2/22/2008 1:44:47 AM |
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ubu4me
Hallandale, FL
age: 59
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Alone is a choice.
One we make ourselves.
This is not something we HAVE to be.
So if you don't want to be alone take a walk, say hi to someone, start a conversation'''
or at least see a therapist.
There is a reason God gives us time alone with our feelings..some people might not know they have any until they realize they have no one to share a life with.
Only you and the one you pray to can make it all better. Writing helps more than you will ever know. And then there is.......the outside world...
If you play pool rack 'em up, throw darts? find a board. Someone will always join in. Any hobby or theme of enjoyment will give you company.
And company can lead to many places you may have otherwise never found on the road to the journey.
May your travels be many, your troubles be few and the roads be paved with happiness...
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2/22/2008 2:11:43 AM |
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mandiisahotone
Duluth, MN
age: 20 online now!
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i hate being alone
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2/22/2008 2:13:46 AM |
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onelife2live
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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Apparently none of us lke being alone, that's why we are here.
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2/22/2008 4:26:06 AM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 45 online now!
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onelife - where is Janesville, Wl ? I could come and play scrabble and then you wouldn't be alone.......
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2/24/2008 12:10:48 PM |
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brownsugar25
Gainesville, FL
age: 25
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Its not bad being alone, but I cant actually say I'm alone because I have two kids and they occupy most of my time, but sense me and my baby daddy broke up a year ago today i've been feeling lonely especially at night. i'm trying to get adjusted tothe single life and the lonely nights and its going good so far but i really miss having someone to cuddle with and someone to do things with but until that special person walks in my life i will use this time for self improvement
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2/24/2008 12:22:05 PM |
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atlgarn
Longwood, FL
age: 53
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The worst is late at night when I do start "thinking" and "wondering". Life changes that occurred abruptly causing me to be alone are hard to take sometimes, but I'm not "lonely". I fill my time with work, family and friends. It's just that night time business that's a biatch.
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2/24/2008 12:42:08 PM |
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jayzon28
Powell, TN
age: 28 online now!
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Well I have tried the whole dating thing time and time again. I always get the "Lets be friends" routine... then later get the calls about "being lonely and wanting *cough* a friend over".... I am tired of that whole scene. I want someone that likes me for me and not just what I have in my pants.
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2/24/2008 1:08:15 PM |
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countrysweet07
Clifton, CO
age: 47
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being alone sucks...
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2/24/2008 1:11:19 PM |
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dg1260
Galion, OH
age: 47
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I agree countrysweets, being alone sux.
But being with my ex really sux!
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2/24/2008 2:47:54 PM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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At the moment I am welcoming being alone and finding it preferable to being with someone who is dishonest and deceitful to my face and the face of others..... I know I can trust me.
That is in itself - comforting.
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2/24/2008 2:49:17 PM |
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57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
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I hate it... but agree with Gone Sailing
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2/24/2008 2:52:42 PM |
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drummaster777
Auburn, WA
age: 32 online now!
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If by being alone you mean being single, I don't mind it at all. I love it actually. Being single doesn't mean you have to be lonely.
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2/24/2008 3:08:29 PM |
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nyerindallas
Frisco, TX
age: 49 online now!
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Think I've said this before but here goes.
I'd rather be bored and by myself once in a while than miserable with someone most of the time.
Don't have a problem being alone, I prefer it.
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2/24/2008 3:12:16 PM |
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coslty8
Uniondale, NY
age: 31
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There's a difference between being alone and being lonely.
To each is own...but alone time is good! You get to think about what you really want in life, self-reflect and make good decisions and choices.
Alone time is the best thing that ever happend to me, I really started taking a good look at who I was and different areas in my life. I made alot of changes and started to really work on me and love me. Thats when I started to feel the peace and quiteness within...peace and a quite spirit IS PRICELESS!!!!!
I love coming home to a clean, quite home...and now I'm at a point in my life where I want to share it with another person. I want to be an Oasis for my man, not a soul sucking, nagg.
Look if you don't like being with you then why would anyone else want to????
That's why alot of us start acting all needy and insecure, becuase we don't take the time out to really get to know or love ourselves. Can't expect somone to love us if we don't love ourselves first.
Like some of you said and I agree...I'd rather be alone and happy then be with someone yet still alone...
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