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codierayl
Saint Robert, MO
26, joined Sep. 2011
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so as a thick woman, i see alot of guys turn their heads and look passed me like im an object in the room. alot of men wont look twice at a woman if she is more than 5-10 lbs overweight .
and then as my (very slender) friend pointed out, there are men one the opposite side of the spectrum that will look passed a thin woman a thousand times over to check out a thicker girl .
so i want to know, what do men prefer the most?
a thin woman with smaller hips and breasts ;
or a thicker woman with large breasts, thick hips, and a booty  ?
personaly; as a bisexual woman myself... i go for thicker women just because i love exploring those gorgeous curves in the dark  
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| 9/19/2011 7:30:59 AM |
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schwarzice
Hume, MO
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i personally love thick girls myself , its the skinny girls that have their ribs visible i dislike 
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| 9/19/2011 7:48:18 AM |
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vault101
Saint Joseph, MO
37, joined Apr. 2011
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Curvy
Why date someone built like a 10 year old?
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| 9/19/2011 8:26:05 AM |
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joec38
Marionville, MO
45, joined Jul. 2011
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I prefer middle of the road. Too thin and they look bony and too thick and they squash you.
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| 9/19/2011 9:02:50 AM |
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metal717
Fort Leonard Wood, MO
28, joined Sep. 2011
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I'm in the middle, too skinny & you'll be a toothpick which is unattractive & too thick is sometimes to much to handle, as long as a curvy thick girl can make herself look good than why think negative. I'm a fan of thick women I don't hate. Shit, sometimes that's all the more to love. 
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| 9/19/2011 10:02:39 AM |
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msgoin
Pittsburg, KS
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JMO...more important than a woman's size is her self image. Self esteem is a pretty sexy thing...if a woman's self perception is negative she won't be happy no matter what her size is.
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| 9/19/2011 10:13:20 AM |
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agooddaddy10
Liberty, KY
53, joined Aug. 2010
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Good question Codie!
First of all, I am "thick" with a wrestler/football player build, a former power lifter and will never be a skinny mini!
I like women of most all shapes and sizes and to be brutally honest, most skinny girls can't take what I like! I prefer healthy ladies that are fairly strong and not lazy at all. The problem I have with the terms "thick" and "BBW" is that they are misused. Most guys are not attracted to "morbidly obese" and in case you don't know, that term is defined as 100# or more over ideal weight. That body type is synonymous with many unhealthy traits like high blood pressure, enlarged heart, shortness of breath, poor circulation and clogged arteries. If that's what you are or what you want, more power to 'ya!
If morbidly obese is what you are and don't want: CHANGE IT! And don't take the cop-out of surgery, that crap is deadly and the surgeons that do it are getting rich by lying about it. I am talking to myself here as well and yes, weight loss is difficult and it's NO FUN to make diet and exercise changes but the payoff starts quickly. Yes, I am on a careful diet and have increased my physical activity and the weight loss is depressingly slow but it is healthy, natural and just may save my life.
So, to directly answer your great question: Thick? Heck yeah! Healthy? Absolutely! Muscular, strong and maybe even a bit wide? Yes, cause I am. Rail-thin, ribs that can be counted from 100 yards? Nooooooooooo! Morbidly obese or otherwise bigger than me? Ummm, a big FAT "NO" from this fella.
To each his or her own and good luck with whatever you like.
And for what it is worth, your pics show a healthy and happy lady that is juuuuust the right size for this country boy.
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| 9/19/2011 10:58:17 AM |
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onigami
Springfield, MO
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i personally love thick girls myself , its the skinny girls that have their ribs visible i dislike
Mmm... Toothpicks.
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| 9/19/2011 11:27:43 AM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
31, joined Jan. 2008
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I've always thought plump girls are more attractive. If I were a dude with a magazine in the bathroom I'd be looking at Lane Bryant instead of Victoria's Secret lol. Hips and breast are a natural occurrence for women but I like the ones with some chubs throughout aswell.
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| 9/19/2011 12:08:25 PM |
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codierayl
Saint Robert, MO
26, joined Sep. 2011
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ha ha ha if i was a man id be afraid to stick my d*ck into a skinny girl in fear it would hit the rib cage and get scratched up ha ha 
thick girls are build to be handled a little rougher, and thats always fun
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| 9/19/2011 12:16:47 PM |
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codierayl
Saint Robert, MO
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plus its clinically proven that its deeply encoded into mens brains that women with larger breasts hips and a** have more estrogen; there for making them ready to be mothers or "ready to mate". this goes waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back to cavemen days. women with larger breasts and hips where more likely to have healthy pregnancies and wider hips meant easy child birth. to a mans primal instinct that means his offspring is more likely to live on, and carry on his family name. its been proven that men look for curves in a mate but my question is how much is to much?
i mean i can proudly say i weigh over 200lbs but i am toned in the right places.
i have the attitude and the confidence to know im beautiful and not give to shits what anyone thinks lol.
what do you guys think about my size personally?
go ahead and check the pix and give me your personal opinion on my body size,
i dont get offended so have at it.
if im going to impress someone, they had better pay me damn well.
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| 9/19/2011 12:21:56 PM |
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onigami
Springfield, MO
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I like thick. But I can appreciate a skinny girl too, however, not anorexic.
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| 9/19/2011 1:36:18 PM |
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groopy1117
Waynesville, MO
32, joined Mar. 2011
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Stick with thick thats my slogan
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| 9/19/2011 2:01:14 PM |
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metal717
Fort Leonard Wood, MO
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Personally I think you look very attractive for a thick girl. You present yourself very well & that's a def turn on for me. Ain't nothing wrong with a few extra pounds 
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| 9/19/2011 4:34:28 PM |
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vault101
Saint Joseph, MO
37, joined Apr. 2011
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If I was 10 years younger and 200 miles closer, I would be making contact for sure.
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| 9/19/2011 5:11:16 PM |
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ladypagan1
Springfield, MO
49, joined May. 2011
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thick women....skinny well they might break...my fella don't mind at all me being well curvy...he prefers it as a matter of fact...and yes I'm losing weight slowly for my health...have always been a big girl..and now I accept that more than when I was younger...and yes it does show in my confidence level..JMO
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| 9/19/2011 5:21:15 PM |
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sabra2669
Saint Louis, MO
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ladyp~ kuddos on the getting healthy! It aint easy! I am still going to the gym 3 days a week as well as zumba one day a week. Next, I have started on the food, oh this is not easy. I am weaning myself off of pre-packaged foods, greasy/fried food, my goal is to go to organic/whole/natural food~ grass fed beef. This aint easy and am struggling with this new chapter, never fear I will stick to it. With this more natural whole food diet will come less salt/sugar, weight loss, and more energy.
curvy girls are awesome! remember don't trust a skinny cook!! 
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| 9/19/2011 5:44:24 PM |
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song_bird86
Sparta, MO
31, joined Jan. 2008
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I went to see a personal trainer on Wed and my thighs killed me for 2 days. He said it would take about 9 months to get me to a decent weight, still not probably where I should be but where I think is a nice spot. That 9mo would be going 3 days a week for an hour a day and adjusting work out routine as needed. I was gonna go try Zumba at the place tonight but I really needed to nap after the dog keeping me up all night. My school does zumba 3 nights a week so I want to try and go to that.
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| 9/19/2011 7:07:25 PM |
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setore
Sarcoxie, MO
35, joined Apr. 2011
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I prefer smaller women, I've occasionally found a slightly thil woman attractive but, it's been on very rare occasion. Idk I guess I'd rather have a woman that if we are on the couch watching a movie and she falls asleep I won't have to struggle to pick her up to put her to bed.
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| 9/19/2011 7:36:38 PM |
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alanru
Chaffee, MO
31, joined Aug. 2011
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Let me ask everyone men and women this. If you truly love someone will size matter?
I agree with msgoin. I really don't look at size. However as msgoin said if she has a negative image of herself then I won't go for it. I look at it like this if you think so low of yourself because your not happy with yourself even if you find the one you still won't be happy. Do you think someone wants to with with a person that thinks that badly of themselves. If your true love does come along how do you think he will feel knowing you think so bad of yourself and nothing he says or does will change that.
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| 9/19/2011 8:12:41 PM |
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wolfieboy
Springfield, MO
48, joined Jul. 2011
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I cannot live with out my thick chick (Lady P) 
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| 9/19/2011 8:48:18 PM |
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marieev
Broken Arrow, OK
38, joined Sep. 2009
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I prefer smaller women, I've occasionally found a slightly thil woman attractive but, it's been on very rare occasion. Idk I guess I'd rather have a woman that if we are on the couch watching a movie and she falls asleep I won't have to struggle to pick her up to put her to bed.
good answer.. lol us little women aren't as fragile as everyone thinks lol
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| 9/19/2011 8:53:06 PM |
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bweeces
Eldon, MO
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I can't really say....... I like bolth tho
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| 9/19/2011 9:01:39 PM |
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blaman16
Grandview, MO
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Suppose I like thick girls better. Just a matter of preference. Its not all about that. Just a preference.
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| 9/19/2011 10:16:39 PM |
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dpaquino
Kansas City, MO
63, joined Mar. 2011
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Personally I don't look at my weight,it's who I see in the mirror...It's me...
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| 9/19/2011 10:23:44 PM |
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mickeyminn
Milwaukee, WI
31, joined Aug. 2011
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What about petite girls? 
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| 9/19/2011 10:48:35 PM |
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hope_2010
Gilliam, MO
26, joined Oct. 2009
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ha ha ha if i was a man id be afraid to stick my d*ck into a skinny girl in fear it would hit the rib cage and get scratched up ha ha
thick girls are build to be handled a little rougher, and thats always fun
lol hahaha so true
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| 9/19/2011 11:08:32 PM |
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tomishere4u
Bay Saint Louis, MS
96, joined Aug. 2011
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Hmmmm, I have had both extremes in one woman. I must say I need a woman that is proportional. I need a woman that is large enough that I won't break her and small enough that she is able to maneuver. I love giving massages. I need someone that can feel my touch but I won't hurt. I would never want to worry about pressing too hard but too thick and I might not rub hard enough. I guess I don't give much thought to body type as long as it is healthy and proportionate.
I have seen very large women that carry their size well and I have seen just the opposite. I would not worry too much about your thickness. Its really your personality that matters. Well, at least to me.
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| 9/20/2011 11:06:19 AM |
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troymh2420033
Springfield, MO
38, joined Sep. 2011
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LOVe EM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 9/20/2011 12:12:48 PM |
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anne654
Shawnee, OK
63, joined Dec. 2007
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I was average sized most of my life, then menopause hit and I gained 50 lbs. over 5 years, from 140-145 lbs. at 5 ft. 5, to 199 lbs. I decided it was time to lose some of that, have bad knee problems, have lost 25 lbs. of it so far. It took me YEARS to come to terms with this much larger person is who I AM! I learned to carry the weight well, dress right to feel good, and be happy with THIS me. Thankfully I have a man in my life who likes me just as I am, and in fact prefers some curves. He also really likes my brain, my intellect first caught his interest, not my body. No wonder I love that man. There is more to all of us than just looks!
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| 9/20/2011 12:54:15 PM |
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violet194664
Cuba, MO
71, joined Mar. 2011
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ya know what i dont care if your a little over weight you have to look inside the person and not how much weight they have me im patiet and medium i guess but i hope the guy i pick sees me as a loveing person not the weight.
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| 9/20/2011 9:57:07 PM |
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thegame74
Houston, MO
43, joined Dec. 2010
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I think its whats on the inside that counts so I don't think it matters.
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| 9/21/2011 10:13:16 AM |
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thenewestmember
Springfield, MO
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These threads always crack me up.
I like slender, toned, great butt, and legs
Or basically any woman who can ride a bicycle without it looking like her a$$ is eating the seat. 
As the population trends are going, it seems there may very few of those left in the next 10 years.
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| 9/21/2011 12:06:14 PM |
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narya1
Brookline, MO
51, joined Feb. 2011
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Thick, slick,lean or mean.. what ever floats ya boat!
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| 9/21/2011 12:48:03 PM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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These threads always crack me up.
I like slender, toned, great butt, and legs
Or basically any woman who can ride a bicycle without it looking like her a$$ is eating the seat.
As the population trends are going, it seems there may very few of those left in the next 10 years.
Mr. thenewestmember... sir....
from a
medical
point of view..
It is NOT good
( as like "others" feel )
to hold it all in and try to be polite...
Better to just let it all out..
Although the truth is less stressful
and way more healthier..
take it from this old doggie...
It tends to BE hell on gettin a date..
 Digital Dog
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| 9/21/2011 1:07:14 PM |
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narya1
Brookline, MO
51, joined Feb. 2011
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Rofl!!!
Sorry but that was hilarious!!!
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| 9/21/2011 7:59:58 PM |
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violet194664
Cuba, MO
71, joined Mar. 2011
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I think its whats on the inside that counts so I don't think it matters.
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| 9/21/2011 9:47:11 PM |
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vault101
Saint Joseph, MO
37, joined Apr. 2011
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Gotta have Boobs... after all, can't motorboat a personality
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| 9/21/2011 11:34:19 PM |
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jessgirl85
Columbia, MO
32, joined Sep. 2011
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as i bigger girl myself i totally agree that bigger girls are better but lol thats just me
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| 9/22/2011 7:53:54 PM |
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violet194664
Cuba, MO
71, joined Mar. 2011
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These threads always crack me up.
I like slender, toned, great butt, and legs
Or basically any woman who can ride a bicycle without it looking like her a$$ is eating the seat.
As the population trends are going, it seems there may very few of those left in the next 10 years.
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| 9/22/2011 7:55:03 PM |
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violet194664
Cuba, MO
71, joined Mar. 2011
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Mr. thenewestmember... sir....
from a
medical
point of view..
It is NOT good
( as like "others" feel )
to hold it all in and try to be polite...
Better to just let it all out..
Although the truth is less stressful
and way more healthier..
take it from this old doggie...
It tends to BE hell on gettin a date..
Digital Dog
thank you mr. digital dog i agree with you.
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| 9/22/2011 8:05:12 PM |
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vault101
Saint Joseph, MO
37, joined Apr. 2011
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What about the flip side and thin/scrawny males? I'm not as skinny as I could be, but I'm 5'10 and stay around the 160 pound mark.
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| 9/22/2011 8:24:16 PM |
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lyndajo
Warrensburg, MO
59, joined Sep. 2010
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Hey guys give me your thoughts on a lady with BRAINS.........
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| 9/22/2011 8:36:27 PM |
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ericjasonp
Chalfont, PA
52, joined Feb. 2011
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Rather have boobs.
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| 9/22/2011 8:55:15 PM |
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dpaquino
Kansas City, MO
63, joined Mar. 2011
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you tell 'em Feisty...
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| 9/22/2011 9:23:35 PM |
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anne654
Shawnee, OK
63, joined Dec. 2007
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pass me a damn carmel apple covered with nuts and chocolate chips - its autumn and I dont care what you think! lol!
that does sound pretty good Feisty, minus the nuts?
body image....thick, thin, tall, short, bald, long hair, muscular, not.....geez, does nobody look past outward appearances to the person inside? arm candy is great in public, but what about in your bedroom, or just hanging out with at home? then what?
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| 9/22/2011 9:39:58 PM |
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lyndajo
Warrensburg, MO
59, joined Sep. 2010
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Rather have boobs.
Well I guess there you have it in a nut shell..... Forget the brains, just go after any Bimbo as long as she has boobs. What a shame.
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| 9/22/2011 9:41:34 PM |
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lyndajo
Warrensburg, MO
59, joined Sep. 2010
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that does sound pretty good Feisty, minus the nuts?
body image....thick, thin, tall, short, bald, long hair, muscular, not.....geez, does nobody look past outward appearances to the person inside? arm candy is great in public, but what about in your bedroom, or just hanging out with at home? then what?
Exactly right Anne, a real man looks for more than just appearance.
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| 9/22/2011 9:46:22 PM |
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anne654
Shawnee, OK
63, joined Dec. 2007
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spent 4 days in OK last weekend with my fella, a very enjoyable weekend, and spent alot of time talking, on all kinds of subjects, so nice to find a man who DOES appreciate my brains as well as my body?
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| 9/22/2011 9:51:46 PM |
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lyndajo
Warrensburg, MO
59, joined Sep. 2010
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spent 4 days in OK last weekend with my fella, a very enjoyable weekend, and spent alot of time talking, on all kinds of subjects, so nice to find a man who DOES appreciate my brains as well as my body?
Anne I am soooooo happy for you, sounds like you got the right one.... Enjoy every minute girl.
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| 9/23/2011 12:45:08 AM |
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railgal
Fort Worth, TX
47, joined Aug. 2010
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What if your just average....we get looked over for thick and skinny gals. 
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| 9/23/2011 9:18:44 AM |
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digitaldog
Grove, OK
68, joined Dec. 2010
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Exactly right Anne, a real man looks for more than just appearance.
Ladies ...........
LADIES..!!!!
Give the guy a break...!!!
heck..
Not every guy can be as
" sensitive " and " caring " to
the female gender as me...
There are many of us
not in prison
lovable gentleman available....
Give me a call when I'm " done "..
-XoXoXoX-
Digital Dog
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| 9/23/2011 9:59:41 PM |
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codierayl
Saint Robert, MO
26, joined Sep. 2011
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lol
these forums never end with the same topic as they started with do they?
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| 9/23/2011 10:05:14 PM |
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vault101
Saint Joseph, MO
37, joined Apr. 2011
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Nope, we tend to hijack threads a lot
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| 9/23/2011 10:33:15 PM |
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anna302010
Republic, MO
37, joined Dec. 2010
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I have found that guys who tend to judge a woman one way or the other based on her pants size are far too in to impressing other people altogether. They tend to be more reserved when it comes to sex, and more trepidatious when it comes to showing public displays of affection. Im not in to putting on a show for the rest of the world. I am in to loving the way I live my life and making no apologies to anyone. Would luv to find a guy like me! But I guess ya can't have it all! LOL
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| 9/23/2011 10:40:49 PM |
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vault101
Saint Joseph, MO
37, joined Apr. 2011
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Not picky. Beautiful people come in all shapes, sizes, and races.
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| 9/24/2011 7:56:18 AM |
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ericjasonp
Chalfont, PA
52, joined Feb. 2011
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Thick girls are ok as long as they don't have a gunt.
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| 9/24/2011 8:03:54 AM |
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anne654
Shawnee, OK
63, joined Dec. 2007
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A "gunt"? 
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| 9/24/2011 9:09:01 AM |
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violet194664
Cuba, MO
71, joined Mar. 2011
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Not picky. Beautiful people come in all shapes, sizes, and races.
you tell them vault
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| 9/24/2011 9:16:03 AM |
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ericjasonp
Chalfont, PA
52, joined Feb. 2011
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A "gunt"?
Urban dictionary.
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