| 9/21/2009 9:30:12 PM |
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indianachris
Cambridgeport, VT
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Just a question of curiosity...Wondering how much a difference there is between men and women..and curious to see difference between the ages..So whether you're young or old, male or female..And Im also curious to see how honest people are willing to be..I know I am not yet willing to admit the length of time it's been for me! But Im curious to see how "sexually" pathetic I may be! 
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| 9/21/2009 10:01:36 PM |
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hunnie2509
Cedar Grove, NJ
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Well i have to admit the longest was about six months...but i cant see how you could go that long...you're a cutie! Enless you are one of those nice that are soo hard to come by...
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| 9/22/2009 11:41:18 AM |
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looking4myking6
Fort Wayne, IN
32, joined Sep. 2009
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8 months and that was the hardest 8 months ever for me 
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| 9/22/2009 5:55:22 PM |
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grimnard_69
Anderson, IN
38, joined Jun. 2009
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does that include masterbation???? If not then ill have to say 2 years... if masterbation is throw in with that then sorry to say but the longest is about 12 hours 
lol ok so maybe 24 but it was a long time ago and i was driving almost the whole time.
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| 9/22/2009 6:53:07 PM |
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mellrees
Greenwood, IN
32, joined Sep. 2009
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the longest i have gone is like 3 almost 4 years
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| 9/22/2009 9:40:37 PM |
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i1absedated
Crawfordsville, IN
42, joined Sep. 2009
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As depressed as I am to actually put it in writing.... I'm working on 8 months now.... but that's not the longest dry spell I've had. Longest was 2 yrs. I'd like to thank my friends for supplying the chains and muzzles to help keep society safe during those 2 yrs.
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| 9/25/2009 9:50:20 PM |
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airframer1981
Floyds Knobs, IN
35, joined Feb. 2009
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currently 4 years 3 months. At this point I am almost dissinterested in sex is that normal?
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| 9/25/2009 11:20:27 PM |
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i1absedated
Crawfordsville, IN
42, joined Sep. 2009
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OMG I hope not!!!!
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| 9/25/2009 11:31:54 PM |
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maxximillion
Indianapolis, IN
30, joined Sep. 2009
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its been about a month in a half and still counting but fist time cus i just got out of a long relationship
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| 9/26/2009 2:09:16 AM |
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dex34
Crawfordsville, IN
42, joined Mar. 2008
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The longest has been about 7 months, workin on 3 rite now!
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| 9/29/2009 3:14:55 AM |
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ford_boyzelite
Jonesville, IN
28, joined Sep. 2009
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longest has been 3 years and still counting. would be less but them hookers keep raising the prices lol
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| 9/29/2009 12:11:45 PM |
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dragonlady36
New Albany, IN
45, joined Aug. 2008
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back surgery so its been 3 1/2 years, too painful and man left after 1 year cant say I blame him though.
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| 9/30/2009 5:12:39 PM |
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liberalextinct
Anderson, IN
35, joined May. 2009
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long long time ago.... like 2001.. so that would be what 8 years?
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| 9/30/2009 6:30:57 PM |
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dustyknight
Kouts, IN
64, joined Sep. 2009
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long enough to make it unsafe for my health.
men who have sex 2x a week live 50% more heart problems and stroke free
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| 10/1/2009 9:08:27 PM |
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ladyloves4
Greenwood, IN
54, joined Jul. 2008
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Well about 1 year so far and I don't count the last time ( kind of one-sided ) so 2 1/2 I am saying. Still looking for the perfect man.
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| 10/2/2009 7:20:20 AM |
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i1absedated
Crawfordsville, IN
42, joined Sep. 2009
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hmmmmmmm
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| 10/3/2009 8:18:38 AM |
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dustyknight
Kouts, IN
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what is sex? I forgot...
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| 10/3/2009 2:59:29 PM |
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angeleyeskaye
Indianapolis, IN
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that was so cute ....mine is working on 7 months.....so sad. I'd like to thank my best friend amanda for my sanity.that and batteries     .
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| 10/3/2009 3:02:03 PM |
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angeleyeskaye
Indianapolis, IN
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and how old are you...and I have a 50% chance at killing you ...sooooonot coooolll
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| 10/4/2009 3:29:12 PM |
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engstealth
Charlestown, IN
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A year and a half.... although if I set down right now with a calendar and strained my brain I might just figure out that I'm on a longer dry spell right now. Figuring that out would be depressing though, so I ain't going to do it.
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| 10/4/2009 4:07:56 PM |
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i1absedated
Crawfordsville, IN
42, joined Sep. 2009
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still going? 
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| 10/4/2009 10:21:43 PM |
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indianachris
Cambridgeport, VT
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ok, think Im beginning to notice a trend...Men seem to have longer dry spells than woman..Now I know I probably just offended almost every woman who is reading this..but read through the replies and you will see that I may be on to something..But it does make sense..As a guy, I think it would be easier for a girl to go out and get laid if she decides to...And again, as a guy, I think it may be more involved for a guy to go out to a bar and get laid...Woman are the ones that at usually approached..and the men that have the "right" approach are the ones that get the ladies...For every woman that gets laid, there are at least 5 men that get disappointed or rejected..ok..now maybe I have gone to far..I in no way mean this in an offensive way toward anyone...But if I were a woman, I would go to a bar, shake my a** and wait for the men to flock around me!! And as a man, when I shake my ass, I just wait!! and wait!! and wait!! yup, Im definatly going to shuttup now..Im sure Ive pissed off at least a few people by now..not my intention..just my observations and thoughts! Plus, Im the guy who could go into a all womans sex-a-holics meeting with a puppy and a infant and still not get laid!!
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| 10/5/2009 6:51:54 AM |
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i1absedated
Crawfordsville, IN
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eh, no reason that that should be offensive, it's just the way it is. Men are expected to make the first move, and this gives the woman the option of saying yes or no. Since most women want a relationship and not just a one night stand, they usually say no. Anytime they feel like they need it, if they wait long enough, all they have to do is say yes. Lol, MEN.... I think it's high time we change all this! With womens equal rights being what they are these days, I say we start an EQUAL RESPONSIBILITIES ACT. Where women must bare the burden of being the pursuer and let us have the choice for a change. We are tired of the rejections, we are tired of the hunt... trying to seperate one of you women from the pack at the bar is enough to give any man anxiety! I AM MAN!!! HEAR ME RAWRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!! <------
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| 10/5/2009 7:20:04 PM |
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grimnard_69
Anderson, IN
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Let me know how that works out for ya, im thinking your dry spell may last even longer......
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| 10/5/2009 10:05:10 PM |
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midianvondemon
Hammond, IN
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2 years I was in a relaitionship for so long I forgot how to pick up women and before the relaitionship I didn't have to know how they just came to me but things change the older you get I guess. I don't know I'm new to getting old so it could just be me.
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| 10/6/2009 6:25:07 AM |
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i1absedated
Crawfordsville, IN
42, joined Sep. 2009
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Yeah... your probably right!
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| 10/6/2009 10:02:12 PM |
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middy63
Tell City, IN
54, joined Jul. 2009
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I've went without sex for over 5 years at the longest...
Since my divorce 4 years ago, I think the longest has
been 8 months...I'm almost there again now...I'm at 7 months
and counting....
Dating in your forties is no fun at all...
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| 10/6/2009 10:30:52 PM |
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tristatemike
Evansville, IN
54, joined Sep. 2009
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It's been almost 2 years now. The dating scene is down right scary out there. If I was still in my late 20's, early 30's, the "hunt" would be a walk in the park.
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| 10/7/2009 6:16:51 AM |
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middy63
Tell City, IN
54, joined Jul. 2009
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It's been almost 2 years now . The dating scene is down right scary out there. If I was still in my late 20's, early 30's, the "hunt" would be a walk in the park.
I agree, it is scary.....
I've noticed a huge difference in dating
from my early 20's, which was the last time I was
dating..and then after my divorce (4 years ago)
The only thing still the same (for me anyway)
is it still involves myself and a Man....
The dynamics of dating are different, and
I won't even get into what they expect from
me now.
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| 10/11/2009 9:21:30 PM |
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vikingsgal
Fort Wayne, IN
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I will buck the female trend. I have gone 4 years 3 months and counting. I have gotten close a few times, but no banana (no pun intended).
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| 10/13/2009 8:26:05 AM |
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toolfreak
Lafayette, IN
35, joined May. 2008
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1 year 2 months 3 weeks and 4 days....but who's keeping track? Little over a year is my dry spell....
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| 10/19/2009 8:26:14 PM |
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ladyloves4
Greenwood, IN
54, joined Jul. 2008
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Here we go again for the ladies. Almost 3 years and counting. Waiting on Mr. Right. Are you out there, don't know how much longer I can wait.
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| 10/20/2009 7:07:14 PM |
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meandyou51
Noblesville, IN
58, joined Oct. 2009
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I went six years when I was divorced and my children were young... Was it easy? No! I happen to miss it when it is not there, but I also know how to control my urges...I think both sexes have the option of saying No or just being a little picky about who you are with.
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| 10/22/2009 9:11:54 AM |
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southerndw
Indianapolis, IN
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almost 4 years..... before that 2 years.... and when I was married .... whats sex... once a month if that. lived 14 years like that..we had more sex before marriage, then after, nothing. How we concieved 2 kids is besides me. BTW which I have now raised for almost 9 years on my own.
wonder if I still remember how to have sex???
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| 10/22/2009 12:54:21 PM |
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lonesome66
Montpelier, IN
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About 1 year now. i would say its time.
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| 10/22/2009 1:01:44 PM |
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indiana55
Groton, CT
30, joined Oct. 2009
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6 months.
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| 10/22/2009 5:58:52 PM |
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anie80918
Fort Wayne, IN
58, joined Jul. 2008
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42 months
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| 10/22/2009 9:52:42 PM |
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single_32
Marion, IN
40, joined Oct. 2009
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Well, 32 years!
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| 10/22/2009 10:18:35 PM |
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sbry29
Seymour, IN
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Makes me cry when i think about it...
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| 10/25/2009 3:32:04 PM |
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iamconnie
Scottsburg, IN
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It's been almost 9 yrs. now. I sometimes wonder if i should even start again, and then have to go through the withdraws again. still trying to find that specail person.
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| 10/25/2009 9:58:34 PM |
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junglejim12
Butler, IN
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I cant put an exact date or number on it but its nice to know that I am not alone. lol
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| 10/27/2009 3:55:45 PM |
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creeksidedude
Topeka, IN
54, joined May. 2009
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When I was married I had to ask or even beg for it. So it was about once a month IF that much. After my divorce was 2 years before I had sex again and since then I get all I want and then some. single life has been good
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| 10/31/2009 7:48:53 PM |
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grimnard_69
Anderson, IN
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Well, 32 years!
Hey all you got to do is go 9 more years and then you can try to have them make a movie about you, could be the squeal, the 41 year old virgin......
BTW - even tho Clinton doesnt consider it sex Oral Sex is considered Sex....
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| 11/5/2009 11:21:41 AM |
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deannakay
Madison, IN
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the longest without sex was four years.. but not at 40. have toys.. and wihtout now about three months with a real man.relationship are cool as long as its a movie and sex thing.. shoot
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| 11/5/2009 12:30:23 PM |
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ontheloose69
Dyer, IN
53, joined Oct. 2009
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Well about 1 year so far and I don't count the last time ( kind of one-sided ) so 2 1/2 I am saying. Still looking for the perfect man.
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| 11/5/2009 2:09:29 PM |
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kimalso
Versailles, IN
51, joined Sep. 2009
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5 YEARS! Then I moved out 3 years ago, single again. Doing well in the sex department now.
 
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| 11/5/2009 4:40:21 PM |
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magickalshay
North Vernon, IN
37, joined Jul. 2009
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It was about 1 1/2 years after my first boyfriend. It wasn't that great so I didn't miss it that much. Now that I know how good it can be it's a little harder to go without
Currently, it's probably been a few weeks....but since I've become a 'several times a day' kinda girl a few weeks are pretty severe lmao
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| 11/5/2009 6:02:19 PM |
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babyphat4u
Warsaw, IN
36, joined Sep. 2009
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longest i went was four almost five years was out of an abusive relationship so i lost interest
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| 11/6/2009 5:04:24 AM |
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awensch
Fort Wayne, IN
31, joined Nov. 2009
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I am on my longest spell its a year. I am not looking for sex i am wanting a women who wants a man. I dont want to be someones friend i want to be someones man. If your one of thoes women who play mind games, or want to go on a date to just say you want to be friends, DONT REPLY. I want a women who wants a be MY girl
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| 11/11/2009 3:40:02 PM |
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redsun0525
Bloomington, IN
26, joined Nov. 2009
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I am currently on the second year of not having sex. Though this is not by choice. I just can't find someone I who I connect with enough.
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| 11/17/2009 9:54:18 PM |
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clazzycathie
Fort Wayne, IN
60, joined Nov. 2009
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I lived with my sign other for many years and all of a sudden it was over 4 years without any intimancy....including two trips to Hawaii....whats is with that?!?!when I talked with him....it just wasn't that important to him any more.....what am I to do?!?
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| 11/22/2009 3:19:34 PM |
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danceczar69
Fort Wayne, IN
58, joined May. 2006
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Going on 10 (TEN!) years!! Most of you wont understand this, but some (FEW) men want to be in Love to Make Love With a Lady.
Lost my LOVE to cancer. Grief is a b!tch to deal with,so is watching your love slowly die right before your eyes and there is NOTHING you can do about it.
Wish I could find a Lady who understands this. Sex is easy to find. Love is not.
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| 11/22/2009 4:16:53 PM |
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plzezcuzemyswag
Cedar Lake, IN
29, joined Nov. 2009
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probably about 6 months, now im working on about 1
[Edited 11/22/2009 4:17:18 PM ]
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| 11/23/2009 11:30:08 AM |
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bluebunny222
Anderson, IN
43, joined Nov. 2009
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Okay does masterbation count? If so not long And did you have to be a willing part of it, my last sexual encounter was not what I was looking for but after 2 years I was willing to just go for it the 2 minutes was not worth it.
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| 11/26/2009 3:13:42 PM |
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harleyorange
Lawrenceburg, KY
58, joined Nov. 2009
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Aaaaaaaa toooooooo Long ......
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| 11/28/2009 5:38:45 PM |
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rkl50
Elnora, IN
58, joined Jan. 2009
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who knows I have lost track! Been divorced over a year, but had not had sex for a lot longer than that!  
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| 11/28/2009 9:48:38 PM |
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sharenlove
Fort Wayne, IN
61, joined Oct. 2009
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Nobody's business 
[Edited 11/28/2009 9:49:07 PM ]
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| 12/1/2009 5:27:31 PM |
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sweetpotato3
Albion, IN
67, joined Jul. 2008
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I agree with Sharon, but I do want to say bravo to the guy that says he wants love to be the factor...not lust..... More ladies then you realise understand where your coming from...Though I guess we are all older maybe 40 on.... jmo
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| 12/8/2009 12:11:23 AM |
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thor318523
Indianapolis, IN
32, joined Feb. 2009
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I think it was about seven years but that's because I'm a serial monogamist I only have sex when I'm in a relationship I know wierd huh
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| 12/8/2009 2:05:26 PM |
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64triumph
Indianapolis, IN
55, joined Dec. 2009
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two long years when my wife was having (female)problems, after having our baby. we still were close and she offered oral for me,but I did not think it was fair for her to do without while i got my pleasure. I was driving a cab as a second job and got a lot of offers. drove me nutts
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