| 12/27/2007 2:30:33 PM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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ariescast
Brockton, MA
age: 47
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Hi steve.
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| 12/27/2007 2:32:48 PM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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ariescast
Brockton, MA
age: 47
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Right on neutrol.
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| 12/28/2007 11:47:05 AM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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ferrari348
Milford, OH
age: 46
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You have to look at the definition...I suppose I'm considered one of "those" in the sense of age/income etc. I play, just not with people's heads or hearts. I don't give a chit what happened in the past, everyday is a new one You don't live this long without battle scars both physical and emotional...it's how you deal with them that counts.
I think both men and women when they hit 40 have a better understanding of what they want and need (plus truely regret some of the stupid things they did in their youth )hence to catagorize by sex is well....sexist
Some people when they hit that 40 benchmark look at life for new challenges which in my opinion is a good thing. I also think bohemian is a serious hottie
JMO if I get racked I'm negotiable 
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| 12/28/2007 2:33:41 PM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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musicphoto
Winter Park, FL
age: 47
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All depends of what both side want for the relationship. After 40’s we (men & women) have had many experiences and references about relationships, some for good some for bad, but still references that determine our concepts of the opposite sex and what we want in the life. In my case, life stile, eating habits, openness and sexual chemistry is important to know if I going to get along with my future partner, and for that we have to share enough before decide if the person is the right person. I strongly believe in sex before make a decision, if does not work is better stop before any further commitment and before the heart get deeply wounded.
I the other hand if someone (me or women) is desperated looking for a relationship and is superficially looking (just for a good body build or just a pretty face), at the first most attracted person they will jump in a superficially commitment relation; the result is a big disappointment after a little while.
My theory is, if you want to be one of those (women or man) complaining about your sex life, go ahead a don’t “play” before. After all at 40’s and 50’s we still playing in the bed, or no?. We can not say “yes” if we are not ready to say “no”.
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| 12/29/2007 9:15:15 AM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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harleys2401
Appleton, WI
age: 45
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No I personaly am looking to meet someone to spend the rest of my life with,, yah sex is nice, But a lifetime friendship is much more important
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| 12/31/2007 6:53:30 AM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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ariescast
Brockton, MA
age: 47
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I'm glad that there are some people who still feel that way Harley. That is my goal also.
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| 12/31/2007 7:33:09 AM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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jazminx
Mount Airy, GA
age: 41
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Well, it seems to me, that a lot of the gals i know, once they got divorced went out for play also.
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| 12/31/2007 9:31:29 AM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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micop22
Lapeer, MI
age: 49
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In all honesty, I do not see men in their forty's looking for a casual sexual relationship. Oh, if they can find one they will take advantage of the situation. Perhaps a few but it is not the norm.
I feel most guys my age are looking for stability in their life and do not want to deal with allot of drama at this point in their lifes. Most men that have families, miss having a good woman next to them, especially at the holidays.
Many times women bring stability to the life of a man, even though he may never admit it. Believe me I am there and no relationship.
I hope this helps you understand a bit, from a mans perspective.
Have A Great New Year and Best of Luck.
Dave
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| 12/31/2007 10:36:17 AM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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ferrari348
Milford, OH
age: 46
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Well if any of you are looking for a drama queen in the form of a 6 foot big hootered blonde maneater I just put one on the market...good luck, watch your wallet,investments,cars (small animals etc), knife in the back etc, etc 
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| 12/31/2007 7:39:56 PM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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robert_47
Berea, KY
age: 47
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i see this all the time and ask myself the same question. "why are women over 40 so uptight about sex all of a sudden?"i'm not degradeing anyone but so what if a man wants you? sex isn't a dirty word just because your getting old.
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| 1/1/2008 10:41:13 AM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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m1chael
Shelbyville, IN
age: 40
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Too many unfortunately, that is how the rest of us get overlooked, we are lost in the shuffle of these " playing cards".
I prefer to be in a solid steady relationship as opposed to being alone all the time, and having to consantly be looking for someone...wears on ya after a while.
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| 1/1/2008 10:55:07 PM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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seasoning
Palmer, AK
age: 42
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wow, u guys have given me alot to think on. i don't think it's men more than women. i also think most of us aren't sure what we want till we get it or loose it.
I was told "when dating always keep your eyes wide open"
"when you get married, shut one eye"
i'll be thinking on what starts fast ends fast! what happens when your ready for commitment and your partner is ready for play? ( freedom )
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| 1/2/2008 4:24:54 AM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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collide64
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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If we are alone in our forties we just want to be sure it will last this time. I'm not starting over in my fifties. Just want to make sure it is the right fit. Scared of commitment? No, just overly cautious at times. There are players out there but they are of both sexes. Trust me on that one.
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| 1/6/2008 1:38:42 PM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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ariescast
Brockton, MA
age: 47
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That's exactly where I'm coming from colide. When I meet someone I want it to be for good. I've been single a long time. It took me a while to heal from my past but now I want to find my missing half and move on with my life.
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| 1/6/2008 2:48:05 PM |
Is it true that divorced men in their forty's just want to play??? |
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easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46
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which way to the country bar
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