when they start that no booty calls and no you cant have my number.if i am not interested leave me alone.drama drama drama undatable.
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