| 4/6/2008 8:09:32 AM |
When You caught yor spouse cheating were You SHOCKED or NOT ? |
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liteguy
Scranton, PA
age: 50
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yea when she started to blow me off and not want to be with me when the weekend came. said she had to work in am then went out and friends asked y i wasnt with her.
wasnt hard to figure out i was being blown off so she could go see an other ...
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| 4/6/2008 8:15:44 AM |
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ladyinparis
Paris, TX
age: 41
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What still amazes me to this day is why anyone would do this to another human being. If you know you are not a monogamous person..don't get married and be upfront with people...if you are married and feel like you want to be with someone else-for whatever reason ...STOP right there and tell your spouse you want a divorce BEFORE you cheat or get some get help with your relationship through any avenue available because cheating is a very cruel and inhumane thing to do to anyone that you love or even once loved.
It amazes me the excuses cheaters will come up with to justify their actions. There is no justification. If you are not happy..either fix it or get a divorce!
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| 4/6/2008 8:17:58 AM |
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dragonheartpm
Galveston, TX
age: 55
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He was the one shocked. I did it not him.
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| 4/6/2008 9:52:32 AM |
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bones75
Saegertown, PA
age: 50
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Because i was a beleaved.......her!!!!!! Stupid me !!!!
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| 4/6/2008 9:53:22 AM |
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sun_flowergal08
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 31
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Nope..there are always signs! And no matter what the truth always rears its ugly head!
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| 4/6/2008 9:57:11 AM |
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aka_neo
Marathon, FL
age: 51 online now!
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I had a girlfriend who cheated and I just knew ,somewhere in the back of my feeble mind she was cheating . She was ,did .
Now she's with the one she cheated with, married him , and her life is miserable . Just rewards .
HA HA HA . Do I sound bitter ?
I'm not really .
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| 4/6/2008 10:02:59 AM |
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wino631
Huntington, NY
age: 52
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Crushed. Still. Over two years ago. Finally starting to put the pieces back together. And forgive myself!   
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| 4/6/2008 10:10:20 AM |
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bryneyes174
Loves Park, IL
age: 33
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No, I wasn't shocked. He used to get off work at his second job at 10:00 pm. He'd return home at 4:00 am smelling like perfume.
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| 4/6/2008 10:18:55 AM |
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puddinpop3
Piedmont, SC
age: 65
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right on ladyinparis
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| 4/6/2008 10:29:29 AM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
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Since he was on the computer so much, I suspected. My suspicions were confirmed after I bought keystroke spyware. It broke my heart and put a huge dent in my soul. You may say, hey, WTF are you doing spying on him? My answer to that is WTF is he doing cheating online?????????? He actually made a date with this woman! I should have divorced him right then and there, but Mr. I Am One of the Nice Guys on the Net patted me on the head and told me I was crazy (that was before I showed him the proof). Now he has a different g/f that he is cheating on and I have the proof, but she is putting her hands over her ears and singing lalalalalala. OFW, she'll find out. When I saw their IM's (and I have them), I wanted to puke. He is using the same lines on her that he used on me in 2000. Wish I could send her copies of his IMs to me in 2000, but at this point we are divorced and she is 62 years old. The f**k you e-mail she sent me when I was showing her the truth didn't help, either. So...Beej...you wrinkled, fat old hag, you can have the drunk, verbally and emotionally abusive ED fireman from NY. I shall be content with my peace and quiet and laughter that, all of a sudden, has re-emerged after 8 lousy years with him!     
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| 4/6/2008 11:02:12 AM |
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susansheart839
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 60
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Dayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyem....hurry up, someone, I don't want to be a thread buster here!!!!
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| 4/6/2008 2:02:17 PM |
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singleagain50
Greenville, SC
age: 50
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so far the females suspected a problem more than the men did. I wonder if that's because we are more trusting or because we just weren't paying attention ????
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| 4/6/2008 2:45:31 PM |
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shy_gal
Waterford, MI
age: 38
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No women are not more trusting or smarter we just have what is called women's intuition you feel it in the pit of your stomach. You can try to deny it all they want be the feeling never goes away until you confront them. The signs are always there the looks and spending more time with a person that they never use to. Mine was cheating with his brothers wife. Nothing like keeping it in the family. They destroyed two families and now the rest of the family is estranged.
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| 4/6/2008 7:48:28 PM |
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singleagain50
Greenville, SC
age: 50
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I think men have intuition too. We just don't usually pay attention to it.
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| 4/6/2008 7:53:16 PM |
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sumbeach777
Red Springs, NC
age: 44
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I found out , when went down to get him, and he came home with me only to find out he was still calling her, and tryed to sneak away in the night, like a snake.
My soul left my body, all that I was was gone, and only the love of my childern save me from death......Beach facts......
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