Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?

2/9/2011 5:05:08 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
snb_wv Bridgeport, WV age: 30	A girl that can cook, maintain a household, do laundry... A girl who likes to fish, watch football and UFC... A girl who enjoys being intimate (in whatever fashion)... A girl that you share mutual friends with... A girl that gives you time out with the guys, doesn't nag... So what exactly is wrong with her? Why is she not good enough to keep around? Meet singles at DateHookup.dating, we're 100% free! Join now!
2/9/2011 5:07:02 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
slythy Chicago, IL age: 56	houseatosis
2/9/2011 5:07:33 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
1maybe2 Thomson, GA age: 47	Do you date older men??? They get tired of ...laundry, and cooking, buddies, fishing, never going anywhere,,,, and then they break the nagging rule...... just saying..... [Edited 2/9/2011 5:09:29 PM ]
2/9/2011 5:11:00 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
maybeyourthe1 Assiniboia, SK age: 47	There is nothing wrong with a lady like that, it is the guys she dates, maybe if she would try changing that factor she may have better results. Do not change yourself as you do have the right stuff, just the wrong picks.
2/9/2011 5:14:43 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
struckbylightn Decatur, IL age: 54 online now!	Oh I get it. It's a trick question. If not then you need to start dating adult males and not adolescents.
2/9/2011 5:15:02 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
leftfooted West Covina, CA age: 52	Quote from snb_wv: So what exactly is wrong with her? she thinks there's something wrong with her....
2/9/2011 5:20:11 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
2wheelpilot Blackshear, GA age: 43 online now!	will there be cookies? if so, i am willing to reconsider. -chip
2/9/2011 5:29:54 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
badcatjack Wilmore, KS age: 39	Maybe I can't trust her with my buddies? Maybe she's not interested in anything else I am besides what you listed. It's not difficult to appreciate a good woman...BUT DEFINING A GOOD WOMAN FOR ME MAY NOT BE THE SAME DEFINITION AS SOME OTHER GUYS.
2/9/2011 6:20:25 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
mzee Shreveport, LA age: 26	Why can't women appreciate their man, or ever know what they want? Another one that goes both ways.
2/9/2011 6:24:24 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
jammil Valdosta, GA age: 28	LOL, were you faking the orgasms?
2/9/2011 6:45:04 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
ifuonlyknew31 Fulton, NY age: 31	Quote from snb_wv: A girl that can cook, maintain a household, do laundry... A girl who likes to fish, watch football and UFC... A girl who enjoys being intimate (in whatever fashion)... A girl that you share mutual friends with... A girl that gives you time out with the guys, doesn't nag... So what exactly is wrong with her? Why is she not good enough to keep around? because nowadays most men/women are so used to getting shit on they are accustomed to it, it's like a new found tradition,kinda like "BEING FAKE" with this day in age?! used to the same BS time and time again...it's like an expectation! it's a lose lose situation, and most can't grasp the concept that it's not NORMAL because they've dealt with it for so long. it's hard to break the cycle of idiocy!
2/9/2011 6:55:10 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
mischiefmanaged Bellevue, WA age: 41	i dont know you. so i vae no clue if youre like the others i know. that being said....the ones i have met that do all that/are like all that- they're boring.
2/9/2011 7:12:57 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
txnursekathy Mineral Wells, TX age: 56	most men are too selfish to know a good woman
2/9/2011 7:18:01 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
eluveite San Antonio, TX age: 24	Often, good women choose the wrong men.
2/9/2011 7:48:04 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
driver406 Saint Paul, MN age: 59	Sure you sound great, but do you ever accept a date? I'd hit on you, but I'm old enough to be your daddy and you must live 500 miles away at least. Really pretty state though. You're great to keep around, but guys are so used to be rejected by women that they go for the bottom of the barrel figuring that women like you will just diss them. Either that or they figure you surely have to have a bf or are married. And if you're that awesome what in the world are you doing in here? I'm amazed you aren't already married! And if you are divorced, how could that be??? You'd think he'd recognize a great woman and never wander or stray especially when you'll have sex now and then and cook and do his laundry. Uh uh uh what's UFC?
2/9/2011 9:15:11 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
josh_p Los Angeles, CA age: 24 online now!	Good women my age? They don't exist. They're either taken, or brainwashed by some bad boy a**hole that she foolishly fell for. [Edited 2/9/2011 9:16:34 PM ]
2/9/2011 9:29:50 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
garravesh Etna, CA age: 39	First and foremost.....best if you changed your title to....Why is it difficult for the men I have dated to appreciate me.....you might get more insightful repsonses. You cannot honestly believe that all of us males are an unappreciative lot. If you do....YIKES> As to why they did not appreciate you....no idea......but just make sure in your future relationships you have your stuff together and forget about the past and remember not all men are the same.....you will do better even if you do not suceed in that relarionship you have lived and learned. It is all we can really do....try and try again...til that someone special comes along....
2/9/2011 9:30:05 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
shaneladd Bakersfield, CA age: 58	Quote from josh_p: Good women my age? They don't exist. They're either taken, or brainwashed by some bad boy a**hole that she foolishly fell for. josh, if that's true at 24, then think of what I'm up against.
2/9/2011 9:48:20 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
bugsbro2 Portland, OR age: 56	it's obviously the disco music that is the turn-off. it must be, because the rest of your profile is excellent. you are very attractive so that isn't it. you sound too good to be true. the average profile is all to often all about her. yours isn't. good luck in your search.
2/9/2011 9:55:58 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
josh_p Los Angeles, CA age: 24 online now!	Quote from shaneladd: josh, if that's true at 24, then think of what I'm up against. Finding women at your age is way easier than for people in my generation. [Edited 2/9/2011 9:56:21 PM ]
2/9/2011 10:02:59 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
intense_city Aliso Viejo, CA age: 36	West Virginia? I think I found your problem.
2/9/2011 10:17:46 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
man_witha_plan La Porte, TX age: 32	It's not difficult for a man to appreciate a good woman. It's difficult for a good woman to find a man to appreciate her. And it's even more difficult for a good woman to not get bored once she finds a man that appreciates her.
2/9/2011 10:26:23 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
thestormyknight Nicholson, PA age: 45	Maybe he is like my x wife I was her first love so she didn't have anyone to compare me to. After she was with the next one she found out the grass may have looked nicer but it could be like poison ivy. Some people think the grass is greener on the other side of the river and a lot of the time its not. Sometimes the other person will forgive that and let you come back. Sometimes they burn the bridge and make you stay over there.
2/9/2011 10:34:22 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
jjjunit Moreno Valley, CA age: 32	@SNB_WV if we lived next to eachother you would be the prefect one for me.I would SO appreciate you
2/9/2011 10:49:54 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
smiley1960x East Aurora, NY age: 51	There are plenty of things that will drive a man to back away. All I can tell you is, the list got shorter by the five things you list. But there's nothing telling us about the length or content of said list. And people tend to leave things off that list when it's "Why, why, why?" time. Even when they have a pretty good idea deep down. Or especially.
2/9/2011 10:52:29 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
photoartistguy Minneapolis, MN age: 41	it is so simple the good women do not exist we really appreciate the bad ones wait what do you mean?
2/10/2011 2:43:05 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
spillz Philadelphia, PA age: 32
2/10/2011 3:07:31 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
moonbeams73 Grand Rapids, MN age: 56	Quote from driver406: Sure you sound great, but do you ever accept a date? I'd hit on you, but I'm old enough to be your daddy and you must live 500 miles away at least. Really pretty state though. You're great to keep around, but guys are so used to be rejected by women that they go for the bottom of the barrel figuring that women like you will just diss them. Either that or they figure you surely have to have a bf or are married. And if you're that awesome what in the world are you doing in here? I'm amazed you aren't already married! And if you are divorced, how could that be??? You'd think he'd recognize a great woman and never wander or stray especially when you'll have sex now and then and cook and do his laundry. Uh uh uh what's UFC? Yeah, well that IS/WAS me and it still wasn't enough for him.
2/10/2011 3:07:33 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
stevieeee_j Oklahoma City, OK age: 50	My question is, Does this woman even exist or is this a Myth? If so, she needs to date men and NOT boys. There are a lot of over 40 kids out there and she needs to be able to separate the men from the boys, because a real man would damn sure appreciate a good woman, especially a woman such as the one you described.
2/10/2011 3:25:24 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
bbw47reader Frederick, MD age: 48	Well, I'm not doing any of that shit. Except the sex and no nagging parts, that is.
2/10/2011 5:26:25 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
onnightwings Raleigh, NC age: 48	Quote from eluveite: Often, good women choose the wrong men.
2/10/2011 6:58:49 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
ifuonlyknew31 Fulton, NY age: 31	Quote from mischiefmanaged: i dont know you. so i vae no clue if youre like the others i know. that being said....the ones i have met that do all that/are like all that- they're boring. good answer!
2/10/2011 7:04:09 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
sassybabeee Henrico, VA age: 59	Quote from leftfooted: she thinks there's something wrong with her.... Do you work a full time job also ?
2/10/2011 7:11:07 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
blessing95 Houston, TX age: 34	Quote from onnightwings: I totally agree with you 101%.
2/10/2011 7:13:48 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
blessing95 Houston, TX age: 34	Quote from eluveite: Often, good women choose the wrong men. Totally agree with u
2/10/2011 10:00:09 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
maleagant Lexington, KY age: 27	Quote from snb_wv: A girl that can cook, maintain a household, do laundry... A girl who likes to fish, watch football and UFC... A girl who enjoys being intimate (in whatever fashion)... A girl that you share mutual friends with... A girl that gives you time out with the guys, doesn't nag... So what exactly is wrong with her? Why is she not good enough to keep around? Sadly the problem isn't him. It's you. Let me explain. You choose to date aholes. Expect to get burned. That's really all there is to it in the most simplest terms. Try dating someone who is good to you. Instead of someone who gives you butterflies and makes you "feel" like your "lucky" to be dating them. Your own insecurities probably have something to do with why you find yourself the victim of predatory aholes as well. The change starts with you, and so does your success. [Edited 2/10/2011 10:00:40 AM ]
2/10/2011 10:07:08 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
mechele01 Aurora, CO age: 50	Quote from snb_wv: A girl that can cook, maintain a household, do laundry... A girl who likes to fish, watch football and UFC... A girl who enjoys being intimate (in whatever fashion)... A girl that you share mutual friends with... A girl that gives you time out with the guys, doesn't nag... So what exactly is wrong with her? Why is she not good enough to keep around? DAYYYUUUMMM..... I can't do all that shit! You must be Wonderwoman. For me keep it simple. DON'T TRY TO CHANGE HIM. Let the rest fall where it may.
2/10/2011 4:14:28 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
struckbylightn Decatur, IL age: 54 online now!	Quote from eluveite: Often, good women choose the wrong men. Then they're not the good women.
2/10/2011 4:15:46 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
jammil Valdosta, GA age: 28	Quote from mechele01: DAYYYUUUMMM..... I can't do all that shit! You must be Wonderwoman. For me keep it simple. DON'T TRY TO CHANGE HIM. Let the rest fall where it may. Best advice to cut through the bullshit. Like a man for who he is or forever be disappointed...
2/10/2011 4:30:18 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
mjw_6230 Louisville, KY age: 34	Quote from snb_wv: A girl that can cook, maintain a household, do laundry... A girl who likes to fish, watch football and UFC... A girl who enjoys being intimate (in whatever fashion)... A girl that you share mutual friends with... A girl that gives you time out with the guys, doesn't nag... So what exactly is wrong with her? Why is she not good enough to keep around? A girl who LOVES to give head... survey shows that 90% of women who get cheated on neva had this on their list of qualities. the other 10% were actually 'the other woman' helping the man cheat and didnt know it.
2/10/2011 4:32:01 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
hye_man New York, NY age: 92 online now!	address please... see u this weekend...
2/10/2011 4:33:32 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
sazyy Victoria Australia age: 45	because men can just plain nobheads sometimes that's why ... they stop thinking with there Brain in the head on there shoulders and either use the other head way to much to think with or they just don't think at all ......
2/10/2011 4:34:54 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
th6231 Point Pleasant Beach, NJ age: 63	There is nothing really wrong with her--as you put it. Its just a mismatch on another level--that has nothing to do with the list you posted. From what I see--its a lack of effective communications---you should sit down and see what the OTHER issues are in the relationship. No one here can tell you what is going on in HIS mind!! BUT---we do wish you better luck!!
2/10/2011 5:01:27 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
demetrios2 Cincinnati, OH age: 54	Quote from snb_wv: A girl that can cook, maintain a household, do laundry... A girl who likes to fish, watch football and UFC... A girl who enjoys being intimate (in whatever fashion)... A girl that you share mutual friends with... A girl that gives you time out with the guys, doesn't nag... So what exactly is wrong with her? Why is she not good enough to keep around? Depends on what she wants in return.
2/10/2011 5:04:14 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
bigguy524 Ayer, MA age: 44	She is my dream girl...
2/10/2011 7:55:24 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
indianadave1951 Elkhart, IN age: 60	Quote from snb_wv: A girl that can cook, maintain a household, do laundry... A girl who likes to fish, watch football and UFC... A girl who enjoys being intimate (in whatever fashion)... A girl that you share mutual friends with... A girl that gives you time out with the guys, doesn't nag... So what exactly is wrong with her? Why is she not good enough to keep around? Do you have a 50 or 60 year old version of this lady you can send my way.
2/10/2011 11:19:43 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
maleagant Lexington, KY age: 27	Quote from sazyy: because men can just plain nobheads sometimes that's why ... they stop thinking with there Brain in the head on there shoulders and either use the other head way to much to think with or they just don't think at all ...... You sound like you've had way too many men cheat on you. Or rather you sound a bit jaded. As several of the men on here have said. It's not the woman or the mans fault, women typically choose the wrong type of men to date or fall in love with, for reasons that in the real world make no logical sense. (That's just how you women are. Your emotionally driven creatures, Unrealistic, and very impractical for the vast majority). Many women believe men choose women based on look's. This is because of the above. Generally the men "women" choose do choose women based on vulnerability or looks. Who's fault is this? A woman likes a man that's a "man" in her eye's, whatever this may be. A man has to either become this or do without the woman he desires. So when a man leaves or cheat's on you, ask yourself who chose to be with him. The answer will always be "you". Then ask yourself what qualities he has that you desired or were attracted to and compare those with a man who wouldn't leave you or cheat on you. You'll find that the one who would stay with you was probably someone you'd never even consider taking off your "just a friend" list because of some shallow self centered reason that like I said in the beginning.. makes 0 Logical sense. Your the one making the choices in your life. And choosing a man is an adult choice. If it fails, in the end it's your fault. Most likely Because you chose him over someone else who you probably knew deep down would have been better for you. (This doesn't apply to all). Then you have the victims that simply flutter and melt at words. These are the vulnerables. All I can say to them is.... The key to finding happiness is to think with your Head or Brain. Instead of your heart. The heart is fleeting, and will lie to you repeatedly. Everyone uses all the muscles except the one that really matters when it comes to choosing a mate. Bottom line is instead of looking for a reason for why someone does something.. Look in the mirror. And ask yourself why do you make such poor choices? Once you do this and figure out why, fix it. You will find your love life to get much better and more stable afterwords. But that would be work wouldn't it? So much easy to blame someone else instead of realizing that all problems no matter what they are can always lead back to the self. [Edited 2/10/2011 11:24:44 PM ]
2/10/2011 11:24:13 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
blanca_44 Angleton, TX age: 45	Quote from mischiefmanaged: i dont know you. so i vae no clue if youre like the others i know. that being said....the ones i have met that do all that/are like all that- they're boring. because nowadays most men/women are so used to getting shit on they are accustomed to it, it's like a new found tradition,kinda like "BEING FAKE" with this day in age?! used to the same BS time and time again...it's like an expectation! it's a lose lose situation, and most can't grasp the concept that it's not NORMAL because they've dealt with it for so long. it's hard to break the cycle of idiocy! Perfect example!!!!
2/12/2011 10:19:14 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
stevieeee_j Oklahoma City, OK age: 50	Quote from jammil: Best advice to cut through the bullshit. Like a man for who he is or forever be disappointed... Amen Brotha.
2/12/2011 10:20:55 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
stevieeee_j Oklahoma City, OK age: 50	Quote from blanca_44: because nowadays most men/women are so used to getting shit on they are accustomed to it, it's like a new found tradition,kinda like "BEING FAKE" with this day in age?! used to the same BS time and time again...it's like an expectation! it's a lose lose situation, and most can't grasp the concept that it's not NORMAL because they've dealt with it for so long. it's hard to break the cycle of idiocy! Perfect example!!!! That cycle can be and needs to be broken or people will just keep passing up the good relationships and settling for the bad ones. Just sayin.
2/12/2011 9:31:40 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
mami_too_good Colton, CA age: 21	If a man isn't use to or has never had a good woman than he isn't gonna appreciate her till shes gone than he will realize what a real good woman is
2/12/2011 9:43:10 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
ducky43 Columbus, OH age: 43	Quote from snb_wv: A girl that can cook, maintain a household, do laundry... A girl who likes to fish, watch football and UFC... A girl who enjoys being intimate (in whatever fashion)... A girl that you share mutual friends with... A girl that gives you time out with the guys, doesn't nag... So what exactly is wrong with her? Why is she not good enough to keep around? because she wants to be involved in all the fun shit a man would do WITHOUT HIS WOMAN! except the being intimate part,but that depens on what that means. "share mutual friends" is kinda scary,unless yer into that kinda thing. if you are i'd keep ya,we could make lots of money doin amatuer porn together,heh heh heee! [Edited 2/12/2011 9:46:09 PM ]
2/13/2011 5:34:48 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 37	why do some women make posts that generalize and group men into a negative reference?
2/13/2011 5:58:11 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
lookin4ones Los Angeles, CA age: 35	It's horny, desperation, and compatibility. Don't be intelligent because they will break their necks running for the door.
2/13/2011 5:59:57 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
tercium Hemet, CA age: 43	Yep, but still I'd like a gal with a mind too!
2/14/2011 10:53:27 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
firsttake Richardson, TX age: 30	must have something to do wit..some people never get over past experinces....or just dont know..you think??....wish i had one...
2/14/2011 11:26:14 PM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
mandabear1206 Omaha, NE age: 20	Dang... I can only relate to the second and last things you mentioned. I'm still working on the cooking part.
2/15/2011 12:13:45 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
funwithmusic Winnie, TX age: 56 online now!	Quote from ifuonlyknew31: because nowadays most men/women are so used to getting shit on they are accustomed to it, it's like a new found tradition,kinda like "BEING FAKE" with this day in age?! used to the same BS time and time again...it's like an expectation! it's a lose lose situation, and most can't grasp the concept that it's not NORMAL because they've dealt with it for so long. it's hard to break the cycle of idiocy! BINGO!! You got it girl! They levitate to what is familiar..not necessarily what is good. Its all about their lifes experiences... Just dont try to save anyone..Its not worth your time.....If they need saving..from now on..I will say NEXT!!!! If your healthy..just find someone like you. water seeks its own level... If your dating guys that are inferior..then do some self inventory...and raise your water level...to where better men look good to you..instead of these other types of men...who seem to have alot of drama in their lives.. DRAMA IS SELF INFLICTED..If you life is filled with drama..its only because you allow it..and have invited it into your life..
2/15/2011 12:15:01 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
funwithmusic Winnie, TX age: 56 online now!	Quote from mandabear1206: Dang... I can only relate to the second and last things you mentioned. I'm still working on the cooking part. COSTCO? They have ready made meals...just be sure to throw away the packaging...better yet...burn it...hide the evidence...lol.. NEVER USE A MICRO WAVE..put it into a baking dish..in the oven..
2/15/2011 12:19:24 AM	Why is it difficult for men to appreciate a good woman?
funwithmusic Winnie, TX age: 56 online now!	Quote from thebestman: why do some women make posts that generalize and group men into a negative reference? Perhap because my last 3 dates..were with men who thought because they bought a meal..took me for a ride in their airplane...etc..thought that sex was their repayment.. I barely knew their names..The airplane guy kept touching me...it was repulsive...Is that what it is like for prostitutes? Having someone touching you when you dont even know them... Ive decided..that Im not cut out for prostitution...so I will have to pursue a different career....but the pay is so good...but that doesnt matter..money isnt everything. You know Im only kidding...I dont want to be a friggen prostitute..Id rather be the madam.. Im curious what date #4 will be like...lol Im wearing my chastity belt for sure..

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