| 8/16/2009 12:02:01 AM |
What things scare you away from a man? |
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isoscales
Nashville, TN
age: 49
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| 8/16/2009 12:04:16 AM |
What things scare you away from a man? |
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isoscales
Nashville, TN
age: 49
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I'll post first. The inability to self reflect. 
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| 8/16/2009 8:38:56 AM |
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metalwench
Mount Carmel, PA
age: 41
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self centered..
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| 8/16/2009 10:06:50 AM |
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alicekathleen
Sacramento, CA
age: 65
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Both of those are great. I am also scared of any man who thinks motorcycles are cool, is religious, or has been
married more than once!
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| 8/16/2009 11:19:40 AM |
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futurebff
Lobelville, TN
age: 52
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I don't want to be involved with anyone with small children. How do you know if they want you for yourself or a baby sitter?
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| 8/16/2009 2:42:09 PM |
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hummingbird15
Shady Dale, GA
age: 69
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Controling, smothering and overly jealous  are my BIG turn offs.
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| 8/16/2009 4:13:24 PM |
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mholly
Mount Holly, NJ
age: 49
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when he treats his car better then me.
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| 8/16/2009 7:12:00 PM |
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red8061
Claremore, OK
age: 26
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A man that has to one up you everytime. ie: you get a new car he has to go out and get a new truck and boat. lol lame
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| 8/16/2009 7:36:15 PM |
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linkitty
Bozeman, MT
age: 54
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someone with a rotten temper, controlling, argumenative. Thinking they are the be all and end all of the relationship.
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| 8/16/2009 8:18:45 PM |
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forevernever
Silver Springs, FL
age: 42
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 the ones that lie, and think they can control you. oh, and the ones that think you are too dumb to know they are lieing. and yes the ones that have to get the better truck.
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| 8/17/2009 5:29:29 AM |
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libra115
Warren, MI
age: 63
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All great answers! Let me add the jealous type and those who think all men are better than all women.
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| 8/21/2009 11:45:48 AM |
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watscookin
Shelley, ID
age: 46
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Lack of confidence is my blanket term to cover jealoussy, control freak issues, competitive, disrespect . . . . A confident man is a huge turn on!!!
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| 8/21/2009 5:42:20 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 46
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Every time he opens his mouth to speak. 
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| 8/21/2009 6:32:53 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
age: 51
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hmmmmm....so many. How to pick
the ones who on their profile talk about sex and what they want to do to you.
the ones who have nothing on their profile.
the ones who come across as bitter
the ones who come across as needy
the ones who come across as humorless
the ones who...someone stop me. This could go on for awhile.
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| 8/23/2009 10:39:26 PM |
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justmysay
Wichita, KS
age: 40
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Not being themselves... like we can't tell they talk a great game but the home life is different.. (listening to what they say and how they act or react) Learned my lessons well... Honesty is big for me as well as Respect!!
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| 8/24/2009 3:18:52 AM |
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juliep
Beloit, WI
age: 44
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Not being themselves... like we can't tell they talk a great game but the home life is different.. (listening to what they say and how they act or react) Learned my lessons well... Honesty is big for me as well as Respect!!
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| 8/24/2009 6:05:28 AM |
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musicdesign
Rocky Hill, CT
age: 48 online now!
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When a man is not generous is all aspects of his life.
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| 8/27/2009 8:08:38 PM |
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tazz963
Rome, GA
age: 47
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when all his friends are women and he has a lot of secrets .
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| 8/27/2009 8:17:49 PM |
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rantinreddbeanz
Yazoo City, MS
age: 43
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My absolute number #1 turn off is a man who feels he's superior to me because he has a penis. I got news for those ones, we all start out as female, learn about fetal development. An just cause he's got a penis, that doesn't make him better than me, just different.
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| 8/27/2009 8:56:32 PM |
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vonica1751
Salinas, CA
age: 43
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When he knows something I had done or somewhere I have been that day and I didn't mention it.
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| 8/29/2009 1:57:31 AM |
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shyone2721
Tacoma, WA
age: 27
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Oh like what everybody is sayin but let me add my cgange to it what about the ones who think they are all ways right and your all ways worng and no matter what you to them your all ways worng and the ones who have to get the say in everything and oh yeah they all seem to think that they are gods gift to all woman
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| 8/29/2009 3:50:45 AM |
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cinisky
Ft Mitchell, KY
age: 48
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Controling, smothering and overly jealous.
I agree !
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| 8/29/2009 6:55:44 AM |
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amy030504
Stillwater, PA
age: 26
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I agree !
I'll third that.
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| 8/29/2009 1:34:36 PM |
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jjbriteyes
North Brookfield, MA
age: 46
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when all his friends are women and he has a lot of secrets .
That's a big one!! I hate the lies and secrets. When they are just too good to be true, then its a huge red flag. When they say they have a phone call he needs to take, call ya right back and 4 days later you're still waiting.
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| 8/29/2009 8:45:22 PM |
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satinsky2
Charlotte, NC
age: 61
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tries to control me, overly jealous with no reason, stingy, alcoholic
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| 8/31/2009 5:18:34 PM |
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romantic4life
Toledo, OH
age: 49
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Deceit, indecisiveness, whining about a woman's weight, secretiveness.
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| 9/4/2009 7:42:28 PM |
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abbynormal67
Virginia Beach, VA
age: 43
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I'd have to say, no small children...er um no children that are not responsible self supporting adults already. Run! I'm not playing the role of step mommy, baby sitter, domestic goddess or nurse for pita, disrespectful kids. Besides, I want hot, monogamous, frequent sex and that is difficult to do with kids around constantly.....this is my time.
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| 9/5/2009 10:09:51 AM |
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muttmomma
Lebanon, PA
age: 64
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being stalked will put me on guard, thankful for my dog!
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| 9/5/2009 1:22:28 PM |
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rsccc3
Athens, GA
age: 40
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the ones that ask you where you have been with a smile on ya face when you answer out , thats not good enough that smile turns to a evil grin , and its i asked u where you have been! thats when i grab my bag run like hell!!! pray that i kept the tire iron under front seat just in case! controlling , disrespectful, arrogant, bad tempered, just down right selfish ..... sorry my kids depend on me if a man can't accept that then i have no need for him, if he can accept that my kids are just that kids and they have needs they cant do for themselves and is willing to accept its my job to take care of those needs then hell yeah lets go!!!
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| 9/6/2009 5:59:17 AM |
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irishlady855
Philadelphia, PA
age: 55 online now!
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I cannot stand a man who always thinks he is right and you are wrong. Negativity....drives men crazy.
A man who looks down at you.........controlling....
ladies these are all great answers...at least we know what we are looking for.
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| 9/6/2009 7:33:26 PM |
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heatherness
Cheney, WA
age: 54
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I get scared away from men who can't manage their money
Those who need a woman to take "care" of them
Men who are pushy from the start of a relationship!! Always asking me to call them or meet them before I am ready. It's annoying and invokes guilt in me when I don't do as they ask.
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| 9/6/2009 9:40:27 PM |
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nikkiloy90
Fayetteville, NC
age: 20
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When you start messaging someone who seems to be really nice but they're overly eager to jump into something. For instance they're ready to meet after speaking to you once. Then there are the ones who automatically jump into talking about sexual things and you know from the start that they're not really interested in anything else but that. Out of all of these the one that scares me away from a man would be the man whose insecure about dating. We all know we've got our issues with meeting people or else we wouldn't be on this website. However, when you're worried that someone is going to stop talking to you after one conversation that sends up a red flag. I know what it's like to be hurt but you've gotta grow a pair after a while. 
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| 9/7/2009 2:11:01 AM |
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suzukiridergirl
Cleveland, GA
age: 49
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LOL...I just read a little in the Mens forum(and I had to stop)... some of it almost made me sick!
There seemed to be one or two out of 30 that was nice or decent.
That is scary!! Glad some guys dont even post there!!
Other than that,mostly the same things that bother other women.
And trust me,I wont go back into the Mens forum!!!
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| 9/8/2009 11:06:25 AM |
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alrose
West Point, GA
age: 61
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Ask me what all I own. They say something like...I lost everthing when I divorced..Do you own your home?
A bit personal to ask right away! Anyone that wants to keep track of where I am, what I do..
Hate control freaks!
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| 9/8/2009 6:14:53 PM |
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mlmccool1
Middleport, OH
age: 53
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lying.
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| 9/8/2009 10:50:45 PM |
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satinsky2
Charlotte, NC
age: 61
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When a man is not generous is all aspects of his life.
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I so agree. Was married to a Very stingy man. I was talking to a guy on DH, and he told me by phone how he had met a woman for the first time on DH and she had ordered a complete dinner. And he was upset by that. WTF? He had also talked about how he gave half of all of his disability VA income to his ex. This did not make sense until I realized he was such a bastard while married he Had to give his ex that much money. I just don't like stingy people.
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| 9/9/2009 12:08:11 AM |
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alrose
West Point, GA
age: 61
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Starts with his pill list!
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| 9/9/2009 10:02:55 AM |
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minkp
Decatur, GA
age: 37
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a long prison stay
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| 9/9/2009 2:55:21 PM |
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rsccc3
Athens, GA
age: 40
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well lets just say , have been chatting with someone on here for a while now and low and behold we plan on meeting and i get an email from his supposed girlfriend according to her and x according to him , its enough to throw my hands up in the air and say screw it , im done , grrrrr, i did put my profile to invisible and kinda decided to give myself the time to figure out what the hell is true or not, thanks to him he gave me his facebook and myspace pages so i can ask around there... grrr
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| 9/9/2009 3:30:03 PM |
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shiningthru
Bullhead City, AZ
age: 45
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What things scare you away from a man...Maybe Im odd in this respect, When he wants to caretake too much.I dont like too feel smothered or have a man do too much for me,like im incompetent.I might be small in size but that doesnt make helpless.
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| 9/10/2009 1:48:45 PM |
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jennyann71
Clarksville, AR
age: 68
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Chilren and he is IN the nest of them and especially grown daughters as they were born to boss Dad.
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| 9/10/2009 2:19:44 PM |
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justacountrygal
Catskill, NY
age: 39
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control freaks and liars
And yes guys, we can spot you a mile away!!!!
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| 9/15/2009 4:13:53 AM |
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miss16
Renton, WA
age: 19
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The kind of man that only talks about sex...
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| 9/16/2009 8:13:20 AM |
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freebyrd68
Marion, NC
age: 41
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i was chatn with this guy he kept telling me i was to pretty to talk to him wtf!!stop being a a** we dont even know each other,have some balls!!
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| 9/16/2009 8:14:59 AM |
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freebyrd68
Marion, NC
age: 41
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somebodys thats got multi kids with diffrent women
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| 9/16/2009 1:06:10 PM |
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steamywoman
Saint Augustine, FL
age: 63
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Judging everyone and he knows EVERYTHING!!!! Hate it.
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| 9/16/2009 1:47:31 PM |
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msbling21
Temple, TX
age: 52
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no pics, say they are american but write with a foreign dialect, say they are educated and can't form a sentence. widowed with a tragedy story and small children. any thing that makes me feel scam. first thing ask you to go to another site to chat.
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| 9/16/2009 4:19:30 PM |
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baby_nichole10
Bradley, AR
age: 19
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The things that scare me away from men the most is how they wanna judge u for what someone else did to them and not give u the chance to prove to them that ur not like that. I also cant stand when a man only wants to talk about his car or how hot the girl next door is...I mean come on! If ur a guy and ur into men DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE CHICK NEXT DOOR!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 9/17/2009 4:38:00 AM |
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momnycz
Metamora, IL
age: 54
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They have lots of women in their lives, and they can not date just one.
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| 9/17/2009 5:00:35 AM |
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musicdesign
Rocky Hill, CT
age: 48 online now!
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When they are so "busy" they have little time to fit you in. Thought dating meant you want to make the time to be with someone else.
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| 9/17/2009 7:43:14 AM |
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katrina311
Finley, ND
age: 49
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The ones that don't fill out their profile
The ones that think you have to look like a barbie doll 24/7 and they can be short, fat, bald and it is ok for them.
The ones that don't have any hobbies or interests, it is all about self-gratification and what we(women) can do for them
The ones that don't have God in their lives, (do they think they are superior to Him, I think not)
The ones that act like sex is everything, and when they ask if you have a webcam, now I have seen way to many men ejaculate on them and I was deeply hurt by it. You think that piece of theirs was their brain, lol.
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| 9/17/2009 5:01:07 PM |
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sweetthang23
Lakeland, FL
age: 24
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A small WALLET
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| 9/18/2009 6:09:20 AM |
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coolgirl22
Hoboken, NJ
age: 19
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Mine are when he cheats & is unfaithful cause I've been faithful in all my relationships, when he's abusive either physically or emotionally & when he breaks my heart
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| 9/20/2009 6:18:15 PM |
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luckycharmed2
Sandy, UT
age: 52
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They have lots of women in their lives, and they can not date just one.
This scares me also especially if they are not honest to you about it and you were suppose to be exclusive. I believe this is called being played.....
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| 9/20/2009 6:57:45 PM |
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spunkymissy1
Washington, PA
age: 47
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liars, control freaks, cheapo's, self centeredness, not prioritizing, oh I could go on and on...........but won't I'm sure there are good hearted honest men out there just kinda waiting for the Lord to drop one down in front of me only 1/2 joking I feel it'll happen again one day...........soon or far......not so sure on that one.
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| 9/22/2009 6:32:04 AM |
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vashtie
Brooklyn, NY
age: 44
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hot temper,argumentive,liars,control freaks and when you ask them question and they dont answer them.
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| 9/22/2009 11:31:55 AM |
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liberallady
Lodi, CA
age: 50
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When ALL they do is talk about their EX!! They should just go back to their "Ex" because that seems to be ALL they can talk about.
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| 9/22/2009 3:12:32 PM |
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littlered77
Mohawk, TN
age: 23
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Controllin or not let me have total freedom , is not religious is a BIG turn offs, he has to be a christian.And A HOT Tepmer.
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| 9/23/2009 11:17:42 AM |
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sandra49ok
Shelton, WA
age: 51
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neediness, pushy, loud, rude, smells bad, bossy, talks about sex on the first date tells me he loves me right away
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| 9/23/2009 12:25:19 PM |
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andy_g
Danbury, NC
age: 33
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Pretty much everything...because if he is the right one I'm always scared I'm going to do something to screw it up...if he isn't the right guy I'm scared I want be able to get rid of him.
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