| 10/10/2011 11:12:35 AM |
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mikabay
Fullerton, NE
27, joined Jul. 2011
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I'm a big sexy women nd damn proud of it! Alot of men treat big women lik trash nd try to break them down.  That's not gonna work on me! So if you want a REAL women hmu   
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| 10/10/2011 7:01:57 PM |
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joykrazy
La Vista, NE
60, joined Aug. 2010
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I have not had much of an issue with men bashing me because I am a BBW! Quite the contrary...men of all ages have been very kind and those who do try and ridicule are not worth my time. Good luck hun!
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| 10/10/2011 8:49:18 PM |
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lena90
Papillion, NE
26, joined Jul. 2011
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I think as long as you've got a good personality your fine. Im not huge but Ive got curves some guys like that some are more jerks about it.
Hi Joy long time no see
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| 10/10/2011 10:00:31 PM |
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heyboo32
Crete, NE
33, joined Mar. 2011
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Big women do need loving too I have found that some of them have been the most loving and caring and fun to have in my life looking forward to meeting one in the future.
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| 10/14/2011 12:03:41 PM |
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enchantedtink
Pensacola, FL
44, joined Oct. 2011
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Big women do need loving too I have found that some of them have been the most loving and caring and fun to have in my life looking forward to meeting one in the future.
Maybe that's me lol!
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| 10/15/2011 7:06:19 PM |
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kyriss12
Gretna, NE
33, joined Jan. 2011
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I really don't care about looks, but I think people tend to over use statments bbw, or big and tall. I always figuered people sould play tword their stregths, and if they'r not atractive, they should stop delouding themselves, and look at what else they have to offer.
As for me, I will proudly admit to falling from the ugly tree and hitting every branch on the way down; hell I still have a few as souvenirs. But I'm reliable, intelligent, can take one hell of a beating, and I'm way more entertaining. than the Kardashians. 
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| 10/23/2011 9:37:14 AM |
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mikabay
Fullerton, NE
27, joined Jul. 2011
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with all this said I must admit for a fact tons of men I have met tha don't live in nebraska LOVE bbw. They have said many times the men up here must b a bit hard headed cuz bbw's are almost always better @ relationships cuz they lik to keep there men happy 99% of the time 
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| 10/23/2011 9:26:24 PM |
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goylesdream
Kearney, NE
34, joined Oct. 2011
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LOL... I've never ascribed to the whole 'keep your man happy and he'll do right by you' state of mind. You shouldn't expect to make each other happy; a person should be happy just as they are, themselves, and you should do right by people whether or not they make you happy.
I'm all for there being a 'dominant' one in the relationship (even if its not BDSM related), because there always has to be an alpha, someone to get the couple/group thru and take charge, but no one should ever be expected to keep another person happy. Its really upsetting to see couples where one or the other just does what they think is expected of them and loses sight of who *they* were in the first place. My advice to anyone, big, little, purple, green, sparkly, fuzzy, or prickly, is to simply be as you are and don't settle for being anything less than that; you'll find someone who loves you all the more because of it.
Also, rock on, anyway, cuz... You know what they say about us fat bottomed girls.
We make the rockin' world go 'round! 
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| 10/23/2011 11:30:37 PM |
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christianjs
Kearney, NE
33, joined Jul. 2009
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Also, rock on, anyway, cuz... You know what they say about us fat bottomed girls.
We make the rockin' world go 'round!
I never understood that, Freddie Mercury was a homosexual.
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| 10/24/2011 7:50:55 AM |
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goylesdream
Kearney, NE
34, joined Oct. 2011
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... He was bisexual, not homosexual, from what I heard. Either way, still a damned awesome musician.
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| 10/24/2011 10:11:31 AM |
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christianjs
Kearney, NE
33, joined Jul. 2009
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Maybe. I'm not an expert by any means, just what I was told. He was a great singer, though.
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| 10/24/2011 10:04:16 PM |
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alvarezrd20sc
Waverly, NE
45, joined Aug. 2011
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Freddie was indeed Bisexual thought the other members of Queen were all straight.
"Fat Bottomed Girls" is one of my favorite songs of all time!
"GET ON YOUR BIKES AND RIDE!!"
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| 10/26/2011 11:14:17 AM |
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mikabay
Fullerton, NE
27, joined Jul. 2011
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I wasn't meanin 'keep the man happy so he'll do you right' I'm always jus myself nd men find that I'm a good kind heartd women tha does deserve respect. As all ppl do until they do or say something to loose respect... I have don't tha once or twice not gonna lie but when ppl look past a person because of jus size... They might should consider one thing the ppl we over look or judge without knowin.. could have the most to say nd could impact ur life in a good way... Jus sayin
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| 10/26/2011 3:39:35 PM |
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christianjs
Kearney, NE
33, joined Jul. 2009
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fit chicks
This phrase isn't used enough. It isn't enough to be thin or curvy, but healthy or fit is a good way to put it.
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| 11/6/2011 8:15:23 PM |
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sireena
Omaha, NE
56, joined Oct. 2010
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I work at it to stay trim and expect the same from my man. I don't find fat to be attractive and most men don't find it attractive either.....it's not rocket science people. Why is the element of CHOICE and PREFERENCE left out of the equation???
Stop the whining and (over) dining! 
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| 11/11/2011 10:13:18 AM |
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kyriss12
Gretna, NE
33, joined Jan. 2011
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I work at it to stay trim and expect the same from my man. I don't find fat to be attractive and most men don't find it attractive either.....it's not rocket science people. Why is the element of CHOICE and PREFERENCE left out of the equation???
Stop the whining and (over) dining!
you don't need to be such a b*tch about it. granted there are a fat people out there who sit on their a** all day eating potato chips, or running around wall mart on those rascal scooters. however the vast majority of fat people spend all day working jobs that don't keep them moving much and can't spend three hours a day at the gym for the same reason.
then there's fat people like me. I work as a stocker in a warehouse and my bonus is based off of how work i do in a night, so i get about 8 hours of heavy cardio light resistance works out. at home I'm moving around, and I usually don't eat much. on the same note I have large amounts of endurance, can lift up to 200 pounds with out regular practice, and can limp away from the kind of abuse that would normally leave most people broken and bleeding.
everyone's built different, and on the opposite side of the spectrum you have people with the metabolism of a ferret on crack, who have to eat constantly lest they starve to death, and move real fast, but couldn't lift 70 pounds if their life depended on it.
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| 11/11/2011 10:09:53 PM |
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kountrymama2010
Lincoln, NE
27, joined Jan. 2011
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you don't need to be such a b*tch about it. granted there are a fat people out there who sit on their a** all day eating potato chips, or running around wall mart on those rascal scooters. however the vast majority of fat people spend all day working jobs that don't keep them moving much and can't spend three hours a day at the gym for the same reason.
then there's fat people like me. I work as a stocker in a warehouse and my bonus is based off of how work i do in a night, so i get about 8 hours of heavy cardio light resistance works out. at home I'm moving around, and I usually don't eat much. on the same note I have large amounts of endurance, can lift up to 200 pounds with out regular practice, and can limp away from the kind of abuse that would normally leave most people broken and bleeding.
everyone's built different, and on the opposite side of the spectrum you have people with the metabolism of a ferret on crack, who have to eat constantly lest they starve to death, and move real fast, but couldn't lift 70 pounds if their life depended on it.
EXACTLY true! I'm a single mother and work 60 hours a week. Getting up at 4:15 every morning, being out the door with my 14 month old at 5:15, work 6am-9pm, off to pick my son up and get him into bed at home. Time is almost nonexistent... And when I haven't been working (like the last 2 days) it's either because I'm running a mile a minute to make all the doctor's appointments and errands I can fit in in one day (the rare day I do get off) OR it's because my son/I are sick... So...sireena...care to tell me where I can find the time to cram in a good workout on a regular basis? Not everyone has the luxury to workout on a regular basis. I don't eat hardly anything anymore - I work at an assisted living, so I eat with them - IF/WHEN I have the time to do so. I'm just not one of the lucky ones to have a fast metabolism, hence I'm not some skinny little twig.
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| 11/19/2011 1:09:12 PM |
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lookn4funtoo
Crete, NE
41, joined Nov. 2011
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I think a big woman is very sexy..
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| 11/20/2011 7:32:42 PM |
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mandie1975
Scribner, NE
41, joined Oct. 2011
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BBW do need love too!! I love the way I look an if men don't like it they aren't one for me!! Would be nice to meet a man that accepts me for who I am though.
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| 12/6/2011 1:19:16 PM |
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tyrone951
Wahoo, NE
24, joined Dec. 2011
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 your a beautiful women
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| 12/18/2011 12:44:45 AM |
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mikabay
Fullerton, NE
27, joined Jul. 2011
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thank you all for ur posts I also have almost zero time to try nd work out I work 40 hours @ my job nd have to come home nd take care of my disapbled mother nd the farm while my dad is workin I put every1 b4 me so if I do eat I'm the last to eat. I don't have the special genetics lik some/most nd I'm ok with tha 
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| 12/21/2011 12:04:16 AM |
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clara35
Lincoln, NE
41, joined Dec. 2011
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I to am A Thick Woman but let me tell you if you can't respect me for me then I don't need you or want you and that's how it goes, size isn't everything attitude is!
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| 12/22/2011 9:18:05 PM |
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countryloves
Nebraska City, NE
32, joined Dec. 2011
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I'm a bigger girl also and to me I really don't think there is anything wrong with a bigger woman!!!! We all come in different shapes and sizes.
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| 2/6/2012 11:59:22 PM |
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sunshinemademe
Lincoln, NE
25, joined Feb. 2012
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You, you are a b*tch. eff off. that is all.
Also if you go work out and people still don't find you attractive well then obviously you aren't asthetic enough and there's probably just something wrong with your face.. wanna play hard ball, i play with the big dogs, and i will dominate you. 
now i am sure you can go do something your probably good at, and get on your knees for whoever does find something that he "likes" in you (besides himself).
@sareena
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| 2/13/2012 7:55:42 PM |
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predator_100
Omaha, NE
28, joined Mar. 2011
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mmmhmmm hello miss delicous
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| 3/19/2012 7:09:46 AM |
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beef69
Omaha, NE
40, joined Mar. 2012
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little slim r big is a good thing skiny fine c*nts think there p*ssy and look r made of gold like they say more cusion for the pushin
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| 3/19/2012 7:12:47 AM |
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beef69
Omaha, NE
40, joined Mar. 2012
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o f**k ya
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| 3/19/2012 1:58:35 PM |
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leggsman12
Omaha, NE
60, joined Feb. 2012
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Women who are big always complaine about how men dont want them? well it seems thoes men out here that are interested in you are not good enough. 
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| 3/21/2012 11:56:32 PM |
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mikabay
Fullerton, NE
27, joined Jul. 2011
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Women who are big always complaine about how men dont want them? well it seems thoes men out here that are interested in you are not good enough.
now I do c where ur comin from with this but every1 turns down some1... If it doesn't click you can't force it.. I give every1 a chance to get to know them/me if it doesn't click romanticly I gotta move on new friends are always nice to have
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| 3/26/2012 10:04:45 PM |
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roy212121
Fremont, NE
27, joined Mar. 2012
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Hmu ladies. I need a real woman to fulfill my needs
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| 4/2/2012 10:17:10 AM |
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sherri29
Grand Island, NE
35, joined Apr. 2012
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hello eveyone
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| 4/2/2012 10:22:02 AM |
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mistermister44
Cozad, NE
51, joined Feb. 2011
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hey sherri what up
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| 4/8/2012 12:24:02 AM |
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mikabay
Fullerton, NE
27, joined Jul. 2011
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woo now I've been turned into an item of sex  I try to have a desent start to a relationship nd the guy turns it into a onenight stand... Kinda bs if you ask me.  Hasn't happened in 2 weeks thank gawd cuz it makes me feel lik an inadequate wh*re when they stop talkin to me after havin wha they seems to b to them mind blowin sex as they wabble out the door weak from the exsperience hours after 
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| 5/20/2012 2:00:12 AM |
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curlmd
Omaha, NE
50, joined Aug. 2011
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woo now I've been turned into an item of sex I try to have a desent start to a relationship nd the guy turns it into a onenight stand... Kinda bs if you ask me. Hasn't happened in 2 weeks thank gawd cuz it makes me feel lik an inadequate wh*re when they stop talkin to me after havin wha they seems to b to them mind blowin sex as they wabble out the door weak from the exsperience hours after
REALLY???!!! Okay, perhaps these guys would respect u if you didn't turn out to b the one night stand. Even though men will pressure a woman for her cookies, the first date, the ones who give it to them are the ones they forget about first. Granted this was an issue when I was in my 20s, cause I didn't know any better. But I certainly can't do what I did then now, and expect to get different results. Any man that wants your cookies right away is the last one to deserve them. Any man who approaches me at that angle would approach the girl before or after me the same way. If u expect a man to respect u for u, u need to respect U first. How can u b upset for being treated like a wh*re, if u act like one. Keep your pants on, legs closed snd eyes open. You might find Mr Right, 
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| 5/20/2012 2:14:03 AM |
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curlmd
Omaha, NE
50, joined Aug. 2011
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woo now I've been turned into an item of sex I try to have a desent start to a relationship nd the guy turns it into a onenight stand... Kinda bs if you ask me. Hasn't happened in 2 weeks thank gawd cuz it makes me feel lik an inadequate wh*re when they stop talkin to me after havin wha they seems to b to them mind blowin sex as they wabble out the door weak from the exsperience hours after
My bad baby!!' didn't realize you were 20 something. It's gotta b hard at that age. I wouldn't want to go thru that era again. Never equate SEX as LOVE. Any man who's pressuring u on the first or even second date. Is looking for sex only. Keep your dates in public, until your ready, if u go to his house he thinks that's why u r there if u invite him to your same assumption. Keep dates public and in a neutral location. Until your truly ready to cross that bridge.
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| 5/20/2012 8:39:47 PM |
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kermit32
York, NE
62, joined Feb. 2009
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REMEMBER! IT ALWAYS TAKES 2 TO TANGO.
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| 7/6/2012 8:06:49 AM |
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mikabay
Fullerton, NE
27, joined Jul. 2011
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I am not a wh*re! I am 22, young beautiful, stong, nd independent, men try to sleep with on the first date nd i send them packing nd tha happens even if the date is at applebees ... im not the one to b looked down apon its the one track minded men i seem to attack that live near me. Ive found about 20u some odd truly desent men but they live no where near me.
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| 7/6/2012 10:04:05 AM |
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vato43
Omaha, NE
47, joined Jul. 2012
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Hello all.
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| 7/6/2012 10:28:26 PM |
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christianjs
Kearney, NE
33, joined Jul. 2009
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I can't believe this thread is still alive!
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| 7/8/2012 8:01:02 PM |
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averymarie26
Sterling, NE
31, joined Jul. 2012
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I'm a bigger gurl, I have had 2 relationships, my most recent one was really bad. He was abusive and beat me every chance he got. Needless to say, I have yet to move on. I love men, i know that for sure, I'm just looking for the right one. I'm still a virgin, and intend to be on until I get married, if I every get married.
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| 7/8/2012 10:05:37 PM |
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babefishin
Plainview, NE
35, joined Jun. 2012
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Wow!! Is right. Holy smokes
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| 7/10/2012 1:06:41 AM |
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christianjs
Kearney, NE
33, joined Jul. 2009
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Dafuq?
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| 7/14/2012 4:39:13 PM |
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churs
Beatrice, NE
49, joined Jul. 2012
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big women are awesome as long as they take care of themselves youre very pretty big or not so who cares what other people think
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| 8/18/2012 9:47:59 PM |
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chickmunk1993
Paden City, WV
24, joined Dec. 2011
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I am a plus size woman.. And it hard to find a handsome fella because of my weight.. I have faith that one day ill find love and he will be very handsome and everything iv ever wanted.
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| 10/3/2012 11:11:22 PM |
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nlmink
Plattsmouth, NE
24, joined Oct. 2012
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I know i need some love but no one wants me cuz I'm big
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