6/21/2010 3:42:35 PM |
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petparent2010
London, ON
52, joined Apr. 2010
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There are many males in here that think because they have been separated for a long time they are single. What I know as single is those that are not involved with a relationship and those that have NEVER been married or are widowed, in otherwords can be married. Anybody have anything to add?
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6/26/2010 8:24:45 PM |
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lisaa_o
York, ON
36, joined Feb. 2010
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7/4/2010 9:17:22 AM |
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thorb
Yarker, ON
68, joined Jan. 2008
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Its not just guys that make that mistake ....
Seperated means not together ... but it still involves the couple aspect of life
still means you may become joined again.
single I thought meant never married and not involved with anyone.
divorced means the marriage is over
now baggage ... that is another issue.
[Edited 7/4/2010 9:18:02 AM ]
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7/21/2010 6:47:07 PM |
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donnaelizabeth
Orillia, ON
68, joined Jul. 2010
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Does anyone know whether if you have been separated since 1996(not legally) he just up and left for another woman. Can I consider myself single or do I have to go to lawyer?
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8/2/2010 1:55:03 PM |
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robed4love
North York, ON
54, joined Jul. 2010
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If he just up and left for another woman, he can be charged! I won't go there" lol
Unfortunately! as far as being single after 14 years of separation due to his leaving you, it's not like the other way around as when 2 people live together for "X" number of years and are considerd married/equivalent.
In order for you to be considered single again, you need to get a lawyer and get that divorce..
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8/7/2010 10:01:18 PM |
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gigi00000007
Brampton, ON
67, joined May. 2010
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Holy crap! Who gives a s**t anyway? Separated means you are not with that person. My ex and I are legally separated...which means if I win a million dollars he has no right to it. I pay my own bills. The only thing we have in common is that he does not want to pay for a divorce and neither do I. I supported the deadbeat for 10 years and refuse to spend one more penny to divorce him. We have two kids who are independent and on their own. I have a great respect for them...but not for my ex.
Separated means exactly that ... you are not together. Deal with it!!! and for God's sake get over it already!!! Haven't you spent enough time on this s**t already?
Good luck.
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8/10/2010 10:27:03 AM |
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natchez2
Kitchener, ON
62, joined Aug. 2010
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If your seperated and not trying to experience life
then your wasting your time cause 90% of the time (no 100%)
your ex partner is with the same (mabey new)person that broke
up the relationship(believe it). If your going to get
back together a discreet relationship wont screw
up your karma no matter what you think.
"The more you suffer the more you care" mentality
is masocistic and you had better learn not to trust
ex lovers or they'll steamroller you
Nuf Said
Pete
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8/16/2010 12:15:04 AM |
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markc5
Beverly Hills, CA
57, joined Mar. 2008
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Hello,
I believe in Otariothat if you afe separated for 2 solid years a divorce can be automatically granted. I'm not sure in 1966 but in 2000 it was true...
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8/16/2010 5:33:13 PM |
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kmtl
Scarborough, ON
44, joined Aug. 2010
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Does it really matter if you’re separated, single, divorced or widowed. You’re not with the other person. It’s only when the other person is dishonest about their situation and moves forward with another person without closing the door to their past. Communication, have we all forgotten that communication is the most important factor here.
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9/4/2010 9:26:13 PM |
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wannba38
Kitchener, ON
44, joined Jun. 2010
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well i have been apart from my ex for six yrs he has moved on so have i have been married and no chance of us ever getting back together ever he and i both moved on so I consider myself single why not I sleep and see whom ever when ever and I could care less what my ex does or who he is doing... in the eyes of the law ya we need the damm divorce paper to make it legal but after one yr in Canada one who is apart from their spouse is consider legally separated, so single separated who cares move on with life its way to short to make a fuss over who and what a person status is have fun live life enjoy some one plain and simple......
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9/20/2010 9:25:41 AM |
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thorb
Yarker, ON
68, joined Jan. 2008
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On the other hand ...
you could be married and still be a single at a dance ... single just means you didn't come with anyone. ... its a complex world if you look at it that way.
baggage is a better thing to focus on ... everyone has it ... now let's inspect it and see what can be disguarded and what needs to be kept.
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10/24/2010 2:43:56 PM |
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jiges
Clinton, ON
70, joined May. 2010
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LEAGALLY SEPERATED..IS THAT SINGLE..HELLO
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11/23/2010 1:26:07 AM |
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busygirlto3
Kingston, ON
49, joined Nov. 2010
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I have been separated for 15 months and consider myself single. Divorce is in the works.
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11/29/2010 9:45:32 AM |
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venrex
Aurora, ON
34, joined Nov. 2010
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Wise beyond your years. Great response.
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12/29/2010 11:45:40 PM |
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busygirlto3
Kingston, ON
49, joined Nov. 2010
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Thanks, Chum.
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2/15/2011 9:38:47 PM |
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cpitre
Brampton, ON
56, joined Nov. 2010
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omg this is to funny,i have been seperated for 9 months the ex is living with another and they plan to get married in sept, so ya i am single, i live alone eat alone and sleep alone, think that is single, also think the discussion should be about the ones on these sites that are not SINGLE,SEPERATED,DIVIORCE, but say they are hmmmm now that is something to rant about but thats just me
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2/25/2011 7:01:53 PM |
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xtexastwangx
St Catharines, ON
50, joined Feb. 2011
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Holy crap! Who gives a s**t anyway? Separated means you are not with that person. My ex and I are legally separated...which means if I win a million dollars he has no right to it. I pay my own bills. The only thing we have in common is that he does not want to pay for a divorce and neither do I. I supported the deadbeat for 10 years and refuse to spend one more penny to divorce him. We have two kids who are independent and on their own. I have a great respect for them...but not for my ex.
Separated means exactly that ... you are not together. Deal with it!!! and for God's sake get over it already!!! Haven't you spent enough time on this s**t already?
Good luck.
Kudos to YOU Darlin! I myself have been LEGALLY separated from my EX for 2 Yrs.... My situation is the same pay my own bills... and we are barely in contact we are in contact when it comes to my son in which he is his stepdad has been since age 6 and he is now 15/ only dad he knows and thats as far as it goes with US... so if your LEGALLY separated but not yet divorced ( havent bothered with the divorce its just a piece of paper at this point unless I were to meet someone I wanted to marry then I would push the divorce and he would agree ) I am free to date anyone I want be involved with anyone I want! and so Is he... To me this is realllllly a stupid subject........ but I wanted to put Kudos to this previous post .... in case folks dont understand what LEGALLY SEPARATED means.... its just what it says... xxxxxxxxx T.
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3/8/2011 4:16:47 PM |
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mikepreedom
Cobourg, ON
51, joined Feb. 2011
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i like to do my f**ken crack me and my hole gf marietta i snorted crack off her a** then f**ked her in the ass
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3/10/2011 8:52:00 AM |
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moonchild0761
Wasaga Beach, ON
56, joined Nov. 2006
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I totally agree!In my case she played and i'll be damned if i pay for a divorce.Legally means single and your right some need to get the hell over it! The one from london is just a scorned woman with tons of baggadge i feel for anyone that gets involved with that She is pissed at the world.
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5/25/2011 12:02:13 PM |
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yesim50
Maple, ON
57, joined Apr. 2011
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dam I wish I met you all, when I joined dating sites, I was so passed over because
of the fact that I was just SEPERATED, as everyone said, basically if your are doing your own thing and mainly it has been over a year , your done, what it boils down to is\
that people are so afraid that if they get involved with you, you may go back to your Ex.
that is so much horseshit, because that can happen no matter weather your single and divorced as well.
kudos to us we are seperated ( well i was but am widow now) and we have too much life to
keep on living
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5/31/2011 6:39:49 PM |
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orchids35
North York, ON
54, joined May. 2011
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People , why don't you all just start living instead of just existing. Grab life with both hands nad be happy with the one you meet.
You may just have met your true mate
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