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9/6/2011 7:45:28 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hotgirl1986
Baton Rouge, LA
34, joined Aug. 2011


me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 weeks now and we love each other very much but his friend wants me to move out by sunday so my boyfriend is going to rent me a apartment should he move in with me or not?




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9/6/2011 7:48:39 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
jammil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,954)
Valdosta, GA
32, joined Apr. 2010


Good sex does not a good roommate make...

9/6/2011 7:49:50 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

audlove515
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,266)
Jasper, IN
27, joined May. 2011


Two weeks? Two weeks?! Seriously?!



How did you make it to 25?

9/6/2011 7:50:52 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
alvarezrd20sc
Waverly, NE
43, joined Aug. 2011


Two weeks is awfully quick... how does he feel about it?

9/6/2011 7:51:04 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hotgirl1986
Baton Rouge, LA
34, joined Aug. 2011


yes its only been two weeks so what

9/6/2011 7:51:11 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
petrojl
Over 2,000 Posts (2,109)
Cedar, MN
50, joined Aug. 2011


Damn Aud... you beat me to it...I'll go with...REALLY?...REALLY.

9/6/2011 7:51:41 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hotgirl1986
Baton Rouge, LA
34, joined Aug. 2011


he is a little scared thats all but he is putting alot of thought in it

9/6/2011 7:52:13 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

audlove515
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,266)
Jasper, IN
27, joined May. 2011


Sorry petrojl.



How you doing?

9/6/2011 7:53:28 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
alvarezrd20sc
Waverly, NE
43, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from hotgirl1986:
he is a little scared thats all but he is putting alot of thought in it


How old's your boyfriend?

9/6/2011 7:53:38 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
petrojl
Over 2,000 Posts (2,109)
Cedar, MN
50, joined Aug. 2011


Hi audlove Doing good...so, who's next

9/6/2011 7:53:55 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

audlove515
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,266)
Jasper, IN
27, joined May. 2011


Quote from hotgirl1986:
yes its only been two weeks so what


You really have no idea why any of us would think that's a little crazy?

9/6/2011 7:55:36 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hotgirl1986
Baton Rouge, LA
34, joined Aug. 2011


i am doing good i know me and my boyfriend are moving fast and yea its crazy but we know alot about one another we have known each other for 2 years we just started dating i was in a relationship when i first meet him shit hit the fan and me and my ex broke up so i called him and he came running so are we moving to fast i do not know

9/6/2011 7:55:47 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
afrosirene
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,192)
Brooklyn, NY
38, joined Dec. 2010


Quote from hotgirl1986:
me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 weeks now and we love each other very much but his friend wants me to move out by sunday so my boyfriend is going to rent me a apartment should he move in with me or not?


Question(s)
1. Why does his friend want you to move out? Were you crashing @ their apartment for two weeks?

2. If he rents you the apartment (make monthly rental payments on your behalf) he will certainly want a key. My question to you is...Do you want him to have this much control over your life and privacy after knowing him for only two weeks?



9/6/2011 7:56:12 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

audlove515
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,266)
Jasper, IN
27, joined May. 2011


Quote from petrojl:
Hi audlove Doing good...so, who's next


Good to hear.


There's always toddlers trolling somewhere around these parts.

9/6/2011 7:58:04 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
60freebird
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,712)
Atlanta, GA
65, joined Sep. 2010


Seek counseling because you've obviously lost your mind!

9/6/2011 7:58:21 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hotgirl1986
Baton Rouge, LA
34, joined Aug. 2011


it does not matter to me if he has a key besides he works right up the road at the hosptial in metarie wtf is the big deal

9/6/2011 7:58:56 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hotgirl1986
Baton Rouge, LA
34, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from 60freebird:
Seek counseling because you've obviously lost your mind!
i have not lost my mind okay

9/6/2011 7:59:00 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
cmart1234
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,659)
Schertz, TX
23, joined Apr. 2011


TWO WEEKS? And ALREADY wanting to move in? Good grief.

9/6/2011 8:00:08 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hotgirl1986
Baton Rouge, LA
34, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from cmart1234:
TWO WEEKS? And ALREADY wanting to move in? Good grief.
wtf is the damn big deal about us moving in together

9/6/2011 8:00:14 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
afrosirene
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,192)
Brooklyn, NY
38, joined Dec. 2010


Quote from hotgirl1986:
it does not matter to me if he has a key besides he works right up the road at the hosptial in metarie wtf is the big deal


Don't get defensive, hon.
You posted a thread...remember...

In order to give you some advice, we need to know the entire story.

I noticed that you didn't answer my questions...

9/6/2011 8:01:44 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
afrosirene
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,192)
Brooklyn, NY
38, joined Dec. 2010


I decided to repost the question ....



Quote from afrosirene:
Question(s)
1. Why does his friend want you to move out? Were you crashing @ their apartment for two weeks?

2. If he rents you the apartment (make monthly rental payments on your behalf) he will certainly want a key. My question to you is...Do you want him to have this much control over your life and privacy after knowing him for only two weeks?



9/6/2011 8:02:21 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
petrojl
Over 2,000 Posts (2,109)
Cedar, MN
50, joined Aug. 2011


There's always toddlers trolling somewhere around these parts.

I hear that. Age doesn't make any difference either. Wow.

9/6/2011 8:02:42 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
cmart1234
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,659)
Schertz, TX
23, joined Apr. 2011


I've never known anyone who's moved in with another person after two weeks. Hell who knows anything about the other person after just two weeks.

9/6/2011 8:13:24 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
marie2550
Smyrna, GA
48, joined Aug. 2010


Get ur own place ....Then you will still have him for at least 2 more weeks

9/6/2011 8:17:40 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
marie2550
Smyrna, GA
48, joined Aug. 2010


Quote from hotgirl1986:
wtf is the damn big deal about us moving in together
The big deal is U ONLY KNOW HIM FOR 14 DAYS>>> DUH !!!

9/6/2011 8:19:41 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

pett30
Oxnard, CA
38, joined Aug. 2011


Ive been in your Bf position. I first I was thinking it was a great idea. But in the long run it didn't work out. I now know that I should give it at least 12 months if not way longer. You honestly can't know someone in 2 weeks. I wish you can but in today's world everyone hides something.

9/6/2011 8:27:09 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
60freebird
Over 4,000 Posts! (5,712)
Atlanta, GA
65, joined Sep. 2010


Quote from hotgirl1986:
i have not lost my mind okay


Anyone who thinks they're in love in two weeks time AND is moving in with someone in two weeks time has definitely lost their mind..........sorry, check out the stats.......do you think you'll find anyone who thinks you can actually make this work???? Any one with any sanity would know the answer to this question and wouldn't need to ask publicly for help from strangers. DUH!

9/6/2011 8:33:07 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
marie2550
Smyrna, GA
48, joined Aug. 2010


Remember, men only think with their d*ck

9/6/2011 8:33:55 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (33,739)
Henderson, NV
57, joined May. 2009


Quote from hotgirl1986:
i am doing good i know me and my boyfriend are moving fast and yea its crazy but we know alot about one another we have known each other for 2 years we just started dating i was in a relationship when i first meet him shit hit the fan and me and my ex broke up so i called him and he came running so are we moving to fast i do not know


So you called him the instant you broke up, he ran to you, you moved in with him and his roommate, who now wants you out, and evidently you are unable to rent and pay for an apartment on your own.

So, yes. I'd say have him get you an apartment and pay for it. Milk that for as long as you can. Then when you and he break up, no doubt you'll have another man you can call who will come running...


I realize you've known him for awhile, but do you really think that having just broken up, you're all that emotionally strong to be starting something so soon?

9/6/2011 8:35:03 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

lovethelake17
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (33,739)
Henderson, NV
57, joined May. 2009


Quote from marie2550:
Remember, men only think with their d*ck


Well, no. Not only.

9/6/2011 8:40:53 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

barrydalmi
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (20,133)
Baltimore, MD
52, joined Dec. 2007


2 Weeks. 2 Weeks? No.

9/6/2011 8:44:09 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
afrosirene
Over 4,000 Posts! (4,192)
Brooklyn, NY
38, joined Dec. 2010


The OP logged off mainly due to....

1. Was not ready to answer some questions about her current financial situation.
2. Did not like the advice/responses given.
3. Did not want to be psycho analyzed and judged....


Quote from hotgirl1986:
i am doing good i know me and my boyfriend are moving fast and yea its crazy but we know alot about one another we have known each other for 2 years we just started dating i was in a relationship when i first meet him shit hit the fan and me and my ex broke up so i called him and he came running so are we moving to fast i do not know


<-----Thinks the OP is codependent in relationships. She jumps from one relationship to the next. She is both emotionally and financially dependent on men!

What will happen in the future?

This man will rent her an apartment. And the OP will be treated like a 'live-in-jumpoff' who is paid for!

He will NEVER respect her!



[Edited 9/6/2011 8:44:57 PM ]

9/6/2011 8:52:29 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
jammil
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (17,954)
Valdosta, GA
32, joined Apr. 2010


AKA someone else's drama and used goods when she's knocked up a couple of times, I'm right there with you afrosirene...

9/6/2011 11:04:09 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hunt2011
Fargo, ND
62, joined Jan. 2011


Quote from marias3girls:
LOL omg 2 weeks and u love each other, ur outta ur mind!!!! U can't LOVE someone "very much" In 2 weeks!!! Lol that's a good laugh tho!! U don't even KNOW him, that's absolutely crazy!!!


9/7/2011 12:40:34 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
pinpanther
Over 1,000 Posts (1,497)
Trenton, MI
42, joined May. 2010


the guy is a user looser, u shpould find somaby new, n move on w/ yr life

9/7/2011 12:48:59 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
arunningfool
Orange, CA
36, joined Jul. 2011


To OP: Might work out...never know. Good luck!
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To Everyone Else: Holy Shit! I'm new to the forums...ya'll have a joke post every day, right? I choose this one!

9/7/2011 1:16:31 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
mikey2k
Over 1,000 Posts (1,599)
Miami, FL
50, joined Jun. 2008


Quote from afrosirene:
Don't get defensive, hon.
You posted a thread...remember...

In order to give you some advice, we need to know the entire story.

I noticed that you didn't answer my questions...


9/7/2011 1:18:26 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
mikey2k
Over 1,000 Posts (1,599)
Miami, FL
50, joined Jun. 2008


Quote from lovethelake17:
So you called him the instant you broke up, he ran to you, you moved in with him and his roommate, who now wants you out, and evidently you are unable to rent and pay for an apartment on your own.

So, yes. I'd say have him get you an apartment and pay for it. Milk that for as long as you can. Then when you and he break up, no doubt you'll have another man you can call who will come running...


I realize you've known him for awhile, but do you really think that having just broken up, you're all that emotionally strong to be starting something so soon?


9/7/2011 1:48:26 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
joecool1962
Over 1,000 Posts (1,695)
Philadelphia, PA
53, joined Dec. 2010


Not that I am defending the op because I think it is stupid but it's possible that she is inlove after only two weeks. lol OP by the fact you want to move in together I am assuming you aren't Mormon ha ha.

Seriously though back in the 80's I was a student for one academic year at Brigham Young Univeristy in Provo Utah. Fortunately for me I was married already otherwise I probably would have been dead meat but anyway I know of a few couples who met first day of class in late August were exclusively dating by Labor Day, Engaged by Thanksgiving and running off to the Provo Temple to be married by semester's end in mid December (assuming they were both from the area otherwise they would run off to whatever Mormon Temple was closest to their home area)

For some it worked out well and they are still happily married almost 25 years later. A couple lost their spouses along the way to ilness and the 10 year war we have been in and a small handfull divorced eventually. So I guess if you really want to believe you are inlove after only a short period anything is possible if you believe hard enough lol yeah right.

9/7/2011 2:01:11 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
v_kolbreze
Lafayette, LA
34, joined Nov. 2010


sooner or later, in every girlfriend_boyfriend relationship, the person in the relationship with the most experience has to make the other person respect the fact that their not married!... Based off what I know, it seems like you have more experience than him. He's looking for love and hot_girl is a shark that smells blood! just keep doing what ever you are doing and you should be able to get the apartment without him in it....the question is whose name will the apartment be under? I'm from houma, la...40 mins sw of tha city...so take it from me

9/7/2011 2:09:07 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
kristen_rae
Pendleton, OR
23, joined Jul. 2011


!!!! My boyfriend and I have known each other for almost 9 years! We dated for 13 months before We even talked about moving in together!!! And love??? Again, as everyone else has questioned....TWO (2)!!! Weeks!!!! Uhm no silly girl!! You're nuts!!

9/7/2011 2:34:36 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

crimsonreality7
Over 1,000 Posts (1,601)
Richmond, KY
27, joined Dec. 2010


Quote from hotgirl1986:
i am doing good i know me and my boyfriend are moving fast and yea its crazy but we know alot about one another we have known each other for 2 years we just started dating i was in a relationship when i first meet him shit hit the fan and me and my ex broke up so i called him and he came running so are we moving to fast i do not know



It will end as fast as it started so no, dont move in and don't have his name on the lease. Put everything in your name, it may come back to bite you soon!

9/7/2011 2:35:46 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

crimsonreality7
Over 1,000 Posts (1,601)
Richmond, KY
27, joined Dec. 2010


Quote from kristen_rae:
!!!! My boyfriend and I have known each other for almost 9 years! We dated for 13 months before We even talked about moving in together!!! And love??? Again, as everyone else has questioned....TWO (2)!!! Weeks!!!! Uhm no silly girl!! You're nuts!!


My bf asked me after 2 months about me moving in and I said ask me again in 12 months!

9/7/2011 3:19:51 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
northphxhiker
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,207)
Phoenix, AZ
54, joined Apr. 2009


two weeks???

where is that bell that starts ringing in your head saying -BAD F**KING IDEA!!!

no really: BAD F**KING IDEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



9/7/2011 3:51:04 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

rhea27
Over 7,500 Posts!! (7,855)
Danbury, CT
47, joined Dec. 2010


I'd say wait at least 6 months... before doing anything as drastic as moving in together.

What's the rush????

How old is this guy, anyway?

9/7/2011 3:58:44 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
teachableguy
Over 1,000 Posts (1,994)
Kennesaw, GA
46, joined Apr. 2011


When reactions or situations seem disproportionate to what is normal, that is a red flag to me.

Moving in together in 2 weeks is a bit quick...

Red flag appears...

Your case seems like it would be convenient and since you already love each other.

Nah. It is still probably a bit early. That is a hard thing to undo. Like a bell can't be unrung.

Have lots of sex and hope that carries you thru the bumpy early stages of the relationship?? It's what most people have done!


9/7/2011 4:16:39 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
northphxhiker
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,207)
Phoenix, AZ
54, joined Apr. 2009


moving in with a girlfriend (or vice versa) is the last test to see if you two are marriage material -and most of them go down in flames...

9/7/2011 5:38:01 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
samaxwell88
Grand Rapids, MI
37, joined Dec. 2010


Quote from hotgirl1986:
i am doing good i know me and my boyfriend are moving fast and yea its crazy but we know alot about one another we have known each other for 2 years we just started dating i was in a relationship when i first meet him shit hit the fan and me and my ex broke up so i called him and he came running so are we moving to fast i do not know


I was friends with a chick in high school, then I went off to the military and she went off to college. We reconnected like 5 years later and moved in together really fast too. In fact, it was more like the next day. We were together for 10 years and married for 5 of those years. It ended badly but I would do it all over again. I dont think today it really matters how soon you move in with someone if you knew them well in the past. If you just met the guy two weeks ago and moved in with him I would say that is crazy, but since you knew him before and he is not a total strager I think you will be fine. Good luck!

9/7/2011 5:49:00 AM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
th6231
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (34,817)
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
68, joined Jul. 2007


STOP----STOP and answer one question---IF---I F you had a daughter--and she asked you this question---what would YOU say to her. What would be YOUR advice to YOUR daughter--and her 2 week live in lover at the age of 25???WHERE IN THE HELL IS YOUR BRAIN?? Tell all of us what POSITIVE things there are about your 2 week old love relationship!! TELL US-what the hell this man is going to provide you--and then tell us your plan when he kicks your a** out and you have NO PLACE TO GO. Can you afford to pay YOUR HALF OF EVERY BILL--utilities--rent--insurance--etc etc etc. You share it--you pay your half. Well--have you thought of all this stuff??---and what if MR SMOOTH and you have a baby?? can you afford that without sucking the money out of WELFARE?? You want to ruin YOUR LIFE because of your stupid definition of LOVE--the man looked at me--I love him!! Goddamn it--this pissed me off!! You party and stand on pool tables---you must be the pride of your town---Jesus--where do they get these people?? Move in and get it over with---you ain't my kid--I could care less!!



[Edited 9/7/2011 5:52:26 AM ]

9/7/2011 5:42:01 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hugsnlaughter
Over 7,500 Posts!! (8,138)
McKeesport, PA
55, joined Jul. 2007


Quote from afrosirene:
I decided to repost the question ....



Quote from afrosirene:
Question(s)
1. Why does his friend want you to move out? Were you crashing @ their apartment for two weeks?

2. If he rents you the apartment (make monthly rental payments on your behalf) he will certainly want a key. My question to you is...Do you want him to have this much control over your life and privacy after knowing him for only two weeks?



OP is there some reason why yuo are not answering the above question and I would like to add one also.

Why would you call someone right after you and the exbf broke up; sometimes taking a few minutes alone between relationships is good, you now actually grief the loss of one before you jump into another. Could be just rebound.

9/7/2011 8:19:14 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

hotgirl1986
Baton Rouge, LA
34, joined Aug. 2011


Quote from lovethelake17:
So you called him the instant you broke up, he ran to you, you moved in with him and his roommate, who now wants you out, and evidently you are unable to rent and pay for an apartment on your own.

So, yes. I'd say have him get you an apartment and pay for it. Milk that for as long as you can. Then when you and he break up, no doubt you'll have another man you can call who will come running...


I realize you've known him for awhile, but do you really think that having just broken up, you're all that emotionally strong to be starting something so soon?
no really but now he is trying to back out claims he will not get paid until next friday which might be true he thinks if he goes with me he will lose his best friend matt who he lives with forever i told him if he loves me then nothing else should matter besides i have no one who really gives a shit about me and i live on ssi which i only get 674 a month cause i had knee surgery and have to have surgery on my back as soon as i can come up with the money

9/7/2011 8:59:03 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
cannucky
Mc Lean, VA
58, joined Sep. 2011


Stats tell you that those who live in a common law relationship do not make it to the end. There was a time when l was part of the stats. I will always remember something my dear mother would tell me.... Why buy the milk when you can get the cow for free? hehe

Wish you the best!

9/7/2011 9:08:41 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
dasnixter
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (19,115)
Jessieville, AR
58, joined Jul. 2010


No common law here.

9/7/2011 9:14:51 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

pdforone
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (26,170)
Litchfield, OH
64, joined Jul. 2010
online now!


Quote from marias3girls:
LOL omg 2 weeks and u love each other, ur outta ur mind!!!! U can't LOVE someone "very much" In 2 weeks!!! Lol that's a good laugh tho!! U don't even KNOW him, that's absolutely crazy!!!


That`s just shacking up?

9/7/2011 9:23:38 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
heymisterchris
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,439)
Hicksville, NY
54, joined Dec. 2010


Quote from hotgirl1986:
he is a little scared thats all but he is putting alot of thought in it


He'd better put a lot of thought into it. Obviously your not.

9/7/2011 9:47:33 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
iamalwaysjustme
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (18,074)
Kansas City, MO
56, joined Apr. 2009


The op is twenty five years old, she can make her own decisions

9/7/2011 10:23:40 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
micmac01979
Over 2,000 Posts (3,790)
Boulder, CO
36, joined Feb. 2010


Quote from hotgirl1986:
so are we moving to fast i do not know

Ummm... yes. You are moving too fast.

But I get the feeling from the thread you aren't asking for advice so much as seeking validation. You're gonna move in anyway, so I'll just stick with advice that may prove helpful: USE A CONDOM. I'll repeat: USE A FRIGGIN' CONDOM, EVERY TIME.

At least then when this turns into a total train wreck in another month, you'll be able to walk away without any 18-year commitments on your hands. You can chalk it up as a life lesson, learn from it and walk away.

9/7/2011 10:30:22 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
v_kolbreze
Lafayette, LA
34, joined Nov. 2010


If you have to ask, you don't need to know!...

9/7/2011 11:12:33 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  

driver406
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (45,516)
Saint Paul, MN
63, joined Oct. 2009


2 WEEKS??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I suppose by today's standards that's a relationship that has stood the test of time!! Girl, what in the world are you thinking??? You've barely had your first date and you think you're "in love"???? I'd say it's more like "in LUST" and you two are still infuated by each other. Do you even have enough common sense to wet the bottom of a baby sized thimble? Didn't think so. This has to be one of the stupidiest ideas I've ever seen anyone post. Move in with a virtual stranger because you think you're in love after one date!! And I suppose you're having sex with the virtual stranger too? What will you do when you find yourselves incompatible whenever you're out of the sack. Since he's renting YOU the apartment, he'll just kick you out and you'll be on the street again and have to go home to mama and tell her when a braindead fool her daughter is! And then you'll have to listen to your mama bawl you out for God only knows how long and then wonder why the parents don't trust you to make good decisions?? This is a very bad move at best. If you have any sense at all, don't do it. Date him if you want and get to know him, but don't be shacking up just yet! What's the big rush? Geez I hope you're at least smart enough to be using protection before this virtual stranger makes you pregnant! Think he'll stick around to help raise you kid or pay child support? Not a chance! You are a very silly and foolish girl especially for your age. Girls your age are supposed to have that foolishness worked out of them by 25. Guess you'll flit from one guy to another til you're 100 pounds heavier, living in a trailer park, drinking beer and wondering why no one wants small town girl like you!! Surely there's no one on this site that thinks what you're going to do is a good idea...... I hope!

9/8/2011 9:43:37 PM Is me and my boyfriend moving in together a good idea?  
badchevy4x4babe
Over 10,000 Posts!!! (11,800)
Fort Worth, TX
27, joined May. 2011


Quote from hotgirl1986:
i am doing good i know me and my boyfriend are moving fast and yea its crazy but we know alot about one another we have known each other for 2 years we just started dating i was in a relationship when i first meet him shit hit the fan and me and my ex broke up so i called him and he came running so are we moving to fast i do not know


you said it "we are moving too fast" ...

so why do you want to move in together? just calling it the way i see it, he's your rebound from your crappy ex ... he's moving in on your weakness ... typical guy ... i guess i don't know him, so i can't say that for truth, but that's the way it appears ... SLOW DOWN chica, you're young ... don't scrub salt into your wounded heart, that's what you'll do by moving in with this guy and then he's gonna break your heart anew ...