| 2/1/2008 12:28:01 PM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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Good GOD - I will NEVER be married again! What in the HELL???People are whacked. Just whacked..
I love the cryptic detail though...was imagining the Q-tip going around and around in dark fresh dog poo....
then all over his stuff....
Lord -I'm praying for ALL you people!
(I'll pray to that guy stephen who just believes he's God...or maybe God' best friend???)
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| 2/1/2008 3:37:59 PM |
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pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 47
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Well does that mean we'll be living in sin then Babe?
Lady, send yourself some flowers under a mans name. If I lived closer I'd come hang out on your doorstep.
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| 2/1/2008 6:12:22 PM |
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lovalot
East York, ON
age: 47 online now!
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Guess I'd move out with my family and try to get out a.s.a.p. perhaps get these threats he's making on tape. Don't know if it'll help but it might. Don't let him drag you down to his level. Stay with your original plan. Leave with dignity and try to be out as much as possible or stay temporarily with a friend if at all possible.
This guy is trash and doesn't deserve to be acknowledged in any way, shape or form.
Maybe you could go out and attend a speed dating event. Go out as much as possible. It tells him you're not interested in what he has to say and that he doesn't win.
Sorry, wish I had better advice for you. Chin up.
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| 2/1/2008 6:17:20 PM |
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stephentrue
Ladera Ranch, CA
age: 58
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Gonesailingbabe,
Darlin', you gotta give it a rest. I am flattered you have concluded I am God (I AM NOT GOD!!!) Not sure what your problem with me is. Opinions?
Anyway, the lady in question here needs a real good lawyer, like many other have said. No one should go through what she is enduring. (Not even me, Sailingbabe, not even me. . .)
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| 2/1/2008 6:20:25 PM |
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reenie4
Milwaukee, WI
age: 50
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Did you have representation in court? Get yourself a good lawyer!!!
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| 2/1/2008 6:27:10 PM |
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michaelcee
Sarasota, FL
age: 51
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Started to read all the replies but decided to not.
Firstly.... he is guilty of mental cruelty AND abandonment.
You have your daughter as a witness to all of his actions.
Bring on the alimony and sue his sorry ass to within a quarter inch of his (financial) life
Secondly.... hey!
You're pretty easy on the eyes.
Fly me into your area for a week or so.
He said he would kill someone like me.
Yeah.... and I would just stand there and let him
Actually.... disregard my second thought.
I'm too damn old to be going to prison
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| 2/1/2008 6:30:07 PM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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Pally - yes there will be sin involved.....
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| 2/2/2008 6:59:41 AM |
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katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
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Okay, at first, I was going to tell you to get a backbone - but after reading about the qtip incident, I'm laughing my ass off and waving my pompoms at you LOL. You go, girl!!!
I would say then, yes, sit tight as ordered by your attorney, but there are a MILLION ways to make the next 23 days as miserable as humanly possible for him. (never, never piss me off, okay LOL).
1. Throw out the iron and ironing board, and have your laundry and dry cleaning done by a service for the rest of the month. That's really not that expensive and you save on the utilities anyway.
2. If he's into football, have the cable shut off, but only for tomorrow.
3. If you have any friends who have a really large, smelly, obnoxious dog, borrow him for a few weeks and let him have the run of the house, especially the old office. In fact, I'd smear the ex's shoes with eau-de-beefsteak and leave them out.
4. Cook catfish, brussel sprouts or something with curry in it every day until the 25th. You can always air out your bedroom.
5. If he has a bathroom that only he uses, smear the floor evenly with a thin coat of butter.
6. Get as many alarm clocks as possible, set them for different times throughout the night and hide them in his room in different places.
7. With your hairdryer, distribute a nice layer of baby powder over all the clothes hanging in his closet.
8. If he has a favorite shirt or suit for his date life, use an ultraviolet marker to express your opinions of him all up and down the fabric. If the club he's in has a blacklight, your commentary will be clear for everyone to read.
9. If you still have communal food in the refrigerator, then go get some of those Azo Standard pills from the drug store that are for UTI's, and put them in a drink where the color of them won't show up (juice or wine). It will turn his pee neon orange and scare the life out of him.
10. Type up a very official looking letter from your local health clinic informing him that a sexual partner of his (who shall remain anonymous) has tested positive for genital herpes and he needs to come in immediately to get tested.
The absolute first and foremost thing, though, is go call a locksmith and have them come install a professional deadbolt on your door. There's no reason on earth why this guy should still have access to your bedroom. If a pro does the installing and the guy's key still works, then you can call the pro to come change it out until it doesn't.
[Edited 2/2/2008 7:00:49 AM]
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| 2/2/2008 7:03:11 AM |
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katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
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BTW - I would imagine the reason why his key still strangely fits your lock, is because you innocently left your keys lying around at some point and he managed to snake them and get a copy made of the new one for your bedroom. Once you get the lock changed again, never let the keys off your person. Get one of those accordion bracelets and wear the bedroom key on your wrist at all times. NO duplicate keys cleverly hidden in rocks.
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| 2/2/2008 9:54:54 AM |
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magtag
East York, ON
age: 41
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The judge...a she? Sure she isn't one of his women??? Sounds to me like an awfully suspicious judgement...is the judge looking for a domestic situation call to the local police?!
OMG!! You need to get yourself out of there.
I'm not sure how US law works, but can you not have the house sold and split the proceeds? Then neither of you have the house but you have half the proceeds to begin building a new life (downpayment on that house for your daughter and family?)? Here I believe if neither was willing to move, the judge would order the sale of the house...problem solved.
Whatever it takes, you need to get out and move on as this will only lead to great devastation for you for God knows how long and to what degree!
All the best to you and I hope you can get out from under this JERK real soon!
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| 2/10/2008 1:49:14 PM |
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ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
age: 52
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He finally moved out and I have been dating. Not successfully I might add, but at least I am getting out and not having to put up with my ex any longer! Thank god! Life just seems to be getting better and better....thanks to all of you for writing your suggestions, some of them were so funny, and helpful. Take care....
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