| 11/12/2009 7:20:24 PM |
How to make a woman feel emotionally connected with you? |
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cosmos069
Greensboro, NC
98, joined Sep. 2009
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| 11/13/2009 4:02:33 PM |
How to make a woman feel emotionally connected with you? |
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gritsarebest
Concord, NC
43, joined Jul. 2009
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I think you first has to get to know the woman. What works for me porbably wouldn't work for someone else. Although I do think that the little things are most important. Emotional connection comes from regular connection in some form or another. Usually for me it starts with the emails...learning things about each other. Then learning about what is happening in each other's lives day to day (we may have moved to phone calls/text messaging/IM's too) starts getting us more connected. Meeting face to face too helps but I don't have to see them face to face if we are in regular (usually daily) contact.
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| 11/14/2009 1:33:49 AM |
How to make a woman feel emotionally connected with you? |
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xo_shane_ox
Charlotte, NC
42, joined Jul. 2009
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If you listen to a group of attractive, single
women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the
topic will always turn to MEN.
And in most cases, it will eventually turn into
a RANT session about how hard it is to find good
men to date...
Which will lead to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about
men in general...
...And wind up with a detailed list of all the
traits guys have that are ANNOYING AS HELL.
The reality is that single women have an entire
laundry list of traits, qualities, and
characteristics that they HATE in single guys.
Did you know this?
I didn't think so.
Well, the truth is that up until a few years
ago, I didn't know this either.
So take heart in the idea that you're about to
learn something that most men on this planet will
DIE not knowing.
My hope is that what I'm about to share with
you will change how you interact with women
FOREVER... and help you meet and date more of the
kinds of women you're interested in.
Onward.
FRIENDSHIPS AND ROMANCE
For women, friendships and romantic
relationships are two separate things. They are
NOT the same.
One can lead to another, but it's RARE when it
happens.
Remember that.
One CAN lead to another, but it's RARE.
"Romantic" relationships are very different
from "friend" relationships.
While most men would sleep with most of their
female "friends" if the woman "came on" to them,
most women would NOT sleep with most men that they
consider "just friends".
But why is this?
How do women differentiate between "just
friends" and "I'll be intimate with you"?
And why is it so hard to become "more than
friends" with a woman you've been "just friends"
with for a long time?
The answer to this riddle is very interesting
to me.
I believe that the answer comes down to
understanding HOW women "know" when they want to
"be intimate" with a man... and, even MORE
importantly, understanding how women "know" when
they DON'T want to "be intimate" with a man...
The thing that tells a woman whether the guy
she's with is "friend" material or "lover"
material is how she FEELS.
It's a combination of EMOTIONAL feelings and
PHYSICAL feelings.
It is NOT logic.
She might USE logic to "rationalize" her
decision... or she might USE logic to SOUND like
she has a good reason for either "being with" or
"not being with" a particular guy.
But don't let that distract you.
Logic isn't important AT ALL in this context.
So let me say this another way.
A woman FEELS something emotionally and/or
physically, then she uses those FEELINGS as the
basis for her "decisions" and actions with a
particular guy.
If she feels that "Ewwww Yuck!" feeling, then
her "logical" conclusion will probably not be that
she wants to date the guy in question.
If she feels that "It's Gettin' Hot In Here"
feeling, then her "logical" conclusion will
probably be that this guy is interesting and
attractive, and a good "choice" to date. At this
point she'll take ACTION on her feelings and
thoughts...
It goes like this:
FEEL--->THINK--->ACT
First the FEELING, then the THOUGHT... and THEN
the action.
Now, with this in mind, let me ask you an
important question:
How do most guys behave around women that
they're "romantically" interested in?
And another:
What do they do to get the woman that's the
object of their desires to be with them?
Take a few minutes to think about this. Make a
list if you have paper and pen handy.
I'm serious. I'll wait.
Come back when you're finished.
Now take a look at your list.
I'll bet that almost every single thing on your
list was something "external".
In other words, your list probably contains
things like "Take her to dinner" and "Give her
compliments" and "Buy her flowers" and "Call her
often".
These are all things that demonstrate that he's
INTERESTED.
They are NOT things that trigger those
emotional and physical feelings inside of a woman
that tell her that THIS IS THE GUY.
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| 11/14/2009 7:53:51 AM |
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bones01
Homeland, CA
68, joined Apr. 2008
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Check out "Womens World" in the groups. Might just learn a little!
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| 11/14/2009 8:25:46 AM |
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rich101
Lillington, NC
61, joined Oct. 2007
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One don’t confuse lust with affection.
Second look into your own heart.
Third don’t confuse lust with affection.
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| 11/14/2009 10:41:13 AM |
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thares
Kitty Hawk, NC
58, joined Jul. 2009
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If I get the feeling from our conversations that he is with me but wondering if he has any emails from women waiting for him at home I'm not interested. With the advent of internet singles sites some men and women have become junkies. They say they're looking for a relationship but are fooling themselves. Once you realize the grass is just fine on your side you stop cheating yourself.
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| 11/15/2009 7:19:01 PM |
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bones01
Homeland, CA
68, joined Apr. 2008
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These responses sound too complicated to me. What's wrong with just accepting each other and enjoying what life has to offer? I like to keep it fairly simple.
Sorry, I had a couple of Bud Lights and found I needed to correct my spelling! Thanks for your patience.
[Edited 11/15/2009 7:20:38 PM ]
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| 11/15/2009 7:27:13 PM |
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drumsrockitman
Boone, NC
57, joined Nov. 2009
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its all in the eyes,and give her your full attention.nothing complicated!!!!
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| 11/15/2009 7:49:20 PM |
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4everhard_horny
High Point, NC
61, joined Nov. 2009
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Don't chase after her, keep her laughing, don't be afraid to just walk away from her to talk to another woman, they thrive on competition. Crack on her when you can, be a MAN, not one that tries to please her in every way. Keep her interest by not being an easy catch yourself, remember, most women will go for the "Bad Boy" over Mr. kiss her behind nice guy almost every time. Since I became single I have applied this approach and for some reason women find it irresistible. I know it doesn't make since to us guys, but it works. I get phone numbers, email addresses almost every time without even asking. You will find that you will become very popular with the ladies.
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| 11/15/2009 8:30:42 PM |
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newlady2
Goldsboro, NC
78, joined Apr. 2008
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4ever, you might become popular with something but I seriously doubt its ladies!! as Bones said , be more acepting of each other..
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| 11/16/2009 6:37:34 PM |
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gritsarebest
Concord, NC
43, joined Jul. 2009
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Don't chase after her, keep her laughing, don't be afraid to just walk away from her to talk to another woman, they thrive on competition. Crack on her when you can, be a MAN, not one that tries to please her in every way. Keep her interest by not being an easy catch yourself, remember, most women will go for the "Bad Boy" over Mr. kiss her behind nice guy almost every time. Since I became single I have applied this approach and for some reason women find it irresistible. I know it doesn't make since to us guys, but it works. I get phone numbers, email addresses almost every time without even asking. You will find that you will become very popular with the ladies.
Sounds good in theory and some of this I would thoroughly enjoy...but will you actually "catch" me with this gaming approach? You might get a date but I would see through the facade quickly so you would not get the "real" catch in the end....but then again maybe that is not what you are looking for. 
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| 11/18/2009 3:03:06 PM |
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makeunus
Mount Airy, NC
69, joined May. 2009
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 Love her!!!
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| 11/19/2009 11:00:55 AM |
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4whlshoots8
Fayetteville, NC
47, joined Jun. 2009
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Don't chase after her, keep her laughing, don't be afraid to just walk away from her to talk to another woman, they thrive on competition. Crack on her when you can, be a MAN, not one that tries to please her in every way. Keep her interest by not being an easy catch yourself, remember, most women will go for the "Bad Boy" over Mr. kiss her behind nice guy almost every time. Since I became single I have applied this approach and for some reason women find it irresistible. I know it doesn't make since to us guys, but it works. I get phone numbers, email addresses almost every time without even asking. You will find that you will become very popular with the ladies.
4ever..... As odd as it seems and even though the ladies here disagree with you, I see it all the time. Being one of those nice guys who finishes last sort of person I see it and can't understand it. The guy who screws around on the woman, treats her like dirt or worse, some of them even hit the woman... They talk to me and others like me with the same sob story every time and the ancient question... "Why can't I find a guy like you?"... Are they F*%King blind we are right there in front of them yet they go back to that same SOB time and time again. So believe it or not people what 4ever said is truer than ever in this day and age. Personally I want a real woman, one who won't take that crap. SoI can deal with watching all that happen around me and no longer feel sorry for them since they already know what the guy is like and where the road will end and it won't end at my door cause any woman who keeps going for that ain't a real woman and sure isn't strong enough to be in a real relationship where you work together.
How to make a woman feel emotionally attached.... First you have to get her to notice you for someone other than just a friend and then treat her like a person not a score or notch on the bed post. Watch romance movies, let yourself cry (a real man doesn't care what people say about him shedding a tear over something sad, that is strength), take interest in her interests, thoughts and feelings. If none of that works go to what 4ever suggested.
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| 11/19/2009 6:55:50 PM |
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loyal527
Raleigh, NC
47, joined Jun. 2009
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Be honest and open. Be yourself..don't try to be who or what you think she wants you to be!
Keep it simple...start with friends first before jumping into sex!
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| 11/19/2009 8:41:48 PM |
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tazz_it
Newport, NC
53, joined Aug. 2009
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That's easy...First listen to her.....2..here her...3..love her.
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