12/1/2007 8:05:18 AM |
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truckingchic
Lincoln, NE
age: 35
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Ok, well I'm new to all this. I thought that I made myself clear on all profiles (not just this site) that I wanted friends not just a NSA relationship. I don't think I'm ugly or anything but all I get are the guys looking for just one thing. Never any more than that. I am (I think) a cute chic with good personality but don't have much time on my hands. I work in a man-dominated line of work (I drive a truck over the road) but most guys on road are either disgusting or married or whatever....not my thing. How hard is it to find a good guy to be friends with, go out to dinner with, drinks, ect. I am not looking for a relationship either. Seems thats all everyone is seeking...either a NSA or relationship. How do I find what I'm looking for? Any suggestions would be great. Just want to make sure I'm doing right thing here.
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12/1/2007 8:06:53 AM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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post a picture and just keep hitting the block button
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12/1/2007 8:08:44 AM |
Need some advice on finding someone not wanting just NSA |
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truckingchic
Lincoln, NE
age: 35
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have photo but its being reviewed right now.....
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12/1/2007 8:10:18 AM |
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drdaniel
Las Vegas, NV
age: 49
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I think real friendships between man and a woman are hard, especially those that are not sexual. More and more people are becoming "friends with benefits", indicating friendship, sex but not an emotional or romantic involvement and often freedom to keep searching. In fact, my neighbor has one of these. To find a good guy, wanting a "pal" is hard, if you are attractive, it is natural for the guy to want more from you. Consider a gay guy, or a girlfriend if you want to be sure sexual desire is never an issue. Daniel
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12/1/2007 8:11:35 AM |
Need some advice on finding someone not wanting just NSA |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Then patience..and keep posting your views..and stay out of the sex forums..
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12/1/2007 8:11:56 AM |
Need some advice on finding someone not wanting just NSA |
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truckingchic
Lincoln, NE
age: 35
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its not that i dont ever want it to not be an issue its that I don't want someone that is just looking for that only. Eventually would like more but want friends first before anything...and they dont understand that. First date...want sex...not happening.
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12/1/2007 8:15:21 AM |
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drdaniel
Las Vegas, NV
age: 49
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I've had the same problem. Almost every American lady I date wants sex within 2 dates. The idea of developing a friendship first seems to be disappearing. I think it's a sweet and nice idea, if that's your plan make it clear up front and stick with it. A good guy will respect your feelings and wait some weeks. yes, a cute picture would be helpful for all. Daniel
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12/1/2007 9:51:42 AM |
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savemebaby
Bronx, NY
age: 53
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Thats just what Im talking about you guys, just go to the SAVEMEBABY page and chech it out. You guys think that You Know The Questions and the answers, well hear is one of the questions on my blog, that I'll give out for free...
"why do woman hold on to past issues, only to express them when the current issue at hand, HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT" You woman and guys know excatly what I mean...
My topics may make you a bit hot and bothered and or just simply put mad as hell at me , but there real with substance, straight forward, up front and personal...
Question, Do you dare go to the SAVEMEBABY page, just to take a look or do you think you can't handle it...
Just check me out, it can't hurt, but damn it would help kill the noise...
Listen, Holla Back and to the Forum Boss, Thanks and please excuse me for the interuption,
Take Care Poeple and I hope to hear from you soon...
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