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Why can't YOU get your OWN place? You are depending on him and then if it does not work out...where will you go?
WHAT IS the HURRY to LIVE together????
[Edited 9/9/2011 10:55:12 AM ]
| 9/8/2011 10:03:33 PM |
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fun2bchattin
Hedgesville, WV
49, joined Feb. 2011
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Two weeks? Two weeks?! Seriously?!
How did you make it to 25?
My thoughts exactly.
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| 9/8/2011 11:23:22 PM |
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pepgirl
Bridgewater, MA
50, joined Jul. 2010
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He still may be a serial killer good luck to you!
Madly in love after 2 weeks huh? You are a fool my dear!
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| 9/9/2011 1:18:19 AM |
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kristen_rae
Pendleton, OR
23, joined Jul. 2011
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He still may be a serial killer good luck to you!
Madly in love after 2 weeks huh? You are a fool my dear!
^^^ no kidding, I'm 19 and I know better than to Believe something like that. Love? After two weeks, no! And 2 years??? So what, I've known my guy for eight and I still waited a year before even considering moving in. Then to even believe moving in With someone you used as a rebound? SMH!! FOOL is definitely an accurate word to be using.
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| 9/9/2011 1:22:15 AM |
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alphabetsamson
Santa Ana, CA
51, joined Nov. 2010
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Now how in the world can anyone advice you when we don't know you or your set of
circumstances? Judging by the question you must be about 22, or younger.
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| 9/9/2011 1:22:58 AM |
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alphabetsamson
Santa Ana, CA
51, joined Nov. 2010
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Close. You're 25.
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| 9/9/2011 10:52:46 AM |
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hotpockets
Maple Shade, NJ
60, joined Nov. 2007
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<-----Thinks the OP is codependent in relationships. She jumps from one relationship to the next. She is both emotionally and financially dependent on men!
What will happen in the future?
This man will rent her an apartment. And the OP will be treated like a 'live-in-jumpoff' who is paid for!
He will NEVER respect her!  |
| 9/9/2011 11:11:58 AM |
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pablo8848
New Holland, PA
31, joined Sep. 2011
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i wouldnt i had the experience with my ex and i lived together and it didnt go so well we ended up being tired of each other and breaking up
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| 9/9/2011 11:16:57 AM |
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alrigh
Austin, TX
45, joined Aug. 2011
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No you shouldn't move together. One it's too soon. Did you have plans of marrying him? Is he your soulmate ? I'm not trying to rain on your parade , you should wait and found out , is he real or not. Worst thing you can do is start having sex, before dating.
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| 9/9/2011 11:49:28 AM |
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tonic451
Saint Marys, GA
33, joined Aug. 2011
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Nope. It wouldn't be a good idea to move into together. Take your time with it. Its not a race.
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| 9/9/2011 11:49:52 AM |
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afrosirene
Brooklyn, NY
38, joined Dec. 2010
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Heavens, girl -your life is total chaos right now. I'm sorry to read of your injury and pending surgery. That's a lot of recovery!
Right now, you do need accomodations, and if family isn't around, then I suggest you get on the internet and look for a proper roommate. Something like a budget should be made so you know what you can afford to rent - most cities have rooms you can rent for 100$ or less a week. A large apartment might be found with two or more roomies for around 300$ a month if you don't want to live alone.
I suggest since the bf is trying to back out, you let him off the hook - it's an uneccessary strain on the relationship if you can't at least start on the right track and take care of your own business.
Best of luck to you!
This is absolutely GREAT ADVICE! ^^^^^^^^
Try looking for a roommate. This will work wonders for you. 'Guilt-tripping' him by making him feel that he's obligated to you after dating you for such a short period of time will not work in your favor. It sounds like an attempt at manipulation on your part. I'm pretty sure his roommate saw this as well...which is probably why he doesn't want you shacking/or crashing at his crib. His roommate clearly isn't feeling you.
Get a roommate.
Enjoy your relationshiop w/o any financial strain or obligations.
Do this...
And he will love you more....for it! 
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