| 2/10/2008 9:51:55 PM |
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jj197622
Fort Worth, TX
age: 31
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hi,
Do all women want money over anything else for love/relationship. I know money isnt the only thing but it seems that i have been dumped and left lately because i was making little to no money. It is not like I was a bum and I am sitting arround doing nothing. I am attending a culinary school at the momment in order to get my life on track. So i tell them upfront that I am in school and money's tight atm. But it just falls on deaf ears and they immediately look past me.
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| 2/10/2008 9:55:59 PM |
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tommyblue
Louisville, KY
age: 26
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You're on to something.
You can see straight through their smoke.
I used to make real good money.
I've fallen on hard times these last couple years, and lemme tell ya.....my sex life went from crazy to nothing.
Yet, there's this one girl who is interested even though she knows my situation.
She likes "what's in my heart"
Could I have found her? Maybe
Regardless, beware the women that smile at you once your wallet gets a little more plump.
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| 2/10/2008 10:46:20 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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I've never looked for a sugar daddy nor have I ever been a sugar mama. Love is all that I seek and I hope that is what he seeks as well.
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| 2/10/2008 11:06:09 PM |
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rhonda3875
Fort Collins, CO
age: 33
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I TOTALLY AGREE W CHOPPERBABE 
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| 2/11/2008 2:22:57 AM |
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mindyb
Bloomington, IL
age: 43
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HELL NO....How Shallow! If money is a Preresquite then the person is valued as nothing more than a tool...the love and dedication of a good soul is not determined nor measured in the shallows of money.
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| 2/11/2008 2:51:26 AM |
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knotreel
Belvidere, NC
age: 35
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I don't see many women dating broke guys, but most guys don't care if the girls got money or not.
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| 2/11/2008 3:00:44 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41 online now!
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"Money can't buy love, but it improves your bargaining position."
-- Christopher Marlowe
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| 2/11/2008 3:05:39 AM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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I have to say..........I am not looking for money. I make my own money and I can take care of myself. What do I want from a man......the stuff that you can't make happen alone. ROMANCE, PASSION, COMPANIONSHIP......LOVE
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| 2/11/2008 3:13:40 AM |
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tallestdiva
Flint, MI
age: 32
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Everyone says they prefer love over money, yet money is one of the major reasons for divorce. Go figure
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| 2/11/2008 4:05:05 AM |
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michaelcee
Sarasota, FL
age: 51
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"My lovely lady would you have affairs of the heart with me for $1000"
Why, yes sir I certainly would
My dear.... would you have affairs of the heart with me for $1????
SIR!!!
What kind of woman do you take me for????
Madamme.... that has already been determined.... I am now simply negotiating the price.
Paraphrased; Samual Clemmins (aka) Mark Twain
Even in the 1700's guys knew dating was close to legal prostitution
But what if SHE buys???
Wierd world we live in... yeah it is
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| 2/11/2008 7:31:37 AM |
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tommyblue
Louisville, KY
age: 26
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bingo.
I've thrown the million dollar question to many women, which establishes they are prostitutes.
I've only had 1 or 2 girls that convinced me they wouldn't take any amount of money for sex.
I'd love to see any of the above ladies get "taken home" to the projects. I believe they would run.
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| 2/11/2008 7:47:43 AM |
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yankeesweet
Aiken, SC
age: 57
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Money is not necessarily a "prerequisite" for a relationship...
That said... people tend to date in their own monetary stature in
society. In other words....you will rarely see a woman that has
a good job and home, etc. dating a man with nothing. Having money
and how much you have does say something about what you are doing
with your life...among other things that are equally important.
And...women who are still looking for a husband of your AGE are
looking to settle down and start a family most likely. The reality
is that their biological clock is ticking. If you can't answer that
and if you appear not to be a provider in some way, then you are going
to be rejected. Just reality...in my opinion.
My feeling is that when you finish what you are studying and get
settled in a job then you will have much more success. It is really
that simple and alot of men don't want to see it...but a woman is
going to look for the best man she can find that can HELP provide
for her and her family. Happens in the animal kingdom as well!!!
So, no...money isn't everthing...but sometimes it has to be a
big consideration. JMO
Best of Luck to you. You will find someone when the time is right!
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| 2/11/2008 8:04:36 AM |
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ru2timid
Rockford, IL
age: 46
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I will give you the benifit of doubt here and resist my urge to think this was an attempt to bash women, or have others do it for you.
People tend to continue relationships with other people they find interestling attractive. Ask yourself what you are looking for in a relationship before it begins... try being imaginative on your dates, and don't let it get you down if the person you are persuing has other objectives in life... make a friend, and be respectful. Even rich people have to make considerations much like those who are not as fortunate (where $ is concerned).
NO money, is not a prereq for a relationship... but in order to keep one going, keep in tune with both your wants and hers... and live within your means and goals...
By the way ... good luck with school. Right now that may be where your attention is needed the most. 
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| 2/11/2008 8:10:07 AM |
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tommyblue
Louisville, KY
age: 26
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sorry it double posted....
[Edited 2/11/2008 8:11:21 AM]
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| 2/11/2008 8:10:41 AM |
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tommyblue
Louisville, KY
age: 26
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school is a farce.
Go into any whole foods market. Most of these folks have degrees.
They make $8 an hour.
If you don't have a PHD or MBA these days its the same as a high school diploma.
I agree with the provider comments. If only the blind women who say they don't look for it would realize they do.
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