| 11/13/2010 5:50:46 PM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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heart_throbak
Fairbanks, AK
30, joined Nov. 2010
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Has anyone ever felt or had an x that when you broke up with wen't a-wall I blame myself for everything thats happening with him I wish I didn't. It hurt's so bad I hate myself so much and I cant even do anything about it to make things better or help him., and I thought the break up was hard the real truth is I cant even heal or move on becuase I still care about him and I feel resposable for whats going on with him and I it's hard to move on when you have that much gult. I pray that he find's his way. I'm so mad and angry at myself.
xoxo Jenna tata xoxox  
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| 11/14/2010 2:25:53 AM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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alaskanbiker
Vernal, UT
61, joined Jan. 2008
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Just sit down and tell Dr Biker all about it.
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| 11/15/2010 10:45:53 AM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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1alaskaman
Manley Hot Springs, AK
61, joined Sep. 2008
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All depends on why ya broke up.
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| 11/18/2010 5:58:14 PM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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heart_throbak
Fairbanks, AK
30, joined Nov. 2010
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what do you want me to say? and what do you look like doc biker?
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| 11/19/2010 9:38:07 AM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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alaskanbiker
Vernal, UT
61, joined Jan. 2008
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| 12/6/2010 11:38:50 PM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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beachn1
Palmer, AK
33, joined Nov. 2009
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he is his own person...went through same thing
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| 12/22/2010 2:36:42 AM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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aklonely
Mesa, AZ
33, joined Oct. 2010
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you need to be honest with yourself and him and pray about it
your heart knows what is best..you need to have forgiveness
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| 4/26/2011 12:44:56 AM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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stripestar
Anchorage, AK
58, joined Feb. 2010
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Bummer said the drummer, but I wouldn't stress over it too, much, life goes on, his will, and yours will, if you broke up with him in the first place, their was obviously something wrong in the first place. I think you are cute and should hook up with me, though, but at least I admit I have an ulterior motive.
Love ya...
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| 5/4/2011 1:15:07 PM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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realaalaskan1
Talkeetna, AK
67, joined Feb. 2011
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Obviously, there's a reason you felt you needed to break up with him or he wouldn't be an ex, and you're not responsible for his actions, so don't be so hard on yourself. It sounds like you were quite involved in this relationship, so it may take some time to heal before you move on. Give yourself some time to do that, then move forward. If you're the one who broke things off and feel the breakup was wrong, maybe you need to talk with him about that. If he's the one who broke things off, was he really worth having around? Also, please keep in mind that at least he's still around and you have an ex and can talk with him if you choose; some of us aren't so fortunate -- we've lost a spouse or lover and will never have the chance to talk with them again.
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| 7/25/2011 3:15:18 PM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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carcrazyinfl
West Palm Beach, FL
61, joined Dec. 2009
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First, both of you are ADULTS!
Second, Life is about Choices! If you Ex "Chose" to go awol...that was HIS CHOICE! Your Ex did things....or didn't do things to keep you in the Relationship. DON"T beat yourself up over this and move on. It will take a while....BUT "Time heals all wounds"...
...for Him Too!
Just think of yourself as a "transplanted exotic flower plant". Just as the Plant needs time to draw nurrismont from the Earth, you too need to draw strenght from Friends and Family for the next 6 months to a year.
Hang in there!
Ted from Florida
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| 8/16/2011 3:20:32 PM |
I feel like what's happening to my x is my fault. |
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casagrandegirls
Casa Grande, AZ
29, joined Jul. 2011
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its not and get over it move on with your life  
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