4/9/2010 9:59:10 PM |
What things scare you away from a man? |
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strongheart53
Lewiston, ID
age: 54
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Dishonesty or Disrespect, I have a one strike rule for these..
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4/11/2010 9:28:41 AM |
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missmaggot
Santa Maria, CA
age: 21
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Chewing tobacco
makes their mouths disgusting ugh
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4/11/2010 12:34:15 PM |
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mad4
Manassas, VA
age: 65
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You all have great posts.
Mine is profiles that say they are good looking. You look at them IF THEY HAVE A PHOTO and they are far from good looking to me. Maybe to someone out there.
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4/11/2010 3:21:21 PM |
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missmaggot
Santa Maria, CA
age: 21
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Hairy, nasty feet
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4/15/2010 12:44:43 PM |
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jessamine01
Sacramento, CA
age: 26
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men who are indecisive
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4/16/2010 5:37:04 AM |
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chica12345
Lynchburg, VA
age: 50 online now!
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If he looks as if he doesn't know what a razor is, and his hair is longer than mine.
Another thing I fear is if everytime I walk out of my front door, he opens his
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4/16/2010 7:56:37 PM |
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skylark14
Chesapeake, VA
age: 67
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ditto
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4/17/2010 10:12:21 AM |
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rhodygal
New York, NY
age: 36
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Arrogant
Unreliable
Racist / Ignorance
Too Controlling / Demanding
Inconsiderate of others
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4/19/2010 8:54:35 PM |
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sleepynot
Wheatland, MO
age: 61
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How about the scammers that talk about their business and how much money they have but then go on an emergency trip and suddenly can't cash checks. Their kids get hurt and they have to have emergency surgery. Yet to make you feel guilty because you don't send them money be real careful girls!
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4/19/2010 9:44:21 PM |
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ilovepink81
Brooklyn, NY
age: 28
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Dishonesty is number one. If you lie to me, I can not trust you. And of course, verbal/physical abuse.
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4/20/2010 2:59:29 PM |
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yteews
West Ossipee, NH
age: 32
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Nothinging SCARES me away from anyone but the biggest turn off is a man without a pair of balls to go after what he wants in all aspects of his life.
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4/20/2010 6:55:26 PM |
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lilred_03
Gordon, AL
age: 22
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when they are pushy
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4/20/2010 7:30:56 PM |
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tie_die_turtle
Fargo, ND
age: 29
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Ok I must add something that I didn’t see however, I didn’t read all the pages either. I start running when an I find out that a man is a mama’s boy and is looking for a replacement for her. I am sorry I raised myself and now I am raising my kids I don’t need to raise a grown man as well.
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4/22/2010 6:23:02 PM |
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deedee158
Tampa, FL
age: 51
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the twits with a 10 word vocabulary
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4/22/2010 6:48:35 PM |
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singlelifeok
Mystic, CT
age: 53
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You all have great posts.
Mine is profiles that say they are good looking. You look at them IF THEY HAVE A PHOTO and they are far from good looking to me. Maybe to someone out there.
I love this. I want to know who told them this and why do they believe it? My mom tells me I'm good looking all the time, I've never believed her, she's my mom!!!!
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4/22/2010 10:12:33 PM |
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bug78
Joliet, IL
age: 32
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The way that they deal with their children can be a huge red flag
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4/24/2010 6:13:48 PM |
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caressmesoftly
Las Vegas, NV
age: 47
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manipulation...
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4/26/2010 2:42:16 PM |
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karazzietibbs
Rosemount, MN
age: 19
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to big of an ego
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4/28/2010 8:45:49 PM |
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monopolywise
Tinley Park, IL
age: 56
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Wanting you to play sex message with them, tell all of your personal information to them and they want you to build their over inflated egos. The one's who wouldn't know a decent conversation if it smacked them in the face.
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4/29/2010 10:45:45 AM |
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bethinmi
Milford, MI
age: 39
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How about..and this may have been said before..not sure..but what about, a man who is abusive in any way? Not sure about any of you, but when I GET that vibe, I run, FAST.
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4/30/2010 6:22:19 PM |
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krzyk76
Richmond, TX
age: 33
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ok some turn offs...lack of common courtesy, lack of common sense, and please do NOT use your shirt (around the collar) as a napkin!!!
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5/4/2010 10:46:43 PM |
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owlwisdom
Las Vegas, NV
age: 41
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When they want sex before they have ever met you face-to-face...cheap ones - expecting first date to go dutch....arrogant know it alls...always interrupt when you try to speak - this kind doesn't want to know you as a person, but expects you to jump in bed with them cause they bought you dinner. Hate that kind. Despise cheaters, liars, manipulative men. Zero tolerance for adulterers.
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5/6/2010 8:07:11 PM |
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satinsky2
Charlotte, NC
age: 61
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How about..and this may have been said before..not sure..but what about, a man who is abusive in any way? Not sure about any of you, but when I GET that vibe, I run, FAST.
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Abusive in ANY way, Run!
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5/7/2010 6:45:50 PM |
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orenishii
Havelock, NC
age: 44
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When he tells me I'm pretty yet he doesn't even have a pic up.
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5/8/2010 1:22:06 PM |
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meanasue
Hale, MI
age: 55
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If all of his part of a conversation is in the past.
If he spends more time building himself up, than getting to know you.
If he claims to love his children, but has never paid child support or tried to visit them.
If cartoons are the best part of his life.
I could go on and on here. I will add more later.
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5/9/2010 1:21:48 PM |
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suburbs128
Los Angeles, CA
age: 41
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Arrogance, racism / ignorance, inconsiderate, unreliable, controlling, constantly complaining or getting angry over minor things
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5/18/2010 3:20:57 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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Lack of intelligence, need for sex and temper.
And Sleepynot, I have so been there!! My latest one was a guy who said his co-worker got hurt and he gave him his money. He wanted me to give him the name of my bank so his employer could send his money here and I could send him money. Hmm!
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5/19/2010 2:05:40 PM |
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curvy_cutie
Providence, RI
age: 37
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There's a list I could type here but will name a big one to me:
Jealousy.
(Followed closely by selfishness)
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5/19/2010 2:06:36 PM |
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curvy_cutie
Providence, RI
age: 37
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manipulation...
AGREED!
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5/19/2010 10:56:23 PM |
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cutiepie4u2
Dalton, GA
age: 22
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When they act very childish when you feel like you have to watch your man or ur afraid he will do something stupid/embarassing...Also guys with no jobs.
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5/20/2010 7:56:17 AM |
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utahgal1
Ogden, UT
age: 50
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This is what I put on my profile! It's not too complicated.....oh, wait, we're talking about men understanding my quest. Hmm.
No Smokers
No Drinkers
No Drug Addicts
No Pornography
No Deceits
Must have a stable job
Must be an upstanding law abiding citizen
Must love animals
Must love children
Must have moral integrity
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5/20/2010 8:09:28 AM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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This is what I put on my profile! It's not too complicated.....oh, wait, we're talking about men understanding my quest. Hmm.
No Smokers
No Drinkers
No Drug Addicts
No Pornography
No Deceits
Must have a stable job
Must be an upstanding law abiding citizen
Must love animals
Must love children
There you go! Stick with it!
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5/20/2010 4:37:49 PM |
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simplysw33t
Marietta, GA
age: 19
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a man who lets himself be treated like a doormat
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5/20/2010 5:12:25 PM |
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faithful7707
Greenbelt, MD
age: 50
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5/20/2010 5:14:37 PM |
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faithful7707
Greenbelt, MD
age: 50
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I agree with hummingbird 15 statement
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5/20/2010 8:50:22 PM |
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familyheart
Irving, TX
age: 48
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Amen, Sister. A real man is confident, not bossy, strong not obnoxious and can be tender without simpering
Or so I have heard. Actually, I personally know six...my brothers. Why can't I find my own?
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5/22/2010 8:11:07 AM |
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sundress20
San Francisco, CA
age: 41
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A man who is racist or intolerant.
A man who is rude, disrespectful, or inconsiderate of others.
A man who is arrogant or self centered.
A man who is too demanding or controlling.
A man who is dishonest or undependable.
A man who has bad breath or body odor
A who who is a heavy drug user or an alcohlic.
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5/23/2010 7:30:58 AM |
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animluvr
Metairie, LA
age: 35
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A man who can't communicate
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5/23/2010 10:49:12 AM |
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aquarius04
Madison, WI
age: 52
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men have two faults Everything they say And Everything they do ... still got to have them though .can't live with them and can't live without them .
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5/23/2010 11:05:02 AM |
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aquarius04
Madison, WI
age: 52
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When dating someone and the both of you are enjoying each others company ,talking & having good time never fails he always bring up his past relationships. This is so very disrepectful ! Besides who cares !! How he was mistreated Ya Ya pretty much playing the victim
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5/23/2010 7:03:41 PM |
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animluvr
Metairie, LA
age: 35
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I like "utahgal1"'s list, plus add for me, controllers, jealousy, abuse (in any form), and those real* silent types. Not just people who get shy in public situations, but I mean men who don't like to speak most of the time to you for some reason- usually because of some past history situation or mental problems...leave them alone.
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5/24/2010 7:52:30 PM |
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animluvr
Metairie, LA
age: 35
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men have two faults Everything they say And Everything they do ... still got to have them though .can't live with them and can't live without them .
You're right Aquarius!
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5/30/2010 9:11:37 PM |
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no_more_hurting
Nashville, TN
age: 22
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I'm always afraid they are going to hurt me again. Either emotionally or pysically. Or they will leave me for some reason.
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5/31/2010 2:37:39 AM |
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sweetkylovin43
Hazard, KY
age: 46
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Is when i meet him for the first time & he has B O really bad shew wee.
Hygeine is a big +
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5/31/2010 2:40:02 PM |
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ttsbb5
Youngstown, OH
age: 52
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Men who think they LOOK BETTER than i do....
Men who have NEVER had a JOB....
Men who are too POSSESIVE....
Men who thinks THE WORLD OWES THEM SOMETHING....
Men whos MIND is always on SEX.....
Men who don`t even have a CAR.....
Men who try to MOOCH offa women
Men who DON`T know what SOAP AND WATER IS..
Men who think they are your BOSS..instead of a MATE....
Men who do not know how to PLEASE.. know what i mean?...
Men who stay DRUNK AND HIGH....
Men who cannot ADMITT...WHEN THEY ARE WRONG....
Men who CHEAT.....
Men who are DISRESPECTFUL....
AND MOST OF ALL....LYING A** MEN.......
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5/31/2010 3:18:32 PM |
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jennyann71
Clarksville, AR
age: 68
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Kids and grand children and tight with their money.""""" Never had a drunk so do not even know to say I do not want one which I do not.
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5/31/2010 7:53:45 PM |
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18green
Dallas, TX
age: 36
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A man who is racist or intolerant.
A man who is rude, disrespectful, or inconsiderate of others.
A man who is arrogant or self centered.
A man who is too demanding or controlling.
A man who is dishonest or undependable.
A man who has bad breath or body odor
A who who is a heavy drug user or an alcohlic.
Good list.
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6/1/2010 7:38:21 PM |
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ramenpancakes
Denmark, WI
age: 24
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As much of a gamer as I am, I'm turned off when he seems to spend more time and energy playing his games than on me. Don't forget controlling or even the opposite. I don't want to feel like I'm walking all over someone myself. There needs to be a balance.
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6/2/2010 12:27:27 PM |
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mis2riwoman
Youngtown, AZ
age: 55
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a man who's insecure, hot-headed, rascist,
alcoholics/drug users, hates his mother
or is bitter about women due to past experiences.
these are all red flags for me.
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6/2/2010 12:48:16 PM |
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virgomoon
Greenwood, IN
age: 57
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Just about everything about men scares me! I usually have gone out with men that are more aggressive and younger than me. The guy I am sort of seeing now is great, but just not for me. He is 10 years to young and way to busy for me. Nice guy, totally charming, just not for me. That is the problem though, the guys I want to meet are probably to shy to ask me out or I just don't know them. That is why I am trying this out, maybe the shy guys or quiet guys will find this easier. I think it's the dominating man that scares me the most. Maybe that is why I prefer a shy one. So confusing!
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6/4/2010 9:37:53 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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This should be self-explantory:
Hello Sweetie,
Good morning, Come with me and take my hand I will take you to a mystical land Upon my bed of a thousand roses Into which our love willingly imposes,The smell of our rose permeates the air Passionate touches with tender care One hundred candles luminous glow Replicating the moon from below Dancing shadows along the hall Sensual art forms on the wall Minds lost in the essence of time Slowly moving in passionate rhyme Cries of love and soulful desire Kindling inside the immense fire Temperatures soaring around the room The spirit of lust surrounding loom...I LOVE YOU
Lots Of Kissessss And Love
XOXOXOXOXOXO
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6/4/2010 11:03:05 PM |
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jules2793
Spokane, WA
age: 43
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men with kids, men who think you cant surive without them you know the type "What would you do without me"
Well I tell you I would not have to support your sory a** if you got a job and paid a bill or two you know that type.
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6/4/2010 11:14:16 PM |
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joni1955
Ridley Park, PA
age: 55
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Telling me that they have met the perfect woman and have stopped their search, after their first e-mail.
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6/8/2010 8:10:00 PM |
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jen_cece
Poland, NY
age: 25
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Telling me how to live my life, stealing money out of my purse and lying about it, selling my things for god damn pizza!!! "Forcing" me to stop smoking, unable to keep a job, kicking me because i accidently went to far over to his side of the bed...oh the list could go on for days!!
bastard.
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6/9/2010 7:03:15 AM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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Jen, I hope he's out of your life now.
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6/9/2010 8:06:22 AM |
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jen_cece
Poland, NY
age: 25
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Jen, I hope he's out of your life now.
Oh yes. I finally got smarted and kicked his a** to the curb
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6/9/2010 8:11:31 AM |
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jennyann71
Clarksville, AR
age: 68
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I am so sorry that happened to you""""""" but just Never let it happen to you ever again as you have a lot going for yourself""""" and You do not have to put up with that type garbage.
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6/13/2010 8:56:41 PM |
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ms1958
Lobelville, TN
age: 52
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I don't want to be called mama or grandma.
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6/16/2010 6:45:51 PM |
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officegal37
Arvada, CO
age: 47
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A man who is racist or intolerant.
A man who is rude, disrespectful, or inconsiderate of others.
A man who is arrogant or self centered.
A man who is too demanding or controlling.
A man who is dishonest or undependable.
A man who has bad breath or body odor
A who who is a heavy drug user or an alcohlic.
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6/17/2010 12:00:49 PM |
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zeeiva
Bowdon, GA
age: 56
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Hey ms1958 I am with you! My last one called me "fat ole granny" Has anyone mentioned neglectful and patronizing? Those are a couple I would like to add to all the above!
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