| 2/2/2008 4:00:07 PM |
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karokeman
Abita Springs, LA
age: 37
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Me and my girlfriend of 7 years and two kids have broken up. She wants to see other people but she does not want to move out. Now here is the kicker she goes out and on several occassions has come home and we had great sex. why is that is she guilty or just getting it from home where it is safe. Is she getting horney out and coming home. I want to kick her out but cant because of the boys . what do i do.
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| 2/2/2008 7:35:51 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 44 online now!
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Sounds to me like you are her insurance policy.
She's out having a blast with her friends or with a guy. As soon as she finds one, the sex will dry up.
You should have a talk with her and make sure that she won't consider trying to rebuild your relationship. Especially since kids are involved.
If she says she is done with you, or just wants a place to live and a place to get safe sex, I'd cut off the sex and go looking for a new partner. A partner that you will have a future with.
Sounds like she is using you. 
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| 2/2/2008 7:46:23 PM |
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yedjh
Syracuse, NY
age: 37
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She's having a blast at your expense. End it for your own piece of mind. She'll just walk all over you if you let her. Sometimes the things you think your doing for the kids are not always in anyone's best interest.
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| 2/2/2008 7:51:41 PM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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Absolutely and she's playing you for a sucker while she is looking for prospects (bigger suckers) who would take her. It's just a matter of time.
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| 2/2/2008 8:02:58 PM |
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tommyblue
Louisville, KY
age: 26
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you could always give her the ole "whoops i didn't mean to put it in your butt"
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| 2/2/2008 8:43:29 PM |
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kfab1023
Jacksonville, FL
age: 51 online now!
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so why do you put up with it. She is using you and you deserve better
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| 2/2/2008 10:44:42 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47 online now!
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A built in babysitter. While waiting at home, she plays. By allowing her to do this she will continue with the behaviour. Using the kids as a tool to keep one another isn't the way. Children are smarter than we think they are. They see all and how their parents behave to each other is a role model that the children will take with them in adulthood.
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| 2/3/2008 12:16:54 PM |
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cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 48
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Think real hard about the kids in this. They come first and foremost. What sort of environment is this for them?
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| 2/3/2008 1:03:29 PM |
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lue1488
Upper Marlboro, MD
age: 19
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Man im sorry to say but all she is doing is using you. The sex is just to keep the roof over the head and self pleasere for herself. Your kids are important but your happiness is too. Remember you only have one life.
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| 2/3/2008 5:00:06 PM |
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yankeesweet
Aiken, SC
age: 57 online now!
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You need to get yourself to a lawyer and work something out for
those kids. They are going to need a stable home and it doesn't
sound like she is going to provide it. 
Then DUMP her totally. She IS just using you.
Sorry, but you certainly can find a better woman.
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