1/23/2007 11:37:53 PM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 40
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Ahem...get's on his new Soapbox Purchased by Sassy
This myth, despite its elusiveness, has very real aspects. Men who worship this myth believe that a woman should submit to the man, should be obedient and docile, and should know her place as a lesser being. It is true; some women may have these qualities. However, the man who is interested in the submissive woman interprets these qualities differently. A woman may treasure these qualities while a man simply exploits them. These qualities may very well define a woman's sense of self -- but the important factor is that it is up to her to define her sense of self -- she is free. When a man perceives a woman as submissive, he is imposing his definition on another's selfhood.
This leads us to a related question -- why would a man desire a submissive woman? It is because a man who loves the weak is weak himself. A man who is secure in his masculinity would not feel threatened by a strong woman. A man who is uncertain about his worth belittles others so that he may feel as if he were strong. Only a man who is anxious to prove himself would treat women as if they were lesser beings. Thus, men who seek submissive women, or, experience a profound lack of self esteem, self worth and have low self-images.
Thank you very much
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1/24/2007 12:10:01 AM |
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lynn53
Hemet, CA
age: 57
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I agree Sin...but let's get straight who pitched in the buck for that soapbox! LOL
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1/24/2007 4:48:28 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 40
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My fundraising comittee chairperson unslightly has informed me of youre stake in the soapbox, I stand corrected , she still isn't giving any money though.
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1/24/2007 7:47:52 AM |
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unslightlynorml
Seaside, OR
age: 42
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I am saving it to go out with my gals Lynn, Dez, Crissy, Jan, etc..........I never said I would relinquish any funds to you exactly. Silly boy. LOL
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1/24/2007 10:55:01 AM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 40
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Fundraising Chairperson is now oficially replaced... Sassy Takes over .... this one had sinister motives, she planned to syphon funds for a night out... silly girl
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1/26/2007 12:02:21 PM |
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strongslowhand
Washington, DC
age: 46
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Oh, Sinful, all I can say on your psychobabble is, wanna arm wrassle???
You mistake the submissive lover with the submissive woman. The two are not always one and the same animal. I've found that the most adventurous submissives sexually are some of the strongest, independent women you'd care to meet. And, who would probably eat your lunch, too.
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1/26/2007 4:06:35 PM |
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proverbs31
Loves Park, IL
age: 50
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Amen bigokie!
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1/26/2007 5:24:22 PM |
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sinfulcharming
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 40
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Thanks Jeanc
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2/1/2007 8:25:47 PM |
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akronohguy
Medina, OH
age: 79
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Just Screw it!!!
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2/6/2007 3:40:46 AM |
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mike6969
Las Vegas, NV
age: 42
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BUT TELL ME THE TRUTH DO YOU SWALLOW.
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2/6/2007 9:05:38 PM |
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kensington
Anaheim, CA
age: 56
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GO TO YOUR ROOM YOUNG LADY!
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2/7/2007 4:39:23 PM |
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strongslowhand
Washington, DC
age: 46
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not so much profound, as superficial, as I said earlier.
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2/7/2007 10:01:24 PM |
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kensington
Anaheim, CA
age: 56
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good for you, right on!
now, go to your room...
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