| 4/3/2008 7:23:41 AM |
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soulmate754
Forest City, NC
age: 54
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Jahalah,
I can't answer for the men who don't give Women a chance. I can tell you that my experience has been that there are many Women who will not reply to a Gentleman's thoughtful note to her. So my wishes are the same as your's. There are some great people out there, and one never knows what they might be missing. I wish you the best in your search. Joel
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| 4/3/2008 10:16:54 AM |
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scott_21
Salisbury, NC
age: 21
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I just wish I could get some of the lady's here to actually talk to me there seems to be a huge age gap for the most part (not insulting the older folks) there was one girl talking to me but she has not logged in in like 2-3 days now.
I guess I am just really repulsive or something I don't know? It does not feel to good I've sent a great deal of winks and actual messages just to have then unanswered, I mean at least have the politeness to tell me you aren't interested, I mean how would you feel if you sent me a real nice message that is real and not a pick up letter and I just toss it out, oh then id be a jerk would I not?
So my expectations of finding some one on here have been lowered a lot. 
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| 4/3/2008 12:02:51 PM |
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charlieguy6989
Wade, NC
age: 18
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to tell you the truth i wish it was like that and yes im on here really depending to meet a real ladie and spend alot of time and money on here lol but most of all i want that undenyable companionship thats wut i really want and i never seem to look in the right places either 
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| 4/3/2008 2:58:40 PM |
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jahalah01
Asheboro, NC
age: 68
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Thanks soulmate754, looks as if it is working both ways, i try to dot all my i's and cross my t's and be as honest as i know how and that is not working. so i think filtering my energy into something else might work. I wish you luck also.
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| 4/3/2008 8:33:48 PM |
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shirley31
Gastonia, NC
age: 59 online now!
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soulmate i always answer and e-mails i get but some guys doesn't want a nice lady all they want is a one night stand.
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| 4/3/2008 11:50:10 PM |
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sweetness1985
Lincolnton, NC
age: 23
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I know I might be to young to be replying to this or even be on this site. But, u know I ain't on this site for a fling. I just started on this site yesterday actually (came across it browsing the web) anyway, I have never met a person off the net before but, I don't see the difference in meeting someone off line than in person cause its the same except it might not be in ur town. I mean its no different than going to a bar and meet someone there that u have never seen before right. The only difference I see is online most of the time u get to see the real person for who they r not what they look like. I might be wrong though but, Hey everyone has an opinion right. If I was to actually meet someone on here I sure hope they r better gentleman than the ones I have met in person thats for sure.
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| 4/5/2008 8:48:51 AM |
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easternncguy
Rocky Mount, NC
age: 50
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Thanks to the other guys who have posted saying that they are not here just looking for sex. There are some really decent guys around. The age range or distance can be a problem in finding a mutual match. We all know what attracts us, so if someone doesn't reply to a wink, keep looking.
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| 4/5/2008 9:36:18 AM |
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shirley31
Gastonia, NC
age: 59 online now!
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easternncguy true but what if some make a date and don't show up dont u think they should have the decensy too let that person know before she goes too meet him?
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| 4/5/2008 9:56:38 AM |
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easternncguy
Rocky Mount, NC
age: 50
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Yes, Shirley, I do think that if someone is not going to show up, or just changed their mind, they should let the other person know. Has that ever happened to you? The person not showing up?
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| 4/5/2008 6:16:50 PM |
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rich101
Lillington, NC
age: 52
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I too have been played, found a nice woman not too far away, two months of getting to know each other, set up a meeting date, then poof. Date never came about and, never got a reply from her again. She changed her nickname and profile, but not her photo, she came up on the new line. I e-mailed her never got a response nor does it looks as if she has been on since January.
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| 4/6/2008 2:25:58 AM |
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jahalah01
Asheboro, NC
age: 68
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hi Rich, sorry, been there had that happen and so it works both ways. mabe she got cold feet or had a "better offer" in her mind.my biggest pet peeve is, i take the time to send e-mails and winks and never hear from anyone. where does common courtesy kick in. have a good day
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| 4/6/2008 2:34:52 AM |
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jahalah01
Asheboro, NC
age: 68
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Hi Scott, oh to be your age again! no, don't want to go down that dusty road again lol.
for the life of me Scott i can't see you having problem getting a young girls attention, you are a handsome fellow, young , smart. hang in there, mabe say a few sweet things to the girls, i wish you lucky sweetie
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| 4/6/2008 9:10:22 PM |
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shirley31
Gastonia, NC
age: 59 online now!
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easterencguy , yes it has happen too me twice i got there he never showed up ,didn't bother too call me too let me know he wasn't coming .so when he asked too meet again i didn't show up .
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| 4/7/2008 6:08:41 PM |
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arabella_one
Asheboro, NC
age: 51
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i have read through the post and it seems to me that most of the guys are trying to be sincere. trying that is.
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| 4/8/2008 3:40:19 AM |
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rof1944
Marshville, NC
age: 63
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Sincere or honest...and maybe they are the same thing.
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