| 9/25/2011 2:43:23 AM |
Good men are so hard to find.. |
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jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
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I am soooo tired of the same old crap with the jerks who tend to be attracted to me. I either am doing too much to make the man I want happy or not doing enough or else I get those jerks who just wanna have sex. There's gotta be men out there who are seriously looking for a good woman to be by their side....isn't there? 
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| 9/25/2011 3:09:31 AM |
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johnnyseesu
Northridge, CA
29, joined Jun. 2011
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A real man does everything he can to make his woman happy. He also appreciates everything his woman does for him.
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| 9/25/2011 3:22:53 AM |
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jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
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I agree however I have yet to met a man like that! And if I do I bet that he will be worlds away from me lol it sucks cause I am kinda old school and believe the woman stand behind her man for the most part she is to treat him as her king as he should treat her as his queen. But it seems no one thinks like this anymore... Guys are all about hit it n quit it or if they do keep a good woman arround they treat her like a piece of sh*t and walk all over her. Don't get me wrong a lot of women do the same to men but I am not that way at all and hate getting the short end of the stick because of what other women have done or whatever... Ya know...
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| 9/25/2011 3:29:59 AM |
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johnnyseesu
Northridge, CA
29, joined Jun. 2011
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I guess I'm one of the few guys that believes that a man needs to be thankful and appreciate it when he has a great woman by his side. I believe that there still are a lot of great guys out there. I believe I'm one of them. We know how to treat our women right. Even if its something small as giving her a call during the day to say I love u. Just need to look in the right places.
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| 9/25/2011 3:31:49 AM |
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johnnyseesu
Northridge, CA
29, joined Jun. 2011
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Maybe u can go to my threads and give a reply.
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| 9/26/2011 11:21:57 AM |
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shawnsr33
Dayton, OH
46, joined May. 2011
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I am soooo tired of the same old crap with the jerks who tend to be attracted to me. I either am doing too much to make the man I want happy or not doing enough or else I get those jerks who just wanna have sex. There's gotta be men out there who are seriously looking for a good woman to be by their side....isn't there?
Maybe i can help you, there are good men like you state on this site, but women are like men they only see what they want to see ,, when they want to see it. When they do have it in front on thier face they dont see it! get it?
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| 9/26/2011 9:19:29 PM |
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hotwheels56
Modesto, CA
61, joined Jun. 2010
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Maybe i can help you, there are good men like you state on this site, but women are like men they only see what they want to see ,, when they want to see it. When they do have it in front on thier face they dont see it! get it?
SO true especially California central valley women on here... 
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| 9/26/2011 10:37:36 PM |
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starbrother
Alameda, CA
28, joined May. 2011
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If the woman is exactly what i need then of course i would want to have a serious relationship with her. But if she not then we would just be friends or a little more depending on the situation. For now its good to date around for me until that girl comes. I hope she comes soon tho because a real relationship is waaayy more than sex. It dont last as long as real love. If the girl has me thinking about way more things than sex then she is the one. For instance, being satisfied just by a conversation or just going out and having fun.
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| 9/26/2011 10:44:15 PM |
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executdbylove
Point Reyes Station, CA
35, joined Aug. 2011
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Stop having unreal expectations for what a man should be and you will find one. Stop looking for love and it will find you!
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| 9/26/2011 10:49:27 PM |
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whaddayano
Porterville, CA
42, joined Sep. 2011
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SO true especially California central valley women on here...
Hey...not fair not all of us are like that!
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| 9/27/2011 12:03:49 AM |
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john61461
Stockton, CA
56, joined Sep. 2011
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Good men care and love themselves as well as love others. It's true unconditional. Good men are not afraid to say i'm sorry, or I need help, or I love you. Good men provide and love their children, yet their mate is above the kids. Good men take responsibility for their actions and also set boundries for their self respect. It is not hard to find a good man, problem is that most women grew up with a notion in their mind that a man should be not of these things, yet be that way when they requested it. I think the 70's and 80's defined a part of the sexes that confused most everyone and its taking awhile for men to get back to what truly defines them.
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| 9/27/2011 1:33:31 AM |
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alphabetsamson
Santa Ana, CA
53, joined Nov. 2010
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<<<<<<<<<<< Good man!
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| 9/27/2011 1:48:49 AM |
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ayemie
Granite Bay, CA
46, joined Jul. 2010
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I am soooo tired of the same old crap with the jerks who tend to be attracted to me. I either am doing too much to make the man I want happy or not doing enough or else I get those jerks who just wanna have sex. There's gotta be men out there who are seriously looking for a good woman to be by their side....isn't there?
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| 9/27/2011 2:00:12 AM |
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eightysixed
Santa Clarita, CA
35, joined Sep. 2011
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if you keep picking jerks its no ones fault but your own...you choose who you go out with..pick better...or wait till the one that meets your standards comes along and dont settle.
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| 9/27/2011 2:05:14 AM |
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allybug10
Lakeside, CA
25, joined Sep. 2011
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good advice i agree
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| 9/27/2011 2:13:55 AM |
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johnnyseesu
Northridge, CA
29, joined Jun. 2011
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Real gentleman over here.
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| 9/27/2011 4:17:08 AM |
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cyclefever
San Jose, CA
51, joined Sep. 2011
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I can understand your frustration , I feel the sameway, it always start out wonderful and great and relationships take alot of work , time and energy. Its seems we take each other for granted or other issues arise that may not have been put out clearly from the begining, people need to realize there is always some good and bad in everyone and must be willing to take some as well as deal with things they wouldnt normaly think could happen , after a year now of single life i miss alot of things and reflect on what i could have done better and take those negative experiences in learning what not to do and become a better person from it. I would give anything to go back and replay some things differently and i miss the joy i got from that special someone and from being able to make them smile i think its worth the work and comitment and the love and hope to find someone who feels the same. Its very difficult to open up and trust these days and that really sucks
From Brent D. (cyclefever)
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| 9/27/2011 4:20:37 AM |
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rockartofwar101
Long Beach, CA
29, joined Sep. 2011
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WTF!!! a good man is a man that can be trusted, not if he has to do what ever his lady says
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| 9/28/2011 5:40:27 PM |
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jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
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Best I can tell ya, your lookin in all the wrong places. Plenty of good men out there like myself, we just get over looked. Personally, Im sick of seeing these damned post on here, bunch of whining and crying cause someone treated you bad and you cant find someone else in an instant. But I guess your like most other women, want a man that works at Nucor, drives a 4x4, and will let you spend his money while you set on your a** searching the internet looking for another man to fill the void while man #1 is at work. Been there, had that done, aint happening again[/quotpne]. Woooow wait a minute buddy ... I work and pay my own car note cell bill insurance etc... Never asked any man to pay my bills and have never cheated either!
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| 9/28/2011 5:43:48 PM |
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jamie_2011
Moreno Valley, CA
37, joined Mar. 2011
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if you keep picking jerks its no ones fault but your own...you choose who you go out with..pick better...or wait till the one that meets your standards comes along and dont settle.
. U know what in a sense ur right but I have a problem ... I trust to easy and usually end up regreting it
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| 9/29/2011 12:48:55 PM |
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fungirl916
Orangevale, CA
34, joined Sep. 2011
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That's right!
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| 9/29/2011 12:51:33 PM |
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fungirl916
Orangevale, CA
34, joined Sep. 2011
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I believe both men and women have this same problem. If you stop looking for Mr. or Mrs. right, it will find you, I know from experience.
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| 9/29/2011 1:52:42 PM |
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ctr916
Roseville, CA
54, joined Aug. 2011
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I am soooo tired of the same old crap with the jerks who tend to be attracted to me. I either am doing too much to make the man I want happy or not doing enough or else I get those jerks who just wanna have sex. There's gotta be men out there who are seriously looking for a good woman to be by their side....isn't there?
most of them may have gotten turned off by having to lie to chicks who claim they want honesty as a form of respect towards fellow human beings.
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| 10/13/2011 1:16:13 AM |
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erkdabeast55
Oceanside, CA
43, joined Oct. 2011
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I kindly disagree @fungirl, unless you're wealthy or a pretty boy, aint no good woman going to fall in your lap. The difference between male and female is yall ladies can sit back and pick the one you want. We have to pursue and go through rejections and things like that.
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| 10/13/2011 4:10:52 AM |
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thedrguru
San Jose, CA
29, joined Apr. 2011
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A real man is this.
One whom can live with or with out you.
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| 10/13/2011 12:05:58 PM |
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hotwheels56
Modesto, CA
61, joined Jun. 2010
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I believe both men and women have this same problem. If you stop looking for Mr. or Mrs. right, it will find you, I know from experience.
I was waitng for years for her to just show up at my front door... guess what NObody walked up...........
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| 10/13/2011 2:06:36 PM |
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tcfunny88
La Palma, CA
30, joined Oct. 2011
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There are plenty of good men we just happen to meet the wrong girls and we get srewed over and then we become hard and mean to protect our selfs I mean it sucks but we are out there but the real question is why do women date low lifes and dudes that arent doing shit with there lives but still acting like its ok I think a man should have a job and be able to take his girl out if you can then dont have a gf until you get your life in order
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