2/22/2008 6:54:50 PM |
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butterbug
Missoula, MT
age: 28
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Thank you I appreciate that. I try my hardest, It's hard to raise a kid alone but it just means a little more work.
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2/22/2008 6:57:54 PM |
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yummyballs75
Las Vegas, NV
age: 29
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Yeah well try 4 kids and let me know what you think bottom line they come first they didn't ask to be born and they didn't ask for a single mom or dad so as far as I'm concerned their priorities are far more important then mine.
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2/22/2008 6:59:41 PM |
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butterbug
Missoula, MT
age: 28
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I agree whole heartedly.
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2/22/2008 7:01:01 PM |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31
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How would you keep from introducing them to your kid........you dont ever allow them to come over........what if its someone you'd like to spend 3 or 4 days a week around.....whatta you do with Jr. when he comes over?
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2/22/2008 7:05:26 PM |
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butterbug
Missoula, MT
age: 28
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I don't let guy know where I live, first. You never know who the person you are dating really is. People can be married for years and then find out they are married to some psycho killer. I dated someone once and let him know where I live and he was a crazy bastard and did some f***cked up shit. So it takes me awhile to build enough trust to let someone know where I live.
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2/22/2008 7:07:20 PM |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31
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Even if you've kinda been see'n them a couple months? sheesh I thought some good folks lived in Montana.......I'll just keep my ass down here thats scary
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2/22/2008 7:07:54 PM |
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yummyballs75
Las Vegas, NV
age: 29
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Thats good keep it that way
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2/22/2008 7:23:32 PM |
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butterbug
Missoula, MT
age: 28
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Well if I had someone that would stick through my need of space for a few months then maybe I would trust them. But so far around here I have yet to meet a guy I can trust.
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2/22/2008 7:26:07 PM |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31
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Tha Utah fella is pretty sweet on ya........aint that close to MOntana......OR is that Idaho
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2/22/2008 7:32:12 PM |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31
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I can see where dating with kids would be difficult.......do your best as a mother and thats all you can do when it comes down to it try to be a good judge of character.....FOr Example: IF he aint got no job thats not a positive male role model thats for damn sure
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2/22/2008 7:47:41 PM |
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babyblues1963
Poughkeepsie, NY
age: 44
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Imediately no secrets no lies
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2/22/2008 9:17:54 PM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 45 online now!
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My kids come first in my world so any relationship I may have would not be discussed with them unless it became serious.......
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2/22/2008 9:19:46 PM |
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bucktail
Poynette, WI
age: 46
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put yourself in there shoes,,,,,there you have your answer
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2/22/2008 9:23:05 PM |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
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Butterbug, I will only throw this in because it happened to a gal I dated for a spell. Just be careful. This lady I was seeing had introduced a former fellow to her kids. She had invited him into her home. About two weeks later, he neighbor told her he was on a registered sex offender site. He formerly was inappropriate with an under aged female. Lordy! So please just be careful out ther ladies.
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2/22/2008 11:15:54 PM |
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19chris58
Victoria
Australia
age: 49
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How obnoxious is the kid? If you are proud of them then why shouldn't any one else be? In all relationships it is a complete package, kids, family and skeletons in the closet. If is going to last it has to be based on honesty so put it all out there.
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