| 2/22/2008 4:32:04 PM |
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bry11ca
Wappingers Falls, NY
age: 43 online now!
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Thank you, imagegirl, for voting for those of us who know when to and when not to wear a shirt, but if you keep giving my secrets away, I'm going to make you iron my shirts . . . naked. 
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| 2/22/2008 4:39:01 PM |
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imagegirl5
Mobile, AL
age: 26
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Bry,
 Fair warning, I don't actually know how to iron (Suzie Homemaker, I'm not), you may end up with burned shirts. The naked part, I think I can handle.
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| 2/22/2008 4:59:49 PM |
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florida_gyrl
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 32
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mmmm well now.. this depends on the mood doesn't it ...
[Edited 2/22/2008 5:00:05 PM]
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| 2/22/2008 6:07:13 PM |
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steph_n_florida
Pensacola, FL
age: 43
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1pinkgirl, I was just saying I certainly wasn't trying to change your opinion at all everyone has there right to that, this is a forum I was just stating mine....I just know that some of my best friends have the bad boy look and can be bad boys, but also know how to be a total good boy at the same time, good mix...isn't that what all people want? They also can be your best friend when needed...Promise no offense intended....
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| 2/22/2008 11:53:03 PM |
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jcurster
Winter Haven, FL
age: 37
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I'm going to describe the real dilemma. Good girls, and I mean the real ones who don't kiss on the first date and haven't had sex with anyone other than one or two long term boyfriends. They don't cuss or cheat on their taxes. You know who I'm talking about. They won't give a tatted up earring wearing freak on a bike a second glance except to make sure that he's not stalking her.
The girls that feel comfortable around a guy who looks like a bouncer for Metallica normally has severe issues and takes Seroquel or Gabitrell. They are wickedly perverted and erotic in bed because they are usually a walking text book for codependency. And they think that by allowing themselves to be used as sexual play toys, they will reconcile any damage they have caused during their lapse in sanity, when they forgot to take their meds.
Most other chicks who don't act out with psychotic episodes but are attracted to the bad boy normally don't stay together for to long because they aren't willing to deal with the guys in your face type of arrogance when it comes to their core beliefs like a Seroquel girl who feeds on that type of behavior to excuse her own dysfunctional behavior.
And that is the basic malfunction when it comes to a decent guy who chooses to taste life with a spice of danger, who fashions his style around headhunters and Aborigines and who embodies the spirit of James Dean in his daily rituals.
And it's been that way probably before Sampson got freaky with Delilah.
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| 2/23/2008 7:49:23 AM |
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stinger35
Arlington, TX
age: 35
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Real bad boy but a really good man!!! Best of both worlds!!!
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| 2/23/2008 8:02:19 AM |
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sweet_in_ark
Fayetteville, AR
age: 39
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stinger35 said it best guys...we want a bad boy, but a real good man. This equals a man who can be a man not a p***y, a man that can be rough and gentle in bed, knows how to take care of woman in and out of bed. Nothing wrong with looking bad as long as you are good inside. There are good women out there, jcurster, that will be attracted to you for the good that goes along with the bad. You're obviously intellegent by the way that you write and eventually you'll find the best of both worlds....I have no doubt!
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| 2/23/2008 8:13:23 AM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 45
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I have a question? Why is there only 2 groups? Good Guy/Bad Guy or Good Girl/Bad Girl
I am a good type of girl. Fairly conservative in my everyday life etc. - dont jump into bed with every guy I see
but have had more than one or two boyfriends and don't think I really fit into either category. I'm sure alot of
people feel the same.
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| 2/23/2008 8:18:32 AM |
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bry11ca
Wappingers Falls, NY
age: 43 online now!
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FlowerGirl,
You of course are true to the mark. Try to tell me that a flower has to either smell good or be thorny and I'll tell you that I like roses  and that I am just careful how I handle them.
That's I opened a thread that wasn't Who's the sexiest, but who deserves your public approval. See "Who is sexy, smart, funny . . " on "Sex & Dating".
Thx for your input,
Bry
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| 2/23/2008 9:36:57 AM |
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aboomer
Little Rock, AR
age: 45
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To jcurster: there once was a book written titled "Dress for Success". It was written for those people who were satisfied with the idea of letting the corporate monarchy control their lives. If you see yourself as a "Black Sheep", then you must remember why you chose that posture. So many people become neurotic because they try to become something they aren`t. What makes you think "Little Miss Goody Two Shoes" would be a better mate and companion than a female version of yourself. It takes a great amount of character and integrity to be true to oneself. Like "Popeye" said, "I yam what I yam, And thats all that I yam". Olive Oil seemed to be pleased with what and who he was.
Interesting thought comes to mind. When I was in the Marines I trained to be the baddest bad ass that I could be knowing that when push comes to shove it`s the bad assees that survive. I never was concerned when some of the other marines avoided me , because they thought I was too gung ho. Interestingly, I have outlived the majority of those who thought I was "Too Gung Ho". So I guess their opinions weren`t worth a bucket of warm spit.
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| 2/25/2008 5:23:23 AM |
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trailrider47
Cocoa, FL
age: 48
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I agree with Steff..Jcurster look at the ages of the responses you have gotten, seems to me you are growing up, find the middle of that badboy-goodboy and you will find a nice lady, then its up to you to find the middle in that lady.
Keep in mind if you have the love and trust with each other you won't have to fight as much, Im sure most of the time you know you can walk away from a fight let the lady stand up for her love 4 you, then if he still persue's your lady it would be best before a fight to tell him to back off........Then if he don't kick his A**!
Take it from a country gal, I can deal with both worlds everyday, but Im looking for that middle man that knows his lady comes first.
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| 2/25/2008 5:27:57 AM |
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kcnsingle
Kansas City, MO
age: 46
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Nice or Bad ....You finish where you deserve to finish. JMO
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| 2/25/2008 5:30:51 AM |
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yummyballs75
Las Vegas, NV
age: 29
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Well I tell ya from a guys point of view and experience I think women like the nice guy but they like what the bad boy has to offer so I think they just really want a guy that is respectful and very loving but is a protector and kind of a hard ass I guess looks and bedroom bad boy relationship ethics of a nice guy. I will check back to see what you think because I really wonder sometimes.
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| 2/25/2008 5:52:17 AM |
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sweetblueeyes1
Orlando, FL
age: 37
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I like the bad boy in the bedroom!!!! but for me it really doesn't work in the relationship department.
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| 2/25/2008 5:56:43 AM |
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ozarkhiker
Festus, MO
age: 66
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 Nice guys finish last, but I'm not going to change
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