| 1/31/2008 8:15:06 AM |
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londen
Ingersoll, ON
age: 58
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Maybe it is only me, but most of the men that I am communicating privately with, in the hopes to getting to know them better, bring up their desire for sex by the second e-mail if not the first.
Is it a male thing? Let's face it, we haven't met, if I walked past him on the street I wouldn't know him. Isn't talk about sex, personal preferences, when you last had it, etc. a better topic for further down the topic list? Am I the only one who thinks I should know someone before I talk about sex with them?
For those who were complaining about the blaws, is this a hot topic for you.
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| 1/31/2008 8:21:36 AM |
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whalemstr
Corning, CA
age: 50
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I would be way too embarrassed
so
yes
it's
a
guy
thing
just
not this
one! 
[Edited 1/31/2008 8:23:55 AM]
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| 1/31/2008 8:23:32 AM |
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ken325
Seminole, AL
age: 58
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No Londen, sex I don't think should be brought up at all for a while, and even then only if she brooches the subject. I think it's highly disrespectful and rude to think you can just jump right into the subject without really knowing someone. I was raised better than that.
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| 1/31/2008 8:26:56 AM |
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anne654
Springfield, MO
age: 53
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I agree Londen, when a man starts emailing and by the second email he starts mentioning sex, I feel that is probably all he is looking for. And I don't reply after that. A true gentleman will not do that, and there are some gentlemen on here for sure
[Edited 1/31/2008 8:44:19 AM]
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| 1/31/2008 8:33:45 AM |
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sweetness1954
Hebron, IN
age: 53
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Londen, I agree, if they want to bring up sex that soon, I don't respond, I just DELETE!!!! If they think anyone decent woman would be interested in the when they do that, they need to go to a different sight!!! Like the married women looking for an affair, they are the only ones interested in sex talk that soon!
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| 1/31/2008 8:36:20 AM |
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sunnyx56
Rochester, NH
age: 56
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I agree with it should not be the discussed till after a certain point. And in my last relationship I left everything up to her when things should progress. Which I think took a lot away from what could have been more enjoyment. I just didn't feel that I could make a move even after we were in a relationship, without her approval. Sunny
HOT HOT HOT
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| 1/31/2008 8:40:55 AM |
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prxf
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 51
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I agree, londen. He's getting too personal way too fast.
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| 1/31/2008 8:57:11 AM |
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shnpker
Petrolia, ON
age: 64 online now!
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Wow! Londen, what a response. Nice that the men stepped right up to respond to your Question. And I agree with you and them. Too soon.
Shunpiker
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| 1/31/2008 9:08:46 AM |
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chooseyme
Mohawk, NY
age: 64
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it many times does eem to be the internet/web standard....don't get it or like it...and will usually excuse myself after telling him to take a hike!!!
the thing I also wonder about is how freely do some women get into it, even take the lead in some way????
[Edited 1/31/2008 9:09:32 AM]
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| 1/31/2008 9:19:20 AM |
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hodag
Little Suamico, WI
age: 54
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Same here.
Not all guys are that way. There is a difference between having sex and making love.
I prefer making love. And the only way to do that is to develop a very strong emotional bond with someone you truly respect. And that takes time.
St.Hodag
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| 1/31/2008 9:33:41 AM |
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healthologist
Page, AZ
age: 60
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Talking sex right away where's the foreplay in that?
Much more fun to tease someone for days or longer to the point that "they" want to rip "your" clothes off.  
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| 1/31/2008 9:35:42 AM |
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lasttime4me
Townsend, MT
age: 63 online now!
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I think that is one thing wrong with this site, because it is free you get so many of those kind of people. I have had some women that all they wanted was to talk sex. I don't think sex should be brought up at all before you even meet anyone or aleast talk by phone. For me sex would be the iceing on the cake after you find they are the friend and life companion you are looking for.
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| 1/31/2008 9:42:42 AM |
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katet
Oakdale, CA
age: 52
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dont bother with them.
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| 1/31/2008 9:51:13 AM |
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chuckyk
Portland, OR
age: 59
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If they start talking about sex early on, then they're not interested in you, just your sexual organs....tell 'em to try "casual encounters" on Craigs List
[Edited 1/31/2008 9:52:14 AM]
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| 1/31/2008 9:53:46 AM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55
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my eyes are failing me again.. i thought it read SIX messages... dagnabit!
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