| 8/17/2011 3:41:43 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  zero900
 Temple City, CA
 30, joined Jul. 2010
 
 
 | im just wondering. 
 
 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 3:42:45 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  122750again
 
  Sioux Falls, SD
 66, joined Dec. 2008
 
 
 | F**k NO  
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 3:46:46 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | veniteadoremus 
  Baton Rouge, LA
 31, joined Jul. 2011
 
 
 | Nope.. 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 3:51:40 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  delphinium75
 Pleasantville, NJ
 54, joined Jul. 2011
 
 
 | No. I don't consider that a friend. 
 I'm usually friends with the guys I date first. I don't think that kind of behavior is conducive of friendship.
  
 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 3:56:48 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | tootsiebee 
  Tarzana, CA
 29, joined Jun. 2011
 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 4:37:45 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  bigbob53
 Redmond, OR
 59, joined Sep. 2010
 
 
 | Hell NO 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 4:45:57 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  retsal
 Haltom City, TX
 30, joined Apr. 2011
 
 
 | no way i had one ex whos scared of me cause i lost it on her she wont come near me 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 4:47:08 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | anardric 
  Brownwood, TX
 32, joined Jun. 2011
 
 
 | Personally I could depending on the circumstances, and the amount o elapsed time. 
 Just because you can't trust someone in a relationship, doesn't mean said person can not be trusted as a friend years down the road.
 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 4:48:28 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | kimmyo 
  Grove City, OH
 39, joined Jun. 2011
 
 
 | Yes.....my ex husband cheated on me. And given the circumstances, I see no reason not to be friends. HE is a good guy. 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 4:53:48 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | kimmyo 
  Grove City, OH
 39, joined Jun. 2011
 
 
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                          I guess our definitions of a "good" person differ. In my opinion, if someone cheats, they have a serious character flaw and don't qualify as a "good" person.
                         Like I said, under the circumstances I understand it. I accept it. And just bc he did it does not not make him a good person.
 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 4:54:14 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | succubi_chaos Enid, OK
 25, joined Jul. 2011
 
 
 | Lol I tried to be friends with the only ex that cheated on me. He's married and has a kid now and still talks to me on occasions, still blames me for him cheating since he thinks I cheated on him first. I dumped him after he confessed he's held a grudge ever since. Makes me laugh every now and again since he always tells me i was even better than his wife. 
 Him: "I loved you and you cheated on me so I wanted to make you suffer."
 me: " I never cheated on you. Way to ruin it for yourself."
 
 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 4:54:51 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | matureblkmann 
  Atlanta, GA
 62, joined May. 2011
 
 
 | I would make them think we are friends.All the time I would be trying to pay there dirty azz back.   
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 5:00:25 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | matureblkmann 
  Atlanta, GA
 62, joined May. 2011
 
 
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                          im just wondering.
                         
 Its lie this.If you lie about a little thang,You will lie about a big thng too,
 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 5:01:56 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  pepgirl
 
  Bridgewater, MA
 51, joined Jul. 2010
 
 
 | We're not friends but occasionally end up at the same cookout. So I'm civil. He doesn't bother me anymore he's someone else problem now!
 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 5:07:40 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  akianna
 Brunswick, GA
 26, joined May. 2011
 
 
 | i would be friends with my ex 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 6:27:15 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | theclimbingrose Itasca, IL
 30, joined Jul. 2011
 
 
 | Not at all. 
 If they couldn't maintain a healthy, serious, romantic relationship, why would I want a flawed friendship that could lead to more damage & potential abuse?
 
 
 
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                      | 8/17/2011 7:03:17 PM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  pdforone
 
  Litchfield, OH
 65, joined Jul. 2010
 
 
 | I booted my ex for cheating, what could I possibly have to say to a known liar. Nothing that goes on here is any of her business, and I don`t care to know hers. When I throw out the trash it stays gone. 
 
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                      | 8/18/2011 1:40:00 AM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | sidfires 
  Auburn, NH
 62, joined Jan. 2011
 
 
 | Each situation is different. I chose to remain friends with him. 
 
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                      | 8/18/2011 1:48:38 AM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  hotpink36
 
  Springfield, OR
 44, joined Jul. 2008
 
 
 | Yes it's called forgivness!!!!! 
 I realized him cheating had nothing to do with me it's just who he is
  he hates that side of him but the pull is just too strong 
 i'm ok with who he is and what he did to our family, but it did make me unable to trust again
  knowing the lies and tricks and watching him do the same to every woman he is with makes me wonder if most men do this  
 I feel sorry for him and will always be there for him it can't be easy hating yourself and the man you have become
 
 so yes I will be his friend for my childrens sake it just makes my life easier. at least I have some say in my childs lives when they are with him
 
 
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                      | 8/18/2011 1:53:37 AM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  hunt2011
 Fargo, ND
 63, joined Jan. 2011
 
 
 | I learn to forget . We have move on .
 
 We are happy with new friends .
 
 
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                      | 8/18/2011 1:54:23 AM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      |  matthewcorey
 
  Rochester, NY
 31, joined May. 2011
 
 
 | Hahaha that question made me literally laugh out loud. 
 
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                      | 8/18/2011 2:05:16 AM | Would you be friends with an ex who cheated on you? |  | 
                    
                      | swamp_donkey_v4 
  Zimatlán de Alvarez
 Mexico
 98, joined Aug. 2011
 
 
 | Quote from matureblkmann: Its lie this.If you lie about a little thang,You will lie about a big thng too, 
 
   Absolutely right on the button!!! 
 
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