it also shows your not trusting.

I was just about to ask the same thing......

@404 error...any woman who won't let you have your own opinion doesn't need a background check. Everything you need to know about how things would play out in a relationship with her is right in plain view.

I wonder how many rich, successful, celebrities would fail a background check?

Anyway, too bad you can't do a background check on how many sex partners a person had, if they have STD's, or if you could interview their ex boyfriends and ask them what type of person they really were.

Don't care too much if a woman I'm into made a mistake in the past, as long as "today" she treats me right. Plus I'm much more concerned about if she's clean (no STD's), and stuff like that...you know, how will she handle problems in the relationship, will she be consistent...etc...(more "relationship" oriented stuff).

It's not like somebody who passes a background check can't later make mistakes in the future.

The couple on here has powerful emotions and they have planned to act upon them. I think this is Kool. The divorce rate is high now, and most divorced couples weren't married within a week anyway. It's not like the keys to a successful marriage are putting a person through a bunch of "test" for many months or a few years. This model isn't working, so who is to say the couple here won't find true happiness?

Hey for all we know she could be the one to be worried about...not the guy

maybe you need one.

I love my son but no I am not ready to have another kid right now and its not going to happen.

Might want to make some attorney friends on here before you two ride off into that oblivious sunset....Can never have too many friends. Just saying


Young love…….oh to be

WHAT???!!! You don't really have a relationship and yet you are willing to move two states over to be with him??? FFS girl, are you THAT desperate????? You and your child just might be found in a few years in a storage locker somewhere. Ever thought of THAT??? Hey, don't be CRAZY!

The words of a drama queen.

It's interesting how fruitcakes think and how a thread like this ends up to the woman and get daughter getting found in a storage locker years down the road? I guess it is the fruit cakes who think of "fruity things".

You can get killed walking your dog or driving to the store.

What a nut job--

For being honest on this thread, she calls you:

1) desperate
2) "that" desperate
3) crazy
4) a potential murder victim in a storage locker
5) your child a potential murder victim in a storage locker
6) And she, an obvious "whack job", has the audacity to offer advice?

All of this feedback for simply being honest. Perhaps a "quack" like her will end up in a storage locker a few years down the road, because you just know...she drove many a men crazy.

She also "presupposes" that the man whom you're in love with is crazy enough to do all these things, so in reality she insulted two people for nothing. What a "fruit".

Oh, I forgot STUPID. Feel better now? My friends here on DH will attest to the fact that I am not fruity or a quack, a nut job or anything else. The girl has not thought out what could happen to her in a strange city two states away if her husband decides to dump her and her child. But that is typical of a 20 year old who has yet to learn that the internet holds many surprises, some good, some bad. She is only thinking of the good and not thinking of the bad. She asked for advice, I am giving mine. It's still a free society and ppl like you who do name calling as part of their diatribe are the real problem. FFS, she hasn't even MET the guy yet! My questioning that, I am called a nut job. Go f**k yourself, a** wipe!