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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54
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Chris I understand what you are saying. I have had that happen to me too on a few dates.
First date one guy even started discussing moving in together! I asked "my place or yours"? 
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| 12/11/2007 12:20:12 PM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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well 1st of all i would believe she must be looking for my qualities too and possibly down the line we are on the same page mutually
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| 12/11/2007 12:20:39 PM |
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slainte
Mohawk, NY
age: 64
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Law....
I will try to explain....
you said you "ordered" one from Cina...generally when one places an order, there is a cost....
thus $$$$
Knight said he had one from Mexico....she welched on 10K...that is $$$$ again....
as a JOKE>>>>which I thought I surrounded the comment in I said it was about cash...
and that is is...
bad joke on my part, but that is how it came to be.....
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| 12/11/2007 12:21:01 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55 online now!
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chris, you wouldnt like me then. when in a conversation, i touch a hand, shoulder.. etc. never wrap my arms around you, but sometimes touching conveys trust.. etc.
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| 12/11/2007 12:26:06 PM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54
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I enjoy when a gentleman does those little dovey things, Knight, I just don't care for it on a FIRST date. I wish to get to know the gentleman first on a first date.
[Edited 12/11/2007 12:26:44 PM]
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| 12/11/2007 12:43:07 PM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55 online now!
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i guess an accidental grope is out of the question when saying good night then?
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| 12/11/2007 12:45:12 PM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54
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All my gropes are accidental at the end of the date....Oh you meant you!~ 
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| 12/11/2007 12:48:10 PM |
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texaggie71
McDonough, GA
age: 58
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Chris,
I can not speak for other men in their 50's but as I tried to stated in my profile, what I am looking for is someone, like I me or how I try to be: honest; sincere; trustworthy; caring; able to see humor in life and it's events; a Bible-believeing Christian; height to weight proportionate; a decent level of education; able to spell or use spell check; good use of grammar; a lady but with sensuality and style; a hunger for her mate and last, but not least, Monogomous to a fault.
While this list may not be what you were wanting to read, it is what I look for in a potential mate; at this point in my life, I'm getting more happy with the thought that I may never find her, but will have a few good lady friends to talk with and to share some of the joys in our lives.
Thanks for letting me voice my views.
Thanks Vixen; my pleasure dear ! 
[Edited 12/11/2007 12:53:44 PM]
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| 12/11/2007 12:52:55 PM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54
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Well said Aggie....
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| 12/11/2007 1:14:35 PM |
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herefromminsk
Charlottesville, VA
age: 70
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When Chris started this thread, I thought she was dead serious, but as usual, it has turned into joke fest, and get a life. Sorry Chris, we all make you feel welcome, and then brow beat you on anything you say. 
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| 12/11/2007 1:16:57 PM |
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chris4747
Pinellas Park, FL
age: 54
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Actually, I would. I like that. That's not what I'm talking about, I'm talking about grabbing my butt, etc. I don't get where this is coming from. The touching the hand, etc that you're talking about is a way of flirting and letting the other person know you're interested. There's nothing wrong with that.
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| 12/11/2007 1:20:48 PM |
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chris4747
Pinellas Park, FL
age: 54
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I sincerely appreciate the honesty and levity. It's really okay. At least sharing honesty and with or without levity still gives you an idea of how men think, because just like some men I've heard they don't understand women. I am simply asking for opinons and insight from men.
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| 12/11/2007 1:22:31 PM |
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chris4747
Pinellas Park, FL
age: 54
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I am not talking about what is in your profile that you want. I'm talking when you look at a lady's profile, are you looking visually or literally. Do you try to email them many times, one time? Do you give out your phone number right away? What is it that draws you to that one lady that makes you want to do that.
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| 12/11/2007 1:31:35 PM |
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helloeyes
Enfield, NH
age: 52
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Chris, I can say for me I like a visual, but I also read what is in the profile. I like a physical attraction, but also want to know how a lady thinks, and that in itself can confuse me. I like to chat with them some, get to know them some. I am not in a rush to find the lady of my dreams, and don't expect it to happen overnite. It would be nice if it did.....but such is life. I can't speak for every guy thats over 50, but like anything, a few bad give the rest a bad name. If a guy is interested in you then I don't think he will mind taking it slow. One email should be enough to find out if your going to get an answer or not, from there you can move forward.
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| 12/11/2007 1:35:37 PM |
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chris4747
Pinellas Park, FL
age: 54
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Thank you so much for such a sincere answer. Sometimes I just don't know how slow, how fast...
I just like to relax and have conversation. Find out about one another. I think the rest comes, doesn't it?
I just didn't know if I was expecting too much.
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