| 3/5/2008 4:33:43 AM |
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browncypress
Queensland
Australia
age: 51
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Sometimes when you are in a relationship things can get boring and it is easy to get tempted by something new and exciting.But if you really love your partner, you don't really want to put what you really feel for him at risk.Most people who cheats claim that "it just happened". But i believe that's a highly misleading phrase. It implies that things were beyond your control, that by some freak accident you found yourself in the arms of another man or woman.It's true you can't control the way you feel for another person,but you can take measures to prevent sticky situation.Whatever the reason nothing can make cheating ok. It's the worst form of betrayal. And to be honest, i couldn't care less what the excuse for cheating is and if my man can do something like that to me ,he can't possibly care a lot about me,and there's nothing left in whatever relationship we have to work with.I love myself too much to let any man get away with cheating on me.
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| 3/5/2008 4:44:48 AM |
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justmemaree
Queensland
Australia
age: 45 online now!
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I believe no matter what the relationship is like........ remove yourself from it b4 you jump the fence, my marriage was pretty sad and boring for the last five years and never once did I even contemplate cheating, cant say the same for my ex though, which inevitably ended the marriage. The effect a cheating partner has on a person is sometimes irreversable, ie..... unable to trust, low self esteem etc etc, glad to say i have built my bridge and got over it, but alot of people dont!!
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| 3/5/2008 5:01:56 AM |
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metal1970
Towson, MD
age: 38
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If one of the persons involved becomes uninterested in anyway they should end the relationship before moving on in anyway shape or form
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| 3/5/2008 5:20:32 AM |
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tishy123
Manistee, MI
age: 49
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no..............no excuse whatsoever!! End the relationship and move on.
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| 3/5/2008 5:29:31 AM |
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familyguy58103
Fargo, ND
age: 49
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Nope- never.
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| 3/5/2008 7:48:05 AM |
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susyk65
Appleton, WI
age: 42
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No excuse for cheating. Get out of the relationship first. PERIOD!
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| 3/5/2008 8:11:51 AM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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No there is NEVER an excuse for cheating within your relationship.
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| 3/5/2008 8:13:46 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 41
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Chris Rock couldn't have said it best in his stand up routine, "Marriage is boring and being single plain ole sucks".
In a recent article on starpulse.com he has had to defend his state of marriage to his wife Malaak because of his confession that marriage is boring.
He says, "Anything that is forever is entombment... People make a big deal out of, 'You say marriage is boring.' Everything in America, where you live in a country where food and shelter aren't your biggest concerns, bores you after a point. Even sex gets boring. Any long-term relationship can get boring, even if it's with your favourite restaurant - because eventually you're gonna get bored with the food in there."
I'm not sure I agree with his sentiment. It does take two to keep it exciting and the spark going. I do understand where he is coming from and it was kinda funny.
But let me add that it may get boring. If you have to resort to cheating to get the excitement back then you have no business being married. Time to go to the single plain ole sucks end of the pool.
[Edited 3/5/2008 8:16:37 AM]
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| 3/5/2008 8:14:01 AM |
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adelinesmother
Fremont, NE
age: 37
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No excuse at all. There has to be respect for your partner. When someone loves you, you hold their hand and their heart. Communication is key, when you are dissatisfied...you explain that, then you move on.
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| 3/5/2008 8:19:07 AM |
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elaine47
Petersburg, IN
age: 47
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NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO AND no !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 3/5/2008 8:33:05 AM |
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mitchell1221
Chattanooga, TN
age: 45 online now!
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Not if you have five aces.
 
[Edited 3/5/2008 8:34:08 AM]
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| 3/5/2008 8:48:54 AM |
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jimmy61
Titusville, FL
age: 46
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The same one used for lying and stealing, etc, etc. VALID, no.
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| 3/5/2008 8:53:26 AM |
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jeffest1478
Saint Augustine, FL
age: 29
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There is never an excuse for cheating on someone when your in a committed relationship. I tried the forgiveness and honestly, it never goes away. You will remember it no matter what. Breaking the one thing the relationship needs the most (TRUST) without it you have missery.
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| 3/5/2008 9:04:16 AM |
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lova_girl
Albany, GA
age: 30
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There is not excuse for cheating I mean if things are not great in a relationship you do one or two things. 1 talk about what is wrong in the relationship and come to an enderstanding on how to make it work and if there is nothing that can be done to make it work then get out of it and move on. Men and women kill me with ( it just happen) that is B.S. and they know it.
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| 3/5/2008 9:05:30 AM |
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lova_girl
Albany, GA
age: 30
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Sorry for the mispelled words I was in a hurry, I will do better next time
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