| 10/22/2010 1:42:48 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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Ok so... I really am shocked I found the man of my dreams on DH!!! I really did....  His name is Brad and We are getting married this week Love you baby!!! Anybody else find the love of their life on here?  
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| 10/22/2010 1:43:41 PM |
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photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
28, joined Dec. 2007
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how long did you date
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| 10/22/2010 1:46:04 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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Not that long... lol like a week... but I dont think time matters... when u know u know...
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| 10/22/2010 1:46:12 PM |
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verrill
Sharon, PA
26, joined Mar. 2009
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hey baby whats up, i love you . 
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| 10/22/2010 1:46:36 PM |
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mercedes01
New South Wales
Australia
98, joined Jan. 2010
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She joined dh yesterday
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| 10/22/2010 1:49:32 PM |
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lotusfly0
Longmont, CO
59, joined Aug. 2010
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| 10/22/2010 1:49:47 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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no I didnt .... and I love you too Brad!
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| 10/22/2010 1:51:42 PM |
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silknlace1
Las Vegas, NV
42, joined Aug. 2010
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Might want to make some attorney friends on here before you two ride off into that oblivious sunset....Can never have too many friends. Just saying
Young love…….oh to be
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| 10/22/2010 1:54:33 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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hehe why attorney friends? Seriously... the 2 of us are made for each other...
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| 10/22/2010 2:02:36 PM |
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_settee
Flower Mound, TX
64, joined Mar. 2010
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 I'm so happy for you...good luck!
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| 10/22/2010 2:08:58 PM |
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lakersrock
Springville, UT
50, joined May. 2010
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| 10/22/2010 2:22:51 PM |
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verrill
Sharon, PA
26, joined Mar. 2009
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dame theres alot of haters on her, but ya we are ment for each other, love you to babe.
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| 10/22/2010 2:30:01 PM |
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mercedes01
New South Wales
Australia
98, joined Jan. 2010
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Nobody hates you people 
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| 10/22/2010 2:44:30 PM |
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snowbird02s
Florence
Italy
98, joined Jan. 2009
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Have fun 
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| 10/22/2010 2:59:58 PM |
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atlantalady001
Newnan, GA
67, joined Oct. 2010
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I'm not getting a good feeling about this ..
I don't think it's a good match ..
When My toe tingles ,it ain't good match ...
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| 10/22/2010 3:03:14 PM |
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icuddle
Salem, OR
64, joined Dec. 2009
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If you found him here, the chances are that he is either: insane, a felon, married, a habitual cheater, a game player, a jerk, or-worse yet-a redneck Republican...or, still worse, some combination of these. If you found a guy here who is the exception to this general rule, then congratulations! Enjoy him while you can. Good luck. Remember, though...Scott Peterson's wife thought him a great catch, too.
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| 10/22/2010 3:04:30 PM |
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photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
28, joined Dec. 2007
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what are the odds
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| 10/22/2010 3:12:22 PM |
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pichick712
Aston, PA
59, joined Jan. 2008
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you 2 are all of what????? 20??????????????????????? and you met online.
it appears you do not live near each other. who is moving to whom????? How much face to face time have you actually had?????????????
are your parents really ok with this?????????????????? I am a parent and I know I would not be.
It's not love,it's hormones, it's lust, it's infatuation.
PLEASE SLOW DOWN AND MAKE SURE THIS IS REALLY WHAT YOU WANT.
I have a bad feeling about this. Glad you are not my children. this can't end well. Sorry, but you put it out there.
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| 10/22/2010 3:14:11 PM |
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photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
28, joined Dec. 2007
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shhhhh now
i can't wait for the hate thread
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| 10/22/2010 3:14:51 PM |
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mandavel
Frederick, MD
27, joined May. 2010
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ten bucks on a month
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| 10/22/2010 3:17:48 PM |
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photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
28, joined Dec. 2007
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bet i'll buy ya a beer when your 21
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| 10/22/2010 3:21:56 PM |
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still_blessed
Indianapolis, IN
97, joined Jun. 2010
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Good luck to you both! Hope it works out.
[Edited 10/22/2010 3:23:11 PM ]
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| 10/22/2010 3:30:53 PM |
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ballantyne731
Charlotte, NC
50, joined Aug. 2010
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That's great you found someone, but you are so young. You have the rest of your life to get married. 
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| 10/22/2010 3:30:57 PM |
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greatcatch1963
Grass Valley, CA
54, joined Sep. 2010
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I think they are pulling our legs. For one she said the only DATED a week yet they going to get married in a week...so that makes only a few weeks....am I wrong?
Don't young people these days MOVE in together before marriage? seems they are doing it all wrong 
Try dating a year while being together and see how things go.
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| 10/22/2010 3:34:31 PM |
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drummaster777
Auburn, WA
42, joined Jan. 2008
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Another future DH single mother. It's nice to know the next generation is not going to be single-motherless.
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| 10/22/2010 3:35:46 PM |
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maesbaby763
Asheboro, NC
54, joined Aug. 2010
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Honey I am certainly happy that you and Brad have found each other but please slow down and take your time!
Yes, you may be a good match but let the infatuation period time wear off before you truly give this marriage a go.
I too have met and am dating a guy I met on here and it's only been 3 weeks and yes we really like each other and he is awesome too but if he had proposed to me in a week I would have ran screaming like Satan was on my heels.
This is the getting to know each other period, dating to find out if we are wanting anything more than that. As it should be for you also.
You get married this soon after meeting and in a month or so you will see things in each other that you might not be able to tolerate and you couldn't imagine having to live the rest of your life like that.
I can assure you it isn't that there are haters being negative, it's that we are older and have more experience with these kind of situations.
As a parent I would hope if one of my kids were doing this and turned to a sea of strangers for advice I would hope that they would advise him or her to wait also.
We are just looking out for you is all.
I wish you luck and let us know how this turns out?
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| 10/22/2010 3:37:31 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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dame theres alot of haters on her, but ya we are ment for each other, love you to babe.
hehe hun I was just about to tell u the same thing about the haters 
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| 10/22/2010 3:42:37 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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you 2 are all of what????? 20??????????????????????? and you met online.
it appears you do not live near each other. who is moving to whom????? How much face to face time have you actually had?????????????
are your parents really ok with this?????????????????? I am a parent and I know I would not be.
It's not love,it's hormones, it's lust, it's infatuation.
PLEASE SLOW DOWN AND MAKE SURE THIS IS REALLY WHAT YOU WANT.
I have a bad feeling about this. Glad you are not my children. this can't end well. Sorry, but you put it out there.
Actually. My son and I are moving down to him. Face to face time doesnt mean anything. We have had a lot of in depth conversations. Some of my friends have been in marriages where they didnt even get to pick their spouse!! At least I get to pick mine I have been with felons... and its not good I have decided to completely change what I look for in a man and thats when I met brad. I know I put it out there... and I am not mad at you for stating your opinion I just really want people to know that true love doesnt have to wait and that u really can find it in strange places
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| 10/22/2010 3:50:24 PM |
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lakersrock
Springville, UT
50, joined May. 2010
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does that last statement mean you havent even met yet.
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| 10/22/2010 3:54:47 PM |
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silknlace1
Las Vegas, NV
42, joined Aug. 2010
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does that last statement mean you havent even met yet.
I was just about to ask the same thing......
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| 10/22/2010 4:03:30 PM |
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greatcatch1963
Grass Valley, CA
54, joined Sep. 2010
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I have been with felons... and its not good I have decided to completely change what I look for in a man and thats when I met brad.
OMG that statement right there screams STOP! You obviously have a poor people picker.
You are only 20, single mother (in your teens no doubt) and now you think just because this guy isn't a felon (yet, as he is oly 20 lol) than that is enough to go by? You need to grow up a bit more, take care of your son and if you really cared about your son you would wait longer to get to know this guy before tying the knot.
I see it now, you will move down there, real life will sink in and then you will be STUCK! I hope you have family to fall back on...cause like Dr. Phil (who I am usually always in agreement with) would say, you need to think about your kid FIRST!
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| 10/22/2010 4:05:08 PM |
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justme355
Harrisonville, MO
44, joined Sep. 2010
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I don't believe it is called hatin, I just think majority of us has been in this postion before at a young age, and look where we are now..
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| 10/22/2010 4:17:05 PM |
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gentlems
Louisville, KY
54, joined Oct. 2009
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Congrats and best of luck!!
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| 10/22/2010 4:24:47 PM |
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greatcatch1963
Grass Valley, CA
54, joined Sep. 2010
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I don't believe it is called hatin, I just think majority of us has been in this postion before at a young age, and look where we are now..
Not me..it doesn't awalys take one to know one....just using common sense is enough. Oh yeah common sense isn't so common anymore.
Yeah she said in her first couple post that they only knew each other on here one week 
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| 10/22/2010 4:29:36 PM |
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sugrnspice2
Boca Raton, FL
98, joined Aug. 2009
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oh .. it gets BETTER!! HE has a 2 year old !
oh please...
babies with babies
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| 10/22/2010 4:37:52 PM |
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greatcatch1963
Grass Valley, CA
54, joined Sep. 2010
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[Edited 10/22/2010 4:38:47 PM ]
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| 10/22/2010 4:38:27 PM |
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greatcatch1963
Grass Valley, CA
54, joined Sep. 2010
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9 months from now there will be another baby.
Dr. Phil here we come lol
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| 10/22/2010 4:53:12 PM |
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meciuno
Middelfart
Denmark
51, joined Jan. 2010
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I am not shocked at all. At least I was honest with my dates at 20, f**ked our brains out for several weeks to make sure we got that out of the way and than talked of my smelly socks, her stupidity, my hairy a** and her big a** after pregnancy!
some lasted some didn't! 
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| 10/22/2010 5:10:20 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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umm wow. do you all have to be like down right mean? I would really appreciate it if ya'll could state ur opions without acting like we are bad parents because we are young and jumping into something... This thread has nothing to do with our kids and I really would like them to stop being brought up. I did want honest advice and I totally understand some of your opinions. I love Brad, I really do. It is not lust at all... trust me I have been there. Yeah it sounds crazy but its for real we are not playing games. Also... I am on the pill and I am still very careful! I love my son but no I am not ready to have another kid right now and its not going to happen. I know there are lot of critics on here... because yeah we both are 20... and honestly if another 20 year old came up to me and said "omg I just met a guy online and im getting married" I would pry tell them they are dumb.... it sounds dumb it sounds crazy... with the pieces apart... but with all the pieces put together its honestly perfect. I am not backing down... I really am going to marry him and I hope that in a year or so I can make a new thread telling all of you how wonderful my marriage is!
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| 10/22/2010 5:16:51 PM |
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lakersrock
Springville, UT
50, joined May. 2010
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sometimes things like this work out. but chances are that they wont. talking online or on the phone are different than in person. and your moving to be with a guy as far as we know you have never met.
you know nothing about each other except for what you told each other. 1 or both of you could have lied about many things.
if its real and true love, whats the rush?
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| 10/22/2010 5:18:01 PM |
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imagine_bliss
Mesa, AZ
31, joined Oct. 2010
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I had a friend who, around five years ago, went to Rocky point on vacation. He came back married to a woman he only knew for a weekend.
I was thinking he was crazy, mad, impulsive, and that one day he'd regret it.
Well, today they are happily married, have a kid, and are very much in love.
They have done better than a lot of marriages that happened after the couple knew each other for a long period of time and then got a bitter divorce. My cousin knew her husband for seven years...they got married and decided to separate and file for divorce after only being married for "ten days".
Sometimes there are exceptions to the rules.
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| 10/22/2010 5:22:29 PM |
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pichick712
Aston, PA
59, joined Jan. 2008
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ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh honey, this is really scary. I am glad I'm not your mother. If it's true love like you say it is, then SLOW DOWN AND GET TO KNOW HIM. That true love will still be there in a year or 5.
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| 10/22/2010 5:22:42 PM |
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ironmuscle
Santa Cruz, CA
41, joined Jun. 2008
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I think they are pulling our legs. For one she said the only DATED a week yet they going to get married in a week...so that makes only a few weeks....am I wrong?
I think you're right Great....sounds like hogwash.
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| 10/22/2010 5:24:37 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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I had a friend who, around five years ago, went to Rocky point on vacation. He came back married to a woman he only knew for a weekend.
I was thinking he was crazy, mad, impulsive, and that one day he'd regret it.
Well, today they are happily married, have a kid, and are very much in love.
They have done better than a lot of marriages that happened after the couple knew each other for a long period of time and then got a bitter divorce. My cousin knew her husband for seven years...they got married and decided to separate and file for divorce after only being married for "ten days".
Sometimes there are exceptions to the rules.
Agreed. And thank u for a valid point on the positive side! lol
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| 10/22/2010 5:24:59 PM |
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chris102122
Aurora, IN
35, joined Sep. 2010
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no not yet , no one will talk to me
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| 10/22/2010 5:26:16 PM |
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spark_plug
Kent, WA
65, joined Oct. 2010
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Take the bull by the horn and go for it! You are the only one who has to live with your decisions, but remember your child has to live with it too. Goodluck to you Both. I read his profile too and see that he has a son also, So that same advise applies to him also.
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| 10/22/2010 5:26:33 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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I think you're right Great....sounds like hogwash.
I can see why u think that... but its really not... we are both just into going to the ex-stream and this is one thing that we want to do its an impulse I am willing to take a chance on because of how madly in love I am with him.
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| 10/22/2010 5:27:36 PM |
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chris102122
Aurora, IN
35, joined Sep. 2010
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hehe why attorney friends? Seriously... the 2 of us are made for each other...
well everyone is trying to wreck the two of you , just follow your own hearts
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| 10/22/2010 5:27:50 PM |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
66, joined Dec. 2008
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Ok, so if this is true...I have just one question...Are you NUTS? My god girl, you're 20 years old and you've know this guy a week and you're gonna MARRY HIM You do realize that getting Unmarried from him will cost an arm and a leg, plus a Kidney...And then after all, there will be the Babies to Support, cause you'll instantly get Pregnent and trying to get Blood out of a Turnip ( CHILD SUPPORT ) Well good luck with that one
Now if you had any Smarts about you, you would Rethink his Proposal, and say NO
Youth, its wasted on them
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| 10/22/2010 5:36:44 PM |
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leon_trout
Tallahassee, FL
46, joined Apr. 2010
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I'm not sure what everyone is complaining about. She's cute. I'd marry her for a week too.
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| 10/22/2010 6:17:31 PM |
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lakersrock
Springville, UT
50, joined May. 2010
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i hope thats not what her guy is thinking.
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| 10/22/2010 6:21:51 PM |
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donajaii
Lansing, MI
49, joined Apr. 2010
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Idiot.
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| 10/22/2010 6:35:58 PM |
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ladybugbp
Pittsburgh, PA
58, joined May. 2009
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........ I would really appreciate it if ya'll could state ur opions without acting like we are bad parents because we are young and jumping into something... This thread has nothing to do with our kids and I really would like them to stop being brought up........
This thread has everything to do with your kids.
You are not just making decisions for yourself--you are making decisions for your son’s life and future also. You may not want to hear it but.... you just met this guy and want to run to him and start a new life with him..... perhaps that is not the best thing for your son right now. You are ripping your son away from everything and everyone that is familiar to him. That is not good for him.
Why don't you leave your son with your family and go spend some time in Sharon, PA, to get a better idea of what your life and your son's life will be like there.
In all fairness, and out of love for your son, why don't you do that for him?
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| 10/22/2010 7:07:02 PM |
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pdforone
Litchfield, OH
66, joined Jul. 2010
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I like a long honeymoon, with out the marriage.
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| 10/22/2010 7:13:51 PM |
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lostfan66
Olive Branch, MS
51, joined Aug. 2010
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You have only known him for one week? Don't you think you should get to know him a little better before you get married. I'm guessing that the little boy in the picture with you is your son. You owe it to your son to get to know this man a little better. Do you both have jobs? You both are only 20 years old. You have plenty of time to get to know each other before you get married. I know you don't have to listen to what I have said, so I wish you luck with your new life. ::bri/s/brick-wall-017.gifckwall::
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| 10/22/2010 7:22:32 PM |
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michelle27b
Bismarck, ND
46, joined Oct. 2010
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All I can say is "BACKGROUND CHECK" now i'm not saying he's a bad guy or a felon just saying you don't really know him at all, your just going by with what he is telling you and if you have kids then you really need to think about what your doing for you and your childs( if any)safty cuz you just never know these days. If you do decide to do a background check and he dose turn out to be a good guy and clears everything then the best of luck to you both. Just think about it.
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| 10/22/2010 7:30:29 PM |
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marianaluvsu
Grand Rapids, MI
27, joined Oct. 2010
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Thank you! I already did do a background check. all clears out. And to the rest of you again I thank you for the criticism because I know its from the heart u dont want to see us hurt or our kids hurt... totally understandable. but again I am going to do what im going to do and I truly love him. bottom line.
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| 10/22/2010 7:49:55 PM |
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404error
Anderson, IN
35, joined Jul. 2010
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oh god here we go with the background check crap.
good way to tell your mate YOU DO NOT TRUST THEM AT ALL.
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| 10/22/2010 7:54:23 PM |
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michelle27b
Bismarck, ND
46, joined Oct. 2010
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good i'm really happy you did get him checked out and he cleared so then I say good luck to you both and hope everything turns out for the best.
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| 10/22/2010 7:59:00 PM |
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michelle27b
Bismarck, ND
46, joined Oct. 2010
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oh god here we go with the background check crap.
good way to tell your mate YOU DO NOT TRUST THEM AT ALL.
ahh you again... oh boy!! and a background check is not crap it's called being safe.
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