| 1/12/2008 8:54:31 PM |
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mudholelover
Indianapolis, IN
age: 45
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Um excuse me, southern dish HI!
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| 1/12/2008 8:59:43 PM |
please help me i have a problem need advise!!! |
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sweetangel2008
Winston, MO
age: 19
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thank you everybody for the help i have figured it out.. i and just going to stay single for alittle while....thank you all!! at least to the ones that did help me!!!
[Edited 1/12/2008 9:37:17 PM]
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| 1/12/2008 9:16:38 PM |
please help me i have a problem need advise!!! |
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lilbit2007
Tunnel Hill, GA
age: 41
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At the age of 19,Do you truley know what love is?I remember my younger days thinking I was in love.....Too find out later in life I had no clue back then
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| 1/13/2008 12:40:29 PM |
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newness1
Columbia, SC
age: 46
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It's not love that you are feeling it's "LUST." Your mind and hormones are not in synch. The person that will suffer is the baby due to your poor choices.
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| 1/13/2008 5:07:09 PM |
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lee42
Pittsfield, MA
age: 43
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YES, I AGREE IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU ANYMORE~IT'S ABOUT WHAT'S BEST FOR YOUR SWEET ANGEL~ NOW AN FUTURE~YOUR DECISION IS ABOUT THE ANGEL! 
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| 1/14/2008 11:35:28 AM |
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bigeasy741
Bay, AR
age: 45
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What the Hell! You should put them to the curve, keep your legs together and cherrish your child. Please think of your baby, you only have one chance to raise your child. That is where your heart should be.
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| 1/14/2008 11:38:02 AM |
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happinessnlove
Dade City, FL
age: 41
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How can you love two men. Its impossible to love two people. One you are infatuated with, the other you love.
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| 1/14/2008 1:57:41 PM |
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linuxian
Dunedin, FL
age: 36
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Well, that should be an easy one right. Forget about all personal responsibility, loyalty to anyone other than yourself, and any other desire that does not server to feed your inherent narcissistic self image and you have your answer. That the choice I've seen every woman I've ever been with make. Why should you be any different? The child's father is just a genetic necessity and nothing more than an inept social mistake anyway right? I mean really, men are just violent, ignorant, sex starved morons that lay on the couch all day and can never do anything right.
I really hate the fact that I have two teenage boys growing up in this shit hole of a society.
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| 1/25/2008 8:44:08 PM |
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428fix
Anoka, MN
age: 33
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It sounds like you were talking to a very wise man and i would agree. Listen to your gut if it doesn't feel right it most likely isn't
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| 1/25/2008 8:53:24 PM |
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bamabob
Cullman, AL
age: 55
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My opinion, and it's ONLY an opinion... maybe a question... RESPONSIBILITY! Do you know what that really means? You say you love the baby's daddy with all you heart...but if so, they why are you with another man? Sounds to me you're too interested in having fun and enjoying attention rather than being grown up and responsible. Being a parent has great rewards but no one will ever tell you it's easy and you won't have days of heartache, pain, and frustration. That is the same with a relationship that can last forever...walking away just because it gets tough or the grass is greener somewhere else is a fools mistake.
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| 1/25/2008 8:59:50 PM |
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thegooddude24
Joliet, IL
age: 25
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I'm not even going to waist my time on this one. I like giving advice to people that will actually use it..
Good Luck..
[Edited 1/25/2008 9:00:32 PM]
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| 1/25/2008 9:07:47 PM |
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dragan
Clinton Township, MI
age: 39
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In a previous thread, you stated you only date "a$$holes". Now your saying you love two guys and need advice? Well, if you think they are a$$holes, then why would you want to date either one of them? Your profile says "the kind of guy that i am looking for is a guy that is sweet, dont play games, dont lie, cheat and just be thankful for the little things i do for him. i want someone that is not afraid to put his arms around me and say i love u infront of anyone.. i just want most of all for him to be respectful as i am to him"
So which is it? Are they a$$holes or what? And if your in love with 2 guys then should you be looking for someone else?
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| 1/25/2008 9:10:16 PM |
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thegooddude24
Joliet, IL
age: 25
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So which is it? Are they a$$holes or what? And if your in love with 2 guys then should you be looking for someone else?
I'm on his side.
[Edited 1/25/2008 9:11:32 PM]
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| 1/25/2008 9:17:17 PM |
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thegooddude24
Joliet, IL
age: 25
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But here is the thing. You are with two guys that treat you like shit. You love them though because they are all you have. So you come on this site looking for something better.. However your not mature enough for the kind of relationship you want to have. I know you are seeking advice and this is not what you want to hear. You need to take care of you and your child. Figure out what the hell you are doing, and then focus on meeting new singles. If you want friends, we on DH are here for you, no doubt. If you are looking to meet someone who will treat you better. Don't broadcast your life on DH when you know in your mind it doesn't make sense at the moment. THERE! You got my two sense. NOW USE IT!
Good luck. 
[Edited 1/25/2008 9:18:15 PM]
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| 1/25/2008 9:20:09 PM |
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adelinesmother
Fremont, NE
age: 37
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You are young...like others have stated....leave the men alone and take care of yourself and your child. Get an education. Remember as parents we are role models for our children. You deserve to be respected, so settling for the wrong guys defeats the purpose.
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