| 12/7/2007 8:49:49 AM |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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congrats on winning the award for "topic that is going nowhere and is getting far too many reponses!"
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| 12/7/2007 8:55:11 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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holdinpanama
Panama City, FL
age: 44
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yea shes not getting it move on he doesn't want you that way damn go out and get you some you to get over it your not gonna get it HE DOESN'T WANT YOU AND YOU ARE ONLY GOING TO KEEP HURTING UNTIL YOU CUT ALL CONNECTIONS WITH HIM POINT BLANK
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| 12/7/2007 8:55:30 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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defiantbadgirl
McPherson, KS
age: 34
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nothing is mutual if it's based on deception
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| 12/7/2007 9:01:31 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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arreis
Cottonwood, AZ
age: 46
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...bad girl, your fighting a losing battle, and wasteing alot of energy doing it. I dont think you are listening to what the responses are here....respect the opinions posted and you might learn something....
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| 12/7/2007 9:05:38 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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defiantbadgirl
McPherson, KS
age: 34
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You're right, I might as well break off all contact with him. I can't agree to a friendship with someone who has treated me unfairly and refuses to do anything about it. He can apologize all he wants....words mean nothing if they're not backed up with actions. I just thought someone may have another idea on getting that through his thick skull. He's not saying he wants to be friends to let me down easy. He's actively insisting on a friendship I can't give him.
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| 12/7/2007 9:07:18 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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holdinpanama
Panama City, FL
age: 44
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well there you go you answered your question so get on with your life its his loss
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| 12/7/2007 9:15:36 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49 online now!
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I cannot imagine why you think anything in life would be fair! You are 34, has life been fair till now?
You have used that word sooo many times!
Life is not fair!
We make our own choices (on you for givin out the benifits), you have to take responsibility for YOUR life!
Who gives a f*ck what he wants? This is making you miserable...
[Edited 12/7/2007 9:16:14 AM]
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| 12/7/2007 9:17:56 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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hornyangel
Guyton, GA
age: 49
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Well I say give it a break for a while and not go out of your way to see him. Sometimes abscence makes the heart grow fonder and he will wake the hell up and see it was there all along right in front of him.
Best of Luck
Ron
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| 12/7/2007 9:27:03 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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defiantbadgirl
McPherson, KS
age: 34
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stellablue, me giving out those benefits was based on his deception...if I had agreed to be a friend with benefits and then changed my mind, I could see your point. I never agreed to it. The only responsibility I take is for being deceived. As for the whole thing making me miserable, you're definitely right about that.
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| 12/7/2007 9:27:34 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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jeuss f*ck. i cant see how anyone wants to be friends with such a whiner.
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| 12/7/2007 9:27:51 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 60 online now!
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Defiant...
When a man *dates a woman*, he WANTS to give and receive happiness...it pleases him,
if he is a quality person. Friends communicate and help each other in daily life, regarding work, chores, the good times, the bad times, kids, and fun. Friends do NOT take sexual advantage of the other person. That is called using a person!!!
Do you guys have anything in common beside his need to play with your body, without having intercourse? He wants to touch, feel and play house, and call it *I did not have sex with that girl* That somehow keeps him in his religious approved atmosphere....
RED FLAG! This is all about HIM!!!
Please, make it your goal this week to treat yourself better...give yourself a chance to meet another person that will respect you, date you on real dates,( a movie, bowling, dinner, a social event) and of course hopefully fall in love with you.
This person, you have described, and somewhat defended, just wants to have you to be there when he needs something exclusive to him...sexual *get off*. He THINKS you are hooked, and cannot help but to give it out to him...on what ever level you allow, and he takes.
Pain will be experienced today, by ending the circle, or pain ongoing for his sole benefit. This is a train wreck...
What is in this for YOU???
Wine
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| 12/7/2007 9:29:07 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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shadow107
Gilmanton, NH
age: 50 online now!
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wow write a book !!!!!!! lol
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| 12/7/2007 9:33:23 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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defiantbadgirl
McPherson, KS
age: 34
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thanks winesong, it's good to hear from someone who realizes I never agreed to be used
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| 12/7/2007 9:33:47 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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photographerny
Camp Pendleton, CA
age: 25
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you stay, you agree.
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| 12/7/2007 9:37:55 AM |
he just wants to be friends |
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defiantbadgirl
McPherson, KS
age: 34
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I'm not staying. He is expecting me to be his friend when every time he takes a woman on a date, I will be reminded of him never doing that for me. He is insisting, I am refusing.
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