| 2/17/2008 6:25:14 PM |
"Shut the hell up" factors....lol HEY.... |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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I was briefly sharing my place with a guy who had been badly abused by his wife. I mean BADLY abused.....
I am fairly easy going and allowed him free roam of the home....
I knew he was badly treated and I liked him - as a guy - not anything further but he was an okay guy who had been shot in the face by a b*tch....
Anyhow - he used to ask me everything he did - "Is this okay?"
"Is this okay?"
How he opened the frig!
How he walked on the carpet in socks...
It made me incredibly sad for him but after two months hsaring my space it became hugely annoying.
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| 2/17/2008 10:37:05 PM |
"Shut the hell up" factors....lol HEY.... |
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mindyb
Bloomington, IL
age: 42
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Skypeotone are you speaking of walking on eggshells? i know i have been thru the word everything so carefully so he wont make an issue...oh dear god..people who feel the need to debate every little thing...OK YOUR SMART ALREADY...GIve IT A REST!! is what you want to say but its not worth it, they are insecrue and its just to mych work. Women can say what they want about a guy with an ego but I have learned to celebrare the male ego...Him I can love&Live with happily. No drama!!! and give me my sanctuary..."I said nothing is wrong, I am fine". No backing me into a corner...what happens when you back an animal into a corner?......that one would be both "Shut the hell up" and "get off me"
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| 2/17/2008 10:58:25 PM |
"Shut the hell up" factors....lol HEY.... |
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iloveto4x4
Salida, CO
age: 34
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The thing that makes me want to say "Shut the hell up!" is when I can't have 5 minutes of peace and quiet without her thinking something's wrong. There isn't anything wrong, I just want some quiet time/breathing room. That shuts her up for about 45mins, then it's right back at it.  I'm about 1 of her insecure days away from telling her to take a hike.
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| 2/18/2008 12:19:56 AM |
"Shut the hell up" factors....lol HEY.... |
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mindyb
Bloomington, IL
age: 42
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EXACTLY!!...Damn that shit drove crazy. I am a very scantify minded person. I like to think. i like deep drifting thought and pondering. This time is my sactuary and we all need it. On the inside, I am the same little girl that sat by the lake shore for hours watching wildlife, watching an ant work or chipmonks play and taking it all in, I am a dreamer, deal with it. let me have my sanctuary.
The other thing is MOUNTAINS OUT OF MOLEHILLS...jeeeesh!....no biggy half the time, why do people get so f*cking worked up over nothing!!!MMMMMMMMMM???? lets see choices are....B*TCH about it and make everyones life dreaful or get up of your ass and shut up and do something about it?
B*tch about it?......do some thing about it??
B*tch?....or do something?
....wow! theres a no brainer!
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| 2/19/2008 12:52:06 AM |
"Shut the hell up" factors....lol HEY.... |
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mindyb
Bloomington, IL
age: 42
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ok here's one that bugged me to death...one guy had to be the center of attention all the time , he would be funny for a while and then just kept pushing and was stupid...bad jokes ,corney come backs...it was embarassing...over all fun funny is fine but dont try so f*cking hard. It is because of him that i rarely laugh ata joke now...WIT is what makes me laugh , playing off the enovironment and everything thats going on around you...clever and quick...no corney jokes.
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| 2/19/2008 1:24:33 AM |
"Shut the hell up" factors....lol HEY.... |
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onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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Too many flashbacks here, gotta go so I can breathe, sorry.
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| 2/19/2008 2:09:55 AM |
"Shut the hell up" factors....lol HEY.... |
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mindyb
Bloomington, IL
age: 42
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I am not trying ot make a b*tch seession I am trying to get people to open up about what drives them nuts....never knwo commone denominators can bring people together.....the NO drama policy has brought me togetehr with people...every one has "can't stands"
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