| 7/1/2009 3:53:00 PM |
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rodneyg668
Seattle, WA
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So, what things in a women's profile will make you run, not walk, the other way?
Poor grammar, spelling and punctuation,
Any profile done all in capital letters,
Anyone who is looking for "that one true love",
Religious viewpoints that aren't compatible,
Phantoms without pictures,
Statements about how most men are evil bastards,
I suppose that there's likely more, but I can't think of any right now.....
Note:I jacked the idea for this thread from the Womens World forum, but I filed off the serial numbers first.
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| 7/1/2009 5:52:07 PM |
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chris1958
Mooresville, NC
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When I see they are a God fearing woman looking for the same and go on and on about the religion then pictures of them in little black dresses up to their a** and boobs hanging out guess that's what all go church going women wear these days.... 
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| 7/1/2009 6:23:11 PM |
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wayward_son
Prince Frederick, MD
28, joined Dec. 2008
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1. WhEn ThEy TyPe LiKe ThIs
2. Wen Dey T@lks lyk dis.
3. when they say they just got out of a horrible relationship in profile.
4. When the picture is of a girl that is way to hot to actualy exist on this or any other site.
5. When nothing is provided at all.
6. when they say they are a b*tch/bossy/things of that sort.
7. christians.
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| 7/1/2009 9:14:08 PM |
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wholebean
Pryor, OK
60, joined Jun. 2009
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 7/2/2009 7:56:39 AM |
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mmilesg
Lima, OH
39, joined Jun. 2009
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When she puts 'Not Sure' or 'Didn't Say' for the answer of having children, then when you ask about it she puts it off until it's way too late to finally say, "Oh BTW! I have kids, didn't you know?"
I don't know how this is working out for others, but those who have put WAY too much stuff in their profile end up being WAY too picky. I'm not even gonna go there when it comes to saying all women are like this. I'm still treading waters, but they sure are getting murky.
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| 7/2/2009 8:14:14 AM |
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spider77
Adamsville, AL
66, joined Oct. 2008
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MY KIDS ARE MY WORLD. In OTHER WORDS I HAVE NO TIME FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE ELSE. NICE POLITICALLY CORRECT LIE!
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| 7/3/2009 10:32:35 PM |
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fastcarguy54
Marlton, NJ
62, joined Jul. 2009
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When the picture doesn't match the age, and it appears to be their mother.
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| 7/15/2009 3:51:35 PM |
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vapeninsula
Newport News, VA
57, joined Jun. 2009
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The women have their "friends first" thread going. They're badmouthing us because some men don't care much for it. They say it means they want to get to know us first. Well why not say so? What do you guys think it means?
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| 7/16/2009 7:31:36 AM |
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serenityfrank
Toms River, NJ
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P R U D E S ,,,an those just waitin to Die,,,life is too short to waste!
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| 7/16/2009 4:59:18 PM |
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celtics12
Holbrook, MA
39, joined Jun. 2009
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I will repeat what I had mentioned in another thread about the same topic.
Having a long list of requirements
Negative profiles - such as complaining about their previous relationships or stereotyping the opposite gender
No full body shots ( they only have face shots or pictures at weird angles )
A woman states "average" or "a few extra pounds" when she is clearly obese
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| 7/16/2009 9:09:34 PM |
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redshyguy25
Spokane, WA
33, joined Jul. 2009
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1. They can't write a decent sentence, let alone paragraph.
2. They have a kid(s). Kids are okay in general, but I don't want the responsibility ATM.
3. Insanely active people. I don't mind athletics, but I want someone I can at least TRY to keep up with.
By the way, "a few extra pounds" and "obese" aren't necessarily different. In the drop-down menu for body type, the next option would be "large"; a woman could be obese without being considered "large" (not in my family  but for some people).
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| 7/17/2009 8:38:05 AM |
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j48356
Highland, MI
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check out what they write in the forums and on their blogs that can give you a good idea of why they are single. you can see some real sweethearts and some real B's
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| 7/20/2009 1:56:26 PM |
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bones01
Homeland, CA
68, joined Apr. 2008
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When they have pictures of "Cats" in their profile. Most "Cat Ladies" are truly "Nuts".
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| 7/22/2009 1:42:26 PM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
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I agree with "a few extra pounds" does anyone have any idea how many pounds a few extra pounds are? some say that, and look like an over grown gorilla in their picture, so it must be quite a few, ok, men lets see if we can determine how many "a few extra pounds " is
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| 7/23/2009 10:50:21 AM |
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95north
Holbrook, MA
39, joined Jul. 2009
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Being overly picky
Generalizations about men
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| 7/23/2009 3:50:13 PM |
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chasingshadows
Vernon, NJ
36, joined Oct. 2008
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I can't get very far with the woman if she doesn't take some time to write a profile that shows she has at least a sliver of personality. Or big jugs.
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| 7/23/2009 8:03:54 PM |
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singer_man
San Jose, CA
59, joined Jul. 2008
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Lots of great answers here, guys, and I agree with many of them. The one I didn't see was any signs of clinginess (maybe that falls under looking for that one true love, I don't know.) I really like a woman who is independent. And, don't even get me started on this weight thing. I mean if they're fat there are DIETS available!? But no, they want us to love or like them for who they are on the inside. I'm a guy and like all of us guys I have to be physically attracted. Don't these women know that?
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| 7/24/2009 6:20:12 AM |
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tedpeterson
Los Angeles, CA
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If all her pictures are taken from a camera that's over her head so you only see her face and shoulders, she's fat.
If all you see are headshots, she's fat.
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| 7/24/2009 3:15:39 PM |
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singer_man
San Jose, CA
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Yes, good point, Ted. I just think it's important that, single or not, people should do what it takes to keep themselves in a healthy bodily state; i.e. good diet and exercise, right? If it's genetic then I don't have an answer for that. But, when there's a choice involved I do. I've had my gym membership for over 16 years and keeping my body in shape has worked in getting lots of interested looks from women. Many women really like it when a man takes care of himself physically, and I don't think it's fair if they don't do the same and yet expect to attract someone who does. I also think that the level at which a person cares for his/her body shows how much that person cares about HIS/HER SELF, and that's important to me. But this is how I see it, and other men may not. Besides, as I age I don't want to slow down. I need a woman who can keep up with my energy level - plain and simple.
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| 7/24/2009 4:32:07 PM |
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keith1963
Columbus, OH
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Jesus you guys are so freakin shallow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No wonder you don't have a woman! And like you all are God's gift to women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 7/24/2009 4:49:43 PM |
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singer_man
San Jose, CA
59, joined Jul. 2008
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Jesus you guys are so freakin shallow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No wonder you don't have a woman! And like you all are God's gift to women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
kieth, you're entitled to your opinion. But you really don't know the first thing about me-really. And, if I were you, I'd lay off the judgements. It's OK not to see eye to eye on some subjects, but you can do so and still be an adult about it.
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| 7/24/2009 8:09:44 PM |
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keith1963
Columbus, OH
54, joined Jun. 2009
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Well, you're not me, & I was perfectly adult about it. Good grief guys!!!!!!!!!!!1
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| 7/24/2009 8:56:48 PM |
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micheal_d
Marshalltown, IA
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what i hate are the ones without pictures....what are they hiding?
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| 8/16/2009 9:50:48 AM |
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slang625
Bristol, CT
47, joined Jun. 2008
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Here's my favorite and I've seen this quite a bit in many profiles and even worded differently......
"...I'm very busy..."
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| 8/16/2009 9:07:57 PM |
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roguewriter
Oklahoma City, OK
45, joined Aug. 2009
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Ok - When they answer Not Sure to politics or religion. Use Dont say, but anyone who is an adult and not sure is suspicious ( or clueless)
The other thing to watch for is all the women from 25-35 that say they have kids but they dont live with them. This is a HUGE Red flag because there is a DAMN good reason she doesnt have her kids. I steer clear of those.
Also some keywords in their Screennames:
Jesus
Freak
Princess
Nut
Sometimes they think these are harmless, but if you know a little about psychology, you can read between the lines of the profiles.
JMO
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| 8/17/2009 3:48:00 PM |
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stl1
Saint Louis, MO
63, joined Jun. 2007
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"Don't believe in pre-marital sex" or "believe sex is only for procreation."
 (for all you spying women)
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| 8/18/2009 12:34:56 AM |
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jacob808
Honolulu, HI
34, joined Aug. 2009
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When they post the usual sh*t like how they looking for some nice sweet guy to sweep them off their feet. Then they go on about the honesty and faithful crap.
Oh and of course, alot of them will say how personality matters more than looks. what a crock..
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| 9/17/2009 7:13:31 AM |
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bones01
Homeland, CA
68, joined Apr. 2008
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When theey're looking for a "Knight in Shining Armour".
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| 9/18/2009 6:27:52 PM |
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rodeoman20
York, PA
28, joined Sep. 2009
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well...to be honest here guy's...if you look at what everyone said...it pretty much sum's it all up
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| 9/19/2009 12:14:05 AM |
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phillip458
Santa Barbara, CA
63, joined May. 2008
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You all, as rodeoman says, got it just about all wrapped up (except for Keith). I posted a new topic yesterday, suggesting that we clue these women in. Then maybe we all might find out that THEY are the ones who need to get with reality, and stop complaining (and sometimes misleading), and say what they really want! Internet friends are available.
___ My favorite discovery is women who are just mad about animals. And I do mean 'mad' in another way; as in crazy. One on Singlesnet.com (I think that she was there, on SN) was snuggling up to an opossum!!!
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| 9/19/2009 8:20:01 AM |
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travelinman2
Cape Coral, FL
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I like the women around my age that say they want fit,certain height only,good teeth.full head of hair,certain income blab,blab,blab....I'm thinking if a guy had all that why the F... would he be with some old picky B*tch.
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| 9/20/2009 2:12:18 AM |
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rodeoman20
York, PA
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as philp said, there are some werid one's...o.k..im a rodeo cowboy...yes i DO own a horse..he's awsome...but i don't have 16 pic's of him on my profile lol IM the one trying to find a date...not him!!!
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| 9/22/2009 4:07:46 PM |
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donovan301
Atlanta, GA
67, joined Sep. 2009
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As some have said: The women who have religious screen names. Then go on to describe how chist like they are and is looking for the same. However: They want a man who is "financially secure", business oriented etc etc. Religious but looking for a "sugar daddy" as so many of them are. In their 50's or 60's and have "never married" and "never had children".
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| 9/22/2009 7:19:30 PM |
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spider77
Adamsville, AL
66, joined Oct. 2008
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When they post the usual sh*t like how they looking for some nice sweet guy to sweep them off their feet. Then they go on about the honesty and faithful crap.
Oh and of course, alot of them will say how personality matters more than looks. what a crock..
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| 9/22/2009 9:54:56 PM |
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midnight08
Clarksburg, WV
46, joined Mar. 2008
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I agree with the "my kids are my life" and I look to see how many guy friends she has. Too many means she is playing and wants to see how many she can hook, or maybe play around with.
I look at the ages of guys she wants, if she is a couger, she has no morals. Big red flag
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| 9/23/2009 3:38:08 PM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
74, joined Mar. 2008
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 9/23/2009 7:40:08 PM |
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roboutland
Waukegan, IL
35, joined Apr. 2009
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i don't run away, but the term red flag applies to these, for me:
using words like "prince, "king" or "knight" to describe what they want.
using words like " booty call" in their personality description. ex. if you are lookig for a booty call, then look somewhere else...
using "princess" or "queen" to describe themselves.
using the words "b*tch" and "ho" or "hoe".
I would rather talk with someone with no picture, who typed in all caps, using bad grammar , punctuation, and spelling words wrong, than someone who uses the words above.
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| 9/24/2009 9:18:03 AM |
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serenityfrank
Toms River, NJ
59, joined Sep. 2008
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Bitterness
Contemptous Statements
Proffesional Victims
Overly Judgemental
Rigidity
Liars
Humorless
To Vauge,Evassive,(see liars)
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| 9/24/2009 6:41:31 PM |
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azmetalfan
Mesa, AZ
39, joined Mar. 2009
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NO description is annoying. Why set up a profile if you won't describe yourself. How can we be interested in more than your looks if we know nothing about who you are?
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| 9/24/2009 8:49:10 PM |
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yingyang
Bridgeport, CT
59, joined Nov. 2007
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Someone who goes on and on about she really does'nt need anyone,she's here just checking it out .
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| 9/29/2009 11:34:29 PM |
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logan22
Tampa, FL
30, joined Sep. 2009
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1. Kids; I'm too young to deal with someone's kids.
2. Morbidly obese or rail thin. I like my women to be decently sized.
3. They don't share any of my interests at all.
4. They can't spell a lick of English.
I'm probably missing some, but whatever.
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| 10/2/2009 11:40:42 PM |
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cottonnballs
Crane Hill, AL
65, joined Aug. 2009
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(this post has been flagged as inappropriate, sorry.)
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| 10/3/2009 2:59:23 AM |
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yajusneverkno
Oxford, AL
51, joined Oct. 2008
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I look at the ages of guys she wants, if she is a couger, she has no morals. Big red flag
Man, I gotta disagree with ya on that. I think I have pretty good morals and I like to F*@%, don't you? If she grown, I know I am, and I'll bury her face in that pillow if we both want it LOL
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| 10/5/2009 4:43:46 AM |
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joshypoo9
Glendale, CA
46, joined Feb. 2009
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Women who are looking for unreal expectations from a guy.
Women who are caught up too much w/looks, and who looks good on their arm, then getting to know that person.
Women who want a man to pay all the bills, and do everything, and they do nothing.
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| 11/13/2009 1:05:12 PM |
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goodcharlotte
Mishawaka, IN
36, joined Jan. 2009
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If all her pictures are taken from a camera that's over her head so you only see her face and shoulders, she's fat.
If all you see are headshots, she's fat.
dude, you took the words right out of my mouth, who are they trying to fool ?!?
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| 11/13/2009 6:50:57 PM |
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maxj409
Troy, MI
71, joined Feb. 2009
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First of all - if it says anything other than non-smoker I stop right there. Red Light.
The next thing is I look at the pictures. If I see a dog or cat or whatever pet, that sets up a red flag.
It means she is attached to the pet and I'm trying to interrupt something. Many times I've been with a woman and she would lean over hug the dog, rub it's tummy, etc while the dog licks her face. Later when I try to lick her face .. well, you know.
Then, in the description part, it always says she wants an honest man; but in her pics there are four different hair colors and three different lengths. Huh?
Reading between the lines is a must. anyone who is open to anything usually is not, or is in a contest with a girl friend to see how many guys she can nail on this site.
No Game Players usually means she makes all the rules and the guy better play her way.
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| 11/14/2009 3:59:03 AM |
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honest_n_free
Bismarck, ND
49, joined Nov. 2009
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Very good job,
I have one to add "he has to take care of me." Meaning, a trained mindless servant.
I like the comments of independence and sharing good times. She isn't clinging, but will still hang out.
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| 11/18/2009 8:48:06 AM |
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saesph1
Centerville, PA
56, joined May. 2009
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Overly effectionate to pets in their main picture.
No sense of humor in profile.
No job listed or 'retired' at 45.
"Kids are first", that should be taken for granted.
Separated for a long time without being divorced
Have kids, don't live with me, RED FLAG, where is the prozac.
on the other hand:
Friends before benifits I understand.
Average, or "a few extra pounds" is normal here in NW Pensyltucky.
To each his/her own.
I prefer a balanced body shape. I have met many women that are 5' 5",170 lbs
and are VERY attractive.
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| 12/23/2009 6:45:29 PM |
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martin_d18
Green Valley, AZ
56, joined Dec. 2009
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When a Woman states "I don't need a Man in my Life, but I want One"........
Uh, Goodbye then because I don't need your Drama either.
[Edited 12/23/2009 6:46:18 PM ]
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| 12/25/2009 12:28:27 PM |
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brock25
Fort Lauderdale, FL
39, joined Dec. 2009
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Obesity
Having a huge list of strict requirements
Negative comments about their ex-boyfriends or men in general.
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| 12/26/2009 11:43:16 PM |
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arcangel210
Corpus Christi, TX
60, joined Nov. 2009
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NO PITURE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 12/27/2009 12:55:43 PM |
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sdcentaur
Sioux Falls, SD
57, joined Dec. 2007
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I started with online dating in 1994 when m a t c h (dot) c o m first came online and was free, and in IRC dating chats before that.
Chin up though, I did find the perfect lady on DH Just sticking around because it annoys certain people
Big red flags for me?
No picture or only head-shots/glamor-shots. Pictures with heavy makeup or only pics with sunglasses.
Obviously old pics, check the hair and clothing styles...
More pics of their dog(s) cat(s) kid(s) car(s) than of themselves.
Bible quotes.
Statements like "X is my entire life" X can be work, kid(s), Church, whatever. Unless they're looking for a FWB type relationship, sometimes they use that as "bait" to lure you in though......
Over 40 and never married/been in a long term relationship. They're set in their ways and/or there's a reason nobody could put up with them for very long.
The "Just got out of a relationship" statement, good or bad they're on the rebound and that's never good news. Sometimes it means "Thinking about a divorce and I want to f**k around on him first". If they say they're divorced ask when and where it became final, most Counties have those records online now. If it was less than a year just say no.
"A few extra pounds" can mean anything from 10 to 150 but usually a lot more than 10. I don't mind a lady who's a bit overweight but it's the honesty aspect of it that bothers me. "BBW" wouldn't stop me from considering a lady (to a point) as long as she's honest about it.
The first meeting can tell a lot, if their profile and what they've said in chat/email didn't match what I saw one the "first date" I learned that there was one of two things going on.
They were desperate and lied, hoping you would overlook it when they dazzled you with their personality (Or oral skills). But if they'd lie about something so apparent then what else would they lie about in the future and what else are they hiding?
They're self deluded. They really do think they look the same as they did 10 years and 100 pounds ago. What other little "quirks" do they have?
After a few hard lessons I learned to use the same response to both types.
(1)Finish your coffee, beer, meal, whatever.
(2)Pick up the check and leave a nice tip.
(3)Run like hell.
Sometimes there are incompatibilities that aren't noticed by either person until they get to know each other in person. It happens. In that case we parted ways with no hard feelings and one lady I met on another site actually referred me to this one after things didn't work out with us.
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| 12/27/2009 7:59:33 PM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
74, joined Mar. 2008
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Holding a damn dog in her arms, and loving it up LOLOLOL
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| 1/5/2010 9:29:29 AM |
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dm3301
Salem, OH
36, joined Oct. 2009
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When I see "divorced" it makes me wonder what I'd be getting into. Also, I shy away from women with children, not because I don't like children, but I believe I should have my own before taking care of someone elses. Phrases like "my family is my top priority", I mean, family should be of utmost importance, but women shouldn't make implications that the man she chooses to be with, who will be supporting her and her children as a husband and father figure, will always be the low man on the totem pole when it comes to importance. Big turnoff for me.
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| 1/5/2010 3:29:41 PM |
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luckylouie42
Cedar Grove, WV
74, joined Mar. 2008
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News flash for you DM, the husband, father, always comes after the children with a woman. so get used to it.
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| 1/5/2010 10:35:25 PM |
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martin_d18
Green Valley, AZ
56, joined Dec. 2009
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When a Woman states "I don't need a Man in my Life, but I want One"........
Uh Guys, I just learned something recently........the Statement above is actually a "Code phrase" and it means this: She is a Control Freak, it's either Her way or the Highway. So this should be a HUGE Red Flag for any Guy.
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| 2/9/2010 11:50:29 AM |
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elprimo41
Paterson, NJ
49, joined Jan. 2010
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1-When they dress half naked they send the wrong impression. 2-they don't reply,that's part of Honesty. 3-No picture on profile,but want to see yours. 4-To picky in order to be (HAPPY)! 5-They won't give a chance,you have to perfect. They can't recall that no one is perfect,even them.
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| 2/10/2010 9:59:08 PM |
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saxpistols
Temple, TX
54, joined Dec. 2007
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I agree with "a few extra pounds" does anyone have any idea how many pounds a few extra pounds are? some say that, and look like an over grown gorilla in their picture, so it must be quite a few, ok, men lets see if we can determine how many "a few extra pounds " is
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| 2/11/2010 2:05:20 AM |
So what are your red flags when you read a womens profile? |
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doctorseuss
Elma, WA
41, joined Aug. 2009
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"recently single" is aparently code for "meet me down the street cause my boyfriend thinks i'm goin to my sisters for a couple hours"
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| 2/15/2010 9:25:56 PM |
So what are your red flags when you read a womens profile? |
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pinguinorojo
Johnson City, NY
31, joined Feb. 2010
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I'll keep in mind many of these for whenever I look for a Long term thing...
For now, I'll ignore some of those...
> Young girls that are looking for 'the man of her life' or that have profiles describing what they want for a husband.
> Unable to spell or write in a legible manner.
> Drug use, heavy drinking, smoking.
> Likes to listen to rap and hip hop or lists the name of rappers known to idealize cop-killing, drug consumption, guns, money, bling, and more importantly HOS.
Has kids and/or no job and is looking for a man who will give them 'support'. (I can give moral, but no $$$)
> IMPORTANT: "Wants my mind, not my body." (another iteration is, "Wants me for me and not my body") >>> This may be a sign that SHE is the shallow one and you may be wasting your time sending a message.
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