| 4/6/2008 11:49:50 AM |
Married but looking for friends |
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4urpassion
Hamilton, OH
age: 42
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I get alot of messages from married men on sites. do I think it is wrong YES I DO. I find alot of men seem to be married to women they are not really sexually compatable with. After years maybe their sex life turns to not often, not kinky as they would like and they feel they cannot ask for it or the wife is just not into it. Maybe they love their spouses for the mothers or wifes they have been but they are seeking that same feeling of excitment young puppy love gives you. I don't think anyone should live like that. I think if wild erotic internet play is what you want, your girl should be online with you helping you pick a hot one lol, and if it is not something you can do together and share and talk about, you should part
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| 4/6/2008 7:03:12 PM |
Married but looking for friends |
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ktvwc
West Chester, PA
age: 49
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PUHLEASE! If you're married and you're looking for friends on DATEHOOKUP, then you should be looking in the yellow pages ... for a divorce lawyer.
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| 4/6/2008 7:37:13 PM |
Married but looking for friends |
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sweetiepie53007
Horseshoe Bend, AR
age: 54
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HI Hazel.....I see you're in Gulfport.Thats my old stomping grounds.
Theres nothing wrong with making friends on here.I've meet some really nice people on here through the years.
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| 4/6/2008 9:40:02 PM |
Married but looking for friends |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
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Never ceases to amaze how some people who no personal specific knowledge of a married person's life will advise divorce without taking any responsibility for the outcome. 
Some of these same people consider their own view of morality so superior as to want to impose it on everyone else. How wise and thoughtful.
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| 4/6/2008 9:46:01 PM |
Married but looking for friends |
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your_sweetie
Yuba City, CA
age: 49
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to ktvwc.....
you really should think about what you say....
I am married still , going threw divorce. I am still here looking.
So is that wrong in your eyes to.
Or should I wait to it is all final before I can move on with my life.
What about the people that can't find the husband or wife that has ran off.
So I think you should not put down married people here. You don't know the whole story..
no one has the right to judge but one person.... I think you know who that is.
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| 4/7/2008 7:39:39 AM |
Married but looking for friends |
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ktvwc
West Chester, PA
age: 49
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I think the lady asked whether there was something wrong with being married but looking for friends on "here" - DH, not just online. She didn't she was abused, abandoned or otherwise unhappily married. Heck, she didn't even say she was looking to swing (there are sites for that, too). The question was is it ok to be married but looking for friends on DH. Is it ok to be married and look for friends online? No, absolutely not. There are many places to meet friends on line. But DH is a site for dating, isn't it? I took the lady's question to be "Is it ok to be married but to be looking for a piece on the side on DH". I think the answer to that question is obvious. It is wrong.
Dear, if I misunderstood your question, then I certainly apologize. If I didn't misunderstand, then my opinion hasn't changed.
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| 4/7/2008 7:50:04 AM |
Married but looking for friends |
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upsydasy
Montreal, QC
age: 48
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I absolutely agree with KTVWC on this one. Flirting on an online dating site when you're already in a committed relashionship absolutely IS a betrayal. It's like saying giving a guy a BJ isn't really having sex. You can't split hairs. I flirted with a married guy online many years ago and realized that he was the only one getting all the benefits while I was stagnating wasting time with someone who could never truly be mine. He was smart, funny, sexy, and all I can say after all was said and done is that this was 6 months outa my life I'll never get back!
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| 4/7/2008 10:57:41 AM |
Married but looking for friends |
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sapphire_eyes
Tulsa, OK
age: 48
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Ladies, ladies...we need to give Hazelb a break...she IS here only trying to find FRIENDS! Right Hazelb????!!!!! 
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